octopusfreaky:
Money,money,money can't buy love,,if you're rich and unattractive,mennn i will be wf u but wont stop me from rolling wf an attractive guy

teeowl:
Like how many "real" girls does the OP actually get? Its funny how you see single guys that can't get any girl come here on Nairaland and start writing articles about how to get girls!

I agree with this statement. I don't care how much money a guy has. If he can't make me laugh, be romantic without spending a dime, and I don't enjoy being in his presence, all of his fortune means nothing. I make my own money and can provide for myself. I look for a man to grow old and share life with, not for the dollars.

KingBish:


LMAO I just showed my older brother this thread and after reading through, his response cracked me up.

"So men are busy hustling to nail the next million naira deals and this one is busy grooming future womanizers? These tips should be for secondary school boys because a full fledged man no matter how naive he might seem, would inexplicably be the best option for his destined wife."

He further explained his view in details but I can't type all that.

redcliff:


Lmao.. i beg to differ. I have this friend, i wont say he has money or broke. He is just a guy that doesnt beg for food. He is an Alpha male in every sense of the word and highly romantic. I just think if you can express yourself properly and use tge right words at the right time, theres no woman ungettable and unretainable!

SkinnyDude:
thanxs. will start practising it..
did you study psychology in school? cos you are good in it

SkinnyDude:
thanxs. will start practising it..
did you study psychology in school? cos you are good in it

Mubbyleey:
hey bro! I don't know if u still remember me. I was the guy dat asked u if i shud call a girl on her birthday. And u told me 2do so and gave me some tips... I'm here again, i need ya help about same girl. Ever since her birthday & since we dn resume 4 school, hav been avoiding & ignoring her... I dnt gv her my attentions anymore.

How long shud i keep ignoring her so dat it wnt back fire...?

Am sure she knws am avoiding her coz she sees me everyday & she doesnt care to call me or sumtn. I dnt even knw if wot am doing moves her sef.

Then if i shud tok 2 her or we mistakenly jam each other, what shud i do then, what shud i say to her? How long shud i keep d game going? Coz i dnt wanna lose her.
Please help me out bro...

Billyonaire:
Seun's Nairaland is making people advertise their mental laxity daily. What did he say again ? That he has not gotten the pussy he deserves and he thinks we are all like him ? Nigga Please.

Lizabeth25:
Like 4 real, this topic I just read really made my day. I presently know somebody who will buy me heaven and earth (if its possible). But he's d most boring guy I have ever hanged out with. Money isn't everything! One day, this same guy said that "he rather be rich and be sad than to be poor n be happy"! I took those words very serious! A guy should be able to make a woman happy without his money. Though not all women will buy this idea buh once you have a lady that demands too much, bros, I do advice u to find your way! Money trip lazy girls....who are called "Alapa ma ise se" (meaning, owners of hands that cannot work!)

brownlord:


Return all the gift you've collected from him before I believe you are not Alapa ma ise se ( whatever that means )

reminiscing:
Nigerians!!!!! Did u have u have to tell us day you have a car and laptop??
Back to the topic at hand,guys with money don't move me.I look out for certain quality in a guy and if he doesn't have it even if his Dad is Dangote,am not moved.

RAKITIC:
A broke guy can never be ROMANTIC

brownlord:


Hogwash, not even someone in your class

The way nairaland girls rant and make noise about not moved with guys money makes me wonder

Are they not same girls that make up the Nigeria society, abi you from different planet?

You'all be deceiving yourself

JahzaraAde:


Love love love this! Preach it sis!

CharlesNneji1:
#2. FEAR

Do you know that most guys shiver and sweat all over just at the mere THOUGHT of walking up to a girl they like - some of these guys even go as far as been single all their adult lives believing that when they get money it would be easier, at the end of the day they end up not been as rich as the thought they would be or end up having their mother look for a wife for them or end up marrying someone they don't like just because na only she gree for them, or end up (should i go on??).

I recently read a post by Farano on how "sweet" it is for guys to be shy sometimes.

Well, i guess the keyword there is SOMETIMES.

If you are the type who ALWAYS get the shivers EVERY SINGLE time you think of walking up to a girl you are interested in then you need to work on that fear ASAP.

See eh, most of the time all the terrible things you think will happen when you approach a girl will just not happen - trust me.

- She will laugh at me.
- She will embarrass me.
- She will shout at me if i talk to her....

All these are just your imagination playing tricks on you.

Yes, there are really childish saucy girls out there who will go all out to embarrass a guy just for saying hi.

But the truth is that most girls are really very nice wonderful tender things, only if you approach them right. The reaction You get from a girl will DEPEND ON HOW YOU APPROACH HER

- I mean; why would you walk up to a girl and say something silly like: "Hey, BABY " (You be American Gangster?)

- What do you expect when you walk up to a girl YOU ARE JUST MEETING for the first time and start telling her how much you love her (Of course she will embarrass you na). Girls of value don't fall for that trash.

- Why on earth will you expect to be respected by a girl when you can't even look her in the eye while you talk (By the way; will soon release a free report on how to eliminate fear of approaching girls; like my page: www.facebook.com/attractbabes to grab the info when it is released)

I know, guys who have this problem wish they can just take a pill that will completely eliminate the fear they feel around a girl they like.

But bro, here is the plain truth - in as much as you want sharp sharp easy change, the truth is that it will NEVER happen.

To eliminate the fear of approaching pretty girls, girls you like or every girl in general, you have to GRADUALLY work on yourself.

Over the years i have helped guys eliminate this fear using a method i call "Fine girl Chewing Gum". If you are shy around girls or feel afraid walking up to them, this strategy i am about to show you will help in drastically reducing that fear by 70%

Here is how it works:

- Look for a pretty girl who doesn't seem like the gossiping type (She must be very pretty).

- Walk up to her (feel free to tremble when you meet her), Tell her you want her help. tell her you get scared around girls and you believe hanging around her will help. at this point she will start to freak out, like, which kind mumu boy be this...don't let the eye she will give you get to you. Tell her you are not attracted to her, make she no fear - that all you want is just to be her friend. To hang around her

NOTE: DON'T FALL IN LOVE WITH HER because IT WON'T WORK, A GIRL WHO KNOWS THAT YOU GET SCARED AROUND GIRLS WOULD NEVER FEEL A THING FOR YOU (unless you jaz her.

- After she has agreed to be your friend; start using her to improve - call her up, make conversation with her then ask her to tell you where and where you were boring, hang out with her. as in, become her buddy - she should be like your manest man - do practically everything with her (but don't overdo it, she is seeing you as a nuisance already - if you chewing gum the poor thing all the time it will freak her out).

Now here is why this strategy works so well in eliminating women related shyness in guys.

The more you get to know her the more you find out that girls are HUMAN - Just like you, she dey mess, she squeezes her face when passing out "stuffs" in the loo, her mouth stinks when she wakes up in the morning.

simple basic psychology 101; these realization makes you find her less intimidating and the more you find her less intimidating the more you find other girls less intimidating.

She will introduce you to her "fine fine" friends, plus plenty other benefits....

IT ALWAYS WORKS; i have watched over a hundred guys i have worked with use this simple psychology secret to improve.

When you keep approaching girls with the intention to date them, they will keep rejecting you when they notice your timidity, and the more they reject you the more your ego is hurt and the more timid you become.

You go soon marry, so invest in your social skill around girls or else na your mother go find woman for you

*smiles*

I reject it for you, bro.

reminiscing:



I may not be classy but I know my worth and no insult from u will make. me feel bad

Pque:


bro this is 100% mistake made by YOU. I have a broke friend that control different kind of girls. I believe a guy can as well work on d psychology of a girl. This is by experience, exposure, knowledge and information. A guy with d right altitude whether broke or not will get some kind of girls. Even my elder brother do bring 4rm Offa Poly beautiful girls to sleep over in our house at Ilorin occassionally. At some times two girls at once. How was he able to do dat? Probably in d name of admission, I wouldn't know.

And 4 d opp, no matter rightly hearted or headed a person might b. It is only God dat know if d girl u are dating is a wife material fit for u, even if u are d wisest man. Check out d quotes of great men about women.

Pque:


bro this is 100% mistake made by YOU. I have a broke friend that control different kind of girls. I believe a guy can as well work on d psychology of a girl. This is by experience, exposure, knowledge and information. A guy with d right altitude whether broke or not will get some kind of girls. Even my elder brother do bring 4rm Offa Poly beautiful girls to sleep over in our house at Ilorin occassionally. At some times two girls at once. How was he able to do dat? Probably in d name of admission, I wouldn't know.

And 4 d opp, no matter rightly hearted or headed a person might b. It is only God dat know if d girl u are dating is a wife material fit for u, even if u are d wisest man. Check out d quotes of great men about women.

anwo247:


My brother it is clear the OP doesn't have a girlfriend. He speaking from text books.


The real thing is that nothing can stop a girl from cheating. The desire to cheat comes from inside. So you're better of a rich guy than a poor rat.

The first quality to show off is your worth.

Ladies are drawn by hypergammy ..
They are attracted to the best and successful ones among all ... no more no less.