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Yeah, I am curious.

I have had this one since September 2007, so almost 5 years now. Will probably keep it the rest of my life as well. I love my hair more and more, some of my locks have gone into bongos, and new ones continue to show.
https://i50.tinypic.com/j9avee.jpg
https://i47.tinypic.com/25jxlc5.jpg

I started braiding just one year ago, and love it more and more. This is one of the many styles my daughter has had:
https://i48.tinypic.com/25oxllh.jpg

So, how is your hair?

dulaman: hmmm. How romantic, Loving n caring wife you must be. You make me wanna get married ASAP.

I didnt even think I ever would get married just 4 years ago. Its weird how things turn out
I always tried my best for him, still do. He make me want to be a better person overall.

Listening to some songs of Sizzla tht reminds me too much of my husband..He is stressed down there, and I cant do much about it. I feel helpless, I cant even hold him, tell hin everything will be ok..

Its the small things I miss. Kissing him when he comes home. Dragging him up from the sofa, irritated cause he fell asleep there again and not in the bed, crawling into his arms when I wake up in the night, seeing our child say "babaaaa" and run to him when she needs love..damn.

Sometimes I just cry, holding his praying-dress that he left for me. I truly miss my husband, I wish I could show him everyday how much he truly mean for me.

Sagamite: I have solid experience, babes. I have been into all females across the continents in my pursuit.

I still live here.. I see how some women do. Still dont mean I do the same, though. Somme women are fools, no matter where they come from.

Sagamite: Extensive international experience in chasing women.

I also have a PhD in Womantology.

Lol.

Sorry, hon, you are wrong

Sagamite: They obviously would do it, but to a far lesser degree.

And what makes you think that?

Sagamite: Oh, you are not Nigerian or black woman?

Sorry, I can now believe.

Scandinavian liberalism. Yep, I can believe you.

Your username sounded Gambian/Senegalese, that is why I thought you were black.

Lol. You dont think scandinavian women do those things on the list? Of course. But people are different, both here and there.

And my username is gambian, yes. Mix between my own last name, and my husbands.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bMeFSXrXdtU&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1C6XYosVq_A

This dude kills it live..he was in Norway earlier this year.

BoboYekini: why is sexkillz hiding posts like a squirrel hides nuts? :p
@post, women! you say u don't want a playah, yet you want ur man good in bed. how else would he hone his skills without having multiple partners?
...I'd say 50 is a fair number, give or take.

Being with different women 50 times, og having se-x with ONE freaky girl 50 times is not much difference. The only thing you would learn by sleeping with different people, trusting them to say what they like, is how different people actually are.

Sagamite: Obviously what you put there are not rude.

That said, I don't believe you.

I struggle to believe a black women, more so a Naija one, has always been polite, fair and truthful to men. Even virtually all white woman cannot achieve that. Women are built selfishly. They do not know what equality and fairness is. It is "Me, me, me, me, me"!

You will be one in a 100 million if you are telling the truth but I don't believe it.

I am a white Norwegian woman
And I cant make you believe anything, but hey; I dont have any reason to sit down and lie on a online-forum.

Like I said; When it comes to other peoples feelings, I dont play.
My mother teached me to treat other how I wish to be treated. Plus, I believe in karma

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BM0rTVWi50Y

Sagamite: So you want to tell me you have never done any of the following:

https://www.nairaland.com/962850/ladies-which-these-dating-evils

3: It depends what you say is rude. Up north we seem rude for people down south, so when I guy approach me, I just say no, and smile. If he continue with hey baby blablabla, I might seem rude when telling him no again, yes. Where I am from this is a NICE way of rejecting someone, but down in the capital..its different.

9: I cancelled a date with a guy because I understood after texting etc that it would not work with us, he was not my type. Really a sweetheart, but the connection was not there, and he REALLY liked me. I didnt wanted to e rude to him, so I cancelled and said I was sorry, but did not tell him the real reason until a few days later.

Other than that: Nope.

When it comes to mens feelings, I dont wish to play.

Sagamite: So you don't lie to men?

You want us to actually believe that?

You are always honest and tell the cold truth?

Really?

Except for white lies about him looking nice in a shirt I dont lie, or how much the dress I bought REALLY cost; no
When it comes to important things, like feelings for another person, I do not lie. But I guess you do, since you give the impression of it being perfectly normal.

I have NEVER acted like I had feelings for a man just to get something from him. Never.

Gamesmart: Lets say he has been with 50 women overall, and was dating (or been clear it is just a booty call to) 90% of these women but has had to mislead 10% would you still be attracted to him?

No. That means he has fooled the hearts of five women, just to get their p-ssy. Acting like he is love, telling them they are the only one, etc, etc..lying is my biggest dealbreaker. I would rather have the cold truth that might hurt, than a lie that probably will blow up in my face later on.

Mrs.Chima:
Temptation happens ANYWHERE. Clubs isn't the issue nor the problem...the lack of self discipline and control is the cultprit.

People need to own accountability for their action and know that if they truly want to remain faithful to their person it starts in the mind and heart.

It is that simple.

What she said.

tjskii: Errr wat xctly does she do at d club,if she goes ther to unwind(dancee,drink som alkohol,enjoy nite club ambience)then y nt she can marry my bro wth my blessings
But if she dey go club to carry aristo den dt one na diff mata

What he said.

I still hit the clubs now and then, married, and have a child. I go out to dance, dance, and dance some more.

No number.
It all depends on how he did it. Did he lie and cheat? Did he give the girls impression that there would be more than ONS, or did he tell the truth?

Everything you have done shapes you as a person.

None?

Rgp92: Be Yoruba. Yoruba are the best dancer.

Sorry dude, you failed.

First; I find it strange that a "Norwegian formula hand cream" is not even sold in Norwegian Shops...

Then; Pure shea butter for your friend. 100% natural.

Well, if he dont say he wants to change, he is not going to change either.

Mynd_44: The guy won't change.

Of course people can change.
I was mean when I got angry just 2,5 years ago. I realised I needed to change, and I did. But, it took a damn lot of work, and still I sometimes get f-ckin rude at times..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8x6fGQmrzE

If he will change, it will only be if he wants it himself. You can not change him.
Have you tried to sit down and tell him how this makes you feel? And if so; does he then get angry as well, or does he see his own faults?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fe2SC3RhjqQ&feature=relmfu

Since I am on day 2, this is the one I will do in about five min..

Hello gurls

I just started this training yesterday, again. I startet before as well, and could see differences, but stopped..
Now, yesterday I started up again, and have taken pictures of my before-butt, and I am gonna take pics every week to see difference.
Any women want to join??

This is the program:
https://img846.imageshack.us/img846/8821/bbplan.png

If anyone else want to follow, I will put out my before pics later today

The first video is this one:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TcNxaXb5Ews

Sooo..who is with me?