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Onego:
says who?

Marriage has lost it's value. Gone are those days when we had praying, submissive, supportive and intelligent women.

Why do you think the rate of divorce is getting higher as time proceeds?

Someone gets married today and they get divorced tomorrow. Why get married then?

Most women lately can't even do chores, you'd hear things like, "I'm not a slave".

They can't make money, you'd hear things like, "Are you not the man of the house".

Even the marital sex sef, they might even leave you sex starved at some points.

Onego:
wow what if she doesn't want your money but companionship?

Lol. Not on this Earth.

Stephenmoka4:
Her love, time, loyalty/faithfulness, encouragement and support etc

The only meaningful words here are, encouragement and support. And they can't even offer that.

A girl exhausts your time.

Even your money.

Even your energy.

Infact she exhausts your entire life and leaves you vulnerable. Lol

Onego:
so sex is a must in a relationship for you?

Other than sex what else could she offer? I'd rather remain single then.

Onego:
not all ladies, what is so special about pre- martial sex?

These girls can't help you build wealth, so what else could you possibly need them for other than the little pleasure sex offers.

And what's so special about marital sex?

piamily:
Thanks love

It's just immaturity and nothing else.

I met a girl some weeks ago, starting wooing her immediately I saw her walking in her building, this girl made me talk for too long without saying anything back, but I could catch those little grins and smiles she tried to hide, I knew she liked me but was playing hard to get. Lastly she gave me her number but I didn't even think of calling. Am I mad ni? I hate pretentious and fake people.

Onego:
says who so can I ask you a question?

Sure. ?

piamily:
Okay. There’s thing guy I met one time last year. So he came up bold and said he was interested in a relationship. He didn’t even waste time. I was impressed . Normally I was supposed to dish out my “naija shakara girls style” you know, but I didn’t . After some days I agreed to date him.

I found out he’s easy going so I decided to give in and be mutual with the love and attraction etc. as soon as I got interested, he withdrew.

I noticed it . I don’t understand why a man will do this. Was he not interested? And does he expect the woman to hate him.

I see some men complain about ladies being hard to get and now a lady didn’t play that much hard yet the man withdrew a bit. Still don’t get men sometimes sha

Some guys are just very weird naturally. I hate girls who play hard to get, I very much do.

This guy probably didn't care in the first place, but you got attracted rather. And he decided to play around, I really can't tell.

Ignore the mofo. And focus on something better.

Goddys:
I will say my mind plainly and not pretend like all the above commenters except emyrald91



Why would you have unprotected sex with HIV+ in the name of love even if she has low viral load?


Why entangle your life with unnecessary risks and liabilities because of love?

Do you think she wouldn't walk away if you were the carrier?

I am selfish when it comes to issue like this because it is my default state as a human being.

She didn't disclose it till 7th month when she noticed she had captured your heart.

This is exactly what happens when men don't take redpills, the likes ubunja has been selflessly administering here


I won't advise you. Advise yourself

This dude doesn't understand that life is unfair. I just pray it goes right for him.


Would she stay if he was the carrier? Mhmmm.

My advice to him would be, stop having unprotected sex, he should stick with her but don't dare get infected with the virus.

Onego:
I don't understand guys of this days o, most sex be a must in relationships? Please answer me o

Relationship is boring without the sex though.

Ardar:
When did having sex become a sin?

It's no sin. He's just being ignorant. I'd like to do some crazy shits with you though.

Norphiee:
Wait, what do you expect her to offer?...where you in need that you ask her and she declined?,.. Did you sit her down trying to bring new development between both of you that wasn't serious about it? Bro, it's not only sex a girl has to offer

Assuming you guys are married that she isn't supporting the family in any form now, I can say... But please try and know girls are not only sex materials

Thanks

Nigerian girls that have fish brain. They can't offer anything other than sex.

Sex isn't even a benefit to me sef.

That's a lie oh. They are on Opera news now. Nairaland isn't favourable to them anymore. This platform is getting dryer by the day.

Adakintroy2:
Kanu is not a leader my friend. Any igboman following this small boy is a fool. He is too rash.

Reminds me of young Thor in the movie. spoiling for war without knowing the horrors or desolation of it.

If he was brave, he would have stood his ground. My whole life savings the government won't touch a hair on his head.

Buhari is not that stupid to order his death. That will be war itself. The people already believe him. Nobody wants war in his regime.

If he had stood his ground he would have been arrested and incaserated. That would have made him an instant hero in the real sense. The people outside would be worshipping him. And whenever he is release, his word will weight more because he has gone through the rites of passage. whatever that means. ( like a MandeLA thing)

Rather he chicken out and ran. No guts, no glory. End#

Quit imagining bullsh*t. If he didn't escape the grip of that tyrant he would be killed without hesitation at one point, and nothing would occur. He was already tagged a terrorist. And you think a good number of the igbos are ready for war? Nah, you just aren't thinking right.

mimimile93:
God bless the General

PMB has ruled for almost 5 years now, just tell me you are ignorant on that.

Drenimarcus:
please dont mention this state, sun goes down by 2am and comes up by 5am. It is a badass state.

Still a preferable weather compared to the Nigerian weather.

It's really annoying seeing how the OP is being tackled for not being able to answer all questions, she has actually done the little she can do and I appreciate highly, and she owes no one nothing here, so why get angry exactly?

I believe anything you desire in life, you would always find a brilliant way to go about it, stop waiting to be spoon fed by anyone, and then get angry when they don't, they don't owe you shit.

What if she didn't create this thread to inspire a lot of nairalanders concerning migrating to Vietnam? Learn to appreciate the little people can offer to you. Damn.

gamapoy539:
Fakè story

What's so fake about the story? 70% of Nigerian women don't act differently from Op's wife.

They are manipulative and would do anything to get under a successful man.

Let that woman go and give your son the future he deserves.