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legalwealth: My chelsea will deal with them.

bad belle u beta focus on urself.

not only is their advert showing on almost every page of Nairaland but after going through their plans I can agree that it is worth a shot but where i am really discouraged is their mode of payment. They do not have an online payment system rather a bank deposit. My question is that has any one hosted with them. If any, how many days does it take for them to set up your site? I would appreciate your replies.

The next time you're tempted to
advise single friends, bite your
tongue. "You may believe you're
empathizing, but intrusive
comments may offend your friend,"
says Helen Friedman, PhD, a clinical
psychologist in St. Louis who
specializes in relationships. "Before
you open your mouth, ask yourself
what's more important: your
opinion or your friendship?" Here's
what to avoid saying to your single
friends , what you can sometimes
say or do instead and when to
simply zip your lips.Photo by Getty
Images
1. "Why aren't you married?" This
question almost universally pushes
single people's buttons. "Perhaps
the answer is 'none of your
business,'" says *Grace from
Detroit. In fact, it's rude to assume
singles are looking for a
relationship. "This question
presumes that the single person is
unhappily single," says Bella
DePaulo, PhD, author ofSingled
OutandSinglismwho blogs about
singles. "Many unattached people
live their best, most authentic lives
as singles." So stay away from this
question and its variations-"Don't
you want to be married?" "Have
you ever been married?"
2. "Have you tried online dating?"
True, people find relationships
online . But this assumes your
friend is clueless and hasn't
thought of it herself. "I can't tell
you how many people have
suggested online dating like it's
never been suggested before," says
*Idora from Boston. "The truth is
the ratio of disappointing dates is
the same online as it is offline.'"
Furthermore, avoid sharing details
about people you know who've
found someone online; it has zero
bearing on your friend's life. Finally,
remember that offering dating
advice implies there's something
wrong with being single, says Dr.
Friedman. 3. "Stop being so picky."
"Avoid name-calling. This comment
basically slaps your friend's wrists
and accuses her of faulty judgment,
as if she can't trust her own wants
and needs," says Dr. Friedman. If
she brings up being frustrated with
the dating pool, a better approach
is to respond with, "It's challenging
to find the right person for you,"
which acknowledges the realities
of dating without criticizing her.
And while it's OK to ask about what
qualities she's looking for in a
mate, don't add what sheshouldbe
seeking.
Related: 10 Marriage Rules You
Should Start Breaking.
4. "You'll find the perfect guy when
you're not looking." This is a lose-
lose comment. On one hand, this
assumes your friend is on the hunt
when she may be content with
single life. On the other hand, "This
comment is disempowering if your
friend actually is seeking a
relationship," says Dr. Friedman.
"It's the equivalent of saying, 'Just
sit and wait for someone.'" Instead,
affirm how much youcare for your
friendby continuing to do things
you both love together and
inviting her to events because you
enjoy her company-not because
you feel sorry for her.
5. "What ever happened with
[insert ex's name here]?" This is
one of the worst things you can
say to your friend, according to
experts. "When a relationship ends,
there's usually some degree of
sadness, even if your friend is the
one who initiated the breakup,"
says Diana Kirschner, PhD, author
ofFind Your Soulmate Online in Six
Simple Steps."Dredging everything
back up is hurtful." Skip this
question; if she wants to talk about
it, she'll bring it up on her own.
6. "You're so lucky to be single!"
Even if you're reminiscing about
your own carefree days of
singledom, no one wants to hear
this. "Just because I've never
experienced marriage doesn't
mean I don't miss that experience
or think of what it might mean to
me," says Grace. "I'm sure people in
a relationship think the
independence of being single is
preferable at times. Yet singles
have all the responsibilities of life
without someone to share them."
How you can help: "Be cognizant of
the fact that singles don't have a
partner to do something with 24/7
and may need someone
occasionally," says Idora. So offer
her a ride to the airport, help
moving and whatever else she
could use.
Related: 11 Signs He's Having An
Affair.
7. "If you'd get out there, you'd
find someone." "This rubs me the
wrong way because you have no
idea what I've tried or how
aggressive or passive I might be,"
says Grace. "Maybe I'm shy and it
isn't my personality to be the
pursuer. Or maybe my workplace
doesn't put me in contact with
many other singles." Still, there's
no harm in seeing if she's open to
meeting someone you know. "Just
don't spring it on her," says Dr.
Kirschner. "Say something like, 'So-
and-so is coming to the party on
Sunday and he's funny and nice.
You might enjoy talking to him."
And leave it at that.
8. "You should smile more/flirt
more/wear your hair differently/
wear more makeup." It's hard to
imagine anyone finding these
useful, but singles say they
frequently hear these rude
suggestions. "It's smug to think
that because I'm single, I clearly am
doing something wrong," says
Idora. Most of all, "This assumes
that you're the all-knowing
superior person who can diagnose
the 'problem' and dole out advice
about how to fix it," says Dr.
DePaulo. "Plenty of single people
don't think they need to be fixed.
And they're right. Even singles who
want to be coupled don't always
welcome unsolicited advice."
Refrain from all attempts to teach
your friend how to act or look, and
respect and love her for her unique
self.
9. "You're still young. You'll find
someone." You're probably trying
to make her feel good about
herself, but this kind of remark
usually backfires. "She may think: 'I
must look old. Why else would she
feel the need to reassure me?'"
says Dr. Kirschner. Besides, age has
no bearing on one's ability to love
or be loved, so don't spout
platitudes that only perpetuate this
myth.
Related: 75 Things Men Don't Know
About Women
10. "Maybe you're meant to be
single." You don't have a crystal
ball any more than your friend
does. "I want to share my life with
someone; I don'tneedto," says
*Nicola in New York City. "But I'm
not giving up on lasting love
simply because it hasn't happened
yet-sameas I wouldn't tell
someone to give up on her dream
at any age to go to college or start
her own business or see the world.
How dare anyone tell me to?" With
that bit of common sense, this is
one thought that should never be
said aloud.
*Names have been changed
culled from yahoomail.com

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Tell her you are very sorry about last night and that you did a very stup!d and foolish thing. That you let your emotions get the better over you and becloud your senses, that you should have known better, and that it will never ever happen again.

Telling her you were testing her is the most stup!d thing to ever say. [/color]

he has said it all. Just do what he has you to do and i hope you don't go testing other gals cos what you are tarnishing is you image and reputation.

kejioladimeji: Thanks for the information but the age limit wasn't disclosed and I don't know if HND holder can apply?

Since the age limit wasnt disclosed, just go ahead and apply and do not also worry about any HND bottleneck

Etisalat Nigeria amongst other things aims to create a world where people can reach family and friends,business partners,associatea and relations within the shortest possible means irrespective of the distance

Nairlanders this may be of help. I stumbled upon it and decided to bring it to your notice.

KPMG has worked for clients in the
public and private sector in Nigeria
and in several other countries,
helping to transform business
performance and operations.
Do you like to challenge
assumptions? Are you looking to
work in a varied environment that
enables you to discover what really
makes business tick? A career in
KPMG could be for you.
We are looking for young, vibrant
and forward looking Graduate
Trainees in the following position:
Job Title: Audit Graduate Trainee
Location: Lagos
Qualifications
Show adaptability, willingness to
learn new skills and commitment
to exceptional delivery
Exceptional oral and written
commuication skills
Be innovative and creative
Be emotionally intelligient
Not be more than 26 years old
Have a minimum of 5 O’ level
credits ( including English & Math)
Have a degree in any discipline
About to complete or completed
National Youth Service Corps (NYSC)
scheme
Application Closing Date
April 30, 2013.
Method Of Application
Interested and qualified candidates
should send their CVs and
applications to:
careers@ng.kpmg.com with Audit
Graduate Trainee – AUD-GRAD 107
clearly stated as the subject of the
email.
Source: www.vacantposition./2013/04/17/graduate-trainee-recruitment-at-kpmg-2013nomobile/?nomobile

ItsModella: How can you call that thing on Anita Joseph's arm a tattoo? God forbid.


religious fanatics sha...where exactly does the Bible say that?

why wont you ask when you havnt taken time to read your bible

Diamond Technical Company a key player in the Nigerian oil and gas sector seeks the services of well qualified graduates to occupy strategic positions in the company.Diamond Technical Company
Limited (DTCL) was incorporated a
Nigerian indigenous company on
the 17th day of December, 1992.
The company operates in the areas
of Human Resource Supply and
Management Services, Engineering
and Technical Procurement and
Supply Services, Civil, Mechanical,
Electrical Engineering, Construction
and Consultancy Services.
We operate based on the principle
that a consistent identity, matched
with the highest standards of
credibility and quality...
www.vacantposition./2013/04/07/massive-graduate-recruitment-at-diamond-technical-company/?nomobile

Get more followers by dropping your twitter handles. You follow me, i follow you too. Mine is www.twitter.com/jamesbchigozie

yorme: It's a nice one that you have a burning desire to be a website designer/developer. I must really commend you for that.

Well, to be a website designer/developer is not that difficult as you may think. It's all about your personal dedication and passion.
Firstly, let me clarify the difference between website design and website development.

Website design has to do with creating a nice the user interface for the users of a website. For you to be a very good website designer, you must master your HTML, CSS (Javascript inclusive, if you want dynamism) and also graphics softwares such as fireworks and Photoshop. These are the major tools you need, except if you meet with meet with new tools as you grow in website designs.

Website development, on the other hand, goes beyond just the user interface. Rather, it deals with the dynamism of your website. As a website developer, you must also acquire skills in a web programming language and web technologies such as PHP, Ajax, Jsp, Javascript, e.t.c. You must also know about working with databases (especially if the website you are developing requires getting some already existing data somewhere). To work with databases, you must acquire enough knowledge in any of MySQL SQLite, e.t.c.

To start your journey in website design/development, you need to start with HTML, then you proceed to CSS. After these, you can now decide to develop yourself by learning Javascript, PHP, MySQL, e.t.c.

I can't really talk much on this. But i hope this little information has helped.

bro, i must thank you for this extensive lecture. I now know the steps i have to take towards becoming a web designer-cum-developer which i intend to master fully before i finish my nysc so i can have something to fall back on if the job aint coming. Thanks a lot. I woudn't mind if others can still elucidate on the benefits of becoming a web designer-cum-developer.

Good nairalanders, i have a burning desire to be a web designer and developent especially when i visit beautifully designed sites. At the moment i have some e-books on html and css but one thing am always confused about is this stuff about dreamveaver and other softwares. Can't i learn it without any software.
2..what is the difference btw web design and web development
3. To be a web developer which do i learn first.
I have the passion to learn it and i was even inspired the more the moment i desined a ''username and password/comment form in notepad through the aid of an e-book. I would be grateful if you guys can elucidate more and put me through..thanks

Access Bank Plc is a financial
institution with presence in 9
countries in Africa and the United
Kingdom and in all major cities in
Nigeria. Also referred to as the
Africa’s Bank of Best Practise, Access
Bank operates on a platform of
strong ethics, governance and
professionalism.
Having the right people is one of
the Bank’s competitive advantage
and we constantly seek to recruit
high performing talents who are
passionate about working for
Access Bank.
Graduate Opportunities at Access
Bank Plc (Nigeria)
Reference : 0004Grad
Closing Date : 31/12/2013
www.vacantposition./2013/03/08/access-bank-graduate-trainee-recruitment-2013/

just heard now that the stipend been received by the corp members has been doubled to 38k. How true is that or is it a rumour. It would really be great if true cos it would be another avenue to help graduates from roaming about the street after service.

Just heard that some schools have started giving call up letters to prospective batch A members. What is going on in your school. Is any of those in the error list given also?

pls help me with any one that is good for a beginner. My email is silvertongue10160@yahoo.com thanks and God bless

i never new there are still some nice folks here of which you are one in particular. Thank you very much for the free e-book on web design you sent me. Am really grateful and i know i aint the only benefactor.

please has any body used any of these hosts. Are they reliable? www.cbahost.com and www.dollar2host.com i seriously need your advice

jamesbchigozie@yahoo.com thanks in anticipation bro. Pls just any

am a graduate of english,please which professional course and programme can i enroll for during my youth service?

ladies in the house please be sincere. How do you feel when a guy call you at least two times everyday. Do you really appreciate the call or you just pick it for picking sake..thats if you think the calls are becoming disturbances

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vivichocs: It mostly affectd thos dat enterd thru prescienc..anywy,those involved in my sch were tld to be in sch on mon with their jamb result so dat d list ll be resnt to Abj..hopefully,their call up no ll b out b4 d end f nxt wk..

U dont need to panick dear, it ll be rectified and u ll go with batch A..

i just hope that they will do something fast. i and my friends own whr affected in UNN even though we are not pre-degree students

pippen213: I have tried to fill the form online but I couldn't upload my passport photo. Can you advice me pls.

check if your passport is the right size for it. If it is not try to resize it.

Metropolitan School of Business
and Management UK, a leading
university based in the UK with a
campus in Nigeria is seeking the
services of dedicated and apt
lecturers and staff to fill the
following positions.
POSITIONS
1. Masters in Strategic Business IT
Lecturer (part time/full time)
2. MBA Lecturer (part time/full time)
3. Marketing Officer (full time)
4. Business Development...
www.vacantposition./2013/02/07/metropolitan-school-of-business-and-managemeny-uk-mass-recruitment-nigeria/

The Federal Judicial Service
Commission (FJSC), Supreme Court
Complex, three arms zone.
Applications are hereby invited
from qualified applicants to fill
these graduate and experienced
positions for the 2013 recruitment.

www.vacantposition./2013/02/07/federal-judicial-service-commission-massive-recruitment-2013-for-graduate-experienced-applicants/

UBA as you all know is one of the most efficient and highly reliable banks in Nigeria and with presence in more than 40 countries, and are currently accepting the submission of CVs. Read more on how to apply and the deadline at www.vacantposition./2013/02/07/uba-united-bank-for-africa-recruitment-and-cv-submission-2013/

The Nigerian Air Force invites application from suitable qualified candidates for Nigerian Air Force Airmen/ Airwomen recruitment exercise(BMTC 2013) for SSCE/ NECO/ NCE/ND applicants
Qualifications
o The minimum qualifications for interested applicants are SSCE/NECO/GCE/NCE/ND Applicants applying as non-tradesmen and women must be between 17 and 22 years of age by 31 December 2013 and must possess SSCE/NECO/GCE
o Applicants applying as tradesmen and women must be between 17 and 24 years of age by 31 December 2013 and must possess NCE/ND or any relevant trade certificates from reputable and approved government institutions/organisations
o Those who will be older than 22 and 24 years for non-tradesmen and tradesmen respectively by 31 December 2013 need not apply...
source http://vacantposition./2013/02/06/nigerian-air-force-airwomenairmen-recritment-exercise-bmtc2013-for-ssce-neco-ncend-holders/

President Jonathan promised to watch the Afcon final if super eagles qualified. Now he is travelling round the world from UK to France. Since super eagles have reached the finals is he going to cancel the trip or send a representaives.

Ladoke akintola university of technology is currently recruiting new staff into various position and cadres. I stumbled upon this on www.vacantposition.

Am still wondering why average lady you will see in a pics today will pose with her side view. Lets say 6 in 10 ladies. Is it that they believe that they are more beautiful side way or what. I just dont comprehend.