₦airaland Forum

i think it all depends on ur relationship o. when he is angry and confronts me, sometimes i find his words insultive(4get that it is anger that is speaking) i also have the need to lash back, then a really stupid arguement will break out. i think when a guy is angry he should just take some time to cool off the heat before approaching so that everything can be sorted out reasonably. because of this so called angry confrontations on meaningless things, many relationships have broken without both sides even getting the gist of each other's arguement. so guys cool temper o

cos nigerians seem to be rushing into marriage these days. just go out on a saturday and u will be amazed at how many "Abput to wed" and "just wed" cars u will see. they rush in, then rush out

babasin:
@janami,

where is that place in your profile in Nigeria?

looks very good to be naija

naija ke? smtg i jst got out of my pc to fill the profile page

wen i heard i was sent to zamfara---- i nearly die.
camp was fun, despite the really bad living conditions there. girls had to bathe outside, sleep anywhere u can lay a bed. camp was dirty. wen they drafted me to a village, 2 hours away from civilization, i was like God! no network, no nuttin. these hausa pple no sabi speak English. i remember gisting with one of the teachers and i asked him if they had pools in zamfara state cos of the sharia, the guy was like "yes, we have flenty flenty fools" i no fit laff tire. the students nko? "come", they don't understand. i remember giving them a composition on "myself", one went thus:
In the name of my father mukaila
In the name of my mother salifatu
in the name of my brother abdul
in the name of my wife aishatu
alhakbha. i no fit shout. i give them 10 marks for remembering to write their name, 5 marks for getting it correctly. it was really fun for me. i just saw it as an experience.

seun and dragnet, this is really great. thanx a lwhole lot

woman bashing? i hate wife beaters with a passion. wot kind of macho power is a guy trying to prove by beating someone obviously weaker than him. I will call him nuttin other than a bully. like i always say, a nite in a police cell with serious bullies is all he needs to change

These pictures are even ok. u shld ve seen the state secondary school i served in. really bad situation

@poster
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@poster
nuttin good in life comes for free. smthg must give

yeah. read it too . i guess it is real

when a woman wears perfect make up even after a drunken spree or when she is supposedly fast asleep at nite. there is this fil that this actress did, she was locked in a room overnight to sleep in. lo and behold, when morning came, her hair was in perfect order with lipgloss shining when they went to wake her up.
who wears heels at home and dresses to kill?
the unrealistic way they mention money. 2million, 50million?
when a scene is supposed to be nite, the cameraman most time always mistakenly zooms in on the sun reflecting outside. imagine.
how does a woman wear thesame hairdo for 5years?
when the cameraman wastes like 5mins of the movie time showing us the driving skills of the actor/actress
the sound of their gun shots. infact i can go on and on and wont finish today

use ur strenght to find a good job, in good time u will find someone nice enuff to settle down with. probably the girls u ve been approaching are not the ones for u

finemocha:
no nigerians are just stupid. they always think if a girl and guy hang out together they are screwing each other. its sooo damn annoying.

nigerians are not stupid. a guy hangs out with a girl, no big deal, but to be so close---- smtg must happen. u share a smile here, a hug there---- u read him, the girl is a "a breath of fresh air", what is his future wife? a bretahe of bad air? i think he is already falling sef. na wa o.

silence= killing me softly

did not even have to finish reading the letter sef. i got smthg very similar to this years ago. i sent back a reply telling the 419 person that i was also currently in need, wld she pls send $500 since she is a princess, i am sure she can get it so that i can start the process of getting her money back. she did not reply n i havent gotten anything like that again

women are weak? then wot r guys that cant stop approaching anything in skirt?

@ poster
pr tactic?. why is it that u sound so good n ur ex girlfriends left u? why am i finding it so hard to beleive

no matter how much u shout at a deaf child, he neva hears. if u think i am going to quote bible verses at someone who openly pours disdain at the bible, then u have another think coming. so i still say carry ur idi somewhere else and flap ur ete to ur heart's desire

naija's follow follow syndrome will always keep them in the shadows of things. why did they not go for smthg authentically nigerian like the californians did? Hollywood is clearly named after the legacy of the land. What has nollywood got to do with naija? i wonder o.

this relationship just looks like a passing fancy to me. It is not enough to endanger ur relationship with ur fiancee. How does a fiancee take her future husband's enthusiasm to talk about anoda girl all the time? and u are going further to try to get them to hook up. put urself in her shoes.

nobody is short, fat and ugly. u just make urself look the part

Idinrete, i suggest u carry ur idi somewhere else if all u can do on this thread is to poke fun at the bible and God's perfect will.

good thing for naija? i am yet to see it o! Many jobless graduates that can deliver walking aimlessly about. atleast if na yankee dem dey they can atleast boast of going to work in the morning even if they are working as waiters. but here, no show. nuttin.

Blink and matyrs song series, all by Ted Dekker. A very brilliant xtian fiction author. Puts ur imagination to work

approach with respect

i look like me