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CultureRe: My Boyfriend Wants To 'Take An Oath' In Nigeria by janami(f): 2:22pm On Nov 11, 2007
the thing is, the people we might feel so close to, might love with our whole heart and think the world revolves around them might not be the person that we will get married to. i like to be a realist. one's affections can change anytime and anyday. one can never tell. and i think ur boyfriend was wrong to key into ur ignorance of this whole oath issue. u guys broke what up? the oat or the relationship. i advise that u go for deliverance o
RomanceRe: Nigerian Babes And Flowers by janami(f): 2:09pm On Nov 11, 2007
i love flowers. for a traditional nigerian guy to buy me flowers, men! that wld trip me. i love cards too. i also love poetry. it doesnt take money to trip me, just the thought behind the whole thing
RomanceRe: Is 4 Years Too Long For Courtship? by janami(f): 2:01pm On Nov 11, 2007
nateevs:
When it comes to courtship and human judgement, the only thing i see is sentiment. Let's ask our selves a question. What is the difference between courtship and Marriage? It's simple. The answer is commitment.

Whether a guy or girl, it remains the same. COMMITMENT. I have been the same lady for five years now. We both know we are not getting married now but we remain as strong as ever. I am not trying to sound like a saint. I have met some other females and I have loads of other female friends but when you know what you want you know what you want.

Whatever will happen during courtship will happen during marriage. If can't stay with a guy or a girl for 4 years without leaving, though I have not been married before, my guess is you will struggle in marriage. Conversely, if you can stay with a guy or a girl for 4 years without looking out, it's simple. It's good foundation for your marriage. (Provided you are with the right person).


Is 4 years too long for courtship? The answer is NO. it depends on [b]mindset [/b]and most importantly [b]commitment [/b]to stay.
cool
CultureRe: My Boyfriend Wants To 'Take An Oath' In Nigeria by janami(f): 1:57pm On Nov 11, 2007
siena, what's that?
CultureRe: My Boyfriend Wants To 'Take An Oath' In Nigeria by janami(f): 1:55pm On Nov 11, 2007
and to clarify smtg, not everybody is doing it in Nigeria. rather, i think almost everybody is trying to steer clear of it. if u ask a guy in naija to take oaths with u, the guy will RUN grin
CultureRe: My Boyfriend Wants To 'Take An Oath' In Nigeria by janami(f): 1:51pm On Nov 11, 2007
oaths wit a guy? God forbid. that is a one way ticket to death here in nigeria. i mean, i have been dating my boyfriend for like 8 years and i will neva dream of taking an oath with him. not in my wildest dreams even if i will love to keep him. the thing is that oat taking is very dangerous here in nigeria. it requires some traditional routines and rituals that ar very binding. something like if u look at another man with lust or even think of sleeping with another guy, either u run mad or u die. oaths are very dangerous
CultureRe: If You Can Speak Yoruba, Talk It In Here! by janami(f): 4:35pm On Nov 10, 2007
kai! omowunmi! ki wa ni eleyi wa je bayi nisin? shocked
RomanceRe: Ceremonial Girlfriend by janami(f): 3:48pm On Nov 10, 2007
wetin? the girl has a soft heart o, if she wnts 2 save face i think she shld dump him fast without pity cos i dnt think d guy wil think twice when he gets another "ceremonial" property babe
FamilyRe: Our Maid Is Pregnant For Our Neighbour And It's Becoming A Nuisance. by janami(f): 3:41pm On Nov 10, 2007
abi o. dump her and her ghana must go there.
RomanceRe: Can U Folllow Ur Guy To A Bukka? by janami(f): 3:35pm On Nov 10, 2007
enuff times when me and my bf are doin things together like camping in church or plain sight seeing and i get really hungry, i dont think of tantalizers, i jst think of food. as far as the place is clean, why not? some girls just front like that is not what they buy at home.
RomanceRe: Is 4 Years Too Long For Courtship? by janami(f): 3:29pm On Nov 10, 2007
yeah yeah nwando. i get the gist. but the relationship is still as thick as ever and the only thing holding us up is that we need to settle down first. Tell me why i shld dump him when he has not done anything wrong, not that he is perfect, and move on since i am not even remotely ready for marriage yet. ofcourse he cld turn his back on me tomorrow. shit happens. i will cry, i will move on. Atleast i tried. u get my predicament? but i feel u
RomanceRe: Is 4 Years Too Long For Courtship? by janami(f): 12:25pm On Nov 10, 2007
yeah yeah nwando. i get the gist. better to still be in love wit someone u ve dated for that long than be out and dry claiming i ve not met mr right
Music/RadioRe: FAZE "Independent" OR 2FACE "Grass 2 Grace" by janami(f): 3:16am On Nov 10, 2007
2face's song has bin mkin me sleep; faze's song has been making me sing
Forum GamesRe: What If . . .? by janami(f): 3:13am On Nov 10, 2007
what if u just don't understand the plan? grin
FashionRe: Rate This Model by janami(f): 2:57am On Nov 10, 2007
bad photografy
bad posture
omg, i think she has sm stretch marks on her butt
bad lighting
bad costume
bad make up
the good thing is she is getting so much attention.
good publicity stunt grin
FashionRe: Skinny Jeans!- What's The Stitch? by janami(f): 2:51am On Nov 10, 2007
yeah. skin jeans is not 4 everybody especially not chicken legs grin
FashionRe: Why Do Ladies Go Thru Unnecessary Pains To Look Good With Makeups? by janami(f): 2:46am On Nov 10, 2007
i use make up smtimes just to look my age when i am going out. i look younger than my age without it, but it all ends up cleaning off before i even get to my destination. i cnt really tolerate it. if i sweat, i have to make sure i dnt wipe my eye shadow off, lick my lips and then the whole lipstick is off
FashionRe: What's Your Favourite Colour by janami(f): 2:30am On Nov 10, 2007
blue
Nairaland GeneralRe: Prophetess Juanita Bynum And Pastor Paula White Want To Divorce Their Husbands! by janami(f): 1:53am On Nov 10, 2007
not juanita bynum with the three wedding bands to spend eternity with her husband shocked
Nairaland GeneralRe: My Life is Possessed by the Number Seven (7) by janami(f): 1:50am On Nov 10, 2007
7 is the number of perfection. u are one lucky person. check the bible.
Nairaland GeneralRe: How Did You Generate Your Nairaland I.d? by janami(f): 12:53am On Nov 10, 2007
a mixture of my two names
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Which Lady And Guy Would You Like To Date On Nairaland by janami(f): 12:51am On Nov 10, 2007
oya make una begin post una picture. i no say i no fine. no be my recent pix sef. it is 3years old but hw will i choose if u dnt post pictures nw? undecided
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls Cannot Kiss by janami(f): 12:32am On Nov 10, 2007
;d ;d ;d
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Was Raped! by janami(f): 12:16am On Nov 10, 2007
i think u are missing the point here, the girl was raped, wot would u say about a sex crazy girlfriend? give her some love abeg huh
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls Cannot Kiss by janami(f): 11:33pm On Nov 09, 2007
MoOdYLaDy:
The real truth is Naija guys can not kiss, all they do is swallow your whole entire mouth, and mixing that disgusting salvia with yours, they breaths smell like rotten virginal with onions.

Some does not even know the direction to turn their head before kissing, chie embarassed embarassed disgrace
yo! u r right girl. all they do is grab and grasp with those clawy hands of theirs. never concentrate on d kiss, always grab breast, grab this , rubbish and they ve d audacity to say that naija girls cnt kiss. As if they know!
RomanceRe: Is Love A Good Reason To Get Married? by janami(f): 11:22pm On Nov 09, 2007
Ofcourse i will marry for love, but the guy has to be able to provide o! no be say after marriage i go carry nylon bag go my mama house go collect garri. say i love my husband too much? embarassed
RomanceRe: Is 4 Years Too Long For Courtship? by janami(f): 11:10pm On Nov 09, 2007
@Nwando
hey! let us see what courtship is first. it's the time you get to know if the person u are courting is really good for u. A lot of people do not get married to those they think they will get married to besides i am not remotely ready for marriage yet, so, let the courtship ride, as far as there is no problem on both sides
RomanceRe: Can You Kiss Your Boyfriend/girlfriend In The Public? by janami(f): 8:29pm On Nov 08, 2007
why not? am i not old enuff? kissing is just a way of showing affection to ur beta half 'sall. beta to start now anyway cos the minister is sure going to say "u may now kiss d bride"

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