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lol. they cld just ask for forgiveness

lucabrasi:
yes but its like second nature to some,and they feel incomplete if they v not insulted in a day

true. alongside their upbringing. to insult them back embarrases me sometimes

makes me wonder why i reply to some people's insults at times. No one was born to be insulted but some people are too ill mannered to stay put without insulting

@poster
u r not sleeping with them and collecting money, that is a big plus for u.
These six guys, i can safely say like 5.9 out of them have other girls besides u. but since i dnt really know dm, i cnt be too sure.
what i can tell u is let them go and stay with the one u love most. its not nice to play with people's emotions dear, it cld be dangerous

no @yemivictor

@kobojunkie
lol. i know the ban sounds crazy - is crazy. i am jst tryn to look at it from the man's angle but reading the responses, i can see that it cannot work, will never work.

well, maybe wot d guy is tryn to say is dt if we dnt have an alternative for power generation, we wont look at the issue of PHCN so nonchalantly. he has a point though, crazy as it sounds, just that no one wants to be subjected to any inconvenience that it would cause

@radiant
i was getting a kick at replying your posts, but you are getting really  boring _*yawns*
i need to go find something more interesting, your rubbish was good while it lasted.
so i ve signed out of my thread.
to all those who replied, it was good to hear your views and suggestions. was able to read the replies, sift the good belles from the bad belles.  .   .   .   .

@radiant
feel free to display, i ve left the remnants(ajeku) of the thread for u. _{whispering into radiant's ears} "u do understand, right? i just got the feeling that staying wit rodents like u wl mk me start acting like one" u r an understanding one

@rubi
i really dnt undastnd what u are ranting about. go bck and read my posts well so u cn mk a good contribution. see u ard tho'

look, u also have a case of child abuse. stop making noise. who says a boy of 12 can't do chores morally speaking [s][/s]? no one can be as lazy as u.
get lost u said? you're in my thread, i should fleet u out. pests and rodents arent allowed to be with people

what is there to feel pain aout an overfed maid that steals? stop being over dramatic abeg. it doesnt really suit u

@rubi
feel a stranger's pain . . . . strange

can u read? nuttin in my post suggets the boy is being maltreated, but i guess u ve been hearing noises u assume is the boy crying? well there is yaba left for that, dnt start dara - ing here.
tell a 19 yr old girl to lose her virginity freely if she wants or  hire a maid, pay, feed, give shelter, clothe and an education, which one is child abuse? oga o.
the legal age to you is from 16, the moral age is not from 16, get that.
seeing that i have a life outside of nairaland that u clearly dnt have .   .   .    .   . i gotsa do smtg more imptt .   .  .   . bring it on? u even still talk like a high schooler. lol

rubi:
I can't stop laughung

e be like say u sef don dey hear the boy dey cry for nite

hehehehehe. edit kini? i dnt giv 2 wot anyone thinks about me.lol. i no get follow follow attitude like u. if i beat him and my hand is paining me shld tell u i am not used to beating people. block head .

have u been hearing him crying in your dream again? lol. u can feed him more if it is biting u so much

Rude, truth?your truth is not truth at all, you're just assuming and screaming. how strongly can u back your truth? u freely tell a 19yr old girl who is probably still in school to hv sex if she wants and you're here ranting about child abuse, abegi, make we hear word.

beta watch it. ur reply shows ur rudeness. i play with some things but i dnt play wit my mother or take any stupid comments from outsiders about her. so watch it

tell d living wetin? lol, u too small for my side o besides, the boy is here grinning away with his overstuffed belly of food, did i hear him complaining to you or do u hear him crying to u at night?

i strted d thread for worthwhile suggestions, not nutty ones

amen o

lol

lol. No oh. CU ke? _{i no fit stay dia again o} Those in my set still in cu are lecturing now. I no fit sign that contract o . Not workin yet though i am thnkn school this year sha

talk4real
u are right, that is what i said when i almost fainted and just walked out of the venue, saying  smtg about us being grads and shldnt be treated like goats but people were not feeling me, they were even pushing more. we can't blame them, they really dnt have any means of liveihood. They have to eat or wot do u think?
The nigerian economic situation is bad, very bad

so my mum is doing an abnormal thing? u sure are a foolish one. anyway, i have no reason to trade words with u, just get outta my thread, u r not welcome here. i have better pple with more sane suggestions to listen to

really sad  . i once went for a jobsearch recruitment excercise and almost fainted myself. my dad banned me from going for any recruitment excercise or interview till further notice. The crowd, the fight, the heat, the pushing, the stiffling different smells from people, their dissappointing stories, their frustrated faces .  .   .   .  . all looked so sad to me. i left the place without writing the exams. The sad part was that we all had to buy a scratch card to partake in the aptitude test.

@gamine
i am good dear. Thinkn of going back to school. life hasnt eva been beta

@Radiant.
Miss maid activist, wont u just jump at the idea of having a maid ?
Try to be true to urself and stop jumping to hasty judgements
u talk about civilization and child abuse but u ve not shown any cicilization in answering me whatsoever. Anyway, if u dnt have anything good to say but try to poke at trouble, just keep quiet

@radiant
what exactly is your point? do u side to stealing?

@ Gamine
Hi dear.i ve bin busy. just looked thru the post. Like u said, sending him packing wont do the trick, teaching him wld. My mum has been talking to him ever since. Since she was a teacher, she knows the drill well. She says she prefers to reform him than to send him packing just like that. monitoring him is a good suggestion

@Davidylan
how i know say u go reach here? tut tut

@Ndipe
na so we see am o.

@Luca
u r right. they all lie about their age. they r just short. Even his mom says he is older than d 12 we think he is, and come to think of it, at 12, i know what i was doing at home. i wasnt considered a kid anymore.

@all
child abuse? na wa o. una for see d person wey una dey call "child". Anyway, we are not putting him under any illusion of taking him to school, i cannot count how many people my mom has trained to graduate level. We give them an option of formal education or learning a trade. Most jump at learning trades. As for maltreating, he will tell u himself that he has a better life here.
hasty and incorrect conclusions wont give me the ansa i need.

jek_kad:
d next time ,tell her to tell him she was busy sleeping or shagging another man,and that was y she couldnt ansa his call

lol. U want the man to lose the last shred of sanity he used in recognising her number before dialling?

@kokoye
my sentiments exactly. but sadly, i cannot send him away since i am not the one paying, i can only monitor him more

@ luca
lol. that is how quiet this one is too. from cutonou. they are silent killers. An exchange is actually what i advised my mum to do, maybe 4 a girl but she was saying the girl they might bring myt be a witch. i tire o.

Landers ! kai. sharply i went searching for this ennyluv's profile. na wa o. Anyway, ihende, over to u .

@beaut
that is funny. well, i still say it doesnt matter. One thing i love in relatonships is maturity

Well, i dnt really see anything wrong wit it if the girl is matured enough to take up her responsiilities as a wife and ready to forgo her freedom years. She is 19 afterall and we r talking marriage, not just fooling around.

not really, but to go for someone younger, my age or jst a year older? LAILAI

you're right. thanks 

He doesnt like paper and biro . we have to force him to even count. But my mom said she will mk sure he starts with the new year, after summer school, by fire or by force. But i am thinking "he is a thief, he shld be sent away" but my mum is always trying to mk smtg good out of smtg bad