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mrkings84:
I don't understand, their son Kanu no come?

If true he didn't come, I will stop taking him serious.. So because of fear he wouldn't come for his own parents burial!
God forbid!!

He who fights and run, lives to fight tommorow.

Don't judge people especially when you have never been in their shoes.

People are in the same country, yet they missed parents burial not to talk of someone who a lawless nation is looking for his life.

You must not comment in every topic

omolola15:
First of all. I saw earlier today on facebook that this happened in abeokuta and not in ondo like the op claimed. Then again a blogger will always be a blogger. They don't verify what they post.

I am a Muslim and i have lots of Christian friends. And I don't have any problem associating with them. My best friend is a Christian and he has always said it that his best friend is a Muslim. We lived together in the same room for years. So this is not new to me.

For all those asking if a Muslim can do this. Yes he can. I've seen this happened the other way round before. And I didn't see it as a big deal. So I don't see why this should also be a big deal. Also see this.

https://www.nairaland.com/2073518/picture-pastor-muslim-youths-protecting

And i see one Aisha96 down there saying somethings I don't understand. You were never a proud muslima. And no one is forcing you to remain a Muslim. Please just change to a Christian already and spare us the story. You have the right to worship what you believe in. You can modify your believe. It's a free world.

Nyenye Nye nye

philip0906:


I think you also are a hypocrite just like the person you accuse.

When Buhari first declared his assets you lots lampooned him and called him all sorts including ranting about his cows and silly stuff.

I wonder why you are now interested in his asset declaration

Like CJN didn't declare his assets before

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

It is late but you never can tell, Like someone advised, prove to her fiancee that you were behind that, get him to know that your sister could never have cheated on him, explain how you planned it and ready to face any punishment. Also blame him for not trusting his fiancee who loves him very much.

Then for your sister, start by going to your mum to narrate this your story to her, she would help you and take you to your sister. Any reaction she takes let her be for then but keep asking for forgiveness all your life.

My dear, you are 20 years and you are still saying you will do this and that? Did you stay at home for 5years doing nothing. Get up and behave like a mother. Do sales girl, go back to school, learn a skill, combine school with any option you are taking.
To make amend, stop collecting anything for your daughter from your people, start providing for her and your self too make it as soon as you can.

As for the boyfriend, don't wait for someone to tell you he should be your past, you connived with an outsider to ruin your own family's happiness. Children of this generation are something else. Ever heard of Family first?
To appease your family he should stop seeing you except he changes his way. You are from a decent home dating a drug addict.

Your only saviour is to come clean and change your ways. If e reach to Barb your hair, stop eating sef to show your sincerity, please do. Be truely remorseful. Be true to yourself too. Ask God for forgiveness, pray for your sister. Help her recover and be careful with her too. Because she would be shock and might try to harm you depending on the kind of person she is.
You get mind treat your sister like that....what you committed is equivalent to murder. Anything one does that affect another's means of livelihood is equivalent to murder.
So I hope this helps. You are no longer a child, grow up. I girl in my village gave birth at 12 yrs, Js3. She died some few years ago, you need to see her energy before we lost her. People kept admiring her strength. You are here dey Yan nonsense. You should be ashamed of yourself oo

AwkaetitiBabe:
Let them contact me. My ancestors were rainmakers. Anyi na ra mmiri, ne Ji ya.

For 50k$ I'll stop d rain.

Stop it first for humanity sake nah please

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excessmon:
Please stop confusing your marriage and answer this question.
Will you feel comfortable if your husband does open flirting with other ladies the way you do it.

Stop justifying rubbish and face ur marriage cos I have this feeling that u want to do that which I didn’t do before.....

Story

geletor:

Ma'm meeting new person and flirting with a person are two different things! And by the way what do you mean by meeting a new person? as a married woman?

Like you move out everyday, you meet people, talk with them and maybe pick interest in what they might be saying and needed to talk more about that, then exchange contact. And mind you...it's not on daily basis.
You might meet a house agent, a manager, a banker, a project manager, crayfish supplier's, carpenter, a fashion designer, stuffs like that.......

Mostly for business or future need.
I don't give contact to someone who obviously came for flirting sake.

Might be man, or woman, but anytime I do meet a new person, I tell him. He just have problems with the male part of it.

Like 1 day he was stranded at a location" name withheld"...a contact I had kept for long was who helped us. You see. But he was suppose to be a stranger and we haven't spoken ever since I collected the contact aside reintroducing ourselves on phone. He helped knowing he is my contact.

I select who I deal with. But there must be talking before I could arrive at that. And that's the problem we are having now. Talking and exchanging number with someone you don't know.

YoungBlackRico:
Since you're not ready to take corrections or advice, stop disturbing the web space please. Continue with your old ways, when the guyman has had enough and throw you out, your eye go clear. Free spirited ko, evil spirit ni.

.

Will you rather stay in marriage for fear of divorce? What people might say?

If it gets to that.......we deal with it. Ok.

I only asked what is wrong which I am picking and still telling my story, I really is as plain and truthful here as I can be. I didn't try to defend myself, Still pouring out my thoughts.


But my dear, I am always ready for the worst case that could happen.

geletor:

Madam its as simple as ABC.....just divorce him and continue your flirting, coz it seems you weren't ready for marriage after all!

Thank you. I will give your sister same advice like you just did.

I didn't know marriage means not meeting a new person.

Thanks all the same

TheGoodJoe:


I tire. The man is even trying. How can a married woman give another man her glass to drink and complain of her husband reacting.

Madam OP. You are married. Cast and bind the free spirit. If a man ask you for your number. Thank him for the gesture and tell him you can not because YOU ARE MARRIED.

Same commitment should be shown by the men. It is no more a man's World. Women have their stakes too but commitment is a must from both parties.

Either way, your husband should stop the late nights and give you your deserved peace of mind.

Ok. Thanks.
But I can't since most of my contract comes from once a stranger and recommendations. I am selective too with people I collect or give my contacts. If you are not promising no reason keeping contact with you. Like that.
He knows that too.

Truely I don't understand what is wrong in giving someone a glass of drink you are not taking again. I didn't share, I gave out and stood to leave. I should have poured it on the floor or said no, I get but I don't understand in reality. I would just stop going outside no matter what even some days he would still be the one to bring me out, when it's already late. I might not have words to express all because I don't really want to paint him, I just want to know my fault fess (sic)

ojuu4u:
You will soon end up in stranger's BEDS



Not 1 or 2 but many beds
even in her imagination, my wife can't bring male family to my room without informing me let alone stranger.

Apology for my quote below

When it comes to RELATIONSHIP, females are subhuman to males.....you won't know when you fall yakata

I don't do that either.... everything ends up there. Except it's someone I might have interest in what comes up in the talk perhaps business deal, works, which I will discuss with him first and if it's not okay with it. I forget it. I tell him everything. Like a guy chyked me today, see what I told him, I would be expecting him to joke with me....but no he would just change and be angry.....if I don't talk to him, who would I

Like I don't even have strength. Most I cant recognize the next day, I don't even visit people at their houses except my work colleagues only when it is extremely necessary and a female or in company of a female if it is a males house, or we talk outside. Sometimes I beg him to follow me.

powerkey:



Now it's clearer what you are.

You don't want to be under the authority of any man right?

Don't worry, some guys here will soon testify to how they knack your kpekus

Leave the guys, stake what you have.

You would still appreciated for reading and passing without making such comment.....


Or that's right.......a flirt thinks everyone is

Ebonygirl1:
Hi Lady. There's this thing called "reverse visualization" that people do when dealing with other people or trying to develop self control. It simply means reversing roles or situations in your head. Re-read your story, then in places where you are the subject, replace it with your husband. I won't tell you whether or not you were at fault. Just do the exercise and answer the question yourself.

I do, I mean he has come back and told me his encounter with a girl that was suppose to work under him, how the girl tried to seduce him, I just laughed about it and just told him he won, instead of asking him how they arrived at that stage...you see, in my compound, there's a girl he calls his sweetheart, they used to be close pals. I didn't even ask details, He told me how someone from his past relationships, came to give him wedding invitation, he stood the person outside because of what people might say and because he is married. I told him no, that the person was his guest, suppose to bring her home except there's another thing he is avoiding. I have come home to meet a girl he said he stayed with her family during nysc days, he refused the girl to cook for them till I can back, I asked why. If you can house her, why can't she cook too, I laughed over it. And believe me when I say, I avoid people ones I know you have an agenda. So I do that. I only trust him and not what people say about him. Even if he is chyking girls in my presence, i don't have problems with that provided it was just surface, which 'we' laugh about. He replies my chat sometimes and I do that, like practically I hide nothing from him. I am transparent with him, reason so that someone would not come and say...I say your wife laughing with someone....

Thanks for that....reverse visualization....I don't treat people the way I don't want to be treated.

Mind you, I only reported what I did and how he reacted, at first, the above are just few of where I suppose to be mad but I wasn't, and I have never minded them, because I am home and he is home too, he is still a human first before he married me. I can't cage him like that, that he can't talk with strangers especially the ones you can't read at first.

After all you never can tell who has the info that would help your ministry in future. I have also tried to explain things with him.

I can never cheat on him even if my life depends on it.
I would rather be killed than to have extra marital affairs. Just like I would rather die than to be raped or loose my virginity then....

I am strict and wired like that.

lilmax:
From this write up, I can tell you will cheat on him in 3 weeks

.women like you think you're wise but you are not even up to king Solomon's air

Do what your husband says and everything will be fine

Can you stake your life savings in this, while I stake mine. I bet you would loose all you have in that.

Read this story again and give your advice. Mind you I didn't go to a convent school to have kept my self.

He met me while I was on duty, had 3 relationships....each was aware of all the others, but ended up with him, still as a virgin. So read the story again. I don't play hide and seek. If I am tired of you I tell you and move on. I am like that.
Cheat ko, 3 weeks ni

kobarney:
my dear... you are free spirited but humans are territorial. I'm not surprised your husband got pissed That you have your drink to just another guy. Fact remains that it was a flirty gesture.

let me tell you something... There are many wrongs we may be doing that doesn't seem to scratch for us but cuts deep on our partners. we may not even realize that we are wrong but we are.

what you did was out of the ethics of your union I guess... I think you may have to relax on your ease with other males.. Understand that you are married and need to be a little withdrawn from other men. Not all gifts are meant to be accepted, not all favours are meant to be taken and done. Once married, many actions become disrespectful to your man.. whether directly or indirectly.

I hope you do apologize when he feels this way? do reassure him that you're fully his and beat down on relationships with other guys.. especially unnecessary ones because trust me... He's hurt when you do that......but what do I know? I'm just a young man whose girlfriend just stopped this act. It was irritating.

Before anyone comes to say I'm blaming just her, how about her husband... mind you, she spoke just about herself.

Thanks, I always tell him everything. Like I have been in the midst of my friends females, someone bought drinks and pepper soup for us, I didn't accept. When he came back, I still told him. The only thing I don't tell him, is the one that he was present and witness. I tell him from the beginning till the end of my daily happenings, even where I know I am wrong.
As a single, I didn't accept gifts from my male friends except the ones I can afford. Otherwise I wouldn't. Reason, you can use what you gifted me to have a better hold of me. I would replace it immediately. I hardly send my account for someone to give me money...no...I didn't, except family members, male friends, No.
So I have always been contented with the little I have and don't accept gifts any how.
Even him as my husband knows I don't totally expect things I cannot afford from him, he knows that about me and still act like someone who married a prostitute.

Once I told his brother, he was shouting and telling me he would talk to him.

I do apologise but it's becoming irritating to me that I can't talk to anybody have a discussion and part ways in and discuss my "chykers" with him.
Some people comes with a good proposal that I know if I follow up something good would come out of it...like jobs and contract even though might be small.

The problem usually starts when I tell him later of how my day went and who I spoke with or met for the day.

He saw a guy talking to me one day like that, we didn't talk long but somehow he mentioned a business I have had interest in, I also noticed the guy is civil engineer, same school with my brother, and from my side too, I quickly collected the guy's number so that I would know more through phone instead of standing there discussing with him. I even waved at him and smiled to come and see my brother oo when I saw him. It became an issue, that I was talking with anybody I see. That day he also said I should have brought the strange person home and stay at home to discuss with him. I just met him once, don't know him much? Should have brought him home? Like....I don't understand

tpiar:
I just dont read long stories here, they're too many and most times fake with all the unnecessary details.


Eg your husband married you as a virgin , why is that relevant to your story? You never talked to people before you got married or what?

Sorry! I didn't know you have a problem with that. Telling about my virginity.
I added it because there's a generalized idea that you hardly see a girl go through University, and at that age, a virgin.

That is to say, throughout our courting time, I didn't break my stand with him that was my fiance then, why would I now.

About talking with people, I mentioned it earlier.
One thing he liked me for is that I always tell him where I was and with whom then and even now.
He knows I don't paint stories

Thanks though for your reply

Kingpee2:
I’m not judging you but I feel your husband has insecurities ,he might be that jealous kinda man,you should have noticed all of these traits even before you guys got married ,didn’t you guys spend sometimes together before marriage to notice this listed trait?

Thanks

We did, I didn't, because if he was like this, I knew it would be a no no.
I have always been like that. So I guess he tried to control himself knowing that would scare me.

People that gets close notice you can't even get closer to me. Collecting contacts is a way of me cutting long story short with anybody.
Reason I know I will not pick your call more than once.

I have always been a free spirited person. For instant, I don't segregate who I speak with, I accommodate all sane person except there's a reason I shouldn't associate with the person. Giving you my contact is not a problem for me, it's picking your calls or saving your contact finally, indicates you in my good book.
Then I got married, I stopped many of this but giving contact and speaking with strangers, I couldn't stop. My husband married me as a virgin at 30. Even while we were dating I still maintained my stand. We did everything but any form of sex. We are just I year old in the marriage by the way.
I already mentioned I'm a free spirited person but that doesn't mean I don't play mind games. I never hide anything even my daily encounter from my husband. But when ever I tell him about meeting someone new, what we discuss and how we ended, he would flare up and start quarrelling with me. That I talk to strangers, don't I know I am married, indirectly calling me a flirt. I have left the house several times for him. Everyday we would be talking about samething. I told him I cannot stop meeting people and telling him about it.
We are practically always together that he could tell where to meet me even if there was no prior calling to know my whereabout. If my phone is not reachable for any reason, he has and knows who to call to reach me. He knows my daily engagements like that.
Even when things happened in his absence, I tell him the exact way it happened even if I was at fault or not. Just the way it happened.
Most times he comes home very late but I don't have problems with that again, provided I was able to hear from him.
He is very caring and loving too.

Yesternight, his numbers wasn't going through, it was getting late as usual. I didn't know how to reach him and he was still out of town when I heard from him last. Around 9pm, I haven't heard from my husband, he hasn't called. I came out to a nearby bar where he usually spends his time, he wasn't there, I sat with my friend who sells food in the evening, a young girl, then I met his policeman friend and was complaining that I haven't heard from him.
Then later I went to our house to go and continue waiting oo. Since it was already late.

Around 10:20pm, no sign yet, I came out again now saw him. He was just coming back. I was angry a bit but I calmed my self down because we were outside and I also was thinking he must be tired.

So I beckoned on him to let's go, he insisted we sit and have some drinks.
We formed a table of four, the food seller friend of mine and one drunk guy, he said the guy is his brother.
So while we were drinking, he( my husband) needed to talk with one of our Compound's guy there, so he moved to their table.

I left the drunk, smoking guy at the table and I and my gf( the food seller) went to her table, every thing is within 7-9 Meters range.

While we were seated at the food stand, gf narrating her encounter to me, I was still with my drink in a glass. A guy came, all of us sometimes sit there in the evening. One thing led to another oo, he was thinking I was having a stout because my eyes were already weak. He said he would drink out of it to prove it, my husband and his friend were around watching us.
I said no wahala, let me finish, I would give him the last glass. I did.

My husband came to tell me, what that guy(our Compound's guy) said, that someone collected my drink from me, I was like wow, what's wrong in giving somebody my drink.
A drink I didn't want to take again. I was hearing, I am not supposed to give my drink to him, I asked if they knew what transpired....we started another quarrel. This time around he accused me of flirting with the guy. Me!.... I told him, he would have told his friend that that was nothing.

If we started listing rights and wrong, it was wrong of us to be outside by that time looking for who?

I have thick skin for what people think of me from afar but someone I share a home with...I can't really deal.

Please, what do you think about this whole story, if I'm wrong in anyway kindly point it out, and my husband what do you think of his reaction, if you were in his shoes and I was your wife, would you think or behave as him

I am beginning to feel my marriage is not right. Someone that cannot trust me, I don't understand.

Please, what do you think. No insult please . Call a spade, a spade, I wouldn't mind

I don't see anything wrong with it. I believe there are many opportunities which are not promising at first. I do give mine depending on your presentation, if you look serious minded, I give. If you start with flirting, I won't give because I already know your reason. Most times, I will demand for the persons card instead of giving my contact. It all depends on my impression about you.

And I always tell my husband my daily ordeal. Even though most times we end up quarrelling that I gave someone my contact.

I mean, you and a stranger had a healthy discussion on something you might want to exploit in future and he asked for your contact, you will tell the person, you are married??

I don't use marriage as excuse to give or not give out my contact.

I even see it somehow, discussing something with you and you present your marital status when nothing has called for it.

funshint:
Best advise...go and see a dentist straight.

And they will advise you to remove them and replace with artificial. But still give them benefit of doubt

psychologygh:
ohk,nothing really just wanted to share the general similarities of South Africans and Ghanaians being straight outright about sexuality issues and personal feelings and opinions whilst the holier than thou Nigerians listen in awe buh deep down in action,they are worse off and more extremists and negatively practical with their daring thoughts. All the same,take care and continue sharing your thoughts without fear or favour. That's all what I wanted to say. Carry on.

Yes you are right, because we respect sex and don't talk about it openly especially when it is premarital. In our culture it is not encouraged. But then things have changed now. Nigerian can talk about anything especially on this forum everyone's identity is hidden.