₦airaland Forum

Hi nairalanders..

I am just wondering if this is normal....

I am average looking guy in my opinion. But I have lost count of the numbers of girls that have told me how cute I am,even though I don't see myself as cute..

About 5 girls have been bold enough to asks me out,but the issue is I don't like them in return. But the ones I like are so difficult to get.I mean they always reject me..they claim i must be in a relationship..I am not in for the sex though..

IF IT CONTINUES LIKE THIS HOW CAN I FND A WIFE? I AM WORRIED BECAUSE I AM REALLY TIRED OF BEING SINGLE.I AM A LITTLE ABOVE 30..HAS ANY GUY HERE EXPERIENCE THIS?OR IS THERE SOMETHING I AM DOING WRONG?

Ushafaiza:
Ahead of the July 20 Ondo governorship primary election of the All Progressives Congress (APC), Governor Rotimi Akeredolu seems to be the favoured candidate of the presidency. This is just as members of the camp of the national leader of the party, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu are expressing shock over the purported disqualification of their preferred candidate, Segun Abraham. Ondo govt should assist us tackle ocean incursion All eyes on new EFCC helmsman, Mohammed Umar The Tijani Tumsa–led Screening Committee had on Friday announced the disqualification of one the contenders. No name was mentioned but sources in the party said it was Abraham. Feelers in the presidency said Akeredolu still enjoys President Muhammadu Buhari’s support. The support of the presidency in 2016 gave Governor Rotimi Akeredolu (SAN) an edge over the preferred candidate of Tinubu, Abraham in the September primary of the party. Akeredolu polled 669 votes to defeat Abraham who garnered 635. Since then the relationship between Akeredolu and the APC leader and former Lagos State Governor has been far from smooth. In fact, the Ondo primary was one of the factors which fuelled the APC crisis during the tenure of pioneer Chairman of the party, Chief Odigie Oyegun. Tinubu also faulted the process which led to the emergence of the governor who is now very keen about the second term. Daily Trust on Sunday learnt that Governor Akeredolu still enjoys the support of the presidency to continue in office for another term of four years. Sources said the presence of President Buhari in Ondo State to officially commission Ondo-Linyi Industrial Hub and Flyover Interchange was a tacit endorsement of Akeredolu. Aside from the presidency’s support, Akeredolu enjoys the support of his colleagues, members of the Progressive Governors’ Forum (PGF), chaired by the Kebbi State Governor, Atiku Bagudu. The party’s caretaker committee is being chaired by one of his colleagues, Mai Mala Buni of Yobe State. For Akeredolu, the hope of securing the support of the Bourdillon seems to be shrinking as the election draws nearer in the state. The APC National Leader, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu is said to be indisposed to back the second term ambition of Akeredolu despite several entreaties by stakeholders backing the governor’s second term ambition. It would be recalled that Governor Kayode Fayemi of Ekiti, who is the Chairman of the Nigeria Governors’ Forum had led Akeredolu on a reconciliation mission to Asiwaju in May as the politicking takes shape ahead of the APC primaries. But the mission was said to have gone awry as they were unable to secure the commitment of the APC National Leader to support his reelection. According to sources, instead of declaring support for Akeredolu’s second term, Asiwaju impressed it on them that he has no candidate for the election. And true to his words, Asiwaju is said to have stood aloof watching the events as they unfold. “If at all the APC leader has a candidate, he must be keeping it under his chest,” said one of the sources who is familiar with the politicking ahead of the Ondo election. The source added that Tinubu also told his visitors that the members of the party should be allowed to decide who flies the party’s flag, thus giving a subtle approval to the conduct of direct primary to choose a candidate for the party. Top members of the Tinubu’s camp said Abraham was being considered until Friday’s purported disqualification. The camp was still studying the latest development, one of them said. However, Akeredolu’s preference for indirect primary scaled through as the party has adopted it. But a faction of the APC in the state insists on the conduct of direct primary which was the method used in conducting Edo APC primaries during which Osagie Ize-Iyamu emerged as the APC candidate. Observers believe the incumbent is now wary of the direct primary method which makes it easy to deny a first-term governor the right to second term when such governor is not in harmony with the party machinery. It was learnt that the APC governors are concerned about the recent fate of Edo governor, Godwin Obaseki, who had to dump the party and joined the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) after being denied the former’s ticket. The factional APC Chairman in the state, Hon. Henry Olatuja, had blamed Governor Fayemi, Governor Nasiru El-Rufai of Kaduna, and Minister of Transportation, Mr. Rotimi Amaechi as those behind the move by the faction loyal to the governor to conduct the indirect primary. The media aide to Tinubu, Mr. Tunde Rahman, who was contacted is yet to respond to our correspondent’s inquiry as of the time of filing this report. ‘Tinubu will support any candidate who emerges in a fair process’ A chieftain of the party, Mr. Rotimi Fashakin, however cautioned on Saturday against being too straightforward in making insinuations on the outcome of the primaries. He said Tinubu being the National Leader of the party has repeatedly called for a free and fair process in choosing the party’s candidate just as he assured that he would support anyone that emerges. Besides, Fashakin, a former spokesman of the defunct Congress for Progressives Change (CPC), also noted that any aggrieved aspirant still has an opportunity for appeal. “The party has put a lot of machinery in place to ensure a lot of transparency, fairness and justice. If the screening committee has done its disqualification, there is still a lot of opportunity for an aggrieved aspirant to appeal against the action of the committee,” he said. According to him, it was not true that Asiwaju did not support Akeredolu. He stated that what Asiwaju said was that he would support any aspirant that emerged as the party’s candidate. “He has invested a lot in APC. He is going to play his role as the National Leader of the party to ensure the party remains a progressive party,” Fashakin added. Another chieftain of the party who spoke with our correspondent on condition of anonymity said a lot of people assumed Asiwaju backed Abraham without feeling his impulse. Party nets N258.75m from forms Daily Trust on Sunday reports that 12 aspirants have boosted the revenue of the party with N258.75m from the sale of expression of interest and nomination forms. Each of the governorship aspirants paid N22.5m, including N2.5m for expression of interest form and N20m for the nomination form. The 12 aspirants, who bought the forms including one female contender, are Governor Akeredolu, Joseph Olusola Iji, Odimayo Okunjimi, Olayide Owolabi Adelami, Isaac Duerimini Kekemeke, Olusola Oke Alex, Ifeoluwa Olusola Oyedele, Awodeyi Akinsehinwa Akinola Colinus, Olubukola Olarogba Okunola Adetula, Dr Abraham Olusegun Michael, Dr Nathaniel Olumuyiwa Adojutelegan, and Olajumoke Olubusola Anifowoshe. The aspirants were screened by Tijjani Tumusa-led Screening Committee on Wednesday and Thursday. While the party settled for indirect or delegates primary, 11 out of the 12 governorship aspirants on the platform of the party preferred direct primary which allows every card-carrying member to participate in the decision to choose governorship candidate. A leading governorship aspirant, Chief Olusola Oke, SAN, has said that the ruling party cannot use indirect primary to elect its flagbearer because of polarization and pending court cases over the leadership. Oke warned against a repeat of the Zamfara State experience in his home state if the delegates method was used without compliance with the provision of Article 13 of the party constitution. He said if the party must use the indirect primary mode of election, a fresh congress must be organized to produce delegates, stressing that such a move may not be possible now because of the time factor. Meanwhile, the caretaker committee has tasked a committee led by the governor of Niger State, Abubakar Sani Bello, to reconcile all warring parties in Ondo State. The eight-member Ondo State Reconciliation Committee has Sen. Adamu Aliero; Sen. Bamidele Opeyemi; Gambon Magaji; Mr. Jasper Azuwatalum; Hajiya Binta Muazu; and Hon. Iquo Inyang as members, while Mr Shina Pellar is the Secretary.

https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/ondo-apc-primary-presidency-favours-akeredolu-tinubus-camp-in-shock-over-abraham.html

This tinubu and Oshiomole just like causing trouble everywhere. What's the new trend of denying governors second term all about? Something nobody did to them when they were governors.To even think some nairaland noise makers are in support of this nonsense is something else.

sureteeboy:
I'm sure Juventus will still sack this Sarri sooner or later. That team is now extremely average

And yet they lead.that's to tell you how far Italian league have deteriorate.

Onlinesmart:
The guy is damn good. He's too talented, I must admit. Why hasn't he gone far like wizkid and davido? I need why....

To be honest I have been thinking about this.Yo me the guy is better than the WizKid and davido.All his songs are hit.Bad management could be the cause.

4Ebiscoo:
I have an 18-year-old daughter known as Janet. she is a very calm and resourceful girl, or so I thought because of the way she has been able to make a lot of money from working online.

She just gained admission into the university of her choice and she has never for once complained about school. Most times I call her to ask her what she needs, but most times she asks me not to worry.

I have sent her money countless times and she didn’t even call back to thank me. Whenever I ask she ends up telling me that she didn’t notice it because she has been receiving lots of alerts from some of the jobs she has done online so she doesn’t notice.

She always apologizes, and I ask her to always try to check her phone to see the alerts.

Her mother also always gets concerned most times because our daughter seems to be self-sufficient in school. It was her holiday period, Hallelujah! I couldn’t wait to see my lovely daughter Jane. She called that she would be arriving on Sunday. We were expecting her.

She finally came and we spent the whole night talking about her school. The next day she said she would be continuing her online work at home and wouldn’t want to be disturbed, so we agreed.

This continued for weeks and she spent most of her time in her room doing her job. We always heard her talk but we used to think she was either running a YouTube channel or speaking on the phone.

On one faithful Tuesday, I guess she forgot to lock her door with a key like she always did, so I decided to check up on her. I opened the door without knocking, and what I saw really through me off-guard, it was the most heartbreaking thing any father could ever see.

I saw my daughter unclad speaking to someone on her laptop. She was shocked and quickly went to look for clothes to cover her body. I looked at her screen and I saw a white man who seemed confused.

I could hear him say “baby where are you”.
I was heartbroken, so this is what my daughter was doing to earn some money in school. She was just crying, I called on her mother, and immediately her mother came and I explained she fainted.

I couldn’t beat her because she was already a grown lady. I just called my pastor to help me counsel and pray for her.

https://www.mcebiscoo.com/i-opened-my-daughters-room-without-knocking-and-i-saw-the-most-heartbreaking-thing-ever/

Everything pastor, pastor pastor, can't you talk to your daughter by yourself?

Nigeria prefer to pay politician over doctors, let then go abeg.

Exponential101:
Is that how you shut your father up when fraud is being exposed to save you n your unborn generation from penury ?!

Which fraud is being exposed? Who is this idiot self?

West1side:
This life is funny sha, is it not this same Obaseki that is sponsoring billboard of Ganduje who even if he spent 100 years as governor of Edo state he can never achieve half of what Ganjue achieved that is being exposed for the criminal that he is here ?!

trust Nigeria politicains at your peril. Ize-Iyamu should do similar to billboard video n let Edo chose btw the fool that is looting the commonwealth off to France who is now covering his fraudulent tracts with Ganduje clip.

Will you keep quiet, did the article say obaseki was arrested or a commissioner?

Charmingrascal:
This is not the best time to join the Nigeria Army, now that their Generals are collaborating with terrorists to kill them.


Their "Oga at the top" are sacrificing them for their selfish and greedy purposes.

Tell that your family member that is planning to join the NA to hav a rethink.
It's better to be driving a car without brake than to join the Nigeria Army at the moment

use your brain guy.If no one joins army do you think you can seat there and type this nonsense?

JAOS:
why are they informing the public about this development,are this newsmen not aware that this news could encourage the insurgent to continue their deeds

don't mind the nonsense press we have in Nigeria.

Oluwasaeon:
Waiting for my dear country

ho check number 9.I know you were expecting it to be so bad,sorry you're disappointed.

Very mature of him..One fan added Peter.

Binikingdowm:
If ize iyamu failed to win this 2020 election I'll personally call myself a bastard here on nairaland and you can insult me the way you like, I'll deactivate my moniker afterwards..

When I say this election is so easy for Ize iyamu, he's a grassroot politician that speaks Benin, marry to Benin woman not Igbo and live his life in Benin. He's ours.

Oshiomole knows how to handle Edo north I trust him.

We'll rig and move him out of office,his supporters can wail and cry online.

If you don't have a voters card to vote in Edo please shut up.

See mine

So you man only Benin will vote in the election?I am tempted to call you bastard in advance.

NwaNimo1:
Covid 19 Test kit....Made in Nigeria?

Who go trust the results?

Whether Positive, Negative or Neutral/Undecided?

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We are finished.............Bubu, I beg upon up the borders!

You speak base on your brain capacity.If God didn't give you Brain does not mean he didn't give other Nigerians..Some of those him gave just made good use of it,so kindly appreciate it and move on.

AneedAttention:

What's her name?

seanfer:
That’s a nice move. But the question is who why can’t Obaseki show his achievements in the last 3 and 1/2 years as a state Governor? Also know that Ganduje is not the one contesting in the election.
Don’t quote me if you don’t have anything to reasonable to say.

To you achievement is all about building bridges and rsods,if even if they are not needed.It does not matter to you if thousands of edo lives that were being wasted in Libya are being saved.you don't care about the Revolution in education that got noticed by world bank and even Lagos state government.You careless about employment,those being trained on computer programming.All you care about is infrastructure.. Well,I don't have much to say.

The guy wicked Tbh

Vickymoores:
Call 07065262417

No interior?

He non even fine self.I just Wonder wetin those ladies they love be for such ugly thing.

Vega100:
Only mad man go buy this kind motor for Nigeria.

Why?

if he wise to play for Nigeria good for us all,but if not no need to beg,time for that is over.

lograr:
Pedro supported ize iyamu in 2016. I don't know about now. Pedro wanted to be the Governor then but was hindered by Godwin ambition

Yes in 2016 he support iyamu because he was having issues with Oshiomole.But now he support his broker Obaseki.

NwekeUG:
https://igberetvnews.com/1357325/angry-son-destroys-food-items-mums-kitchen-mums-refusal-grant-request-photos-video/

Nan cultism they cause all this..And one idiot want to install cultist as Edo state governor.

How much

XXXXTENTACION:
Nobody said it can't be recovered but its going to be very hard and its takes processes to recover money stashed in bitcoin wallets .

liberty reserve was like bitcoin before it got seized by US in 2013,their crime was people were using it to defraud companies. So why do you think bitcoin can't be seized?

Rabbi4real:
Hello ma,

I need your help. Please hide my identity. I am a 40 year old single woman. I have never been married before and I have been praying to God to help me get married before the age of 40 because I know it will be hard to get married after a woman clocks 40..even being over 30 years is hard enough.

Its not been easy living a single life I must confess. I admit,I had a few relationships but non led to marriage. These days,the men that come to me are married men who just want me to be their side chic. Two months ago, my friend introduced me to her cousin who is 43 years old.

This man got separated from his wife 3 years ago,they have a daughter and he is ready to remarry. He is a kind man but my problem is that his looks are quite discouraging. I know he is not a young man as such but the major problem is: he has pot belly and he is a heavy drinker. He drinks alcohol alot, I think that is why his belly is big.

Another issue is that he has a small ......

Source: https://livelystones.ng/2020/07/07/i-am-single-and-40-years-old-does-god-want-me-to-marry-this-man/

Potbelly, is that supposed to be a problem? Can't you tell him to hit the gym?nawah o