The best thing is to mind your business because you may not like the outcome. I guess you are not the only one working for your boss so why would it be you to tell the boss.

However if you must do so, first of all ensure that you have gotten a new job already waiting for you because you already know that in Nigeria telling your boss such a thing is as good as tendering your resignation letter.

✔Jan ~》Full of Jokes �
✔Feb ~》Rich nd romantic ❤��
✔March ~》Stubborn nd hyper ��
✔April ~》Players nd mostly liers ��
✔May ~》Sweet and sexy ��
✔June ~》Love Sex nd impatient �
✔July ~》 Handsome nd amazing ��
✔August ~》have drama nd crazy�
✔Sep ~》 exquisitely nd beautiful ��
✔October ~》loving ❤ nd dangerous �
✔Nov ~》relaxed nd patient ��
✔Dec~》 intelligent nd awesome �

Dnt be afraid to show urself
Which one is ur month ����

Mine is February.

anthonyuncle:
I have no relation in that regard.
as all of them don die, y I go dey stress myself to find name wey I go call them.
abeg make una RIP

You are truly a clown bro. The comedy sector till needs more members in the entertainment industry, I wonder why you haven't considered that.

No matter how hard life seems to be, suicide is never an option. Keep struggling and never give up. Sooner or later your suffering will become history.

Just thought is nice to cool the stress and exercise the brain this beautiful Monday morning.

The question:

What are you suppose to call your uncles fathers brother?

No insulting please.

I will say something soon.

The secretary general of The Great Looters Association of Nigeria (GLAN).

ImaIma1:


Yeah.

I just saw your comments afterwards

Alright dear

Headlesschicken:
Stop making yuh problem a general problem.... She x yuh lady friend not ours..

How about not commenting on a thread you don't like and move on Mr man?

Wow this serious. That last option is just too bad. See how somebody can just stay and pickup madness without knowing where it came from. How can the girl even think of that and some people will encourage her to go and do it.

ImaIma1:


There's a different between being stingy and being prudent. I am sure the wealthiest people give tips and help in some causes and projects to make life better for people in less developed and privileged areas. And most of them give to charities.

Seems you only read the post and didn't read most of the other comments

MissRaine69:

Some people are peculiar
I guess her reasoning is those that are working get a salary so they don’t need to “keep” the change and yet she gave the young boy who was begging as he did not have any means.

Yes that's like one of the points I see. And you know there are some places you go to they will always say no change so you have to leave the change for them so its like that really pisses her off when it comes to workers and dashing of change as well.

MissRaine69:

Correct behaviour that’s out of sync
Why do you not challenge her? Are you not friends?

I have done that a lot and had to give up. So normally if we go anywhere together to get anything I ensure she pays herself. Either she uses her money or I have to give her the money to pay and just don't bother myself because that's even better, if I am the one who gave her the money she will give me my change once she collects it.

This young talented African man showed off his wonderful talent by design a well structured city plan in his backyard.
Africans are very talented and we need a very good platform that can really help such talented individuals get exposures and opportunities.

This is really amazing.

XhosaNostra:


Just looking out for you, but that's good to know

Very true @ bolded lol. Believe it or not, I'm also a bit of a pushover with friends. Only a bit though because I don't really care to be a leader as if I'm getting paid for it I let my BFF make most of the decisions about where to go etc. I have no problem letting someone else take the lead. Now if I don't agree with something, I don't budge, solely because I'm agreeable most of the time & do like things to go my way too once in a blue moon.

That's nice, I like that.

Laeroy:


What about when u return.. Please don't say no... GOD HELP U AND I

Sure that won't be a problem. Maybe during the week if I have the chance I can ask for your details and instruct my manager in Nigeria to send you 10k. I hope that will help sort you out. Am not like Dangote yet I would have done more for you stranger.

AntiBrutus:
I wanted to tell you something about focusing on how a woman treats others, but you said she gives to the needy and supports your business...just doesn't buy the idea of forfeiting her balance.

If that is the case, she has no issue.

I believe her problem is the entitlement mentality. Lots of these traders, security men, cashiers...have developed this entitlement mentality. It is worse when they see you with a ride. They feel N100 is too small for you to wait for, yet they will never leave it for you.

When you don't leave your balance for them, you will see their expression change and the next time you come, the way they'll greet you go tell you say you done fall hand.

I stopped somewhere to pump my tyre, gave the man money, rather than giving me my balance, he said "make I use am drink malt na". What nonsense malt?

Hahahahaha its really what nonsense malt.

XhosaNostra:


Sounds like a match made in heaven I'm sure she doesn't have that many people that can stomach her Just don't become anyone's sidekick or lapdog lol. Stand your ground when you have to.

Hahahahaha lapdog. Naaaaa she knows her boundary and respects that a lot. You know what they always say about quiet and gentle people? You wouldn't want to ride on them right.

XhosaNostra:


Well, if you have no issue with that, then there's nothing left to say lol. It sounds like she's the more dominant one, while you come across a little passive. Perhaps that's the secret formula to why this friendship works.

Yeah something like that. I call her my soldier hahahahaha. There are places we go to they already know us, when they see she doesn't like what they gave her, they come to me to start begging so that she doesn't just talk and I have to calm her down because her head really shakes sometimes but in all she is very nice. Am very gentle so I guess that's why she is my iron lady friend.

Olalan:
She's just showing her true colours as regards giving to others, maybe it's time for you to school her on giving out alms to the less privileges. And if she doesn't change then know when you run out of cash she could treat you just the way she's treating people now.

As regards giving out arms she does not joke with that at all. Am sure she even does that more than me self.

MissRaine69:
And you stand there and don’t call her out when she has the audacity to take the change that is not hers and put it in her wallet?
You are also enabling her behaviour.

You see that's the problem. I know the girl is not after my money and she doesn't give it to me when she collects it because she knows I won't take it. She doesn't just like the idea of dashing people change. But she is someone that even if you are a stranger in need of help she can give you money at any time if she knows you really need it. But as for that dashing of change issue, I just don't know.
Okay I remember a time she collected the change back from somewhere we bought something, on our way there was a little boy that begged us for food and she just brought out the change she collected and gave the little boy.
So its quite confusing why she hates dashing people that sell something to us change but she can give it to any other person or keep it to herself.

XhosaNostra:
If she keeps your change for herself, perhaps it's time for you to check her. I dislike people like that with passion. They budget & save through other people's monies.
I'm also very generous with friends, but once I notice that someone is a little tight-fisted, I go 50/50 or nothing with them. Some people see you as a chump when you're giving. I never could understand why.

The girl per say is loaded. This is a girl sometimes I want to do a business and my money isn't complete I can tell her to borrow me 500k and she will give me but I normally and some interest on it not that she asked me to but she will collect it with the interest I put.

To me she isn't tight handed but when it comes to dashing change she will never agree. Most times when we go out to buy anything, I normally give her the cash to pay because if I do myself I know for sure I don't collect any change lower than N200 and I always feel embarrassed when I leave the change for the person and she immediately tell the person to bring the change sharp sharp.

This is actually caused by anxiety. Its something you will over come but I understand how shameful it is.

It happened to me in my secondary school days when I wanted to bleep my first ever gf then. I had begged and begged almost my life out. There was nothing I didn't say to convince her and my hammer was already hard on so bad. Imagine finally she just allowed me in and my hammer just fell lifeless and refuse to stand again. It was so embarrassing that when I was leaving I felt like crying and was telling her I will go to the hospital to see my doctor hahahahaha. That was the good old child days. Can you imagine I had to meet a friend who then took me to all these ashawo joints then so I paid a proustite so that I will be sure my hammer can still function hahahahahaha. May God have mercy on me sha. That's way history anyway.

Don't worry yourself bro, you will overcome it sooner or later.

I have this lady friend that doesn't joke with money even to the last kobo.
When we go out I am someone that loves to dash the little change to workers that do serve me but she deosnt like it and would ask for the change no matter how small it is and she will keep it in her purse.
The truth here is that she isn't a broke girl if not I would have said maybe its probably because of that but this is a girl that whenever she starts complaining she is broke you will know that her account is like 100k.

Some people always see it as being stingy but somehow I try to figure out that she might just be a very good manager who doesn't joke with any single kobo no matter how small it is she feels there could always be a need for it.

What do you guys think about this?

Please advice her. NO INSULT

From Jane (Not her real name).

Pls I need advise on this issue,my fiancé came for introduction early this year (January) he came with his people and on the day of my birthday last month he proposed n I accept, so he discussed with my elder sis that I'm staying with on how to go about my list n mg sister say he will get back to him and since then my sis never say anything concerning d wedding stuff again..even when I told her that he proposed she told me to go n hide d ting that I shouldn't wear it till she have decide, I don't know what my sister told her hubby that my guy will gv him on phone he will just shout at him n cut d call or he wouldn't pick my guy call so my guy told me to calm down that things will work smoothly
So later on my guy called her to know how far about what they discussed n she just told him nobody is getting married this year,my guy say OK n end d call..then my sister told me I should forget about marriage this year that till they build my mom house before taking anyone there
And my guy is ready this year cox he have being preparing since last year...and next year my guy family are doing their dad 5 years remembrance and they are going to spend a lot of money on it...and this my sister is a full time housewife n I don't know who is going to start d building before I even think of marriage, And this my guy has been to my mom house anytime he travel for business he will stop by n give her some stuff but I never mentioned it to my sister before she think am doing something behind her back
,she told me to quit my job n stay with d kids at home that she don't have time to go out again since they are on break,a time she bring them to my office I never complaints cox I love those Kidd so much,but my main issue is who is going to build d house?
When she married her hubby its was the same house she took him.mind u we have refurnished d house n do some touching. My mom will accept whatever I say but if my sister called she change her mind,am just 26,God bless

Nobodyperson:
It's clear that woman only graduated because of her what's on her chest and back
5 in every 6 Nigerian women are prostitutes

Wow I never knew this ooo.
So you mean now if you have 6 sisters, 5 are proustites and only one is not? Or if there are 6 females in your family like your mum, sisters, auties and cousins put together, only one among this list is not a proustite? This is really serious ooo.

Laeroy:


Please bro... Can u give me something just to have dinner tonight... I'm begging you. Please don't say no.
Sorry for begging i

Am actually in Togo at the moment. Wish I could have been of help.

phorget:


Well I guess I'll just have to pray that the good God should continue blessing you for having such a giving heart. However, I will like you to somehow retract your statement whereby you refer to me as some bunch of "careless individuals"
For clarification,I will like to also educate you that there are things we don't always choose and those things includes some of these ; where you'll meet that person who'll latter become your best friend, the family you'll be born into,where you'll meet your life partner,the exact thing you'll do that will bring you success,the type of death that awaits you and the date of your exit from this world.etc

Someone you met on the internet or on the street could later become your pal so you actually guffed up the moment you said you only give money to your "friends". I guess those friends were autually been with you since the day you were born.

We tend to meet people anyhow everyday, and the truth is that we don't know whose going to be of more important. Cheers!

I take my words back if you felt bad about it. I only reacted to the way you made your comment but now I get you same way I believe you also now understand me properly now. No offense meant in anyway.

Some people especially on this forum just need to understand that the way they see or believe in certain things cannot always be same way everyone must see and believe it.

In regards to the friends I talked about, 90% are not I knew from childhood, but people I have to meet through various circumstances in my journey in life. Its just part of life. Even in Togo here, I haven't been here up to two years but there are people I met who have spent more than 11years and were still in the streets but today most of them now have comfortable homes and have left the street, though there are also people you meet that no matter how you help, they can never change so I cut off them. That's life bro.

iammo:
Education always seperate a graduate from a drop out in every and all ways

Wow this your statement already exposed you as a drop out.

If actually you are not a dropout, then am afraid your sense of reasoning shows your school didn't help you in anyway because you sound as good as a dropout.

Comparing both of them at this point should not be necessary. I think its best to always appreciate how far they have gone in terms of taking Nigerian music and image international.

phorget:


Haaaaa bros abeg I take God beg you, make me the first guy you'll ever support with anything at all all please.

You can't be the first not to talk about the 100th. The fact I mentioned I have done for ladies doesn't mean I don't do for guys. I do for more of guys than ladies. And don't get me wrong, these are not just random people I just meet on the street or online. These are people I get to know and become friends with. So let's say am talking about people I classify as friends with a vision both male and female and not some careless people like you who can't even comprehend where am coming from when I made that comment.

Brandonx:
he gave you 500k and he didn't ask for anything in return? Mumu story .
Humans are naturally selfish if they are not gaining directly or indirectly then they are not interested in helping you. I do it too.

You are so wrong. I honestly can't count how many ladies I have given more than 200k to support their business ideas without even knowing the colour of their pants let alone having anything sex with them.

Its all about you as an individual and how you grow your mindset towards certain things.