Sorry are you related to Gaspardd?

You are just another stingy low class broke niggee that has just come to show himself online again. So is small food and drink you will buy for a girl you want to see that is paining your body and you are calling her names.

All this mumu guys here wont stop amazing someone uptop their broke date issues. God has yet saved the young girl from a stingy low thinking nigger.

ImaIma1:


And this kind of guys will want to finish his energy on her when they meet each other in bed. He won't budget 2k energy or prioritize his touching

Dont mind the guy

jojothegreat:
White girls no dey go on date go drink coffee?

Their own is even better because they pay for anything they take while the guys pays for anything he takes. Thats just the normal way it should even be.

Rupect:
Interesting.... But I thought Abidjan is better in terms of business. So Togo is better than Abidjan, Ghana, Cotonou in terms of which criteria? I just visited Cotonou last week and like it's calm but I'm a bit confused of the market pressure for business since the street is scanty. I'm thinking it won't have market pressure for business. Educate me on Togo.....

I never said Togo is better than Abidjan, Ghana and Cotonou. Everywhere has their own different advantage and disadvantage. Am only talking about Togo from what I see here.

Popmaster2019:

What is a gaspardd?

A Gaspardd is defined as a 2k date.

Did you think of your mum, sisters, aunties and other females in your life before writing this trash? Or you are also convinced they all included in this piece of shit you just wrote.

So whenever you look at your sisters all you think of is how many dicks they have sucked right?

truthsayer009:


Whatever he ordered for was worth 1,400. We are matured adults here. Obviously what ever drinks they bought was expensive.

Even Red bull is 400 naira. So what are you saying.

Does that make it wrong for her to have said she wanted to chew something? Or does that make her a glutton like he called her? Her offence now is that she wanted to chew something on a date she was invited for.

Why didn't the guy just simply tell her when he called that he wants to take her on a date but he got just 2k. Then he can simply ask her, so what can we do with the 2k I got.

truthsayer009:


A combo meal from Chicken Republic cost 800 naira with Drinks. That's 800 * 2 = 1,600 naira. ( jollof rice and chicken).

Enough said.

Nice info. But fear will not allow me try it sha.

truthsayer009:
OP I don't know why you are relentlessly trying to convince us about how Bad the guy who went on a date was.

It seems you must be the colleague he asked out.

Just to try and erase this sort of stingy mentality that shameless. These kind of guys are the exact type that if situation changes now and they hammer they will pour heaven and earth of women and will not even remember how to priotize again.
I feel bad is a working class guy that is reasoning that way and I can imagine after my father has finish training my in school and she is working then comes one day with this guy of Mr priotize, it won't be funny I swear.

truthsayer009:


Go back.and read the story, he already ordered for something worth 1,400 naira. That obviously isn't coke.and pure water

He ordered for something but not something to chew which was why she said she wanted to chew something and my guys balls dropped.

Apination:

It goes both ways, stop justifying nonsense. A date is supposed to be an avenue to know and guage the possibility of getting on with the person and not how much food and drink you can consume. Any woman who commits you into spending more than 1k on a first date is a hungry bitch. That's why you see alot of moronic guys coming online to lament about what a lady did to them after spending heaven and earth, thinking its about money, forgetting that Jeff Bezos ex wife just divorced him

Okay fine. Can you just give a little break down of what one can buy with 1k on a date so that at least we can all have an idea because I don't really know please.

truthsayer009:


Lol, if she knew he was a low income earner as her, then why was she asking for more?

She should have told him straight forward, I want to order XYZ, don't worry I'll pay.

Asking for more what? Who told you the guy had bought anything for them to chew before. You carry a lady on a date and buy her coke or pure water then she says she wants to chew something and you tell her chewing is bad for the teeth because you don't have enough money. She never asked for more, she only wanted to chew something and not just sit down drinking whatever.
But nevertheless, its always better to avoid embarrassment than allow it happen and later feel bad about it.

Apination:
Stupid entitlement mentality, I don't blame the leeches, it's idiots like you(No offense) who give them reasons to think you owe them heaven and earth just because you said "Hi" to them. If you get mind to order, make you get pocket to pay

This is not about giving anyone any reason to think we owe them heaven and earth. Its just common sense bro. You don't owe them anything and they don't owe you anything either. Do you really understand the meaning of "going on a date"?
What's the reason for asking someone out on a date? Is it to show how broke you are or to how much you know how to priotize your spending or to prove to the person you asked on a date that you don't owe them anything?

Common bro, you check out the true meaning of going on a date and the purpose of going on a date.

truthsayer009:
I don't even see anything wrong with what the guy did in the first place.

He had only 2k, he had planned to pay 1400 for the items/food they ate.

She wanted more and he said he only has 1500 naira.

If she wants more food, let her pay for it. I am very confident that I won't even flinch when she makes such move.

Something worth noting: For you as a guy to have only 2k to spend on a date, it shows you earn very little. So I see nothing wrong in spending according to your earning power.

If she is above his league, she can kindly not accept his advances after that date.

Case closed.

Your statement before the last makes sense. As a low income earner there are other ways to go about it after all they work in same place so she probably is a low income earner too if he is.

Jyde89:
If I want to take a 2wks Vacay in Togo, how much should I budget, I want to visit not less than 3african country this year God willing, and I want to do it every year.

I think N50,000 which is about 75,000cfa franc would do justice to a good chilling two weeks in Togo. The cheapest neat hotel I have seen so far in a safe place goes for 4,000cfa for rooms with just fans and 7,000cfa for rooms with AC. Other nice hotels go for around 12,000cfa above. Food is not expensive. Shayo is from 500cfa for normal beer. So I think the 75,000cfa will go a long way for two weeks and you might still have change that is if you don't go and dash all your money to olosho because for woman issue, its very hard because they don't speak English at all so you are mostly to meet more olosho which will burn your money.

@Gaspardd the nigger that went on a 2k date, please next time keep this in mind.

When you want to ask a girl on a date you have to keep in mind that she has to be very comfortable around you. No one is saying you should spend the whole world on a lady on a first date NO.
However you should keep in mind that you guys will have a drink, chew something and possible do something to have a fun time.

If you like a girl and you know you don't have enough money for a fun date at that moment, you don't have to call for a date. You can just start getting close to her through normal everyday conversions, making her smile anytime you see her around or stuffs like that.

As time goes on, knowing you are a man, you could just tease her one day and tell her you would love to take her on a date but you know how this Buhari regime is naaa, no lajan in the pocket. She would probably laugh it off but guess what you already made a little point so when you finally decide to take her on a date, you can still jokingly tell her again that you are not that buoyant sha but you just had to squeeze yourself in order to just be around her.
She will definitely understand and be considerate in what ever she feels like taking but then you still have to ensure you are capable of buying drinks and at least something little to chew, definitely not 2k for that.

Even if she has the money to pay, being the fact that its you as the guy who called for the date, at least ensure you are comfortable enough to enjoy a fun date, not a date were your heart is pounding because you know your pocket is 2k or less.

There is hardly any first time date that won't go wrong with just 2k except you have done like I stated earlier by getting closer to the lady first through normal everyday conversions so she already gets very use to you. That way even if you got no money for a date, trust me she will never mind and even decide to call for the date herself because she already likes you especially if she is a decent lady who truly wants a sincere relationship.

Am feeling quite sleepy as I am writing this so please you guys should not mind any misplaced grammar or scatter scatter English. Just a little tip for my nigger whose thread has been making me laugh so much.

ImaIma1:


Rude indeed. Somebody paying for what she wants is rude because she didn't massage his ego. It is rude for him to take her out with 2k. Was he expecting to buy garden egg and walnut?

Hahahahahaha garden egg and walnut.... This really cracked me up. This matter is just so funny. My guy just wanted a coke and fanta date hahahahaha

Evercurious:


Oga as I said earlier she could have made those payments without rubbing it off his face. Plz note that I pay bills on outings too. Moreover she mustn't accept the next outing if he proposes any if she feels the guy isnt her class or level based on her initial experience with him

She did the right thing my brother. How will somebody just stay in house, decide to call a lady that is just in her house jeje and ask her on a date with just 2k in his pocket? Haba only the sound of that is annoying. A 2k first time date? Who does that and he had the mind to take her to a place were there is chewing involved. The babe should have even ordered chewing for him too because this kind of guy that carries 2k on a date and likes to priotize his spending will also know how to priotize his feeding by eating maybe once in a day so am sure he must have been salivating for the chewings but shame won't allow him.

MartinsD12:

And what's wrong in a lady paying for date knowing fully well the guy was honest and even brought out all the 1400 remaining money, I maintain my word a date is a date OK nothing special friends could go on a date and pay for each other its nothing, a date no be traditional wedding where the man is required to pay everything to have a woman OK, you want the guy to claim what he is not to impress the lady funny enough ladies love fake lifestyle, it's good to be real

You still dont get the point. Am not talking about anything being wrong if the girl paid or not. The major problem here is how on earth will you think of taking a girl on a date especially to a place you know chewing can occur with just 2k for pocket. It doesn't make any single sense. As he knows he cannot effort to spend more than 2k why ask her on a date in the first place.
Now after embarrassing himself he came here to cry out lol. If he knew what he did was right or he doesn't feel ashamed of himself on a first date, haba, why did he come here to cry out.
Remember to ask a lady on a date no be by force ooo, especially on a 2k date hahahahahahaha

MartinsD12:

My brother I support you, nothing to feel bad about, a date is a date even if na Fanta and coke you fit buy join na date, I do not advice guys going above their income in order to please their date that will amount to fake impression, she seeing you as rich when in the actual situation you are not, guys should endeavor to be real at first date this will go a long way to let her know your true self no faking it, once again congratulations for being your self and a real man .

You guys hailing him just don't get the point of how senseless his action was. First he was the one who called the lady and asked for a date which she agreed to. How can you ask a lady on a date with just 2k? If it was the lady who suggested the date or outing then that's different. No matter how you guys hail him the truth which is always bitter is that he didn't do well at all. Even he himself knows that and that's why he is here feeling bad.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
guy stop worrying else you will just give yourself depression.

all fingers are not equal.

Even if all fingers are not equal must yours be the shortest?

Awe4luv:

hey sharaap there!....so you can borrow shirts from those that spend on mundane things?...father lawd!!!!...I have seen someone that's worst than I am....

Don't mind the guy, common sense he doest have. Why did he not were his own shirt like that. Yeye falling hand guy.

The truth is that you are really stingy. If you love to priotize the way you spend why bother asking a girl out on a date just to go and drink coke and fanta.

Going on a date with just 2k is really very bad and it was better you didn't just go at all.

However, you ruined your reputation to your own conscience because trust me girls like that don't go casting guys. She liked you and that's why she went on a date with you and secondly she might already felt you are the 2k spending kind of guy which made her carry her own money. You for use shame follow her chew something too, or you still priotize how people pay bills for you?

Let me say a little about Togo. Its a small peace country that shares border with Benin Republic and Ghana. Their major languages French and ewe. They hardly speak English so first thing to note is that as a Nigerian (they call all Nigerians Igbo) it is 95% impossible to get a job here except you are very good in French.

Most Nigerians here are mainly into business and they dominate the main markets selling clothing's, shoes, electronics and so on. Others have businesses like bars and restaurants but by doing so you have to employ workers that can speak French and ewe and a little bit of English but then the ones that can speak English are very difficult to find.

Accommodation is quite okay in terms of price and there is constant light in the country. In the main city Lome, you can get really cheap houses for like 10,000 to 15,000cfa a month but then, most of those houses will be like a room with shared toilets and most of them you get water from wells. If you want a nice neat one bedroom self contained in Lome, you will pay up to 45,000cfa a month.
However in other areas like Bagida and Avepozo with are developing areas, you will get nice one bedroom self contained with flowing water and your own cash power (pre paid meter) for 25,000 to 30,000cfa a month.

Food is very cheap here and their main food is Akuome with Ademe or egbsese. They also have corn and sause and these meals you can feed your stomach full with just 500cfa. There are other normal meals as well and you can also get naija restaurants here were they sell normal naija meals with isi ewu, nkwobi and abacha. If you have a nice home you can cook your naija meals in your house by yourself.

There are lots of nice beaches here were you can also go the relax and have some fun. These French people love enjoyment and from as early as 9am in the morning you can find people already drinking beer in the beaches both guys and ladies, no time.

These are just but a few things you should know about Togo.

The Nigerian police are very shameless. But what can we actually expect from an institution with more than 80% of illiterates being recruited.

Hello dear people,
Are there any Nigerians on this forum that are based in Togo? I lived in Abidjan for some years and from time to time I visited Ghana and Togo but I just recently moved to Togo being that life is easier and cheaper in Togo compared to Abidjan.

If you reside in Togo please let's meet here and discuss the Togo life in general.

Igbinedion University Okada (IUO).

The land of wonders, pop and codeine, rich kids with no direction, have a ride and Bleep as you like, no attend class and still graduate with 2:1 if you sort well... Abeg I hail that school jare.

No its not a sin. Sex before marriage is not also a sin. The sin is if you do not get married to the person you are betrothed to after having sex with her. I will explain further relating to the bible.

Just my own opinion. How many of the richest men and women in the world pay first fruit to any church? If anyone can give me evidence of any of the richest men or women in the world paying first fruit to attain that position, I will pay both January and February income as first fruit.

The issue of first fruit has been springing up since and I have following discussions and peoples opinion regarding this issue.

From the discussions so far and all the biblical quotations made, I only have one simple questions to those that believe in giving their first salaries to the church as first fruit.
Does it mean that for those who pay tithes out of their salaries every month, they are not suppose to pay their tithes in January because they will have to pay all their salaries as first fruits?
If one pays all their salaries in January as first fruits, how is the person suppose to pay their tithes or tithes is no longer relevant in January because it is the season for first fruits?

I wish you all can help me share this post to men of God that can proper help us clarify this issue once and for all.


Another important question I would love to ask is for those whose children are in schools owned by these churches. If you give the church your January salary as first fruit to your church, do they allow your kids to resume school without paying their fees because you have to wait for your next salary to sort it out?

lereinter:

e be like say Na dollars u spend for the local joint

Not at all bro. Normal naira. Trust me am a very simple guy. Am not in America or Europe or Asia, am still in Africa so I no dey form Yankee guy.

cjeriia:
I have seen this post somewhere b4. Poster you just chronicled som1 else's experience as urs. You dey lie

Really. This is mine sha. Story cut short so maybe someone had an experience of such but this is mine. Take it or leave it.