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Candycrusher:
I will blast her pusssy with my sperm

SINZ:
I think there's some sort of voodoo visual illusion at play here.

SINZ:
Me too! I just saw it!

Wetin my eye dey see na + + +

ikombe:
Olod its 15


Solve again

herbie27:
How did you get 16?.

SINZ:
16

One snowflake= 10

One candy= 5

The wine glasses= 2

One glass of wine= 1

5+1+10 = 16.

herbie27:
The answer is 15.

Apply Bodmas 10x1=10
10+5=15.

Beamborla:
If she's aware of how he feels, then no use wondering. She's either strong enough or stupid enough.

Beamborla:
Then how does he live? In constant paranoia? That's unhealthy.

Beamborla:
Very sweet of you to have mentioned me but I'm afraid I'm not much of an authority when it comes to romance.

Nevertheless, I'd tie everything down to communication... Not just communication, but effective and honest communication.

In addition, you have no business dating someone you can't or do not trust

chibuike65:
it's all good I gat them good good ones for you

chibuike65:
bros you too much you know weather is your sister?

chibuike65:
thanks a lot you nailed it but this not gonna help yea I love her she also love I think more than I love her but how do you cope with this I mean when you feel lonely when you need someone to cuddle, really I need something different

TheCOB:
Thanks boss

chibuike65:
Am in one i think am going to call it off since 2012 just meet once but she's cool, how do you handle your long distance relationship

TheCOB:
Exactly!
Before you know it, the spark is gone

TheCOB:
Next, you mentioned lack of communication.
Indeed this is a key player in the breakdown of many relationships.

But the question is: Why and How does the communication flow break down in relationships?

Toyin loves to talk to Nkem about all the tiny details of her day. She would go from the neighbor that snored all afternoon, to Mama Ada who came visiting and Tope's husband who can't seem to walk without dragging his feet. Nkem would listen and even occasionally nod from time to time, but he would never share about his own day. This isn't really because of anything negative, but because Nkem just prefers to talk less.
After a while, Toyin begins to feel like the talkative in the relationship. She assumes that perhaps Nkem's lack of gist is because he is bored by her endless talks. So she tries to make 'adjustments', albeit adjustments that are uncalled for. She consciously picks out the stories to share and the ones to keep to herself assuming in doing so that she is sparing him some drama.
But the truth is: Gisting about all those tiny details are what glows the spark for Toyin and she is slowly losing it. Before long she no longer feels that surge of excitement to burst out info to Nkem.
Definitely, he notices that she is no longer sharing all her tiny details with him, she is more withdrawn these days..... He thinks "she is tired.... Or there could be someone else......." Slowly and subconsciously he withdraws...
Before any of us can spell Jack, the walls of that relationship is fast cracking. The diagnosis given at first glance is "Lack of communication".

But was it really? Or wasn't there something else influencing the end product?

mhisbliss:
thanks for the mention, relationships aren't really my thing because I've been through and the experience wasn't what i thought it'd be, but from my little experience I'd say assumptions is the least of problems in relationships this days, there's a lot of other things you should consider like lack of communication, doubt, differences, the way you see life, insecurity, over protective nature and possessiveness, in the face of all this i don't think mere assumptions should be a case to worry about, i mean most of those things i mentioned can birth assumptions,

For instance
An insecure guy who happened to get a beautiful lady who he feels he doesn't deserve might start feeling insecure especially when it becomes obvious that guys are into his lady, any calls, standing close a guy, little change in composure, he starts feeling the insecurity which will give birth to doubts, then assumptions,

Instead of asking her, he wouldn't, he'll feel paranoid and try to play detective, now that's lack of communication, he becomes over possessive and protective, etc

you solve a problem by treating the root cause otherwise it becomes a reoccurring problem, so assumptions is the least of problems in a relationship

Hope i made sense

TheCOB:
Amen

TheCOB:
Thank you very much.

I hope that we get to spice it up and make the thread very interesting.

Please help by tagging anyone you know is going through some hassle in their love life.

danot1030:
See hate all over your post.

Meanwhile the results says it all even though you wish Messi is the one getting all these recognitions.

Chukzyfcb:
this is so true and even evident in the last classico played. while Ramos scored the late equalizer the rest Madrid players were running to celebrate the goal except ronaldo....... Ronaldo was captured signifying for a foul so that a penalty will be given, so he could take the penalty and take the glory....he is a wonderful player but sometimes his attitude towards his own player is so shameful!

Slimwize:
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