Greenlandncom:

I like your blend of FAITH and REASON! Can we get to know each other well outside this forum?

thnk u... dats ok bt lets keep knowing each other inside d forum first

now dat I'm opportuned to comment on first page material ur now telling me the word is not an English word

if dis one punch her husband eh.. d man will see d star dat led d 3wise men to Jesus...

dahreyM:

I like that. upload ya pic lah. U appear to be a wife material, I don't mind purchasing u.

..no b only wife material..lol.. u ma where ur own pix ..nairaland is an anonymous site nau.. Im not comfrtbl wit having my pix on here

babyosisi:


Abi o
She doesn't know if she has patience ozokwor in her future
Let her be writing letters
Those wives that threw their MIl's "Ghana must go" out of the window are not all mad
They were regular women just minding their business till someone showed up to start something

I can't have patience as MIL.. even u too will reject it fr me.. if not na fr ur thread I go come dey cry.. abi no b u stat tread fr women to ask rltnshp questions?

haan.. calm down nau ppl..

if u read the post well u will notice Its more about the good man I married not about weda she has a good personality or not.. evn if she is a witch (God forbid sha ) d fact dat she brought my husband into d world is something to appreciate her for...

and Iike I said I choose to believe d best.. my expectations of marriage is not based on society's experience (I do learn frm ppls experiences by d way) bt based faith in God's word.. is dat nw a sin eh biko?

yes I am Ehen?

not bad.. those shoes though.. .. this guy seems to b everywer these days o.. pls don't get distracted by paparazzi sha.. we need more of ur kind of songs..

dahreyM:


I'm sure u are a minister there.

no b only minister.. abeg no spoil my runs for nairaland o ..lol.. I take my faith pretty seriously sha

dahreyM:


which church do u attend?

lol.. I dnt tink u ll knw.. not too popular...

abdulkayus:


Gal, do u schooled in BUK?

nope.. but I schooled in d north

move this to joke section...
even BUK sef

dahreyM:


i only stated my opinion and u r also entitled to urs. nice.
hw did u choose ur present parner? what did u consider

teachability and strength of character.. then ofcos guided by the holyspirit

Nairalanders (mysef inclusive) need to learn number 12! lets learn to peacefully disagree n make our point without mean words nau..

mehn nairaland bashing can make oyibo man commit sucide emotional trauma!

babe marriage is a lifetime issue.. I don't think u shud make your decision based on majority wins d vote on nairaland.. I personally believe nobody can really help u make marriage decisions.. its a personal tin.. but ofcos our advise can help d process so here's is my opinion..

u can't go ahead wit dis present rltnshp because u said it urself "u r not happy" so there shudnt b a second thought on it..

as fr ur ex.. u sound like ur happy wit him so apparently u don't mind living with a cheat n a phiysical abuser so.. safe journey..

but if I were in ur shoes its none of d above.. I know no man is perfect bt please ur weakness shouldn't be a wife beater n a cheat.. those r not weaknesses those r value systems.. I wondnt do dat to myself n I'll advise u not to..

time os going yes I knw bt i'll rather spend 10yrs in marriage happily wit a man that cherishes me dan spend 50yrs in pain n depression because I want to marry early .

dahreyM:


d guy who exhibits these to u, is d one dat u ll choose. i opine dat luv language is d determinant 4 ladies wen it cums to choosing a partner out of d many suitors.
for u nw, d guy is gving u d quality time dat u desire, he is constantly re-affirming his luv 4 u, wah will stop u 4rm gving him a yes? u ll lah...

love languages are quiet different from values sir.. not dat dey aren't important but values talks about principles of life as defined by vision n purpose.. des r more lasting.. dats wat I meant. sorry if my examples didn't convey my point right

dahreyM:


i asked cos of ur contribution to d thread. kindly tell me.

quality time.. words of affirmation

dahreyM:


what's ur love language?

y?

1. DONT LET PASTOR CHOOSE FOR YOU OOOO.. a good pastor should guide please, not dictate.

2. I bliv in d leading of d holyspirit (u dnt av to agree). but u ought to have praticed hearing d voice of God over time. so if choosing a spouse is d first tin ur seeking to hear God about den pls uhmmm put a hold on dat...

3. check your value system.. what is most important to you and who amongst these guys give it to u most.. financial security? love and attention? deep affection? sound leadership? etc.. just b sincere to ursef..

for example I am not keen about a man wit money not because I dont like good tins but I'm overly confident dat I can make all of the money mysef.. so if I'm caught in such a scenerio i'll take a strong leader over money anytime..

I hope this helps

sweethrt have a talk with your husband...
find out exactly why he cheated.. is he a serial cheater?.. does he sleep around or is he faithful to his side chic?..lol..

my point is if it was a one time thing or a distraction den u av a good man... make it work like dey v mentioned above.. for the sake of ur child..

I v always said sumthing to myself dat when I get married I will mentally n emotionally wear khaki and become a soldier.. it is fight to d finish as long as there is no physical abuse.. I knw its easier said dan don but if d decision is made den its a start..

God strengthen u o my sister.. e no easy at all

2 wrongs can never make a right.. we all know nothn can ever be legal about that "profession" if we look at that it from a balanced point of view..

I believe prostitutes are a set of beautiful, smart and intelligent girls who took the easy way out. legalizing it will just b encouraging more people to do so..

I v had my share of hunger and poverty and if prostituting was an option den I wouldn't have known I was capable of the means I created to make money today..

hmmmmmm.. the age is wrapping up very fast.. God help us to b ready.. this is just sad..

kilokeys:

comedians that gawk and mimic folks with down's syndrome, pple with speech defects and all..

sometimes life aint funny. its sad he lost his baby..
a wake up call to do clean comedy, hopefully

wrong time to make dis point.. very very wrong.. I am irritated by those kind of jokes too but they lost their baby.. that's all that matters at this time..


if its true then God's strength for d couple to bear d loss

Eya Dis is not so different from d *I hate mondays* posts everywhere na.. a large percentage of ppl hate their jobs..
she didn't say anytin bad about the company.. just d job.. except if there's more to dis story sha

looooool..

Bae will have to do the whole pakage for this to work..
raise the dead.. walk on water and feed 5000 with 5loaves and 2fishes..

looooool..

Bae will have to do the whole pakage for this to work..
raise the dead.. walk on water and feed 5000 with 5loaves and 2fishes..

loooool..


uhmmmm bae would have to do the whole package...

raise d dead.. walk on water and feed five thousand with 5loaves n 2 fishes..

incase GEJ makes buhari his vice

ghost1718:
i wont pity any igbo man killed in northern nigeria because that person no get hear

kai eya.. sorry ko.. ur case is very pathetic.. my prayer for u is dat may crisis never visit d place where you n ur family know now as "home"