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[quote author=@farano]*hiohiohiohiohio* I tell you, Miss u too o. Jbluv55 where art thou? [/quote]I am here my faranodarlyn . Anything for moi?

nitlad: Na wa o. . .


We got bombed the fück back in time!

Baba o. D tin get as e be and e be as e get o

Lorlaahlozz: No u won't....u can tell me here....

Plenty peeps carry bar money waka na, na im I con get heart attack but thank God say ajesara dey .

So werin dey happen na omo mi wen make sense .

Dygeasy: Jbluv55 how far?

Broda mi, I dey o. Just resuming back to duty .

Odilafta: Just serve me small stout before anything


where've u been?I've missed you and the bar.
HOPE YOU ARE OKAY

Odidearest . You dey here too?

This one na out of the one crate of small stout wen remain o . Oya take .
https://www.guinness.com/en-us/img/beer_photo_es_bottle.jpg

Bin ok dear. Just took a break too. Had stuff to take care of . Missed you plenty . NL decided the bar had to demolished.

KelvinGraphics: Good Evening sir o

Kelvo yoor . Werin dey shele na?

Missmossy: Pele dear, Jbluv55 you are very welcome here. Pls feel free

Mossy Awayu? Hope u've been good?

Lorlaahlozz: :'Where av u bn

Will explain but I ain't a dairylander(@least I haven't made up my mind to be) so I'd be derailing here .

dre11: sent a mail to him but no response.....
I guess he is busy or sometin

Apologies bro but I didn't get the mail. I guess NL rewinded to my former NL mail but I've changed it to the new one where I get realtime alerts .

Bawo ni bro?

Lorlaahlozz: Atlast jbluv55 is here

@last dear . How's u?

Hmmm........interesting

Pedro JP: Right brother. Na wetin i for even ask OP, unto how some naija women go take de pursue their happiness when their beauty don fade. I mean when they don dey turn smeagle. Abi dem no de need happiness then ?

Abi

Men this ur siggy na smtn to really ponder on

Dhurmynick: Never listen to what a woman says — always
pay attention to what she actually does
instead. The two are quite frequently worlds
apart, because women are masters at self-
deceit and equally adept at lying to
themselves about their own behavior.

Cross-cultural evidence from different
societies consistently reveals that what
women really want from men are economic
resources. Studies with college coeds show
that when shown photographs of men
dressed in high-status uniforms (suits, ties,
expensive watches, etc.) and low-status
uniforms, these women would be significantly
more willing to enter into relationships with
the more expensively-attired males
regardless of the man's physical
appearance .

To a woman, attraction is simple: green is
very good-looking. And these same studies
found that college men were convinced that
magnifying their status (implying greater
earning power) would lead to increased
sexual activity.

Thus men were forced to rely on such
attraction tactics as driving expensive cars,
bragging about accomplishments, and
emphasizing present or future earning power,
while women, on the other hand, packaged
themselves as commodities with make-up,
jewelry, hairstyles, and shape-revealing
clothing.
Evolution says women want more sex, not
money

I concur wt every part of this except the bolded which I will help rephrase as thus :
women want more sex, when there is plenty of money (coz then there is little else to worry about)

Psychedelia: For real sha
I hope no-one accuses me of this one too. I love "happiness"

Liking "ukwu" is not an njo.

Every man loves "HAPPINESS"

Caracta: Intent matters sha. Some girls are not empowered enough...and our men are quick to take advantage of that.

It's a two-way thing.

I concur. No two humans are equal. There has to always be a quality of one human that makes them attractive (including cash).

But somethings last longer than others ........ so you may make yourself as butiful as a peacock just so you cud chase after some man's money. If/when the beauty fades, he may chase after another.

Its still a two way thing thoh

[quote author=Mynd_44]While I agree that what the OP is right and the mentality is that they are chasing, that same mentality has been known to be a colossal failure and has made Nigerian women to be seen as money hungry skanks. Look if you want to chase money why not do it the right way?

Go get a job, get a life and also get a new name while at it. Get money on your terms, get a job to do ask your FATHER for money and stop being a freaking parasite who depends on others for money and livelihood. The same way a man works for money, a woman can also work for it and guess what, she can then be happy.

If you date people or have sex with people for money, you are a what? A LOVE PEDDLER. You might as well get a room in a brothel and wait for customers or share your numbers in hotels around you. At least we know you take it as a job and not hide behind the lie that you want to be comfortable[/quote]Let's look at this the other way round. Women that chase after money (the 'legit' way) are the ones that find it hard to settle down on time coz they end up building a career rather than the want/need for a family (except the ones that some guy has been able to capture earlier and things got serious earlier too). The others become some banker with little or no access to a prospective and you know the rest of the story........

So I concur wt the OP but the mindset is what needs to be checked.

Seychelle: Thumbz up@poster,u re on point, jxt lyk my saying goes"a man can only b succesful wen he makes more money dan a woman can spend"
money z gud en sweet
#jxt passing shaaa....#

So when you are spending it you should do it wt honor not find a richer man or a man wt many more cars and then ur initial happiness becomes threatened and you feel you can only now get it wt d new man.

Caracta: In English please!

@topic, I'll just say nobody is anybody's responsibility (for unmarried folks). Do not depend on anyone to meet your needs or make you happy. At age 18, you are responsible for yourself and the decision you make.

NO MAN IS UNDER OBLIGATION TO PROVIDE NEEDS FOR A WOMAN. The same goes for the woman too. (For unmarried folks). But if you wanna help someone out, please do. There's a great blessing in it. Don't do it and whine later. Immaturity is when you give a girl money complain later.

@bolded No ma. Immaturity is leading a guy on, collecting from him so much and telling him sorry it can't work out later. Maturity would mean suggesting to return what was collected(restitution) and the guy saying "don't worry, keep them"

All you are saying in essence is 'Nothing Goes For Nothing'

We should all just learn to play the game fairly

[quote author=uj_sizzle]lol i could argue for both sides


Maybe I will.......later [/quote]Let's argue it now!

[quote author=uj_sizzle]
I'll take it that you agree with me then [/quote]Go read again - the modification

Speechless!

*patiently waiting for the counter - thread "Nigerian Men Aren't Necessarily After S*E*X But Chasing After Their Happiness"

Hello Tex.

Hello Harlos.

Deiok: Evening haux.

Evening Deiok

Hello everyone

Hello everyone

Hello Fynestboi

[quote author=Ammanda ]umm...


Uncle JB, how market?[/quote]Hehehehe .......na which market be that one nau?

Anyway compliments of the season!I left some VNs wishing you the good life in this new year.

Why does it seem to me that there are only two ppl in this room?

fabulousdame: morning people

Hey Fab. Good morning. How was ur Wkd and ur nyt?

Morning Gs and Gs. First Monday of the year 'Ojo Aje'. Good Health and Wealth shall be yours(everyone) this day and throughout the rest of the year. Amen.

How many ppl were aware that yday was the 12th day of Christmas? And how many ppl know the true meaning of thos 12 days of Christmas?

Good morning all

texanomaly: Hello e-family. I hope your day has gone well.

Hello Tex, day went well wt me and a new day is starting here