₦airaland Forum

DropsMic:
Nigerian elders really messed this country up.

Rtk5:
Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.

Please I am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.

I remember when I lost my job and things
became so bad that I planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was I fell into a deep sleep that I didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.

Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, I stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened.

There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home.

In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her.

Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here.

The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house.

Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say.

Odoogu:
When Nigerians vex... I dey always fear, everything for that way must feel am.

But we know say, some parents diligently give home training, na the children dey intentionally reject am. If the woman did that I wouldn't know. But there is a possibility she did.

Witnesstony28:
I am faced with the choices of staying at my present place of work or doing my bike business full-time.

If you remember I narrated how my place of work is under paying me (30k/month) and I was able to save 10k on monthly basis from it and I got a loan from my girl's mum and added to get a bike to ride after work (a secondary School).

Don't ever try to give the bike to someone else even if the person is recommended you by the holy spirit or pastor, the day you try it, say byebye to the bike

I stay in the School compound without paying rent and others utility bills.

So on the 1st of this month the owner called and told me that because of the School reputation, they wouldn't want their teacher doing bike work and that it's either I resign from the School or drop the bike (alternatively I should find someone's going to do the bike business for me and bring me returns).

At The initial point I wanted giving it to someone, but on a second thought, I decided to do it by myself cos one person I asked to do it was telling me he will pay 1k/day meanwhile when I go out after work, I normally make like 2k - 3k from 3pm to 6pm and the guy is telling me he will remit 1k for working from 7am to 6pm.

Now I need advice on this. Cos I have been thinking of quiting and focusing on the bike work for the moment. I make way pass 6k on a good day but at that school we are paid 1k/ day.

My only challenge now is getting accommodation to pack out and focus on my stuff. I have also thought about entering into transport business since I started this bike work and I also intend going into delivery business too.

Pls what do I do?

Lalastica pls can you help me post to FP so I could get more opinions.

Thanks .

freeborn02:
Dear Igbos on nairaland, ask yourselves if Ben ayade is a Yoruba man.

Yorubas are not the cause of your problems in Biafra/ igboland.

If Azikiwe had listened to Awolowo, none of you would be fighting Anybody today. Even your Biafra would have become a reality

If you must blame anybody, direct your blames to greedy Azikiwe.

another1:
Nigerians will never forget what happened in osun, Kano and imo states.
How Buhari, Tinubu and apc turned democracy upside-down.

Kingcalls:
Still , people celebrate fraudsters in this country

Tetrahedron:
Bobo Chicago and his gang can be compared to mobster-gangs running New York in the 1930s.

Tinubu is the head of pyramid-scheme fraud system complete with corrupt money network, agberos and such that has evolved from street-running to the political landscape!

We will wait and see the end of their shenanigans

BeeBeeOoh:
https://guardian.ng/news/ipob-frowns-at-continued-sit-at-home-in-southeast-region-on-mondays/

AmazingStudios:
Tell that to the people of Imo state and their current governor.
What did you say when the person that came 4th was used to replace the rightfully elected governor by the supreme court?
Imo people are still paying for it today.
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pussyeater:
Na today you know say Pastorial work for Nigeria na business?! I pity you

envoymedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1404780/ipob-dissociates-biafra-national-guard-bng/

Sergio101:



Goodnight man.
if you are UGM........ am sorry.

if you are truly ESN...... rest on gallant man.

Because the naija army/police will teach you a very hard lesson....... am sure they will torture you slowly to death. RIP in advance.


Now my own point....... we Igbos (only the true son and daughters of the soil) have lost so much in the course for our freedom. I think it's time to go back to the drawing board and make a new strategy.
1st...... the antagonist will laugh.....but it shouldn't be a set back.
2nd.........the best strategy is "black and white"........(pen and paper).
3rd....... let the new revolution be mostly of brain (we Igbos do boast of brain, so it's time to put it into action).
4th.........when much effort is made through "black and white" , it will be much easier to get to the political class.

IN BIAFRA I STAND.

in violence I stand not.



(watch how other tribes will be happy at the lost of an Igbo personell, they will call him terrorist.
but is he really a terrorist??. One Nigeria is the worst mistake)

valentineuwakwe:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2021/10/29/ipob-sit-at-home-order-negotiate-with-igbos-nigeria-sinking-mbaka-begs-buhari/

aspabay:
They will still call it propaganda.

Your house is burning and you still want to blame others but your wayward children.

Ipobic terrorist.

Soon nobody will be left in the SE, I just pity the states they will all be running to, especially Lagos.

Aufbauh:
Ipob and Confusion are like Siamese twins.
My people, what's the difference between lockdown of a place within electioneering period and boycotting the election?

Nostring:
Murdafurka in-laws but This kind thing too common for Biafra land

hollah123:
I pity those who believe they are still fighting for freedom

Doubleoh7:
And when I say Nigeria have the worst set of followers, some people will argue it. These same set of human beings that conceptualised and actually gave out this award with the sickening words on it are the same set of people that will occupy public seats tomorrow and you think they will behave better than the ones currently in Aso rock villa that are ferrying their girlfriends around with presidential jets. It's well with us all

SmartPolician:
Ogbeni, leave Abaribe and Kanu (the Igbos) out of your madness. The news is about Adamawa State and we should be commending them for this laudable project.

PS: Keke full for that state oh

Yobabad:
We know what we want unlike local Yoruba muslims

OmoEpe:
At this point I think it absolutely unnecessary to comment on Biafranistan killing themselves

At last they will make their land desolate and inhabitable maybe then the seed of hatred in their DNA would have been totally eradicated and peace and progress will be fully restored in my beloved land Nigeria

Bethcomm:
When we talk about Nigeria being a failed state, some sycophants will be changing the narrative.
There's no working security architecture all over the world that will not be able track down this serial murderers.
They operate daily in the same environment, with the same mode of operation.
But in these cases the security agencies will rather blame it on IPOB, MNK and ESN just to excuse their ineptitude to duty.