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Lifedonor:
I will have to go straight to the point.

The lockdown due to covid 19 made my girl friend and I bond even closer to the extent she practically was almost living with me. She only leave my place to her house (not too far from mine) just to change her clothes or her other items as the case maybe.
Sometime along the line I fell ill and she was very much helpful.

Fast forward to early May, I discovered she had become too glued to her phone. We would be seeing a movie on TV and her phone will be with her (chatting) at a point I complained. This got worse to the extent that when I wake up in the night say 1AM this girl is still up charting.

Two days ago I went to the hospital for my final check up and I left with the keys since she wasn't around when I left the house. When I got back I found her small Nokia phone on the table and I decided to go through it.

The messages I found there are things I won't want to talk about but the major one that promoted this thread is that I saw a message from her choir member telling her that he is on his way to church already and that she should come fast before the program starts so they can meet. I went through his previous messages with her and lo and behold they have been dating for a month now.

Guys when she got back I threatened fire and brimstone and booommm! The confession.
They usually meet an hour before choir practises and they went behind the church towards the generator house to kiss touch and romance that was the reason she always left the house so Early.

Do you guys know that we had a very good sex that same day she left to the church to kiss this guy. Do you know she bathed in my house, she used my deodorant, she ate my food and wore the clothes I bought for her. Apparently she kissed and romanced two guys in less than 3hrs.

This is the second time she is cheating on me. I know quite sure there could be more but this is the only one she agreed to may be cos there was a text evidence.

She has been pleading and begging. But if she could do this even in the church and on a day I was in the hospital ... I am thinking of quitting. Pls advise me

She is 22 in her finals the guy is 25 same university (I live in a university town)

I have met her parents and I have verbally told her that I would marry her. If not for the way 2020 turned out I wanted settling down November this year. We have dated for 2yrs

She even spoke to my mom in the morning of the same day.

when you raise a child that isn't yours for 30yrs you will remember this advice.

The probability of you raising a child that isn't yours is soooooooo high

Millennialaku:
it looks tattered to me

seriously?

Millennialaku:
you are using me to book space abi

why should I book space?


just wanna know ur reason for wanting to have the hair cut, I like it , infact all my kids would have their hair this way.

Millennialaku:
cut that hair

why

[quote author=chelseaboi post=89939577][/quote]how do I contact u ,I need this

spenca:
Yea

your contact pls
Asap

hope you are on WhatsApp

spenca:
iCloud lock iphone 6s for sale.
Hit me up via a PM

still available?

see unmarried ones giving reasons for something they have no idea of

emeijeh:
Watch how a Nairalander will come here to say click "like" for Funke, "share" for Nnaji.


Like and share kee you there!

hmmmmmmmmmmmm

topmost0029:
Still available

price n pics if you don't mind

maryikpaha:
Hello, pls I need a very good adult male rottweiler, preferably Lagos. Because of this lockdown. Thanks.

Between 2 to 3 years

I want to buy

08157056830

still needed?

PS3 CDs needed especially FIGHT NIGHT ROUND 4 (Boxing)
quote me with ur contact and I will call back

if you also have original PS3 pads pls signify also

you got big dreams and won't want to work to get capital to actualise the dream. Ladies with sincere drive for wealth and achievements try every avenue to show they can be independent and prove to their partner that the decision they take yields fruits but here you are still taking peanuts.

Such women would nag a man to death if his business crumbles or wealth disappear and start reminding him if others thriving. you don't impose your choice on a man , u give him options and reasons for it but let him choose, as he couldn't do the job his late dad offered why didn't you step in and take the job, you did masters and yet couldn't out knowledge and skill into bringing forth the beacon.

How can one make big plans with no capital in sight and isn't ready to raise a finger to work, all in the name of I want to b a madam, take his car use it for Uber, if he is the manager as u said find clients who need the services of his company or goods, if he has a land , get your hands dirty and plant or turn it into something that yields food or money. But no you want to drive him nuts to fulfilling the dreams you couldn't achieve same happens to parents who drive kids into doing things they couldn't achieve, you rush them and they make live changing mistakes

iamoyindamola:
You can actually get it for free don't you think

see as I respectfully said perhaps? just a no would have been sufficient, either I up my price or I move on

iamoyindamola:
iPhone 7 128gb WiFi only(network fluctuates) 40k with 2 pouches /2348054896329

18 perhaps?

topmost0029:
I ve Gionee m5 for sale, working well with strong battery. Location: Lagos Ojodu Berger 07030137440

is it still available

the people giving advice aren't even married neither have they been able to hold down a relationship for long

Fastestmanalive:
Hey guys like I said in the topic I like games a lot....like a LOT

But I don't have data to download them

Please let someone assist me

Cc

what's your console and location, might be able to help

mehn , when I get me a daughter I'm so raising her right

orney:
Men cheat and women cheat.

Those ladies you pity,if peradventure their children are not for their husbands,the men who impregnated them are also married to other women, which means their wives should be pitied as they don't know their husbands have offsprings outside .

Most Men cheat anytime,anyday,any year,before marriage,after marriage,in old age till death

you still don't get the point I'm passing across

ok let's go with yours

both should keep their jobs, or request transfer and keep the money coming till one is sacked from the job then relocation can take place to meet whoever is still working n look for a job in the same state

orney:
This OP is crazy,his supporters are doing bad

Where do you put a guy who cheat under his lady's nose?

Na only girls dey cheat during NYSC?

All of una dey craze big time!

girls aren't the only ones doin the cheating


but ladies do far worse

sometimes when I see my female colleagues during nysc on WhatsApp with their husbands with kids I pity the men, cos 80 percent of the men there don't know that those kids aren't theirs plus the atrocities the ladies did while their soon to be husbands were thinking their babes were faithful, things really happened, it's so bad that even if the husbands get to find out what they did then , the possibility of them divorcing the ladies is high.

fear Nysc ladies

ALABACONNECT:
Good evening. What you need is an Inverter AC and best advice is you get it new so as to avoid regrets.

if you don't mind explaining how this stuff works without consuming electricity much and if it can work with solar setup , really need something like this

tropaz:
I will eat 10,000 Suya

You fitn't

sunshineV:
Firstly, poverty rate is high in Nigeria so poor people plenty. I don't smoke cus I have no reason to but I bet I can try if when I'm stinking rich


Secondly, u watch too much movies, I get one man for the bank of my house here, he inherited the house, rents out, also living in the same house cus the house is gigantic and also smokes weed in one corner where everyone sees and smells it including his wife and kids

Na wa oooo ,you already deducted I watch too many movies from my submission, it's not in Nigeria, no be everybody stayed in naija all through their lives.

Seen cases where men also trap young or good girls with girls with pregnancy so they don't lose them, some if u like pour bucket of semen,e no go catch

sunshineV:
No I don't know him personally but I'm def sure he's doing better than most non smokers


Wiz khalifa smokes in front of families too

I quite agree with you (first paragraph) but the percentage of those smoking (especially weed) doing well to others smoking and not doing well (oin!!) which do u think is more?


wen as a parent you smoke in front of your kids and it's known by welfare officers ,it can get the child taken from him/her

aameyah:
Very disgusting. They would rather spend time in the backyard smoking than bonding with family and their kids.

so true

sunshineV:
* burna boy smokes in front of his mom. He's more responsible than some non smokers

Most of these things only matter even you're poor

of all people u mentioned burna boy?


Do u know him personally? do you know how many times his smoking has put him in trouble while in school with the nuisance he caused?

haven't you seen the way he has been talking to his fans and colleagues? haba

when you jam woman wey no like Moni , you will beg for her to become a gold digger

This doesn't apply to all women but those who are worth having it made impact in the lives of their men

Davash222:
We’re not yet married, and you went to sleep with my friend just to get back at me
This is foolishness! You, sleeping with my friend can’t stop my relationship with him. We will even laugh and smoke over it at our usual place.
Dear ladies, make una try dey get sense small, abeg.

Assuming it is the lady you wanted to marry and she went to report you to your friend one thing led to another they both went to El Dorado. You will still laugh over it with that same friend?

fear of HIV is the beginning of wisdom