₦airaland Forum

Arrewa:
Another concocted story!

Where are the people leaving kano ancient city in droves??

Which kano are you talking about??

Is there another kano in Nigeria I don't know about??

Why do you guys derive joy in spreading falsehood??

People like you are the reason people keep calling me from different part of this country asking me what is happening in kano!!

Everybody that is not in kano now believes that Covid19 is killing hundreds in kano!!

Why do you people derive joy in posting fake news!!

Kano here, kano there!!

I'm here in kano... I have friends and family in almost every part of this state!!

Covid-19 is here in kano!! We are on lockdown!!

People are being tested!!

Stop spreading lies!! There's no anxiety in kano that is making people flee the city!!

pictures would do justice to your words

jeffizy:
And she's one of many more to come. Sad but true reality.

Nigeria is not a country you rely on a job that is not your own. They will lift you high today and dash you to the ground tomorrow.

I've always been a campaigner for entrepreneurship, even though it takes smartness and agility to survive in that terrain, no one can bully you or use you like a mop.

anyone dealing in anything other than food,water , toiletries, drugs isn't making money right now as they ought to, sole business owners are at wits end right now, any entrepreneur talking is just making mouth with audio money, businesses alll over the world are suffering right now,


Essentials are the in thing right now

sexylassie2:
I blame the mod for all these.

Nigerian men in particular are subservient to foreigners, they act like slaves and never question authority, many arent independent minded and thrive on group thinking, their only superiority is to only Nigerian women. They want to abuse and degrade her but then expect her to treat them right.

Fro my short time here, I have made up my mind never to meet or communicate offline with any man from this site, many of them secretly support what is written by that writer but pretend like they are saint.

If a supposed "foreigner" can abuse Nigerian women here and all the men supported him, never expect anything good from a Nigerian man, they can never protect you or even me a Nigerian woman.

Truth is ,you have allowed your experience with guys you have met here define your kind of person, your mind is made up about Nigerian men, others like us who have gone through a lot with women both offline and online won't come here saying all Nigerian women are the same or stereotyped.

There are still people out there (Nigerians) who think differently , there are also good people here too, don't forget how you tried bringing a man here down when you could have simply ignored his antics ,do we say all Nigerian women got the pull h down syndrome? Hell no, not all Nigerian ladies would do that ,some would just move on.

Alita is back!!!!!!

Is that all?
Expected something a bit better

no one is shouting self employment anymore

I'm not understanding

xristos:
They've been closed bro just ATMs working

some banks here still functioning but codely

Eddyrocky:
RIPPER!!!! That’s how rippers talk

ki lon jé ripper ogbeni?

Eddyrocky:
They ripped me of my $100 amazon card. I have proof


AVOID THEM!!

if you have proof why is thou hesitating to put forth thy evidence or is thine a coward or Lily livered?

Allaboutkatiee:
Theres absolutely nothing wrong in dating a nigerian female student
Depends on the one you meet.

Nah

most times the guy takes the responsibility of her parents and most often than not it ends in pains

same old same old
never date a Nigerian female student

Nopanties:
And whats ur problem quoting me

what's your problem quoting others?

Nopanties:
She's older than you guy

And?

Craigbrown4076:
Bro gimme ur contact lemme call u

08037686837

#100 okro no de pass 6 big ones again

creolehunt:
I just thought about the girls I've been with and noticed a certain trend. This isn't even about the girls themselves who are excellent human beings, but their families.

First girl I dated revealed to me that the dad died of suspected poisoning and her family were chased out of the family house. Her eldest brother is an area boy while it seems things aren't working out for her other siblings.

The next ones dad was late too, one of her sisters is separated from her husband while the first son of nearly 40 has nothing doing.

The other ones history is that her dad is late too. The eldest sister is cohabiting with a man. They have 2 kids already without being married. Her other sisters bride price was just paid after having 3 kids with a man.

For the other one, her dad is late too, died quite early. The eldest sister is in her 30s and unmarried. Her other sister has 3kids for a man who she isn't married to and now they are separated. Things aren't just working for her people.

The one I just met recently told me her parents are late. Lost both of them to suspected poisoning within the space of one year.

I keep wondering if this is some sort of coincidence.

would describe yours ?

both parents should b alive, all siblings doing well perhaps?


No family out there is perfect


To make it easy for you , it's better you avoid sex with any lady you meet until u acertain her background, else you will keep on drawing such energies to you or it keeps on strengthening their energies towards you.


for instance a lady dates a Yahoo guy, next guy is something similar , on and on the circle continues and she concludes guys aren't really genuine in their business, same as dating married men , next guy is either about to marry or in a committed relationship, same happens to guys and their circle continues

hstar:
OK jare bros, av heard u, because d way he spoke before was ridiculous thats why I gave him yeye reply as well, even self going as far as comparing to a nairaland kid, I don hear u bros I go edit am with the way you intervene, but my question to him is what was he thinking about before he sent the number? Abi he was high then? No pun intended and I don't mean to be rude with the question

maybe na copy and paste the guy do

hstar:
Wetin b my own? Na me insert the number?
No b him put d number there? He should remove it from his post, simple as that too. By the way I no call any number, me I'm just catching fun, that's it

he's pleading , courtesy or empathy if u have any just edit where u quoted him with the number , so others don't call the number.

hstar:
Want to be rude? How? Do you take me for a nairaland kid? How am I rude? Show it to me from my post, u say make them no contact the said lady whom you dropped her number and I told you I didn't, because initially, no be me u quote. I checked ur profile only to find out u stay in mainland which happened to be my location too. And I asked u do you stay in mainland only for you to keep warning me not to call the number you provided, Na me say make u put am if you no want people to contact am?

it's simple go to the post you quoted that has the number embedded in it and remove it, edit your previous quote that has the number in it, simple

A lady without class and empathy

Nigerianization:
Well I broke up with my ex because she is too nice

I gave her money to keep for me and told my cousin sister staying with me about it...that sister of mine is a spender and though I love her like that, sometimes it gets to me. She is this type that doesn't appreciate value for money...

My cousin sister cajoled this babe of mine to give her the money and when I needed it, she had spent 75 percent of it on stupid stuffs and my girl's defense was that she's my sister and she doesn't want to come between us... Why not ask me before giving her the money?

She did same with my younger brother after I decided to test her a second time and I felt I cannot continue with her... The only bad thing I did was that I didn't tell her why I left

where is she now, the ex?

Shadbay:
I've been in extreme emotional pains for the past few months. I don't even know where to start to narrate my ordeal. I do not want this experience to damage me emotionally and psychologically, that's why I'm seeking help. Please pardon the length and blunders.

Earlier this year, just two weeks after my birthday, my ex-gf (gf of almost 7 years) broke up with me. I had just visited her and left two days prior to the breakup.
I went through the most challenging period of my life because I just suffered some job and graduate school rejections that period. The breakup worsened my situation and pushed me into a depression. I have never felt defeated in life till that point. She blocked me on all mediums of communication. It was too extreme. I went from 91kg to 85 kg in less than 3 weeks.

I visited her to understand the whole situation cos her behaviour was too extreme and I got a toxic dosage of embarrassments. She said she was done with me. She said a lot of hurtful things to me. The height of the embarrassments was calling her new boyfriend (barely 3 weeks after breaking up with me) right in front of me and telling him she doesn't know what I'm doing in her place. She even called some of her friends to inform them of my presence. They all sounded scared and concerned for her as if I was some kind of predator. They told her to leave her place at once and come to their place. All these calls were on speaker! This is someone I invested all these years and emotions for. I went through hell that period cos I was dealing with some other personal tribulations.

I can't imagine treating her or anybody else the way she treated me. I NEVER cheated on her, NOT ONCE or by chance! I have walked away from compromising situation countless times because I placed her so high. I had so much respect for her. She now went on to slander my name, accusing me of cheating!!! When I asked who was feeding her all those lies, she said her friends told her. How? Did I date you or your friends? It still boggles my mind to think she'll believe them and go about spreading those ugly rumours about me.

The straw that broke the camels back was when a friend of mine told me that she said she's grateful to God she didn't contract any infection/disease from me! I couldn't believe my ears. I broke down. This didn't just break my heart, it shattered my spirit. This is someone I imagined spending the rest of my life with. My whole family (even extended) accepted her as one of us.

I had to accept that things were beyond salvaging because any attempt from me to fix things kept doing the opposite. The minute it involved my sisters I had to accept defeat.

I never harmed her or attempt to lay a finger on her. I might not be perfect but I gave it my all. The situation is far worse than I described it here, it's even painful remembering them. I loved her to a fault.

I got a text from her about a month ago after I refused to answer her calls because I had just lost a loved one. She said she's getting married and hopes I find peace as she has found hers. I stared at those words speechless. The worst set of people one could ever encounter are those that hurt you, know that they hurt you and still turn around to play victim accusing you of hurting them. If there's anything I'm proud of is my level of self-control. I know few of my friends who made fun of me being extremely loyal to one girl, warning me severally that I'm wasting my time and good looks, that my youth is passing me by. At least I have a clean conscience that I never betrayed her trust. I never went about telling other people our business. Now I understand why they say good guys always finish last.


Women don't deserve loyalty, forget all their cliche that men are not faithful and honest. I went the faithful, loyal path what did I get in return? Venom! I feel repulsed when I hear women say "Men are dogs", "Men always cheat".

I just don't want this experience to turn me into something I'm not or make me an embittered soul. I'm traumatized beyond words. This was my first and only relationship and I gave it everything. I'm in my mid-twenties and I don't think I can ever love genuinely again. I need mature advice on how to come out of this ordeal a better person. I don't want to transfer any aggressions or micro-aggressions on anybody because of this experience. Please mature advice needed. Thank you.

You dated her for 7 years no marriage ,met a new guy ready to settle down even before a year and she got married. hmmmmm

Family is everything.

Rhymer2020:
STOP DATING MENTALLY BROKE GIRLS
I know many girls and ladies gonna be angry with this post but try learn from it.
Men!!!!!!!!
Guys, how do some of you even cope with dating a broke girl?I know some still don't understand what I mean by Broke Girls.
I mean:
1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to see someone who she claims she loves every damn time.
2. A lady who can't get you a birthday or a Valentine's day gift, but expects you to bring down the world for her during hers.
3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5mins. Always flashing and
complaining she doesn't have airtime even when you know you just sent her airtime.
4a. I mean how do you guys cope dating a lady who thinks relationship is an occupation;
where she is supposed to be paid and taken care of?
4b. Even if it's an occupation, what services is she actually offering to be privileged to receive such benefits?
4c. Or is she a ghost worker?
( NB: sex is not a benefit ONLY to men )
How do some guys manage to date such ladies?
Am not saying this because am working but it's what I see in most ladies.
5. No wonder suicide and depression victims are mostly men.
6. See guy, don't ever date a broke girl no matter how gorgeous you think she is. They are serious liabilities.
7. Rather date a lady who adds something beneficial to your life. Things like emotional intelligence; financial intelligence; spiritual
intelligence and other intelligence.
8. Date someone who's capable of calming the storm within your soul ( an average man has enough storms ); and not someone who
adds stress to your life.
9. Forget that yehn yehn talk, don't tolerate any woman's brokenness or stupidity just
because of her physical beauty.
10. There are actually a lot of extremely gorgeous and beautiful ladies with common sense.
11. So don't ever think of settling for less brother.
One thing I've realized about all these broke girls is not that they don't actually have money...
12. Most of them do; but it's just that they're mentally broke, which is way worse than not having money.
I know many girls and ladies gonna be angry with this post, they won't like or comment in it .
But
Ladies please don't blame me... I just want to make sense common. 2020 Common sense

Are u in any serious relationship or married?

CHoccolaTE:
Are you really this frustrated? Look at my reply and understand what I am telling you

something is about to happen, all I can say to you is stay where you are

olasaad:
Lol NO ooo some of us don't do it.

hmmm Jehovah witness Muslim

CHoccolaTE:
Also bear your cross and love your wife even if she is the village ashawo
After all you chose her

Are you really this bitter?

look at the topic and understand what is being discussed

olasaad:
Maybe yours is Xmas gifts. But this, yes we will collect it with joy. Some of us (Muslims) don't eat Xmas food because we don't believe in the celebration of birthday of Jesus and mind you some of us Muslims don't celebrate the birth of our own prophet too.

Wow this is new, I thought celebration of the birth of prophet Mohammed was a universal thing.

when you choose an irresponsible man for a husband, bear your Cross and submit, you made the choice for a head and leader

hope they will collect it, tried it before and it was rejected.