2 months and you are already complaining?

@OP, your list is not exhaustive.

You do not know if you are alive right now. Just because you have been told this is what being alive feels like, and you foolishly believe it does not make it true. I could be the only living person where all of you are here to make the simulation that I am in look "real"

@op, you may not have written this thing you put down there. Just because you typed it in and you clicked "submit", doesn't mean Elon Musk did not use some mind control tech to force and reinforce the ideas, these thoughts in your head and made you put it out here

Yeah... I got the same supplier of whatever you took

Let's talk about the what, the when, the why and the solution

Nigeria has never been good enough to keep everyone in. Before now, travelling out was not a "Plan A" for the average university grad. It was a possible plan C for majority. Now, it has become a necessary plan A for most people and in many cases, the only plan!!!

The reason it became so bad is closely tied to our government. It became this bad after the 2015 democratic coup.

Nigeria has never been good. Nigeria has always been like a kettle on a stove where the temperature increases by 5 degrees every year. Unfortunately, since 2015, the temperature has been increasing by 30 degrees every year. The rate of destruction of some things that had previously never been visibly touched by bad governance is terrible now hence the urgent need to relocate

The solution is....

The fact is a lot of young couples under estimate the impact of finances on the success or failure of a marriage

It is quite obvious bulk of your fights has to do with money...

My advice, if you can cater for your kids alone, then go ahead and have the conversation about possibly divorcing. If you cannot cater for the kids, don't initiate the conversation. The conversation about who asks for a divorce has a lot of reverberations in the future


A lot of peeps have strong opinions about domestic violence, and it is universally agreed moving out of such a situation is wise but don't let that issue remain at the center of the decision making process after you move out. You need to put the wellbeing of everyone ahead

The last 6 years of this government has taught a lot of people why it is important we learn history...