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Love Inequality by RedHotChic(f): 8:02pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
Will you like to marry someone who loves you more than you love him/her or someone whom you love more than he/she loves you? Why? |
Re: Love Inequality by Nobody: 8:03pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
Someone who loves me more if i had to choose |
Re: Love Inequality by jekad: 8:04pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
this really has a tough side,because u might marry a guy that loves u more but during the whole thing u might find out that d love has increased in your side |
Re: Love Inequality by Nobody: 8:08pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
In every relationship one always loves more than the other. One gives more than the other. there is nothing like a perfect 50-50. So make we nor dey find person who love us pass us. As long as he loves us and we love him, it's ok! |
Re: Love Inequality by sistawoman: 8:14pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
I think it is impossible to know how much a person loves you only the amount of love that you have for someone. The reason i beleive it is impossible to measure this love in others is because men and women are from two different plants, men are from mars women are from venus, and we speak two different languages. So testing someone can never really prove how much they love you and because you would react or do a certain thing and they dont do the same does not mean that they dont love you like you love them just that they react differently from you. |
Re: Love Inequality by RedHotChic(f): 8:15pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
this really has a tough side,because u might marry a guy that loves u more but during the whole thing u might find out that d love has increased in your sideWhat about trying guys that loves you more? If a man has shaky love for you from the get go, there is a high probability that the shaky love will reduce to zero during the marriage but a woman has a higher chance of increasing her love when the man's game is tight and of course tighter in my own case. |
Re: Love Inequality by jekad: 8:15pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
sistawoman: |
Re: Love Inequality by RedHotChic(f): 8:17pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
I think it is impossible to know how much a person loves you only the amount of love that you have for someone. The reason i beleive it is impossible to measure this love in others is because men and women are from two different plants, men are from mars women are from venus, and we speak two different languages. So testing someone can never really prove how much they love you and because you would react or do a certain thing and they don't do the same does not mean that they don't love you like you love them just that they react differently from you.You are right, it cannot be quantified but it can be felt. You'll know a man that drools at your sight(not sexual drooling) and the more that is indifferent to love. |
Re: Love Inequality by sistawoman: 8:18pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
jekad: You dont get it? Here it is the long and short: I cant say that my partner has more or less love for me then I have for him because I am not him. No matter what I do or say there is no way for me to measure his love for me w/o me being him. |
Re: Love Inequality by RedHotChic(f): 8:18pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
In every relationship one always loves more than the other. One gives more than the other. there is nothing like a perfect 50-50. So make we nor dey find person who love us pass us. As long as he loves us and we love him, it's ok!Good scary one. The truth is who'll love to be the person that will love more? will you like that scenario especially when the love can make you a fool? |
Re: Love Inequality by jekad: 8:19pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
RedHotChic: because every girl wants guys that love them more,but like i said sometimes there is a turn in event and d love will be more on d girls side so to cut d long story short,as long as u guys both love each other well,then its ok,u canever measure and know someones love for u,it cannot be done |
Re: Love Inequality by RedHotChic(f): 8:20pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
Here it is the long and short:Good logic but inasmuch as we cannot quantify love, we can [b]estimate [/b]it. |
Re: Love Inequality by jekad: 8:20pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
RedHotChic: Estimate it how? |
Re: Love Inequality by RedHotChic(f): 8:22pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
because every girl wants guys that love them more,but like i said sometimes there is a turn in event and d love will be more on d girls sideYou think so? I want me a man I love more than he loves me so i can tolerate his male bullshit during my mood swings and hormonal changes. |
Re: Love Inequality by jekad: 8:23pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
RedHotChic: then pray d man is understanding,cos some men might take ur love for granted |
Re: Love Inequality by sistawoman: 8:23pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
RedHotChic: But tell me how you know that you love him more? How do you measure this? |
Re: Love Inequality by RedHotChic(f): 8:23pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
Estimate it how?Do i need to develop a test statistic so we can estimate love here? Common, we have intuition for a reason and yes, love can be estimated by the 2nd party. |
Re: Love Inequality by dreeldee: 8:24pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
luv me more than i luv you |
Re: Love Inequality by jekad: 8:25pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
RedHotChic: yeah right,u seem to have forgotten dat some estimations might be wrong anyways wat will a partner have to do for d other to know how much he/she loves him/her so much? |
Re: Love Inequality by RedHotChic(f): 8:26pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
then pray d man is understanding,because some men might take your love for grantedWell, one way or the other we must trust somebody someday whether we like it or not. Love makes the world go round and not money, that being said, the magnitude of love I have for him will be the yardstick for forgiveness and the lower the love goes, the more likely he'll find himself living under the bridge one winter night. |
Re: Love Inequality by RedHotChic(f): 8:27pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
love me more than i love youWhy are most men selfish? Jackal included. |
Re: Love Inequality by sistawoman: 8:28pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
Is it something like Woman: I love you more Man: No i love you more Woman: I love you from the moon and back Man: I love you from the moon and back times 10 It is impossible to KNOW what is in anothers heart unless you are God. |
Re: Love Inequality by jekad: 8:28pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
RedHotChic: but it all depends on if u r d bread winner,cos if u r not,the reverse will be d case |
Re: Love Inequality by RedHotChic(f): 8:30pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
anyways what will a partner have to do for d other to know how much he/she loves him/her so much?Love is like mathematical induction, you always find a probable cause to arrive at a conclusion which may not necessarily be beyond reasonable doubt. That being said, by his fruits, i shall know him. |
Re: Love Inequality by RedHotChic(f): 8:30pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
but it all depends on if you're d bread winner,because if you're not,the reverse will be d caseDon't worry, my game is tight. |
Re: Love Inequality by RedHotChic(f): 8:34pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
Is it something likeLets put it this way, you know the extent at which you can go for your significant other and you can guess the extent at which he/she can go for you. It's not a black and white thing, you preety much rely on your intuition to make a judgment. |
Re: Love Inequality by jekad: 8:35pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
RedHotChic: have u forgotten that some guys are good pretenders(so also them babes) and what u think about them might not be true?especially if they want sthg,they can do anything to deceive and confuse you to proove dat they really love u,while its all lies no matter what we can never know how much our partners love us or know who loves more,its sthg we can never know |
Re: Love Inequality by Nobody: 8:36pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
dreeldee: Yup |
Re: Love Inequality by sistawoman: 8:40pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
jekad: I agree!!!! RedHotChic: And because I would react differently to something means that i might love him less? For instance both my husband I have children, for me nothing comes before my children, not him, not my parents nothing. but for him I might come first (not that i do) so does that mean that he loves me more? I would say no that means that he puts a different value on his love for me vs his love for his children and same for me. |
Re: Love Inequality by RedHotChic(f): 8:42pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
have u forgotten that some guys are good pretenders(so also them babes) and what u think about them might not be true?especially if they want sthg,they can do anything to deceive and confuse you to proove that they really love u,while its all liesThat falls in the category of risk involved in marriages. We cannot stop marrying men and resort to marrying each other or male monkeys because most men are liars and pretenders, should we? |
Re: Love Inequality by RedHotChic(f): 8:45pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
And because I would react differently to something means that i might love him less? For instance both my husband I have children, for me [b]nothing comes before my children, not him, not my parents nothing[/b]. but for him I might come first (not that i do) so does that mean that he loves me more? I would say no that means that he puts a different value on his love for me vs his love for his children and same for me.One quick question, will you quit your marriage because your children do not just feel comfortable with their step dad(not that he's a bad person) but your children's wish is that they stay alone with their mama, will you grant their wish putting into consideration the volume of love you have for them? |
Re: Love Inequality by jekad: 8:47pm On Jun 24, 2008 |
RedHotChic: and dat is why its beta we dont stress ourselves to know things like who loves more and stuffs like dat,as long as both parties love each other ,then they should take it like dat |
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