HandsomeBlack:
Hmmm.
A rich guy can come from abroad and head straight to marry a semi-educated girl in the village. Same is not true for the ladies. An educated and/or financially independent lady will seldom marry a man who has not attained her level of academic/financial status.
Naturally, she desires to marry a man that is higher than her in status or at least in same status with her. Unfortunately, most African husbands can't stand the guts of a wife that is better than them academically or financially because the later will revolt the traditional headship and control exercised by the former, thereby bruising his ego often.

This is all nollywood, because men these days are looking for financially stabled women not one that will depend on them 24/7.

To be sincere with you, there isn't much difference between private uni and that secondary school. That private uni may expose you to some certain pedigree agreed but it may not give you time to achieve your aim.
If you're still young between the age of 25-32, I'll advice you stick to the secondary school and achieve what you need to including that PH.D and trust me you will find a lecturing job with that level of degree or probably go higher from where you are. It all about consistency and hardwork with dedication and setting of goals. Who said people don't make it in secondary institutions?
Just for now let it be your ladder to get what you need to get in terms of academic era and other wise, then with that level of experience you can get to the higher institution and I will prefer federal or state. Private institutions are not open to exposure like that compared to the aforementioned.

But then again that's my own perspective, how about you pray for direction to make a better decision cos we may all be ranting here and you end up choosing the 'majority' and it actually not where God wants you to be, it will be totally useless. So inasmuch as you're seeking advice, pray about it��

Kokaine:

Do you know the irony of it all? Men somehow fear independent women because they think they are uncontrollable and can't bear to be loved. Its all African mentality sha.

You said it all, African mentality...
Like I'm super fed up on these our African mentality....
We depend on men they said we're marrying them for the money and all as if their own moms are not depending on their dads and most of them don't actually like the way their moms are being treated in some African homes...
We stand on our own men don't like us because they fill we're uncontrollable and not easy to tame, so what exactly are you men looking for huh?


Cos the cycle can't keep going like this, rendering women useless financially and other areas. If we need to be sincere, the power to subdue the earth wasn't given to men alone but both genders. We really need to empower the women folks too, so that asking for 2k urgently will minimize and more women that support their men financially and other wise can multiply

Being jealous can not be avoided but tamed, no matter how much you think you can get rid of jealousy is you just fantasizing.

One needs to learn how to control jealousy but the only way to get rid of jealousy is to have 100% trust in that person which in this era is impossible. So control and tame your jealousy and also learn how to have faith and trust in your woman if there isn't any questioning doubts

I'm not condemning her but this is why I believe women need to stand on their own, be an independent woman, don't live your life depending on a man for anything.

Despite what her husband has done which I'm not in support of, her story wouldn't reach here if she was an independent woman with her own money, she would have cleared herself and devise means on how she will cater for the kids or find the man and teach him a lesson using the law.
He has to be part of the kids life if she wants him to.

Someone like me would just raise my kids, it maybe a lot but I don't mind.��

babyfaceafrica:

I don't trust WOMEN

Is your mom not a WOMAN?

babyfaceafrica:
how do you know this?.. I don't trust women at all

including your mom right?

MyVILLAGEpeople:


STFU

I am entitled to my opinion.

Opinion with no head or tail. How is what you wrote an opinion? Abi do you even know the definition of that word? ode people too plenty i swear!

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Hmmm

The guy looks hungry and way older than tu Face. Tu Face Should help his family members, especially this his poverty dejected brother. It's an open secret that Tu Face is too stingy.

Is the thread about 2face stinginess or his brother getting married? are u dat hungry dat u now see hunger in other people's face? Abi the guy has come to ask you for food before? stingy or not the guy is not complaining neither ir he broadcasting it to the world that his brother is stingy and he doesn't have food to it so why not quit spreading ur poverty life on others.

NaijaRoyalty:


It's in the bible , I didn't judge you

Proverbs 15:8

You judge him. why would you say people like him shouldn't quote the bible? And you used that scripture to judge him meaning he is "the wicked". If am wrong pls clear my doubt

tomfreddie:
This is bullshit...i'm not a big fan of both parties.. But supporting someone that's done something wrong just cause someone else has done the same thing before is pure hypocrisy

It not hypocrisy he is only stating a fact here. Before you judge another check your cupboard if you're not harbouring the same wrong. Afterall whatever a leader portrays, you can't expect any less from the follower

That a real Nigerian that knows how to place his priority right.

It cool once in a while one has to take care of himself

Almunjid:

Virgin Mary, no b ur type e dey service? choir girl, All pastors r the same. If u change church, u changed new brand dick.... sorry pastor. �

And you wey be ashawo for the ladies, sex choirmaster, you change destination, you get worse p**sy....sorry obong ndem

NwaChibuzor060:
Marriage is a scam and bondage. Let he who hasn't cheated or have an affair outside marriage be the first to cast a stone. Even the likes of Folu Adeboye and Faith Oyedepo sure must have cheated before . The problem with marriages today is that we focus more on loyalty than love.

Fact is I'm not married yet but when I do I will definitely have numerous affairs outside because I can't use egusi soup to eat for the rest of my life .
Man gats try new soups once in a while.

Is that how a woman's Vj is controlling your life, guy pls you're better than this and you know it. If you wanna Bleep around then do it without having any committment cos not all women tolerates rubbish

Happy birthday sir, more grace to you