carmelily:

yes, we try pass people wey don date 14 guys in that 7 years (you know yaself). _{and them dey give all of them chop}

i wish u well in ur relationship

KarmaMod:

Buy a hijab 

heavens forbid bad thing karma haba

Moyola:

hehe. . .

kant u talk him in2 lettin u wear such in his presence?

ANd i think when one is married one wuld hv more opportunity 2 do what d£y want, all one has to do is ask 4 permission. . . .abi?


Marrige this, marriage that!! ahan kilode?. . . . stop scaring me o!!

he has no problem wen i wear it athome,the only problem is wearing it out,the thing almost gave d poor guy heart attack,i had to stop

pamboogie:

I have horrrible periods too. With vomit, dehydration, bad cramps and all but it doesn't happen every month. I'm used to it now sha. She'll grow out of it and labour at birth'll be easier for her.

not always true ,smtimes labour pains r easier for pple with very very very heavy flow,while menopause is a little ok for them that throw up

sm pple wt very heavy flow have little pains during labour,and bringing forth the child is not always a big deal

thank God ive never experienced such

i for one hate throwing up like hell,so i just Thank God dat it has never happened to me

Moyola:

wt a topic!!!

u lot are makin marriage seem scary. . .  

sweetie its not scary,its just sm things u used to do will be limited

take for instance,i love wearing dis black boxers shorts to school then and all dis tight skirts once in a while though,everything has stopped now,i only wear them wen hes not around but i dare not try it wen hes around,if not the clothes will be subjected to scissors cutting

all of una wey dey worship mary,i tire for una oooo

pilgrim dear,how is u doing today honey

ayomifull:

Of course yes!

na fight?

oby take heart u hear,i know say kanu dump u but na u cause am naaa

but y is it dat women go get man wey like them ,still them go dey look outside dey date other men

sorry oooooo oby,amara dey faithful naim make kanu stick wt her,amara is here to stay ,so go jump inside well

so obongyi don re-incarnate abi

make una leave kanu ,haba

Good Girl:

Please Lady S, you're calling Omotola fat? Is that what they call curves these days. Omotola is a shapely woman. Am sure you are one of those skinny skinny women who think that looking like a piece of sugarcane is beauty. Genny got the Lux contract because of her popularity, but in terms of beauty, please OMOTOLA wins. Hands down. Genny is infact overrated. She is pretty I agree, but Omotola is the queen.

tell them my sister

genny has so flat a ass,low hips and very short,i really dont see dat girl as pretty,shes fine ,nothing more

anywoman dat says she does not wish to be single for one second,is a liar

pretenders,naija women can pretend,haba

H2O2:

Why is that always the first question that pops out of your head?  The woman just acknowledged the fact that she comes home from work to take care of her marital duties.  It's not as if failing to help out in the kitchen automatically makes the man useless or evil.  

its ok,i understand where shes coming from

her question is a good one

KarmaMod:

well if he's home before you, i'D think he's take into consideration how tired you are and make something for you and the kids

naaa most of d time,infact 99% of d time I'm always home before him, but weekends he helps out a lot because he does nt have to go to work

KarmaMod:

Does he help out?

he cooks better dan me 

and when it comes to cleaning ,hes good   especially taking care of d gardens

but l,its not every time the man helps out,like smtimes hes not around,i have to do all myself,even when hes around,u don't leave everything to him or expect him to come help out always

i come home before him ,he comes home a little bit late because of work,so i have to do the cooking and stuffs like that alone

tope2000:


thank you very much
man pikin don dey scared to get married now

naaa marriage is sweet ,especially if u r married to ur missing rib,it has its ups and downs though

there r smtimes i even feel like going for a vacation to cool my brains,for a few days,but how can i go alone,the whole family will come wt me,even if they dont ,who go cook for them?

we r all human beings abeg

there is a diff btw regretting been married and wishing to be single for a second

shegirl71:

Well that is you people are different.Accept that.

i will love,if only u also remember that we all have blood through our veins and have no control over our tots when it wonders away smtimes

idupaul:

@ jenny
i love ur sincerity.

rite from that marriage day everyone starts missing being single: my girlfriend was around for a week, and believe me i started missing my solo life where everything was no holds barred, nt to talk of marriage, chei

i love reading novels,i could read 2 to 3 novels a day,even smtimes when d lecturer is teaching(during my school days) i'D put the novel inside my book and act as if I'm jotting down notes,smtimes all i do is eat and read ,cleaning  comes last,i could even stay till evening before tasting anything

but immediately i got married,everything stopped,i don't read like i used to,because u have to prepare breakfast ,before u know wetin dey happen u don prepare lunch,lunch never finish dinner don come,at d end of d day the person is dead tired

i MISS all them days i used to read,no freaking doubt

I'm also married to my soul mate,and i keep saying it I'm loving every bit of it

why do u think i get to counsel so many peeps a day?marriage like my mum used to say requires patience and endurance
that word patience means even when u feel like "oh my" that word keeps u going

the word "wish" used by d poster does not mean wanting to go back to ur single life forever,it means at a time in ur life did u ever feel like being single for a second

"wish" can only be understood if u read inbtw d lines

hmmm nubian?u don decide to give ur life to christ

and by d way,I'm not a feminist

but i will keep saying it,smtimes when i go to work and come back,I'm so like dead tired,and if i was to be single,i can easily buy bread and coke to eat or even sleep on empty stomach,but no way,because i have to cook for the family

there r smtimes when one is so tired to cook,but u have to,if u were to be single u could easily make do wt junk foods,but lie lie,what will hubby and kids eat?

its normal

abeg u people should stop lying

shegirl71:


No there no times i feel like that.And no my marriage is nt young.

sorry honey,but i dont blive u is married,cos u dont know wat marriage is all about

there r times wen one feels like doing things on his or her own wtout any man interferring in it

c'mon i dont think u is married

sorry,if i sound rude

shegirl71:

I am married.

check urself properly

except ur marriage is still young

there r times one feels like being sinlge even if its for a single minute

let the truth be told

ive answered ur questions b4

all im saying is ,ibkaye is not married,shes our baby here on dis forum,so dont put the burden of marriage on her head