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Poll: Do You Sometimes Wish You Weren't Married?Yes.: 11% (15 votes)Sometimes.: 22% (29 votes) Never.: 15% (20 votes) Not married yet.: 50% (64 votes) This poll has ended |
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Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by KarmaMod(f): 12:38am On Oct 03, 2008 |
but i will keep saying it,smtimes when i go to work and come back,I'm so like dead tired,and if i was to be single,i can easily buy bread and coke to eat or even sleep on empty stomach,but no way,because i have to cook for the family Does he help out? |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by jennykadri: 12:40am On Oct 03, 2008 |
KarmaMod: he cooks better dan me and when it comes to cleaning ,hes good especially taking care of d gardens but l,its not every time the man helps out,like smtimes hes not around,i have to do all myself,even when hes around,u don't leave everything to him or expect him to come help out always i come home before him ,he comes home a little bit late because of work,so i have to do the cooking and stuffs like that alone |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by H2O2: 12:41am On Oct 03, 2008 |
KarmaMod:Why is that always the first question that pops out of your head? The woman just acknowledged the fact that she comes home from work to take care of her marital duties. It's not as if failing to help out in the kitchen automatically makes the man useless or evil. |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by KarmaMod(f): 12:42am On Oct 03, 2008 |
well if he's home before you, i'd think he's take into consideration how tired you are and make something for you and the kids |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by KarmaMod(f): 12:44am On Oct 03, 2008 |
H2O2. Stop bothering me. If you have a problem with my questions, ignore me. always starting something, where did I imply that her hubby is "evil"? was the question to you sef? |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by jennykadri: 12:44am On Oct 03, 2008 |
KarmaMod: naaa most of d time,infact 99% of d time I'm always home before him, but weekends he helps out a lot because he does nt have to go to work |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by jennykadri: 12:45am On Oct 03, 2008 |
H2O2:its ok,i understand where shes coming from her question is a good one |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by H2O2: 12:46am On Oct 03, 2008 |
KarmaMod:Iya Habiba, am I not allowed to post anymore? I responded because I had a problem with your question. Why don't you respond to the question I posed with a level head. I have accused you of seeing marriage as a parlour to enforce your obsession with men and women sharing things evenly, what do you have to say about this? |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by KarmaMod(f): 12:47am On Oct 03, 2008 |
jennykadri: Thanks Jen |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by chamotex(m): 12:52am On Oct 03, 2008 |
Me im not ready to marry ooo, marriage ke? mba |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by mecussey(m): 12:44pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
some of us are playing with this topic, but its a very good one. I see many unhappy couples everyday; and I think 70% of men generally are not happy with their wives, I think thats why young dudes are scared of getting involved in it. Women desperatly wants to get married to avoid the shame of been unmarried forever; and men makes the marriage very happy and interesting due to the fresh sex they are getting initially. After three kids, the sexual love will start depreciating, the man would start losing interest, it will start getting boring and mariage would want to fall apart |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by sistawoman: 1:57pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
Honestly, Shhhhhhhh dont tell hubby but yes. It is kinda like that that thought i have sometimes that i might want another baby. The thought comes it passes and i am on with my life. There are those times when you get mad at your spouse and think 'what have i done?' 'did i make the right choice'. I believe it is bound to happen in all marriages, if only for a second or two. It is a problem if that thought lasts and does not go away. I love him with all my heart and never want to be w/o him. I want to grow old with him and share all of my life with him but there are times that i secertly wish i was not married. Not to cheat, not to betray but just to tell him to get the f,uck out ouf my face. But those words never come out cuz i am married to him, and cuz i respect him. So i write it down and keep it moving remembering Yolanda Adams https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6olU1D70eys To say that a marriage is perfect w/o any ups or downs is crazy. We all have our bad days. Just so happen today is one of mine. I did not read any of the other comments on this thread so if this feels like a personal attack it really is not. I am just answering the posters question and really not in the mood to argue or fight or bicker with anyone here today. Just really not in a good mood at all. |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by jennykadri: 2:03pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
anywoman dat says she does not wish to be single for one second,is a liar pretenders,naija women can pretend,haba |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by ayomifull(f): 2:08pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
Of course yes! |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by jennykadri: 2:16pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
ayomifull: na fight? |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by oziomatv(m): 2:17pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
A professor once said that the reason why women rejoice greatly during their weddings while the men keep a straight faces was because, the woman feels like:"oh, at last I have nailed him!" and the man laments:"Oh, what a fool I have been; trouble was on its own and I went to buy it for myself, now I'm no longer going to be free!"Sometimes when you're asked to explain who's that lady you were talking to, or why that girl so friendly to you or even who was the girl I saw you with? When you're innocent is as clear as a day light and you haven't done anyting wrong. |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by Moyola(f): 2:20pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
wt a topic!!! u lot are makin marriage seem scary. . . |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by sistawoman: 2:24pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
Moyola: marriage is not scary. . . . it has its ups and downs like anyother relationship, just with marriage you make it work cuz you just dont walk away like you do when you are dating. Marriage should not be entered into lightly and you should consider if this person that you are marrying is someone that despite/inspite of all of thier faults you will still love them, want to be with them and willing to share your ups and downs. When things are wonderful they are wonderful, trust me, just the begining of this week i was floating on cloud nine. But when they are down they are down, trust me this morning is a bad one. But this too shall pass and as long as God is in my marriage there is nothing that the three of us can not overcome. When you choose the right person it is wonderful, blissfull but you are sure to run into the potholes from time to time. |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by jennykadri: 2:26pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
Moyola: sweetie its not scary,its just sm things u used to do will be limited take for instance,i love wearing dis black boxers shorts to school then and all dis tight skirts once in a while though,everything has stopped now,i only wear them wen hes not around but i dare not try it wen hes around,if not the clothes will be subjected to scissors cutting |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by Moyola(f): 2:35pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
jennykadri: hehe. . . kant u talk him in2 lettin u wear such in his presence? ANd i think when one is married one wuld hv more opportunity 2 do what d£y want, all one has to do is ask 4 permission. . . .abi? Marrige this, marriage that!! ahan kilode?. . . . stop scaring me o!! |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by jennykadri: 2:40pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
Moyola: he has no problem wen i wear it athome,the only problem is wearing it out,the thing almost gave d poor guy heart attack,i had to stop |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by KarmaMod(f): 2:41pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
Buy a hijab |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by jennykadri: 2:42pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
KarmaMod: heavens forbid bad thing karma haba |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
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Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by jennykadri: 3:09pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
chaircover: and sorry i still stand by my word,anybody that says he/she has never felt like being single for one second is a liar |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by sistawoman: 3:13pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
chaircover: If you re-read some of the responses you will find positive words and responses about marriage. |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by jennykadri: 3:27pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
sistawoman: u took that right out of my mouth seriously we all know that marriage is a gift from God,but at d same time we should not make it look as if its so perfect,ive noticed that people talk more about the positive part and leave out the negative part i love my home,i love my husband,my kids r d best thing that has ever happened to me,so also sisawoman and queenisha and many others,but at d same time they r a lot fo single girls here,enough of making it seem as if marriage is rice and chicken,they should also be told about the other part of word marriage,so that when they r going into it,they will keep in mind wt they r going into, smtimes one can get overly exhausted wt things marriage is a blessing and a gift,but at d same time it has its other sides |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by Nobody: 3:41pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
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Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by sistawoman: 3:44pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
chaircover: I dont mean to call you a lier, but you cant tell me that there has not been one second where you have thought, please just give me a minunte to myself. Please let me relax just one second. Dam why cant he get that himself. Where is hubby i need a break? Dam-it I just want to hear my own thoughts w/o these kids, husband running around? come on |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by Nobody: 3:51pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
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Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by sistawoman: 4:02pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
I dont think any of us want "out" really but we think for that split second what it was like before the extra responsibility. Then we get over it and pull the kids apart, prepare dinner and kiss our husbands. I compare it to my passing thought of having another baby. I see a pregnant woman, or see a new baby and think of what it was like when mine were born and think i want i want another one then that thought passes and i am grateful that my baby is 6 and can dress himself, feed himself and bathe himself. It is all a passing thought. I dont regret for one moment marring my husband or having my children but sometimes, every once in a while, we what it just to be all about us. And that my dear is human nature esp. for those of that nurture the most. |
Re: Do You Sometimes Wished You Weren't Married? by jennykadri: 4:03pm On Oct 03, 2008 |
chaircover: the problem wt sm pple on dis forum,is seeing d negative part of every question and not bothering to read it properly and absolve it in d mind b4 replying nobody wants to go back to singlehood,i love my family,d question is wanting to give urself a break smtimes |
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