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their pay is disheartening

good one

nonsense

what does Mugabe has to say about this?

I'm almost done, nice skills though.

this is serious

I like this.

i don't understand

Cosmotelli:
Samsung should improve on their battery life.

wow

next big thing

nawa

shaybebaby:
Yeah but with less impunity.

lol but it will still be there. it's natural.

the president nko?

shaybebaby:
Yeah but if you lot start to shun the male cheats amongst you, they would be less brazen about it.

Not only will they suffer marital strife, they will be shunned by their peers. The whole cheating thing needs to be disincentified. Then they'll start having thoughts.

you've tried. but I'm still not convinced
follow up,
shunning the male cheats is never a problem because they'll still do what they do.

shaybebaby:
Because of people who propagate that myth that all men cheat. She is held mentally captive by it..that belief that he is no worse than every man out there so she might as well stay.

Hence why people like the op are speaking out. Not all men cheat so you can kick out your serial cheat and find someone who is honourable.

if that's the case, those that are "mentally captive" will have problem disabusing themselves of such negative notion

how then do they reconcile with reality?
secondly, it's not the other guys fault that guys cheat.
cheating is a mindset,some guys are hellbent on cheating while others aren't.
but the world will propagate the idea that suits them.

shaybebaby:
Yup, so does that don't need to show the ones that do that their behaviour isnt normal.

One we establish that not all of you cheat, then there is no excuse for those who cheat. It has been shown that it has less to do with gender, more to do with lack of self control.

Then we can further ask, why should anyone put up with a partner who lacks this quality? It implies other less desirable attributes as well

lack of self control�.
but why is it that even though a lady is aware the is cheating and stuffs, she still sticks with him and when then eventually break, she blabs about all guys being a serial cheat.

shaybebaby:
No it's not.

ok it's not but the point remains that not all guys cheat.

cult wahala

the struggle is real.

cheating is an innate thing. we're all different.

too bad. RIP to the deceased.

lovely. but showing them on a social media?

no be small meat o

the solution is money

eya the poor woman

if you don't have money, you'll think life is fiction.

hmm I doubt if anyone is going to listen.

I've forgotten what I looked like.

salient points.

lol. your style no bad.

wahles:
Story! People would walk in and out of ur life, u v no control over deir decisions# stay true to urself.

exactly.