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angelsing:
dude calm down, someone asked how old are u and u felt offended by the question, while not tell her you are older than her or diss her as u wish..Bringing her father into that is just rude and disrespectful. I hope u refrain ur self from saying such next time someone diss you..no offense meant just a little respectful advise

seriously, i didnt know its a "she".. i tink say na guy

Vikkyk10:
hm,dats wat guys lyk u desèrves when u play with the feelings of others.

come be ma gal... and see if i will play with ur feelings or not... i av learnt ma lesson and i guess u shld giv a chance to prove maslf

this pix makes me keep laughing and wont stop wondering if this kind of thing ever happen to any president in this country?

mods, i dont know the section to post this but u can do the needful

wizkid has to put his house in order else he will soon start selling female condom to his Caro's on the streets

When asked why he had not been using his Yoruba name since gaining attention in the movie industry, the actor explained that he had to use his English name for professional reasons.

K

So, coss of professional reasons, dis guy deny him papa land. He refused 2ansa his native name. The profession don end now, he knows he's a yoruba guy

Tinubu, dis guy is a guy 2watch. He will sell APC cos of money. Fear dis guy. He might even hijack the party from you

iceberylin:
10: Dont listen to Dolly Parton

Which of her songs u talkin abt?

My relationship just ended and in my research about moving on, I came across this article and I decided to share

Breakups. Even the most amicable of parting ways can sting. When mourning the end of a relationship, be sure to avoid the following “don’ts” of breakup etiquette
Pretend you’re fine
Let yourself mourn. Cry. Punch a pillow. Journal. Surround yourself with friends who listen. The temptation may be to pretend you’re unaffected by the breakup; don’t let pride get in the way of being real. You don’t have to sob at the office, but take some quiet moments to reflect and be honest with yourself. It’s okay to be angry, hurt or humiliated. It’s healthier to express yourself honestly than grow numb.

Try to be “just friends.”
Very rarely can a breakup lead to a solid friendship, and until you’re okay with the idea of your ex dating someone new — and vice versa — you’re not ready to be pals.

Create intentional space for a while and let yourself mourn the end of the relationship. If your ex is pushing for friendship, stand your ground if you’re uncomfortable with the idea. Right now, you’re not looking for a friend who looks exactly like the person who broke your heart.


Seek revenge
Don’t key his car, kidnap his cat, or destroy his stuff. And never, ever do something that could land you in legal trouble. (If you share the lease, deal with it like responsible adults. Don’t lock him out.)

The thrill of revenge only feeds bitterness and hatred. You may have been deeply wronged, but “getting even” won’t heal any wounds. Forgive and move on. Carry your head high and spend your energy on people who deserve it.

What helped you heal after a breakup? What advice would you give others going through the process?

Communicate. In any format
You broke up last week, but you still “have thoughts” you want to process with the ex. You pick up your phone. Something makes you laugh on your way to work. Your first instinct? Text your ex about it. Don’t.

There will be times when it’s important to communicate with an ex. Maybe you need to return his things. Maybe you have to deal with a shared lease, or pet custody. Resist the urge, however, to call or text whenever you would have when you were still dating.

Breakups create voids. Ask a close friend if you can call him/her every time you would usually reach out to your ex. Recruit a support system of friends and family to help you fill the time normally spent with a significant other. Many people feel lost after a breakup; not because they miss their ex, but because so many of their daily habits once revolved around someone else. Give yourself some time to adapt to single life.

Beg for reconciliation
Yes, dogs can get away with begging. But you can't. Maybe you don’t understand why it ended. Maybe you think it ended for the wrong reasons. Maybe you’d just rather be in a bad relationship than be in no relationship at all. Instead of clinging to lost hope, find a wise friend who can help you walk through the reasons why you’re having a hard time letting go.

Don’t beg for him/her to return. Deep down, you know that you don’t want to be in a relationship with someone you had to beg to be with you. Besides, if your ex rejects you a second time, it won’t just hurt; the rejection will sting with extra humiliation and regret.

Sleep together
Don’t do it. No woman on her deathbed says, “I really wish I slept with my ex-husband one last time.” Let the break be clean.

Facebook-stalk your ex
Social media can be dangerous when dealing with heartache. Give yourself two rules: Don’t post anything about the breakup drama online, no matter how vague, and resist the urge to stalk your ex. “Defriending” or at least hiding statuses can help you avoid the constant temptation to check in and see if your ex is living a life more miserable — or worse, more awesome — than yours.

Get a haircut — or tattoo
Make no drastic changes for a while. It’s easy to make rash decisions post-breakups. One major change in your life can inspire even more change. If you have a tattoo-design epiphany in the days following heartache, wait a few months before acting on it. Wait until you’re emotionally back on your feet.

Hair grows back, but be warned: a bad bowl cut can hurt your already-bruised confidence. Don’t kick yourself when you’re down.

Give up
She wasn’t the one. He made you feel like nothing. Don’t let a breakup destroy hope. Continue taking care of yourself. Take some time to refocus and pursue the things you’ve always loved to do. Spend time with loved ones. Love isn’t a one-shot-only experience.

Learn what you can from the relationship that just ended and move forward. Don’t give up on meeting your perfect match. Be thankful that the wrong relationship ended to free you up for the right one.

http://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/relationships/nine-things-to-never-do-after-a-breakup/

RockyTeee:
But is it not funny that you ve misbehaved within 3weeks. What ll you do in months?
Op abi you dey joke with this post?

I swear to God...I no joke oh. Happened yesterday. She came 2my house and said I should giv her my bb, I gave her cos has my password. Went tru my chats wih d babe s been warnin me about... Since yest till now, dat same babee neva even ping me... Was she sent 2 destroy ma relationship and leave me alone?... Its painful bro

MisterLongman:
She did the right thing... You were not ready for the relationship

I was ma bro but I underated her actions...I loved her but didn't knw unil she spilled it out and I bgged for hours and still standing on her words... She still came 2my house 2day but isn't like b4... We r friends and jst friends... Can I still maintain dat level, seein some1 I'm attached 2 as friend? She was even callin my "my baby" in presence of ma friends bu we both know we r just frnds. We were actin like politicians... She hugged and rested on me in dre presence... How?... I'm dieing inside

richybanky:
Dis really shows how disrespectful and immatured u ar, bt I don't blame cus all I can see here is u ar still a kid so go and deal wit ur prob... BIG FOOL

Matured man asking childiush questions.... What has age got 2do with wat I posted... Bigger FOOL

1one:
You've not still answered the question with specificity....



What DID YOU DO...


At least so we can learn from your mistake(s)

I av explained oh... Read thru... Though it was all my faul. I wish I could turn back d hands of time

pasqal09:
So the whole thing was your fault then?

Well you will just have to start all over again. And do it right this time

I doubt if she will accept me again....
She said she loves me but love isn't enough that she don't want to look @dis day in future and regret not takin d action

richybanky:
OP how old are u?

Does that matter? I senior ur elder bro sha.mayb me and ur papa na age mate slf

pasqal09:
What did you do?

She didn't play hard 2get for me so I took her for granted... She warned me severally but I deciided not to heed. She ended d relationship last week thursday but called me in d evenin and apologised only for her to come again 2day and ended it again. She warned me of 3rd parties in our relationship, but I didn't heed

I'm devastated. We only dated for 3weeks. THis girl loved me, we did so many things together.I was happy I found love but it all ended after 3weeks cos of my own mistakes. I have tried to beg but she still standing on her words. She asked we remain friends. She gave me a tight hug and left. I'm not my self.

Has any one been in such Dilenma before? What did he/she do?
How long did it last?

Can anyone tell me how short he/she has gone into a relationship.

See dis one...na make-up be him problem...smh

FYI, Make-up means: not up to standard, trying 2 make up

mascot87:
^^
You must be rough in real life with the way u arrange ur thread

R u satisfied now?... Guess u r high on garri

And someone will be wondering why Education standard is falling? Do we have to blame GEJ for this one also?

Damilare Babajide, a 4th year law student at the University of Lagos (UNILAG), yesterday took home a brand new car and other unnamed perks after emerging winner of the 2014 Miss UNILAG pageant.
Ms. Babajide’s windfall immediately ignited a debate among students and lecturers, with some criticizing the material rewards bestowed on a so-called beauty queen when the same university hands a mere computer and some cash to winners of its demanding debate contest. 

One lecturer, who asked for anonymity, said he was troubled that the car and other gifts to the university’s beauty queen far outstripped the prizes given on September 10 to the winner of the university debate competition. Zainab Olaitan, a 2nd year political science major at UNILAG who won the university’s rigorous academic debate competition, was awarded N100,000 and a laptop computer. 

UNILAG vice chancellor, Rahman Bello, handed the cash and laptop to the indomitable 18-year-old debater. 


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Ms. Babajide speaks
The lecturer also noted that last year’s winner of the debate competition, Ms. Mary Adegunloye, received a laptop and N50,000. 

“I understand that the university management was planning to give the same paltry sum of N50,000 cash prize this year to the winner of the debate, but decided to double the cash prize because of criticisms from some lecturers and student leaders,” said the source. 

In addition, he said that pressure was put on the university’s management to give N50,000 each to runners-up in this year’s debate. 

Ms. Damilare received her car gift today after emerging Miss UNILAG in a beauty contest organized by the Directorate of Student Affairs (DSA). 

SaharaReporters could not immediately ascertain the amount of cash and other perks awarded to the beauty queen, but Ms. Damilare told our correspondent in a TV interview that the sum was “encouraging.” 

Reacting to the disparity in gifts for the beauty contest and the debate competition, a few students told our correspondent that the relatively small reward for intellectual achievement was likely to affect the academic morale of students on campus.

Source: http://saharareporters.com/2014/10/05/beauty-vs-brains-most-beautiful-girl-unilag-rewarded-brand-new-car-while-most-brilliant

K

abeg, any mistake dat will make him loose d elections...its allowed... Ifdropping sambo will be d mistake... God, let itcome to pass

Solowande: WETIN U URSELF DEY TALK, NA TODAY NIGERIA DIVIDE?

If no be today, can't u change it? Nigeria will not divide cos none of una ready die for the sacrifice

glasmirow: not a northerner again not a northerner again

U get sense @all? Is he not a Nigerian? Y dividing this volatile country along the north-south line?
Like if u know dis guy is drunk and childish

The last time, it was one of their aspirant that was caught in armed robbery.If na APC guys do dis one now... We no go hear word... PDP, gathering of touts and hoodlums since 1999

Chai... Oya... Post her number for newspaper say u want bf...put any gal pix dre. And see what happens... Na who do last dey pain.
Abeg, come pay ur tithe and sow ur seed for my prophecy

Baba God, this is the national cake... The national cake of my country Nigeria. The cake has been in existence since 1914 & yet non of my fore-fathers tasted from it. Our past leaders ate soooo much from this cake & still looks as if its untouched which shows that You only blessed us with this cake cos if it was from men, it would av been history by now. Even in this pix, u can see that only a few are cutting the cake and people like sambo were even strecthing to hold the knife and the ones that couldnt hold or stretch hands were still smiling. El-rufai, Tinubu, IBB, OBJ, Danjuma, Abacha, stella ODuah, Isah Yuguda, Shekarau, Okadigbo, Ibori, Igbinedion and co ate from this cake and as much as they ate, they only ate a negligible amount not even up to 0.00001% of the full cake. Lord, guide my footstep to where ever this cake is so i can take and eat my share. Redirect my footstep if i am on the wrong track. Use me to rewrite the history of ny generation using this cake. Let someone recommend me like Ziba recommended Mephibosheth to King David and as Buhari recommended Dora Akinyuli to OBJ. God, even the icing, i dont want. Whatsoever i need to achieve or get to be recommended, help me achieve it. Devinely favour me, send me helper and recommender...

Yours Sincerely

Engr Jeremiah G Emmanuel

Ediss: Your Daddy will use his boys to finish me for takin his loving son

Forget... U no fit die for me? Ur loving foster son

Ediss: Na so before o but your dad go come out from were him dey come kill me say I thief him son

For where? U go run d complete papers na.

Ediss: Hahahahahahahahaha you this guy

Na so na... Abi?

Ediss: Tell what u did that make ur papa to run leave you.

if i talk, u go adopt me?

See money... Keshi, abeg come adopt me na. My papa run lemme since I was a child... Can I apply?

Thank God d Tsunami dat swept tru nairaland didn't take me away oh...na testimony for church on sunday...
All those that hacked Nairaland and made those days boring for us, may God hack ur lives... Amen

Back 2 topic, make dem go find una gals for hostel oh. Mayb na dem turn snake so, who knows

I saw this on knowledge bank facebook page and I thought it nice to also post it here so every one can read and learn. as 2013 is coming to an end, we all need new knowledge and inspiration to take to the new year.

21 Suggestions for Success~
1) Marry the right person. This one decision
will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
2) Work at something you enjoy and that’s worthy of your time and talent.
3) Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
4) Become the most positive and
enthusiastic person you know.
5) Be forgiving of yourself and others.
6) Be generous.
7) Have a grateful heart. Persistence, persistence, persistence.
9) Discipline yourself to save money on
even the most modest salary.
10) Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
11) Commit yourself to constant
improvement.
12) Commit yourself to quality.
13) Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationships with people you love and
respect.
14) Be loyal.
15) Be honest.
16) Be a self-starter.
17)Be decisive even if it means you’ll
sometimes be wrong.
18) Stop blaming others. Take
responsibility for every area of your life.
19) Be bold and courageous. When you
look back on your life, you’ll regret the
things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.
20) Take good care of those you love.
21) Don’t do anything that wouldn’t make your Mom proud.