Please don't give up, don't end it. There's no miracle God can't do.

Meanwhile, Happy birthday to me

I usually tell people that the best way to abstain is to be in a relationship with someone that has purity as their watchword too. And then you put should agree on it.

You can't be celibate or have plans of becoming deflowered on your wedding night and then go into a relationship with someone who doesn't believe in NO sex till marriage.

May God help us to keep our bodies and make them a living sacrifice

Tell him his presence in your wedding alone is enough. Definitely he won't come empty handed, and in your wedding, he will definitely transfer some cool cash to your account. He won't see others gifting and spraying you money without wanting to do something as your boss.
Another way is for you to put him as one of the Fathers of the day, put him on high table and tell him before hand. Better money or gift must drop

Happy International Women Day to myself and every woman out there both married and unmarried

The first time he broke his virginity, how did he know if he was satisfied or not?

You insult a lady's parents online(Your former in-laws for that matter) and you expect them to still respect you?
Interesting

The truth is some people don't know how to appreciate. When she's used to people gifting her 50k and above, your N20k will look like a joke to her and then imagine if she's the ungrateful type.

Give someone who hardly sees N2-5k gift that 20k and see how she thanks you and even prays for you.

There's no smoke without fire
One doesn't just wake up one morning and make such a statement to the hearing of the public only to come back few days later to withdraw his words

If you aren't a lavish spender, you can manage it
Again, if you aren't training someone in school or not really carrying all your family's burden on your head, you can survive with it

Just buy foodstuff in bulk, avoid eating outside, cook at home

You're lucky they provided an accomodation for you.

Even in this PH, there are some earning below 30k and surviving with it though it's tough, e.g Teachers

People just don't have conscience again. You'll stay and defraud your fellow human, what if that was gotten from his hard labour and perhaps years of denying himself good things of life

I think what you need is a proper guide on how to spend your money. Let's say a budget every month and ensuring you track expenses
That way, you get to see what exactly you're spending your money on. This will enable you save something from the 200k

And I'm here praying to earn half of that. Chim mo

I stopped watching it after Emu passed away and Spiff left the show

Congratulations to you