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Mofolam:
It’s no news and it’s very unfortunate that many women take this route. You are right about the japa Reality. Only tourist root to take is USA, for other countries you will suffer on a tourist visa. If she succeeds you can kiss UK goodbye for life! (Except u later get a powerful passport) but like I said ; allow her to go as long as she doesn’t take ur child. As a father you can only try ur best to provide a good life for ur offspring. But Godforbid anything should happen to u tomorrow, he may benefit from the madness of today. That child is more important than ego. Pls. God will grant you Wisdom on how to handle it

Thanks brotherly, appreciate all this input alot.

Ala'tise lo'mo ati'se ara re. 🙏

agathacally:
Thank you for sounding reasonable

We are supposed to believe a woman is doing all this to you without any cause

I suggest he calls his family elders and they should settle their issue .

I find it hard to believe someone is forging document and planning to kidnap a child for no cause .

Thanks for your input but truth be told I am a clean man. I have never had girlfriend since I got married and I have provided financially in my capability for the family. She is just tired of the country and want to leave. She has never travel out of Africa before... she just want to leave.

Cashmadam:
Mr, Please make peace with your wife.

I don't meddle in issues between a man and a woman.

I've been in the marriage institution for 28 years with 3 grown up children. I know enough about marriages and I believe there is more to this. We are only reading your own side of the story. We have not heard your wife's side of the story so we cannot JUDGE.

She is your wife. Tell her everything you know. At most, seize her passport. I won't advise you to report her. It will get really messy and might even affect you too in future.

I pray God grants you the wisdom to deal with this appropriately.

Thank you for your inputs. Appreciate!

Like the saying goes, there are 3 sides to a story. My truth, her truth and the Truth. I am ready to be an open book. There is no serious reason doing this behind me. The main reason is that, she is tired of Nigeria and she has people in the UK who influence her to take this route.

I am not against her travelling and staying in the UK. "When a woman is feed up there is nothing you can do about it" but why tarnish my image and get me in trouble, also why want to go with a child without his father's consent just because you don't want leave your child behind.

To stay in the UK is not easy at the moment. I have been there twice. I stayed in Illford back then and I know how expensive things are.

I will chill out and wait for the outcome in few weeks, if the outcome is positive. I will let her go and fight for my Son. Thanks you

Mofolam:
Click here https://www.ukvi-complaints.homeoffice.gov.uk/reason Choose ‘’ something else” Let them know ur son doesn’t have your consent to travel. Include his passport details in the message.

But pls I beg you in the name of anything you find holy... don’t Write anything to ruin that woman’s chances of going by herself for what so ever reason. You can part ways without being an instrument to destroy her life. Even if she is unreasonable, be a voice of reason please. Let her go wherever she wants to go as long as she isn’t taking your child. Please, u never can tell your son may benefit from it in the future. Nobody knows tomorrow and tomorrow isn’t certain for anyone. Life is too short. Please. Please ooo.
Also, inform her of what you have done so she doesn’t try to falsify document or letter to claim she has your consent. That would definitely give her a ban.

Thank you! Your message sound so very matured and reasonable. There is so much to this, I really wished I can report her and get her a 10years ban but your message just calmed me down completely. It's a long story, really wished I could share with you. This is the second time in 15months she has been applying for UK visa.

I just found out the 2 applications just 4days ago. She is desperate to leave the country, she has a contact in the UK who advice her to come through the tourist visa and then apply for asylum claiming , that her husband has been abusing their son and her. She has fake police report and court documentation backing this up. I swear to almighty God, I have never in my life physically or psychologically abuse either her nor my child.

I have been to UK myself twice(2x) 2010 before I got married to her in 2012 and 2012 just few month after marriage. All these was known by her. She once told me, she is tired of leaving in Nigeria and want to relocates but I told her I am not capable of doing that at the moment because of financial constraints. If I have to travel and leave in any European countries including the UK, I want it to be legal, either by Schooling or work visa but US I can japa on tourist visa.

We have tried the US tourist visa in 2020, paid for visa fee but never got interview date, so I abandoned the process this was during covid 19 issues. Since then, she has been desperate of leaving the country without me knowing. If she got lucky this time around and she is issue Visa with my son and go ahead to tarnish my image as a husband/Child molester with forge documentation won't it affect me personally while renewing for the UK visa in the nearest future.

She is not aware I know all this yet and I don't want her to know yet that am aware, I want the outcome of the Visa application but I am scared they might be granted and it will be too late for me to take and meaniful action. We sleep in the same house eat from the same pots and she doing this just because of desperation of japa as advice by her friends and family in the UK.

So, will I be wicked if I go ahead and get her 5 to 10 years ban? Should I wait and see the outcome first and then fight for my son ot to be taken out of the country if the outcome is positive. The agent that filled the form forged and signed a letter of consent which is not from me. She photocopy my passport data page and included in the application without me knowing.

So, what should I do? I have all the documentation to backed this up. Note: I am not a child and wife beater. I have always pray to God, the day I will beat my wife that should be the date I die. Note: I have 45 years old and she is 35years and our son is 10year old.

Oggg:
You can send UKVI a paid mail or send a mail to complaints@homeoffice.gov.uk
Why is your moniker saying ‘f’ though as in female?

I am a male. I use this when I need to hide my identity. My main account here carries my full name and identity. Thanks for the info. Appreciate

Mofolam:
Do you have his Int passport details?

Yes I do. Thanks

Hello All,

I need urgent advice on who to contact at the UK visa issurance in Lagos.

My wife as submitted a visa application for herself and my son without my consent. I got to know she want to leave for the UK with my son to claim asylum. She applied for the same visiting visa last year November but was denied. She has applied again paying agent big money to secure visiting visa for her and my son.

I am afraid she might be granted this time around and leave the country with my son without my consent.

Please, who do I contact to stop their visa application. Please advice adequately. Thanks

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Yungwizzzy:
Go an buy a camera

BB phones used to have best cam quality

Thanks, but i need a phone with good camera because i want to also use it online advertisement on social media.

Camera will give me more stress transfering of file from camera to anothee phone.

Hello All,

I am Beauty Therapist and Make over act.

Pls i need a phone with the best (MP)camera to aid my business. I dont really care about the price or maker name as long as the camera is very very sharp and i can adjust and edit pictures on it.

Pls your suggestion and opinion will be highly appreciated.

NB: Pls, when suggesting the type of phone try and include the prices too.

Thanks all

Hmmmm!
Very very good write up and informative too. Thumbs up to the writer(s)

Yeye people!
Just appreciate and move on. How much was he expecting then?

Ephemmm:
It is simple dude. More countries have discovered oil: world in general have more producers: buyers are few: this brings about fall in the oil prices in the world market.

In conclusion, when supply is greater than demand, the price falls.

You spilt rubbish and I guess you are still in high school learning economics. Mention 1 country that just join OPEC in the last 5yrs. We still have the same set of countries producing crude oil. The main problem with fall in world crude oil price is war, cut down of productions by OPEC and not your theory of demand and supply. Learner

Ephemmm:
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Still busy: summary in one sentence please.

What the guy said the right thing! What you tot in school dont apply to real economy. So go and learn more...

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Whoever tells you money is not good is an
enemy of progress. According to Wonderful
Engineering, the Embraer Lineage which costs
10.5 billion naira (53 million dollars) is one of
the best luxury jets money can buy, with 800
sq ft of living space in which to chill out on
those long haul flights for the businessman with
more money than sense.

Source: toluunusual..com.ng/2015/11/check-out-luxurious-interior-of-this.html?utm_content=kuku.io&utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_campaign=kuku.io&m=1

Mr Okeoseye Odiah, who lost his four children
in the mudslide disaster in Magodo area of
Lagos recently was given N5million by the
Lagos state government.

In the early hours of 4:50am on Saturday, 7th
of November, 2015,the Policeman lost his four
children after mud detached from a hill at
Isheri, Magodo area of Ojodu Berger landed on
the building located in Orisha, Magodo Phase1

The cheque was presented on behalf of the
Lagos state governor by the Commissioner for
Special Duties and Inter-Governmental
Relations, Mr Seye Oladejo.

He said government would do everything
possible to look after the family, noting that the
gesture would assist the family in securing
accommodation.

Source: toluunusual..com.ng/2015/11/lagos-gives-n5m-to-father-who-lost-4.html?utm_content=kuku.io&utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_campaign=kuku.io&m=1

kboycrew:
very myopic thinking

What is myopic about my view? Mr ode! Abi you just heard the word myopic for the first time and you decided to use it. Oponu.

All Man for themselve! Afterall, there is element of truth that PDP members collected 'Gbemu' from Baba Dasuki.

Nice write-up.

Why N500 notes, it could be N1000naira note or 5dollar bill.

What is there in it Is it not wedding gown thar you wear just once in life. People rent wedding gowns for their weddings, not because they dont have the money to buy one, they thought it is something you weae once in your life unless you want to keep for you child(rend) to weae in the future.

Nothing special.

My Baby is finer! Just because she is a celebrity thats why dem they use her pikin.

Infact i don vex!

Only the rich uses these cars then. Just like today's Bentley, Ferrari and the rest, they will all look like this 20-30 years to come.

In the 60's to 90's Pegeout was the reigning car brand names just like Toyota, Honda and the rest are of today. Come year 2060 it may be another name in vogue.

Come year 2060, it me be 'Emek' cut from Emeka just like 'Suzuki' 'Honda' cut from the real names of the makers.

#NothingLastForever.

"When my boss traveled to London to complain
to former Governor Ibori, our overall leader in
the State. The Speaker was also in the UK and
Mr. Ibori summoned him. The former Governor
then reconciled the two of them right there in
London, before my boss [MD Makinde]
returned back to Nigeria.


Imagine a thief/prisoner 'brokered a peace' between two future thieves.

Hope Janes Ibori knows very well that, there is a new Sherrief in town that can add more to his prison term with just a phone call.

Our so called 'leaders' in this country are useless and corrupt.

#Nonsense.

@lalasticala can you please look into this topic and place a ban on this two usernames creating nuisance on this social forum.

@jobabs @mosakuaw

MosakuAW:
@jesusfallsatan

Thanks dear! Appreciate.

Some people just need to be put in their place.

Bros! Pls let this be. I have read your words or war from the begining to the end and i can say you are partially to be blamed for all these. According to you, he quoted you wrongly which upset you and you responded by calling his parents names. That was harh, you could have call him to order and let the sleeping dogs lies. Just let your guard down and stopped all these words or war. You guys are matured.

JoBabs:
To the highest degree my earnest gratitude goes to the Christ like character in you, I'm optimistic you've at a point while reading through the war of words ensuing between I and that nuisance that I offered him a chance of negotiation but he rather chose to spare his last breathe to make sure he doesn't give in to what he doesn't seem hopeful of winning.

As u av stated I wish he could come to an agreement with my opinion so we could make the best of friends...

Thanks

Do you know what? Let it be....

I checked from the beginning of you guy words of war. What i gathered was that you were the first to quote him first wrongly and he also reponded badly. To me, both of you are @fault. You just let it be and leave him. I will also send him same message. You both are wrong but you started it first. Am not blaming you but i just want you to let your gaurd down. Thank you.

@JoBabs

@mosakuaw

I came to make a conment on this topic and i saw the long abusive languages you guys say to each other just because of a topic that wont put money in your pocket.

Pls i will encourage you guys to stop this because i beleive you guys are matured enough to let go of this back and front abusive words which you have both dragged your lovely family into.