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Former personal assistant to Chief M.K.O. Abiola, Lisa Olu Akerele, has described the current face off between former Presidents Olusegun Obasanjo and Ibrahim Babangida as “a well deserved poetic

justice.”Akerele said in a press statement in Abuja on Friday that rather than throwing brick bats at each other, “the two former leaders deserved to be taken to a tribunal caged as was the case with Hussein

Mubarak in Egypt and subjected to public trial for crimes against Nigeria.”

He added that both Obasanjo and Babangida inflicted half-baked leadership on the country which has kept Nigeria in the backwoods of development despite the country’s enormous wealth.


He recalled that the two generals were united in greed and personal aggrandizement to scuttle the peoples’ aspirations when they connived to annul the popular June 12, 1993 general election in which Chief Abiola had won.

Noting that while Babangida annulled the election, Obasanjo had given credence to the annulment with his pronouncement that the late Abiola was not the messiah Nigerians were expecting.

He pointed out that both leaders were “living in opulence in the face of abject poverty of their people because they stole the nation’s wealth without shame.”

Citing instances of countries like Singapore and Malaysia which started almost at the same pace with Nigeria in terms of economic and political growth, Akerele said these countries have been propelled several leaps ahead by their leaders who had the interest of their nations in mind.

On the contrary, he noted that “while Obasanjo was hampered by greed and acquisitive tendencies which resulted in his ceding the nation’s paternity to himself and friends, Babangida was overwhelmed by infantile mind laced with corruptive mien based on using public funds to sort out his acolytes.”

He said that because of greed, kleptomania and corruption of the two personages, Nigeria had failed to achieve a reasonable level of development despite its enormous resources.

He is impressed that nemesis had caught up with the duo, the result of which is the current washing of their dirty linens in public


http://akinbami..com/2011/08/ibb-obj-should-be-tried-like-mubarak.html

Figures suggest women are much more likely than men to visit a doctor. Even when they do, men can find it hard to talk about what's really ailing them. So what strange worries are on their mind?

"And in my experience, men can think of some weird and wonderful questions. It still seems that they're a bit reluctant to visit the doctor for advice, so Men's Hour brings the doctor to them.

"The majority of my working life has been spent in the emergency department so I've been faced with dilemmas and questions covering almost any topic.

"Whether it's been busting an urban myth or challenging what some 'bloke down the pub' said, no question is too silly or trivial.

"Not every query has to be about sex or penis function, but that does still seem to make up the bulk of them as you'll see with the following selection."

http://akinbami..com/2011/08/questions-men-dare-not-ask-doctor.html

It begs the question, where the money is sourced from?

Ironically, Mrs. Dora Akunyili’s public image is clean. No corruption allegations, crisis or queries has been associated to her. Her stint at the Petroleum Trust Fund [PTF] under direction of General Buhari to her

tenure as the Director General at the NAFDAC during the Obasanjo regime and then to the desk of Information and Communication Minister under the Yar’Adua/Jonathan regime, did not result in allegations of

siphoning monies kept in her care. Rather, she has been applauded for raising the standards.

see more on

http://akinbami..com/2011/08/dora-akunyili-kept-us-in-dark-is-brutus.html

How maxumum wage can do wonder!

“Many are the best dressed, driving the nicest of cars, and living in houses that look like they’re straight from MTV Cribs. And even for leaders with more modest incomes, preaching every Sunday, they appear

smart, confident and even fearless. Their holiness is apparent; their anointing is strong, the words they speak prophetic. They stand over hundreds, thousands, and — thanks to online worship — maybe millions of

people, continually holding attention and commanding respect. And if you miss that it’s the Spirit of God holding that man or that woman up, you’d think he or she holds power that no ordinary person does."


http://akinbami..com/2011/08/men-of-god-or-god-of-men.html

Any idiot  can drive a car, foolish people have become deceived that a car is a mark of achievement, The reason a lot of girls are not married is because they are foolishly waiting for the pumps and pageantries of

papal Rome, they want a rich guy but they are poor, they want a praying guy, but they don’t, they want a decent guy but they walk around with open chest , The truth that most ladies driving big cars will never tell

you is how they cheapened themselves to buy the car, some guys are wise some are otherwise, It is not about their cars, it is about their wasted past before they met the man.

CAIRO – Egypt said Saturday it would recall its ambassador from Israel to protest the deaths of at least three Egyptian troops killed in a shootout between Israeli soldiers and Palestinian militants who had launched a deadly attack on Israel from Egyptian soil.

http://akinbami..com/2011/08/pharaohs-anger-over-death-of-3-egyptian.html

A mild drama ensued at the Presidential Villa at Aso Rock following conference call between the incumbent President Jonathan and two former Heads of State. Sources privy to the conversation reported that the President emerged from the conference call “perplexed” following major discoveries
related to conspiracies at the highest echelons of power in the nation. -

Full script :

Aso Rock Operator: President Obasanjo and President Babangida please hold for the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria His Excellency Dr. Goodluck Ebele Jonathan.

Obasanjo: Besides the UN, the White House and Downing Street, this is the only other place on earth where they put me on hold.

Babangida: (laughing) You still call the White House?

Obasanjo: I try to keep in touch with Obama now.

Babangida: He will be lucky to keep his job next year.

Jonathan: Good evening Your Excellencies.

Obasanjo and Babangida simultaneously: Mr. President

Jonathan: General Babangida please accept my condolences and that of the nation again over the death of Rear Admiral Aikhomu. He served this nation gallantly, and we all appreciate his service, and we pray for eternal rest for his soul.

Babangida: Thank you Mr. President. It is the will of Allah.

Obasanjo: It is God’s will. Aikhomu was a great man. May his soul rest in peace.

Silence

Obasanjo: So why did you call us Mr. President?

Jonathan: I have read reports about your recent exchanges in the media, and to be honest, I am concerned that it is not in the best interest of the nation to have to two of her elite citizens engaging in such a war of words.

Obasanjo: Who is engaging in a war of words? So you don’t even know what is going on Mr. President?

Jonathan: I really don’t. I think the language has been unfortunate.

Babangida: (laughing) Mr. President we are just having fun.

Jonathan: Having fun? How if I may ask?

Obasanjo: See this boy oh? Have you not noticed that since your election we have become irrelevant?

Jonathan: Irrelevant?

Babangida: Yes. Irrelevant. Nobody remembers that we exist. Even Buhari gets occasional coverage in the media because of the tribunal.

Obasanjo: So we just decided to take advantage of IBB’s birthday to remind Nigerians that we are still here.

Jonathan: I see. But don’t you think it is extreme to call each other fools?

Obasanjo and Babangida burst out laughing

Obasanjo: Who is calling who a fool. IBB please educate him.

Babangida: We have been speaking in codes Mr. President. Just as we speak in codes to Nigerians.

Jonathan: Speak in codes to Nigerians?

Obasanjo: Yes now. What do you think FELLOW Nigerians means?

Babangida bursts out laughing.

Jonathan: What else could it mean?

Obasanjo joins Babangida in laughter

Babandiga: Fools Encouraging Legendary Levels Of Waste.

Jonathan: What?

Obasanjo: Government has been wasting their money now and they seem to encourage it since they have decided not to do anything about it.

Jonathan: I am speechless.

Babangida: OBJ, so he has been saying FELLOW Nigerians without knowing the meaning.

Obasanjo: He is a civilian now. How will he know?

Jonathan: So I assume FOOL is also a code?

Obasanjo: It was our plan. We have been speaking in codes. IBB started it by calling me a FAILURE.

Babangida: FAILURE was our first code word. OBJ knows the meaning.

Obasanjo: FAILURE simply means; “For Agreed Intent Lieutenant Urges Rift Engagement.” That was when I called him a FOOL. IBB knows the meaning.

Babangida: FOOL simply means; “Fire On Old Lieutenant.” Then I called him a BIGGER FOOL.

Obasanjo: BIGGER FOOL simply means; “Better Imagine Greater Gripes Entering Rift Fire On Old Lieutenant.” I am still deciding whether to allow greater gripes to enter the “rift.”

Jonathan: This is interesting. I kind of like it. And I can see Nigerians have been enjoying it. I was only concerned about the language, but now I get it. I am interested in joining this game.

Obasanjo: You want to join in fooling Nigerians?

Jonathan: The nation needs something to distract them from single tenure and boko haram, and I think you guys are doing that efficiently.

Obasanjo: I always knew you had it in you.

Babangida: I told you he will learn fast.

Jonathan: Okay gentlemen, I will get General Buhari to consult for me, so that I can interpret your codes.

Babangida: He knows the code language very well.

Obasanjo: Too well to be part of PDP. He will unravel all our antics.

Jonathan: I see. Anyway, have a good night Your Excellencies.

Babangida: Good night Mr. President.

Obasanjo: Good night Mr. President.


Call ended.

The drama started when President Jonathan asked his protocol officer to put on his schedule “code session with General Buhari in Daura.” Every body was confused what it was all about, and they were scrambling to figure it out, when one of the aides stumbled on the transcript and leaked it.

http://akinbami..com/2011/08/transcript-of-jonathans-phone-call-to.html

The mail that stopped the wedding,
http://akinbami..com/2011/08/if-you-are-mercy-johnson-will-continue.html

This is Whaooooooooooooo,

http://akinbami..com/2011/08/titilayo-oyinbo-cara-harshman-in-studio.html

http://saharareporters.com/video/titilayo-oyinbo-cara-harshman-studio-saharatv

Maybe it is time to arrest the two” mis”-rulers  who looted us blind, destroyed all government institution, too big to be questioned for their evils, unremorseful , unaccountable and now irresponsible at old age, I wonder what Nigerian police is doing, these men seem to be bragging about the heinous crime that we all knew they committed to the state called Nigeria, unfortunately, the police force was destroyed by them,

ordinarily they should be running their mouths behind the counter now that we have evidence
Their recent unrestraint outbursts are great evidence to nail them

One thing will lead to the other and more truth about their hidden tenure will be exposed
Nigerian should call for the arrest of both criminals

http://akinbami..com/2011/08/those-whom-gods-wish-to-destroy-they.html

Don't come to Madrid, its a waste of money, we have so many issues to deal with for now, we don't give a damn about your visit, that is the collective voice in the protest to prevent Pope Benedict in Madrid


http://akinbami..com/2011/08/pope-benedict-mass-disregard-for-popes.html

http://akinbami..com/2011/08/obasanjo-replies-ibb-fool-at-70.html

A massive sum of over N1 Billion has been set aside by some immediate past Governors , under investigation by the Economic and Financial Crime Commission ( EFCC), to force the exit of the EFCC boss, Farida Waziri.


But the major stumbling blocks to this plot, it was gathered, are Ex President , Olusegun Obasanjo, and Chief Justice of the Federation, Aloysious Katsina- .Alu. Pointblanknews.com sources hinted that Obasanjo who does not really like Adoke, is insisting Waziri's problem with Adoke is similar to what Ribadu suffered when Aondoakaa was Justice minister.


…Some Jonathan's Allies, Adoke, Still pushing for her sack
…Don't Sack Her, Adoke has ulterior motive, Obasanjo tells Jonathan

http://akinbami..com/2011/08/ex-governors-set-aside-n1-billion-for.html

For many years, Lateef Shofolahan has been presented in discussions of the unsolved 1999 murder of Kudirat Abiola, who was the wife of the winner of the June 12 1993 presidential election, as having been her employee.
Today, he indignantly told the court, “I never worked for her in any capacity.”

The defence had said that Shofolahan, in a statement made to the Special Investigation Panel (SIP) in 1999, been identified as Mrs. Kudirat Abiola’s Protocol Officer who ran errands for her, travelled with her and dealt with her visitors. “How can a person who never worked as a protocol officer become her servant?” the defendant challenged. “Why hasn’t any of her friends or associates come before this court and say that I delivered a message to them from Alhaja Kudi?”

Going further, Shofolahan, who is charged along with Hamza Al-Mustapha, the former Chief Security Officer (CSO) to General Abacha, called on the court to invite members of the Abiola family to come forward to identify him. He stated that on August 8, 1999, following his arrest by the Special Investigation Panel (SIP) in Abuja, he had also asked Mrs Ojomo to call in a family member of the Abiola’s to come and confirm if he was ever worked for their family.

http://akinbami..com/2011/08/murder-of-kudirat-abiola-shofolahan.html

Can any one tell the Hospital where he died

http://akinbami..com/2011/08/retired-admiral-aikhomu-is-dead.html

the pictures are disturbing, Viewers discretion is advised.

http://akinbami..com/

An expatriate was shot dead this afternoon on ACME Road, Ogba Industrial Estate, Lagos, Southwest Nigeria. The expertrate who was shot de,



http://akinbami..com/2011/08/robber-kills-chinese-expatriate-in.html

The governor of Delta state, Emmanuel Uduaghan last week appointed to his cabinet, Mofe Pirah, whom it is also prosecuting for murder.

According to court documents available to SaharaReporters, Mr. Pirah and 10 accused persons have recently received summonses from the Court of Appeal in Benin City for the September 1998 murder of Mr Samuel .A.K Metseagharun in Warri.

In the incident, Mr. Metseagharun, a former chairman and sole administrator of Delta State Board of Inland Revenue and Chairman of the Ugborodo (Escravos) Community Trust Governing Council, was allegedly dragged out of his Mercedes Benz car and beaten to death by a crowd which included Mr. Pirah.

The Delta State Government objected to the verdict of the High Court which dismissed the murder charges against Mr. Pirah and his co-accused, and filed a notice of appeal through its lawyers led by Ighodalo Imadegbelo (SAN).

Saharareporters sources claim that before Mr. Pirah was made commissioner of "Oil and Gas," he had bragged on behalf of himself and the other accused persons that there was no threat from the Court of Appeal, claiming that they have reserved N300 million for the judges involved in the case. He also told family members that they gave the same amount to Hon. Justice S.A. Ehiwario, who decided the case at the high court in 2007.



http://akinbami..com/2011/08/delta-state-governor-uduaghan-appoints.html

News just broke that Nollywood star actor/comedian sam loco efe is dead. He died on location in his hotel room earlier today in Owerri, Imo state.

Thank you all, I had to come back to the see the thread, it is 2:40am, I am really touched by the sincerity expressed by many on the topic, It tells me something, some are wise and some are otherwise, the only one that can change is the man in the mirror, I am so sorry if I hurt any with this thread,

it is a burden and I am so sure some of us feel part of it. Truth is, Rain has fallen on your houses, Yes, rain fell on mine also.  If you are not guilty as a man, maybe I am, if I am not, maybe your sister will be a victim of the mess, your friend, your wives, name them

We can only spread Positive Change
I cannot thank you all enough, You all have good things on the thread. I am proud of those who are willing to pass it on. we can together make positive impact in our environment.


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I have been thinking and asking of late, Is it ever possible to meet a woman as a virgin before the oath of the alter? Our society is degenerating fast, the rate at which lustful desire has weaken the credibility of what most people call marriages is so alarming.
Growing up, some of the stories that caught my interest were one told of a woman who married as a Virgin, I was so fascinated that I admired the woman and her decision to remain chaste before her wedding. Such women are treated with so much respect by the husband that eventually married her.
She can raise her head and even boast before her husband and tell younger people to follow her footsteps, only a foolish man dares to disrespect such women; that for me is the greatest honor a woman can have in marriage apart from knowing also how to take charge of her marriage and make it work with wisdom.

For a woman to be married as a virgin is better than buying a new car, never driven, with any faults.
Those days, men seat with friends to discuss their wives and their chastity and boast of seeing the first blood of the marriage, I even heard that there is cultures in the (then) Nigeria where the families of the woman will spread a white clothe to confirm their daughter’s virginity and wait with trepidation to hear good news from the man after the first sex.

Unfortunately those are over, Let me blame (us) the men first for our uncontrollable lust, foolishness has become so rampant in our society, some of us cannot take away our eyes from the backside of a woman where they discharge number two, we look at the breast, we look at the hips and sometimes driving we forget that the traffic light has turned green and we keep looking. There are even men who though married will still hunt for young girls who are young enough to be their daughters and will go into unprintable foolishness because the control of such men is in their zip and not on their brains.
There are fathers who would kill a young man for visiting his daughter, yet he will go to places where his kids will not see him to mess up with ladies as young as his own daughter.

I have been too worried for ladies who after messing up their youthful age will become desperate to marry at 30 and also, concerned for innocent men who end up in the hands of professional prostitutes who just changed their address, so many have damaged their wombs with several abortions, some have lived so carelessly in the Universities or even out there and they are now willing to settle in the arms of a ready to marry careless man.

This is however, not to say that some ladies are not married (Not Because) they messed up but because they are not at the right Location to meet their spouse, I imagine a woman who is supposed to be in Nigeria to met her husband, sitting in UK or the one who is meant to be in Asaba, to meet the right man and she is in Abuja waiting to hook up a senator until her time is past marriage.

Now for women, ahhh! how cheap they have suddenly become that you can have two girls for five naira. (two for five naira) imagine the drive in women these days is no longer about reputation, it is Food, Money and Sex, I have never found a woman who is discipline with food, they eat like chickens and are ready for any other thing you throw at them after the food.

The Mr. Biggs of this world, the Tantalizers of these worlds, the Chicken republic of this world and all such names are business set as answer to tickle a woman into immoral “yesmanship” the moment you satisfy her by flaunting some vanities, she is willing to go all the way. They are easily lured with all these even if you rented a car for this exercise,
When a woman ask what do you do for a living, she is only trying to find out psychologically if she will be secured, and that is after you have flaunted the pomp and pageantry of papal Rome in the name of avarice, she does not care what happens after the marriage, she is too eager to get in for the excitement of temporal gain. That is why so many are in deep shit after wedding

So we have “Meat Pie girls, Suya girls, Chicken and Chips girls name it, they fall for anything in the name of temporal comfort,

A friend once told me that this fear of getting a wrong girl made him to pretend to be poor although he worked as a boss in a Telecoms company and is comfortable, he rented an apartment in a project and search for a wife until he luckily met a True Christian, he did not take her to be one, so they continued for years in the project, my friend had completed his house and finished it but he kept that away from the woman, after the marriage, the lady hoping to go to his house in the project, they just drove straight in a ready car, thought to be borrowed into his new apartment, the Lady was shocked that she wept like a baby on discovering the wealth kept away from her. That is a classic example but it does not happen anymore.

Women have made themselves so cheap that you can see it in what they wear; they thought unclothedness is impressive, only foolish men will admire your breast in public, I am not against being Trendy and modern but this modern nudity that expose the Breast of a woman and her pants from the backside is disgusting, the annoying thing is the fact that this desperation is a foolish way of catching a man

Truth is only foolish men are caught by your nudity; Ladies do not know that, they cannot marry a real man by flaunting their nude parts to impress him.
Sometimes, I ask if ladies who visit club houses and red light districts wants to marry too. It is a great wickedness to mess up oneself with men who are not willing to marry you and afterwards deceiving a man who do not know you wired lifestyle.
Some barrenness are caused by this wickedness’


It is so shocking that even Married women expose their unclothedness, some wear skirts that is afraid of touching their knees, they pass it on to their children and now the generation of children has learned it the wrong way and they have gone the extra mile, You cannot walk freely on Yaba or Oshodi or Ojota and not see disgusting pictures of nudity. Some these ladies have been dis-flowered many times that you do not need to worry about seeing any blood when you marry them, some will even lie, that they lost their virginity when they played football with some guys, they say things like “I just saw that I was dripping blood and I had to leave the playing ground”



Today, it was funny when I heard how ladies can pretend to be tight by using “alum” solution to clean their private body to deceive undiscerning men
I pity the men who never met their wives as a virgin, The thing she did before you met her, she can do it again, and for men who are beating their chest that they met their wives as virgin, your case is worse if you do not satisfy her sexually, she will seek solution outside your home.
Have you heard of sex in the office?
Have you heard of sex before job?
You must have heard of several infidelity, the news are many, how do you feel if you marry a woman who was promiscuous before you met her, and after marriage her rudeness is suggestive of her insatiable appetite

What about the woman who has learned to be nude, showing all part of her private bodies and yet she is not married? How do you expect to tame her when you eventually marry her?
Please tell me, if the guys who dis-flowered your wife were present on the day of your marriage and they are laughing you to scorn for not knowing how bad your wife has lived?
How will you feel, if she still keeps contacts with them? Don’t forget, you did not meet her a Virgin.
Does it concern a woman that she married after she has been dis-flowered by another man, I am not talking about a rape case that one is an exception, because it was a force by a fool
I hear some ladies say, , “ I am a Virgin” Let me tell you who is not a virgin ,If a man has fumbled with your breast at any time, you are not a virgin, If a man has caressed you to the point of discharge (you know what I meant) it is even better if you go all the way, the far you have gone has dis-virgin you, and let me say that is my own definition,
Some ladies say I don’t want to lose my virginity; I did not go all the way, the Far you went, has turned you into a sex cannibal,

Are there virgin who are still proud about their virginity?
Are there decent ladies who are not given to the foolish trend of nudity?
Are there men who still desire to meet a descent girl who is not greedy, avaricious and vain as we see all around?
Just before you go, don’t be offended at ever thing I said, I am just expressing the Lamentation of some men who are unwilling to marry because of the cheap worth of women these days, their greed, the promiscuity, their plastic lifestyle, their insatiable appetite, the unreal lifestyle, the nudity called fashion, the pretense and all that you know.
Don’t think I am better to say some of these things, I wish I were not messed up in my own way too, sometime, it is best to say we are in it together.

What is your take?


Please your opinion, Ladies. Feel free to “Yab” the poster. I have develop a deep skin.

My wedding is tomorrow
Foul these vain desires,
Blame it on me,
Maybe tomorrow,
To the altar’s oath
Like many,
We shall walk through the isle,
Greening in my genteel gaunt
I will this honor bequeath to my well beloved tomorrow   

Tomorrow,

I shall not consider the qualities of a virtuous woman,
The which I wait,
How scarce!
This memoir will be extraneous tomorrow,
I bid you come to my wedding when Godliness mutates into morality,
And the date is tomorrow.

Tomorrow

After our wedding, I must satisfy her,
Though painfully none of her species are so
I have labored, and it is for her belly
The weary days,
The sun and rains of my struggles are for my queen
She will come tomorrow
To this little that she despised

Tomorrow

Keep it in your journal,
She said, “I will come tomorrow”
Her delays are many
I must wait till tomorrow
When her quest for vanities are fully spent
Our wedding shall be tomorrow

Tomorrow

Her unspoken greed will vanish,
Her ostentatious exhibitions must die out,
She is sampling the beckoners still
She must see how affluent or how deprived I am, before she decides
And when she exits,
It must be by excuses of weightless form
Then tomorrow we shall deceitfully walk to the alter

Tomorrow
I bid you wait till tomorrow,
My companion is in the home
With him that must not be known,
The last delivery ere our vows
To her object of lust
Or her desire of a far country
Sleep oh Delilah, I shall wait till tomorrow

Tomorrow
Pray tomorrow
When virtue is burnt in secret
I shall see the spouse, yet not as chaste
I must nurture the wounds, the scars of other men
And regret, I never met her so
Yet she must do it again as she did before
We shall start tomorrow

Tomorrow
Heavy sleep shall close mortal eyes
When she dance as though truly she was never touched
Never aborted,
With all her lovers in the pew,
Mocking my foolishness, with unspoken memories of their memoir,
The victim of a wasted LovePeddler
Ready to fool the world in “unholy matrimony”

Tomorrow,
Pity me,
When she turned Unclad, flaunting foolishness for fashion
Call her not my wife,
When she fights on the street in rage and fury
Call her not my wife,
When vanities seats solidly on her brow,
Call her not my wife,
When pride and arrogance turn her loose against neighbors and her man
Call her not my wife,
When she gossips like little minds
Call her not my wife,
When her beauty is merely external void of internal glories
Call her not my wife,
When godliness is exempted and the fear of God extinct
Call her not my wife
Think no shame on me,
When her influence becomes a seed sown in innocent children


And
Rapacity full grown,
Children in Pretence and deceit,
Immoral
Seductress,
Flaunting shame, of forbidden fashion
Skedaddle the correcting of true counsel,
Cheap as the wife of my regret,
Our errors vivid and our shame stunning,
Regrets,
I must marry tomorrow even a day before I die.

I have seen men who were married grow cold in love, it was shocking to know that a marriage once celebrated with so much of excitement can grow cold.

Living together with a woman only to hide the shame of not being married is disgusting to me, especially when it is so obvious that the excitement of the marriage is ended.

There seems to be some insatiable appetite in man and woman that the bondage of marriage cannot satisfy, I have seen women in infidelity and men too, it is terrible these days that I begin to wonder if marriage is necessary.

My friend leaves for work at 8 am, and returns at 5pm, he came back one days and traced the wife to her shop, he was too lucky to find her locking the shop and he traced her to the house of a custom officer, the wife sat conveniently on the lap of a custom officer in Lagos.

I know someone who does not sleep with his wife anymore but he prefers to sleep with other women,
This thing discourages one from starting a relationship

I have seen many girl boasting about several men and same with men,

When I see married men or women in Restaurants and public places buying food in the morning, I wonder what their wives are doing that their husbands must eat outside,

When I see women in rage and fury, I imagine a marriage with a quarrelsome woman,
With the new civilization that allows women to open their breast of show a bit of their unclothedness, I wonder if one can marry a good wife,

Anytime I see a woman expose her unclothedness, it tears me apart, I know that some men like them so, but would not like it if their wives does it (when Love is really at its birth stage)

Yet, there must be some good girls somewhere

Please for those who are married, when does Love Expire?

[color=#000099][/color]Forgive me for being too clumsy, it is an expression of the state of my heart

@tpia@

For your rash,

I would not have responded,

I see how comprehending English is a real problem to you,

You would probably have preferred a street slangs, just maybe you would understand

My disjointed “Elizabethan expression” is indeed a minus I must re-learn to be apt as you are

There is no need for the rouse

You still would not……………

Come up hither

@tpia@ Decorum in handling,

You seem to be the only one who cared so much about that, I have found the response of others so intriguing,

How else can i say thank you than to look at your picture attached only to find out that you have a semblance of my description in the post,

I conclude that, you may be pricked and needed to vent your anger on the poster,

mine is a burden borne alone, Intelligent pips have forgiven my clumsiness, responding as though I never goofed,

You would be fine to forgive me also. Dwell on the issue if you have counsels drawn from a guiltless heart.