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Bigdre31:
You didn't call because of your sick mom & she deemed it fit to tell you not minding your predicament , , bro God is giving u a good sign ..
Wish mom speedy & permanent recovery ..Amen

Amen. Thanks.

Headlesschicken:
Yuh mother is sick and yuh busy worried about a common girlfriend...

I am worried about my mother. And I have been up to the task of taking care of my mother.
Was just surprised at her insensitivity or whatever it is

yanabasee:
Me....

Love doesn't look at age and doesn't look at the physical beauties.....


He came to us.... having explained that his beloved mother and girlfriend issues is making him not to think straight....

@OP.... your gf isn't serious about the break up. keep down your pride and call her to come to the hospital to see your mom....

She sent a message yesterday night that she tried my number to no avail. I thanked her and asked if she want to change her mind. She said no. I don't like pestering ladies.
But what I notice is , if I don't call her in two days, she make drastic efforts to call me.
She is childish but I do overlook her faults because she has an innocent motive.
I am her first man so I kind of have soft spot for her.

DominusPrime:
You welcome sir. Above all teach her to be a better person in life and not pamper her. That's the point I'm trying to make. All the best to both of you.

I did made her a better person.
Personal development wise, she herself do extol my efforts

Cholls:
my brother she's a distraction in your life. why not use the time energy you use in dating her to further your personal legend.

Hmm

Thanks for the advice.

DominusPrime:
Then forget whatever it is she did and realise that she's changing...ladies grow faster than men.

Alright, thanks. I appreciate you

evil1:
You see those two friends they are the board of directors.
Call her and talk sense into her and if she doesn't, my brother abeg free her, girls never finish for Nigeria.

Yes. They are part of her problem.

DominusPrime:
What came to my mind was she has seen another guy. At 22 most girls are still hoeing around. She's too young to already know what she wants in a man. No sensible mature lady will add to your sorrow at this trying time of your life. She's not meant for you.
That's that about her.
Now for you...you must be a complete weakling. You are really wrapped around her fingers. A girl breaks up with you at this time and instead of you to be pissed you are looking for ways to reconcile. If at all it comes it should be from her and not cos you begged. If you place er over your mother now one day you will place her over your life.

I am not placing her over my mother. That's never going to happen.
If I do, I would now be here with my mother.
Trust me, I am not a weakling.

luminouz:
A 30 year old man wants advice on how to handle a 22 year old lady despite having a 'jimasun' moniker?


Who will take you seriously bro?

Lol.
I am not a weak man.
But she did some things for me in the past that makes her special.
She is worth the efforts. Just that I don't know her reason for this.

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BlackfireX:
Amadioha doing the work of sango....so that the Fulani can behave themselves

Amadioha cannot do same at Igboland...
SMH

Igbos dragging Yorubas into their wahala again

I can't wait for 2023.
We will teach these yanmiris a bitter lesson

eagleu:
Is there any historical dispute about where Awolowo was held? Calabar, and Abakaliki prisons

Is there any dispute about where Calabar and Abakaliki belonged during the war

Is there any dispute about who controlled the police, army and prison services in Calabar and Abakaliki at the time Awolowo was released?

Calabar and Abakaliki did not fall to the Nigerian army at the time Awolowo was released.

Why is there even a question about who released Awolowo when we knew where he was being held?

When did NY times become gospel truth?

What a MUMU you are.
Awolowo was released a year before Biafra war started.
There was no dispute then about who controls the prison service
Igbos are the only human being I have ever seen to stand logic on its head

Can't believe Igbos are believing the crap Ojukwu told them.

nonsense.
That was how Atiku won throughout social media platforms. Only to lose at his polling unit.
onye ara

Let them contest and whoever wins win abeg

Wasting of time

Trust Nigerian police at your own peril.

MelesZenawi:
Makes no sense..

next

If it is the north, you would have been salivating

Beremx:
Oga, open border o! This is least of problems in Nigeria.


No one should call me a smuggler cos I am not. I can't afford to buy a bag of rice for 50k and chicken for 30k a carton by December.


Nonsense!!

It is not compulsory you eat rice, potato is also good for you

olril17:
u are unreasonable..

Those at home are unreasonable. Omo irankiran

Eastlink:
But your people have told us time without number that Atiku was the reason they voted PDP and not because of Peter Obi.
Some even went as far as blaming the picking of an Igbo VP as the reason why PDP lost the elections. A Yoruba VP for Atiku was their choice but it didn't sail through.
We were all witness to this.

You really don't know what you are saying bro.

Eastlink:
Okay let's believe it happened before independence, how did it turn out for Zik. Cross carpeting right?
But the truth stares you in the face. Have the Yoruba's ever given even 2% votes to an Igbo candidate since 1960?

Peter Obi was the Vice Presidential candidate of PDP and he got more than 40% of vote cast in 2019 election in Yorubaland

Eastlink:
Okay let's believe it happened before independence, how did it turn out for Zik. Cross carpeting right?
But the truth stares you in the face. Have the Yoruba's ever given even 2% votes to an Igbo candidate since 1960?

What happened?
Which cross carpeting?
Should I pull up the results?
Zik won election but NCNC could not get the needed number of seats to rule the region.
Awo talked with the minorities and they allied with him. Is it that you people cannot stop lying?
Or you did not know Ibadan People's Party and other minority parties also won in the Western election?

See the comments of Igbos

hey

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Eastlink:
The topic was a fallout to those who say we don't build bridges.
This thread is pointing to the SW sophisticated ones who have never since 1960 voted an Igbo candidate.
The SE has voted every tribe to power, but when it comes to their turn you hear mischief maker giving tribalistic reasons why they shouldn't be President. The SWesterners can never be liberal as the Igbo's in Nigerian politics, yet they call us names.

Igbo man has won an election in SW before.... Azikwe
Yoruba man has never won an election in SE

KingsCity:
You are so stewpid that you don't know that Enugu State was created in 1991

What is this one saying?
He lost in same Enugu.
bridge builders indeed.

Abiola won Anambra
Abiola lost Imo
Abiola lost Abia
Abiola lost Enugu

Igbos can go to hell with their Southern Solidarity that never happened.