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why your conscience dey judge you ?sorry ohh try being a man enough man so your woman can pay more attention to you. For now the person she loves is the person she spends the whole day on the phone with. Guy open your eyes.

symbian03: Where's the dislike button? BTW you sound so pained!

Abeg make you try brush mouth for morning mayb e fit help commot the Horrible grammar wey you dey blast for here here. Let me come down to your level and speak pidgin don't want to confuse you with English.

Ediss: Cus i have MY and also want a woman of same class not a dropout like Your

I don't need to spill out details of my life on Naira land or defend the motion of been guilty or not and why would I make meaningful contribution to a copy right copy and paste article babbling bull shit . No offence am just speaking my mind people always want to create article to ridicule women forgetting that your mothers sisters and daughter's fall in the category of this Gender WOMEN.

Lordlexyy: And what makes a uk graduate more unique? If you have issues with the write up, then deal with it and don't find an excuse to lynch the dude. Only insecure people and those guilty of these would rather troll than make meaninful contribution. Pls don't pick offence, you know you are my sister.

what is the head and tail of this dumb advise?? what of men that cheat on their wives and frustrate their lives after been married to them and these women end up heart broken miserable and devastated? many of them end up wishing they were never married .many women are miserable after the so called marriage. Does life begin after been married. you guys sound like marriage is the road to Heaven. abeg all this bull shit advise about marriage this and that. should go front A real man is a man that loves and understands his woman no mater not a man that wants a slave to cook clean while he is out their partying and having fun

youngprofdguru: 1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?

3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?

7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?

8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn't like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.

Paul Agwu & Youngprofdguru.........

why are all you guys hatting on women all of a sudden? please if ur broke or heart broken dont bring the pain down on the women they re beautiful and wonderful creatures that makes the world complete it takes only a real man to realize that. [quote author=Okija_juju]And also stop dancing like this... It wont make us marry you..

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wetin carry you go find woman wey get masters degree for UK you should have gone to the village to look for your speck so that you guys can understand each other better because I doubt if that UK babe would understand this horrible grammer

jinkees: well maybe if you were well educated and speak better English she would have considered not dumping ur sorry ass how dare you speak of a woman in such manner you guys have no right to asses a woman whatsoever cos you were born of a woman and if you were man enough and had the qualities of been a man fully then getting the right woman is a piece of cake

well maybe if you were well educated and speak better English she would have considered not dumping ur sorry ass how dare you speak of a woman in such manner you guys have no right to asses a woman whatsoever cos you were born of a woman and if you were man enough and had the qualities of been a man fully then getting the right woman is a piece of cake

Ediss: MY people its true. There is this lady, MY God ! after all HER socall degree which incloud a masters from UK she is still not a wife materia she will be with HER phone day in day out and or spend all HER time sleeping. B4 i talk One she will say bécus am working and she is not working. She has never for once Cook for me or even clean MY house. I just brack up with HER and never to go back. God will help me to get a goood wife

[quote author=joe_ekuns]Very beautiful indeed....good to know kate is carrying on with her life and is rita married yet (is she ever going to be )[/quote]why cant you just admire them and leave marriage outa d issue wetin concern marriage concern the picture you that is talking hope ur married and if at all u are hope ur happy and successful in the marriage. marriage doesn't make any one beta dan d oda or less .

no they landed @ d airforce base here with their jets had d metting and left back so that's why d youths couldn't penetrate

Goddex: Bunch of jobless losers.
They made it a surprised visit else. .I trust Rivers state youths.

its really not easy accepting ur self as fat. the most important thing is wht do u want first to make ur self happy so from my observation u want to be a trimmed person so u have to remove shame and do it if I can be slim I belive anybody can

jinkees: hey babe my name is kell I was once a fat girl I was born slim in fact. den growing up for me wasn't easy I was depressed as a teenager so I resorted to eating and den @ 12 yrs old I became very fat and I was more depressed but 12years later I worked on my self and lost a couple of pounds and am a size 12 now.so my dear I feel ur pain I was once in ur shoes the fat one, the older, one the uglier person. so my dear u have to make up ur mind make the sacrifice to loose weight. u can do it. hit me bk if u want more info. thanks

hey babe my name is kell I was once a fat girl I was born slim in fact. den growing up for me wasn't easy I was depressed as a teenager so I resorted to eating and den @ 12 yrs old I became very fat and I was more depressed but 12years later I worked on my self and lost a couple of pounds and am a size 12 now.so my dear I feel ur pain I was once in ur shoes the fat one, the older, one the uglier person. so my dear u have to make up ur mind make the sacrifice to loose weight. u can do it. hit me bk if u want more info. thanks

biggirloya2: I have always been a big girl. Bigger than my age that is. I have a very beautiful body and personality but a bit too big for my age. I have always been like this. Now i am 26 but you would swear i am 29 or more. Now i have always attracted older men or bad guys and now i finally thought i had met the one. He is turning 25 in August and i am ( for once in my life) the older one in a relationship. I sometimes hate him coz i get the feeling that because i am fat he wants to treat me like a sugar mommy. but i am only 1 year older than him.I am tired of him hurting me. I get the feeling that he has a younger skinnier lover and me i am just the for sex and do him favours. The dude has never invited me to his home or to meet his people but he knows my home and people like hell. When i dump him he declares his undying love for me but when i decide to stay in the relationship he never has time for me and makes me feel as if he is doing me a favor by spending time with me. Will i ever feel good about myself, will i ever be happy like other people, or am i going to be his dirty secret forever? i am scared of ending things compeletly coz i am a coward and i cant stand to one day see him with a better girl coz i am just a fat worthless ugly girl who looks older than she is.Do you feel my pain?

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the market woman says

[quote author=Rabboni-X]Overcomers Church Responds To Failed Marriage Attempt By Actor Solomon Akiyesi

What was meant to be a day of celebration – the wedding ceremony of one of our members Uloma Agwu to Mr. Solomon Akiyesi at the Overcomers Church World Outreach in Aguda – was sullied by an ugly incident.
Immediately following the praise and worship session and before the officiating commenced, a woman who claims to be the lawful wife of the groom disrupted the ceremony. She was accompanied by people who sought only to wreck havoc in the church. They were unruly and violent.

We regret the ugly series of events that followed this brash display. At the Overcomers Church, we do our due diligence to ensure a couple set to wed is right in the eyes of the law and in the eyes of God. To the best of our knowledge, Mr. Akiyesi, was unmarried. The Overcomers Church World Outreach regrets that the woman who disrupted the wedding chose such a time to do so. There is no ideal situation here, but it would have been right that she bring the case before church officials in a manner befitting a house of worship. This was not the case.
The groom, Mr. Akiyesi, has apologized to the Church, his bride-to-be, Ms. Agwu, and family and friends that gathered for the wedding. “This happened because I tried to cut corners,” he said. He admits he did not properly dissolve his previous marriage to his first wife and says he is determined to do what is necessary to rectify the awful situation. We apologize for the ugly scene this caused at our Church and apologize to those who witnessed it. It is not exemplary behavior and not who we are as a Church.
The General Overseer of the Overcomers Church World Outreach, Bishop N.E. Moses, addressed the congregation after order was restored.
Bishop Moses prayed for the couple, Mr. Akiyesi and Ms. Agwu, but he did not legally wed them –no documents were signed so as not to disobey the law. Mr. Solomon Akiyesi and Ms Uloma Agwu will not be legally joined together until the matter is properly settled by lawful authorities.
Our Bishop has urged us to take a lesson from this and be careful of the decisions we make in life, so the consequences don’t hurt us in the future. It is a lesson we take well.

We stand by Ms. Agwu. She has been a dedicated member of the church and we will continue to support her and Mr. Akiyesi. It is our hope and prayer that in all of this, God is glorified and His house of worship above reproach.
Chika Moses

Media Representative,
Overcomers Church World Outreach

from http://blogsinbrief..com/2013/04/overcomers-church-world-outreach.html[/quote]thiis woman Mrs lilian Akiyesi is actuAlly a good friend of mine I knw her too well she has been married for 7 yrs to this stupid man. I almost died of shock when I read this article this morning and am still in shock. Mrs lilian is actually 8 months pregnant @ d moment. God what a wicked world. Dis man wld neva see anything Good. Dis is a very shocking incident. No woman shld pray to be in dis shoes. God have mercy oh

Mindependent: I am very attracted to guys that are very er...dominant and in a way, bad. Say, abusive, treat you like a posession, jealous, aggressive- IN and OUT the bedroom.

I have been in an abusive relationship and even though I know its wrong and dangerous, It used to excite me when I was threatened or attacked.

I know its really bad, but its the only thing that seems to excite me, like if a guy i like just grabs my wrists or pulls/pushes me against something or tells me what to do it really turns me on (outside the bedroom).

I also have dreams where Im my partners posession and he has full control of my life.

I get really bored of 'normal' guys if they dont seem to have this controlling/possessive streak. I dont know how to break the cycle and its hard to seek out these sorts of guys as its not really something you admit is it.

Is this normal?

Ive also always had a fear of men since I was very young (though im not sure why) but i used to be terrified of older men.

. Mtshewwwwww mumu like u. It irritate me when women say dis things. If u dnt wake up to reality soon and tell ur self d truth u wld wake up dead.

Mindependent: I am very attracted to guys that are very er...dominant and in a way, bad. Say, abusive, treat you like a posession, jealous, aggressive- IN and OUT the bedroom.

I have been in an abusive relationship and even though I know its wrong and dangerous, It used to excite me when I was threatened or attacked.

I know its really bad, but its the only thing that seems to excite me, like if a guy i like just grabs my wrists or pulls/pushes me against something or tells me what to do it really turns me on (outside the bedroom).

I also have dreams where Im my partners posession and he has full control of my life.

I get really bored of 'normal' guys if they dont seem to have this controlling/possessive streak. I dont know how to break the cycle and its hard to seek out these sorts of guys as its not really something you admit is it.

Is this normal?

Ive also always had a fear of men since I was very young (though im not sure why) but i used to be terrified of older men.

my sista why re u trying to give an excuse for being with a guy that abuses u physically. If u marry a man tht abuses u physically den u have given him d licence to buy ur coffin my girl be wise and come out of that relationship stop lying to ur self and tell ur self d truth. U think u love d guy but mayb ur jst scared of being alone, Or u. Think u might not meet someone else if u leave him. D earlier u realise tht he dosnt deserve u d better. Mayb if u have one of ur eyes blinded by dis abusive guy then u wld realize tht khaki is not leather

venatus25: does it means guys wil only date only one gal? anyway i have four of them, mek dem come try that kind non.sense na there them go pack one by one for fresh gals to enter, afterall na my money.

I hope its ur joy stick that u wld pay d price with. Dnt learn from incidents around u.

AMvanquish: For me I personally hate series! I can't stand watchin episode after episode. I don't have that luxury of time. From 24, to Prison break , after watching two episodes I get fed up. This was until I watched game of thrones. I used 1 whole weekend to watch season 1. And quickly got to downloading season 2. To be honest! The sheer fact that it is unpredictable got me hooked! You cannot predict whose head would be cut off next, whose scheming would work out, infact its just like Nigerian politics. You never know what would happen next. Its the only series that I completed a whole season! Can't wait for season 3. Just my 2 cents.

please somebody shld tell me where I can download game of thrones from. Please

Pls pls hw do u download game of thrones which website pls tell me lemmi download it

Whateva duhhhhhhh. All d telecoms networks suck big time. Mtn, glo, etc. Well fifth to comment. E no easy

A tru christian should be righteous in all his ways. The bible says d prayer of a sinful man is like a filthy rag bfor d lord. The reason why dey stress so hard on it is because they need d money desperately so dey over emphasize on the tithe. U go to church nobody preaches repentance or salvation any more. All u hear is tithe tithe tithe

The tru meaning of christianity is being like Christ when he was on earth I have searched the entire bible and I neva saw where Jesus Christ. Instructed us to pay tithe nor his apostles. But the way dis pastors stress on the issue like if u dnt pay ur tithe u wld be dammed. Even a friend of mine tht does runs brags tht she pays her tithe so nobody can bring her down.

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Mukina please make the change immediately.

. Ha,,,,,,

Seriously??

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