Dear Nairalanders please i have been giving my baby soya beans for like 2 months and it has proven to be the best food she has ever taken. Recently she had serious constipation and did not stool for 8 days. we had to stop giving her cerelac,NutRi-ben etc and then started feeding her Soya beans since she started eating SOYA beans she has had perfect bowel movement.But sadly i stumbled upon some article online saying it reduces intelligence in children. Please Doctors in the house answer to this.Than you.

http://www.westonaprice.org/health-topics/soy-and-the-brain/

Are you a responsible matured down to earth female . lets let loose and rub minds together just drop your bb pin so we can form a group chat. where we can come together, rub minds, share ideas about life in general and above all have fun. looking forward to met you all lets goooooo.

I asked my closest friend this question
" if you had an opportunity to do it over ,will you marry this same husband"
She loves her husband greatly and they look good together but her answer was very interesting and had some truths in it.
She said to me without thinking

" Nne you know I love CY with all my heart,that man is good to me but if I had an opportunity now to marry again and he were one of the choices,I wouldn't pick him.
I was thrown aback by that answer
She continued
I don marry am nau,never cheated on him and no plans of doing so ,we have children together and I consider myself happy but if I had another opportunity why will I remarry him ?,I will try someone else and see how that one will be
I thought that answer made great sense
She is not saying her man is bad,she would just like to sample another person for variety if there was an opportunity to stay or pick another.
Would you pick the same spouse if given the choice of him/ her and others

This is supposed to be a fun thread let your hairs down ladies girls night out
Share the stories you tell in the company of the girls

I thought this was a girls night out discussion which one be all this politics talk now abeg I get headache

Imose1991:
This is something I am very worried about, I am trying to have a child and I am scared that I lose it prematurely or anything really...
How do potential mothers get over this fear?

I went through the same thing when I was pregnant and through out my pregnancy its only normal for your mind to panic pregnancy is a very delicate stage in life u can only fill uer spirit with the word of God keep saying and believing positive things. look for this book to read SUPERNATURAL CHILDBIRTH. it really helped me go through my pregnancy. and now I have a bouncing baby girl.

I asked my closest friend this question
" if you had an opportunity to do it over ,will you marry this same husband"
She loves her husband greatly and they look good together but her answer was very interesting and had some truths in it.
She said to me without thinking

" Nne you know I love CY with all my heart,that man is good to me but if I had an opportunity now to marry again and he were one of the choices,I wouldn't pick him.
I was thrown aback by that answer
She continued
I don marry am nau,never cheated on him and no plans of doing so ,we have children together and I consider myself happy but if I had another opportunity why will I remarry him ?,I will try someone else and see how that one will be
I thought that answer made great sense
She is not saying her man is bad,she would just like to sample another person for variety if there was an opportunity to stay or pick another.
Would you pick the same spouse if given the choice of him/ her and others

This is supposed to be a fun thread let your hairs down ladies girls night out
Share the stories you tell in the company of the girls

Hey dolls why don't we limit our girls night out gist and form a blackberry group chat its more convenient to get involved in!!! What do yall think? So

UmmTwins2:
10x for ur response. I normally dn't take sweets/gums bt d nausea is killing whenever my mouth is idle, that's why I asked for healthy alternatives. Mamas pls come to my aid o

you can try garden egg u know it has and leaves bitter sweet taste in ur mouth so with that pepper sauce it worked for me like magic

achi4u:
I thought this scenario only happens in nollywood movies,can a mother cause her offsprings?

I wish I was in a nollywood movie. its very painful when hear people talk about love from their mother and its like WDF are they talking about because it is very strange to me. its well praying to God ohh for a solution.

mytestimony:


The pain is in your right hand abi?
Mine the pain is in both hands. All my fingers. My wrists. My shoulders. My knees. My toes. My waist. As I de type sef na war. I have bern enduring. Na so bele be?

yeahh the pain is normal in pregnancy it does not pose any risk to both mum and baby its called (carpal tunnel syndrome) its caused by excessive fluid being drawn from the body to d baby causing dryness leading pain/ numbness in the wrist or palm area. sadly it doesn't go away until some days or weeks after the baby is born.
I have had it since my 4th month I just entered my nine month and it still aches me. just manage it would be worth it at the end.

imurboss:
@all,I had a funny experience yesterday. I was craving for ogbono soup so I decided to go to the market to buy the ingredients, getting home to start preparing the soup,lo n behold the meat I bought was missing,it seems I forgot it where I bought it,chei! Don't know whether to cry or laugh & I was really hungry, I cooked the soup like dat o but went to bed without eating anything, twas so painful . This pregnancy dey do me strong thing o to the extent of forgetting meat in the market

my sister I have the same wahala ohh hmm even my husband don tire... I am naturally a bit clumsy but this pregnancy don worsen my situation I forget things a lot every munite I am looking for my wallet, my phone, etc. anytime I go shopping I must come back short of one item. na wahoo

sayoberry:

Long walks
Bouncing on Ur toes (if u can)
Kpekus
Squatting
Dance small Shoji
Drink Milo
Thank me later
He was probably expecting that Ur baby would have engaged. I.e dropping into Ur pelvic preparing to come soon. So with exercises, u can get Ur baby to drop. You will notice the baby had dropped when u get a free space on Ur upper tummy. It will be really free and u ll feel more weight down. Also, Ur tummy will drop, people will be able to tell sef. Although not everybody drops that obviously. Some will drop and it won't be noticeable. So if u can't walk-like me, try voicing on Ur toes or if u have a bounce ball. I don't have one but I have a spring bed. So I sit on it and bounce to da music.

Nb: don't take the Milo part seriously

great advise I am in my 36 weeks I should start doing that already as I noticed that I feel space in my upper tummy and not so choked up like before. I would be going for my next OGB on Tuesday but I would still try out ur squatting, shoji /kpekus dance. thanks hon

its easy to say when u have a loving and caring mum mother hood is not all about nursing and breastfeeding a child after all animals do the same too mother hood goes a long way than that. how does it feel to have a mum who constantly judges you to her friends never appreciate anything you do for her, never calls u unless u call her first, condemns you and your husband at the slightest opportunity she gets and always compares you to people that buys their mothers jeep and big big gold jewellery . well my mum is like that and I still pray to God to give me the grace to endure and pray for her because staying away from her is the best way to achieve peace of mind. hmmmmmm

emusmith:



Yes o...

Yesterday, I had to tell someone this.

Sadbrother:
Helo all Nairalanders pls hlp a frnd and a brother bcus he is dying in silence, pls hlp me pls i beg of u pls hlp me.
Dnt mind my english ooo, i nor go skul ooo

It all started in 2009, here it goes
My sister is naturally fair, not jst fair bt very very fair in complexion, so she bought a tube cream for her pimple named Betnovate C, little did i knw dat it was a bleaching cream, i started applying it on my face, and my face only,

in jst 2 days tym , my face became very fair, very very fair, mean while d rest of my skin is still my normal dark colour, dat time i was stil in secondary skul and we were on holidays, so afta d resumption of skul


on d second week i went 2 skul & 2 my gr8test surprise every body started looking at me, bcus my face is so white and my body color is black so i was always shy, but still i continue 2 use d cream jst bcus my face luks so much handsum dan it used 2 b wen i was dark, so it cums 2 a tym wen mostly all my frnds started 2 call me bleaching face, so dere was a day dat i send one of my frnd 2 call a girl 4 me, wen d girl came and my frnd pointed me to her dat i was d 1 calling her , wen she saw me she was shocked and said in a loud voice... Tufiakwa God 4bid, dat was wen i realised i should stop using d cream , so i stopped. But d big problem is dat my colour refused 2 go back to normal, instead it bcame more and more fairer, there was notin i culd do dan 2 live with it like dat, 3months past... Six months past... 9months gone... And finally it bcame 1year since i stopped applying d cream but still yet my skin was still fair but not as whitish as it is b4, dis tym it bcame reddish, so i started doing all sorts of research on google on how 2 bring my skin colour back to normal as it is b4 but up to no avail, so i saw a post on ask.com on how sum pple apply bleaching cream to deir skin to match their skin colour with d already light skin, and i said to my self dat dis is d solution to my problem, so i searched on google on list of bleaching creams and i decided to go 4 Bio - Claire , an dat eveling i went 2 a near by super market and bought d small cup of bio-claire, so i started applying it on my skin dat same eveling, after just only 3 - 4 days of applying all my skin colour changed 4rm dark to light, and i was very contented with it at first...

So let me say my problems starts here.

So i started applying it once in every 3 days, slowly slowly i changed formation and started applying it once in a week bcus it made me so light, so i can't b applying it every day, the main problem is my school uniform shirt hand, bcus we were wearing short hand uniform, i tink i was in SSS2 at dat tym, so after applying d cream i will walk in d sun 2 go to skul bcus my skul was very far and walk back home at also, den suddenly i noticed sum changes in my skin most xpecially my muscle part, it was so so so so so whitish bcus d sun has never hit it, while my hands was so reddish, bt now it has bcum a little darker, so after i finished secondary skul at d yr 2011, i was always indoor all d tym bcus of my very fair muscle and dark hands, bt i had it in mind 2 go & learn computer , or started working montly wrk, so i had a gr8t idea dat i can start wearing longsleevs and folding it till it gets 2 my elbow, so dat d whitish part of my muscle will not be visible , so i eventually started wearing longsleeves , one year past , 2yrs past, 3yrs past and now we are in 2015 and am still wearing longsleeves all d days of my life till now..... If u are readin dis nw & i tell u nw dat for gud 3yrs now and even close to 4yrs no body, not even my mother dat am leaving with, has ever saw my muscle or my back or tummy u ll not bleave me, It made me nt 2 ve any relation bcus i ll always say 2 my self, wat if we were abt 2 make love & d girl decided 2 pull my shirt den am FINISHED, So i came here to look for a perm. solution for my problem on how to make my muscle darker so dat it can match d skin colour of my hands, i have tried so many tins on how to make it darker but up to no avail, i have applied Loko, crude oil, clay, relaxer, d liquid of an onoin, salt, grinded broken plate, sawdust, charcoal,i have bought razor blade and started tearin my muscle so dat wen d wound heals it ll leave sum dark mars, jst recently i bought polish and started applying it, am alwayz on google.com searching for lists of tins dat can make me darker but all dat i hv found and tried are not working, i have bought nivea, cocoa butter, iodine , spirit plus so many much more dat i cnt even remember but my muscle is still very fair even doh i have stopped using d cream 3 yrs ago, it still refused to go to its original colour, bt notin seems to make it darker, sumtimes i ll use my hand d muscle part to near fire and bear d heat so dat it will dark bt its stil d same, sum times i will search on google and d nxt tin am wearing my longsleeves walking 2 d chemist to buy sum drugs dat ll darken me, bt i tink dose drugs are nt in Nigeria bcus i don't always find dem in d chemist, now dat dere is no were for me 2 go i turned here bcus nairaland always gives solution to pple prob. no matter how brutal it is, so my pple i want to live a normal life, am tired of wearing longsleves i want to wear normal shirts like Lacoste, bodies, handless and d rest , pls hlp me pls i need ur help on how to make my skin very dark , my muscle i want it very dark, very very dark pls help me pls i beg of u pls help me, tnks as i listen 2 ur replies

your story just made my day hahahahahahahhaah dis got me rolling serioisly i go help iu i swear

kemachuk:
E-family please advice me on how to make my hubby communicate more. He doesn't like gisting. Prefers watching cnn. Me I like fashion, celebs gist and he isn't interested in stuff like that. I stopped talking about those when he opened up to me that he's not into such gist. Even when I bring up politics his respond is yes, no kind of respond. What do I do about this cos I've even tried talking Football but he isn't interested. Or is that I am the problem? Between we've been married 4 2yrs with a son. I'm not really the talking type too but @least they should be things we should talk about.

abeg is the guys name Dozie sounds like one of my uselex ex bf hes married now with a kid if yes then u are in for a very long thing :

I am almost 12 weeks I feel weak sometimes morning sickness almost disappearing. when do I go for a scan? am xcited. but the fear of Ebola. hmmmm. and I am also in P.H where is the safest place to give birth. I hear Uniport teaching hospital is the best. but I need your advise. P.H momas . thanks hon.

LyndaRoyce:
I did no less than 7scans whilst preggy, and all said "my BABY GIRL is doing just fine"; when I put to bed, I was surprised to see my supposed baby girl with a blokos.....in the sense that it wasn't a baby girl all those while,its a boy.
Aren't medical scan suppose to be accurate/reliable?
My pregnancy books never told me that after delivery, my baby would gve me sleepless nights(vigilantee)......
In a nutshell, what u're experiencing is normal(atleast in every 10 preggy, 8 experienced such). But u can see your doc to be more certain. Not all preggy symptoms/issues re stated in books.
Kpele.

you are funny I swear @ blokos

my dear sister remember some guys are actually mentally unstable ohh my colleague just gisted me of his friend that works in a mental hospital he was like if u see fine fine guys clean correct guys coming to pick up drugs ehhh u go fear. because if they don't take those drugs they fit shift commot from balance ohh. That now reminded me of one guy that was asking me out he comes all the way from uyo to see me in calabar never took me to his house kept talking marriage. one day he asked me to accompany him to the physchatric hospital in calabar that he wants to pick up drugs for his neighbour. we got to the clininc and he left me at the car park went inside and spent a couple of hours in there I kept asking my self who comes all the way from Uyo to Calabar to a mental hospital for a neighbour. well I just realized this moment that that guy could be mentally unstable. thank God I dumped him after I realized he was fake

jaybeyblu: Here is it: I met this guy mid last year, and he asked me out took my no, tried calling me but I was in a rship then so I didn't give him a chance. This year I broke up with my bf,2 mnths later this same guy that I met last year started calling me and was telling me that he has always loved me and he wants to marry me, I was suggesting we get to know each other 1st, he said ok, but I noticed the info he gives me about him self is very sketchy: he told me he works with a poular oil coy and he goes offshore 6months on and 6months off, so I asked him his offshore location and I am familiar with where most coy locations are but his story dosnt add up, he tells me he is travelling to uk today and I don't hear from him for a month and then I get a msg 'I just got back to nigeria' out of the blues. I have a feeling he lies a lot, and another aspect is that when he calls and maybe I was in a meeting he would keep calling till I pick, I wld go to d bathroom b4 I am back 80missed calls, I have only seen him 3 times, he is in a nearby city and can easily come if he wants to. My question is: if he is really serious won't he be very regular coming over to my town to see me? This is d 5th month since we started talking on phone, instead he wld call me go to so place go and collect this go and collect that, I told him that he shld stop sending me on so much errands, he would insist I leave my work, I should take permission, when I refused he started shouting at me that he wonders what is giving me wings, cos of that statement I hung up on him and refused to pick his calls and for 1 whole week my phone rung none stop I mean 24 hours a day my phone is ringing I cldnt receive any calls my phone was useless, when he calls he must question me, what happened I called u, I told him to stop questioning me, we are always quarelling he calls me always but I have told him we r not just compactable dat we shd be better of as friend but my friends tell me I may be so harsh towards him. Initially when he stared calling the only talk is what is the colour of ur pants, I would be like its 7am and I am at work, pls stop he wld be like this girl I am telling u that I am Hot and u are saying another thing u are not serious to settle down. he told my sister that I am very rude which I admit when he gets on my nerves but nairalanders am I over reacting?

I swear you must be high on cheap drugs I suggest u have a very serious problem how can u serve God and babalawo at the same time? shocking bro na wahoo nothing eye go see commot blood. abeg you are def neva going to find a wife just give up ur life history is already bleeped up #giving pastor and babalawo 1m in d name of looking for wife#

obowunmi: So anyone who knows me here on Nairaland, knows I've been on a mission to find a spouse. Well, it hasn't happened yet. So I decided to enroll the services of (1) a babalawo (2) a pastor to see which worked best.

I willingly gave each 1 million naira. They were both happy and said that they will begin fasting, praying, and appealing to the gods on my behalf for a wife.

Yesterday, the pastor called me to ask for more money. I told him it's been two (2) months since the 1 million naira and that I am yet to find anyone who appeals to me.

Two days prior to yesterday, babalawo called me to say he needs to do more sacrifices and that I should send about 500k.


Right now, I am disappointed and upset at both men. They both have not provided a solution to my issue yet asking for more money. Is it this stressful to find a good woman?

Might I also add that a girl I really liked and had been talking to, suddenly stopped talking to me.

Nairalanders, I am confused and need help. I won't be giving either men any money. All I need is a good woman.

I got married some months ago and I am about 8 weeks pregnant been experiencing some weird symptoms and changes and wish I had a close friend which is also pregnant so we can share our experiences together. Well I actually have a close friend who got married about the same time I did. She is presently in another town and she is too secretive reticent and tight lipped to even tell me if she is pregnant or not. Dunno what her problem is well some village women prefer not telling people that they are pregnant for fear that ojuju calabar would come and carry their pikin (so annoying ) please my dear Niraland Hot mama's to be can we come here and share our experience and ask questions so others can help us out.
Thank you all.

why does the my opea girl have a terrible attitude problem she just replies your chat like shes doing you a favour and you are bugging her nawahoo lagos babes sha see pride I could smell the pride from the chat. Adesuwa abeg how you manage cope with her

Adesuwag: I had same issue as yours,have used all beauty product u can ever think of,even the so called Makari,all resulted into a bad terrible skin with patches, a lady i met on nairaland here,resolved it all,with her beauty regi;.Now,my skin colour is even toned,and baby-like.the best i ever wanted.her id is my opera;08185899818

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boliano: Nigerian used toyota camry 99 model is up for grab

** OPTION**
-mp3 Cd player
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-power window
-Transmission auto
-rim wheels
- sound engine
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Price (600k) Negotiable
-Low mileage, 150,090
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please where is the car located I am in ph and how much is the car going for?

Peter C.:
Registered 2004 Toyota matrix: 1M

Car is in great condition, owner needs money for a project hence the car sale.

Please call 08138244968, 08157714022 or email: Piero_4u@yahoo.com if interested.

Hey my dear friends on Naira land I am based in Port-Harcourt I am looking for a good car to buy Of about 500K please any suggestion I need the car to be in Port-Harcourt so I can go and inspect it, because I would not have the chance of traveling to anoda state as the kinda job I do would not permit me to thank you.

Next time you post an article please don't generalize. Some men love their wives with heavy make up and sexy hot cloths on its not every man that loves a deeper life looking wife if you do, well then that's your headache. wake up dis is the 21st century we are no more in the Ancient days where all a woman do is cook and bring forth children. In this Generation, women have jobs that are demanding, so many women are breadwinners in their homes dis days so if you want to marry a working class woman then get ready to cope with the consequences or else you travel to that village of yours and get that local babe that you would sweep under the bed in the name of House wife

youngprofdguru: 1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?

3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?

7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?

8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn't like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.

Paul Agwu & Youngprofdguru.........

@ OP what about the Good girls that keep dem selves till marriage and den get married to men who turn out to be ass holes that abandon dem and run after the so called hot girls that dress half naked, Some men even abandon their families and spend Good money on the girls. Where does this leave the Good wives? Beside many women re single today not because men are scares but because a Good man is hard to find just the Same way a Good woman is hard to find. So my dear its both ways. Many African men are lazy and nonchalant that they cant even change a dead bulb in their homes, they go around looking for rich women to date, or girls from rich home so that they don't have to work hard, and they come here to talk about Wife material. Ask your self first if you are a Husband Material? If YOU REALLY ARE, then getting a wife is as easy as ABC.

youngprofdguru: 1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?

3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?

7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?

8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn't like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.

Paul Agwu & Youngprofdguru.........