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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Amyluvnl(f): 6:48pm On Dec 14, 2013
This ‎​Ȋ̊§ a wonderful Ǻπϑ educating write up
Kudoos
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 1:15am On Dec 15, 2013
lymelyte: Please what is the current access bank exchange rate for 1dollar to naira ?
As @Friday it was #152.....
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 1:16am On Dec 15, 2013
Amyluv@nl:
This ‎​Ȋ̊§ a wonderful Ǻπϑ educating write up
Kudoos
Thanks SISTER
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 1:20am On Dec 15, 2013
Dauduagba: Your points are very relevant.
Thanks my friend......
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by jinkees: 10:47am On Dec 16, 2013
I don't need to spill out details of my life on Naira land or defend the motion of been guilty or not and why would I make meaningful contribution to a copy right copy and paste article babbling bull shit . No offence am just speaking my mind people always want to create article to ridicule women forgetting that your mothers sisters and daughter's fall in the category of this Gender WOMEN.
Lordlexyy: And what makes a uk graduate more unique? If you have issues with the write up, then deal with it and don't find an excuse to lynch the dude. Only insecure people and those guilty of these would rather troll than make meaninful contribution. Pls don't pick offence, you know you are my sister.
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by jinkees: 10:53am On Dec 16, 2013
Abeg make you try brush mouth for morning mayb e fit help commot the Horrible grammar wey you dey blast for here here. Let me come down to your level and speak pidgin don't want to confuse you with English.
Ediss:
Cus i have MY and also want a woman of same class not a dropout like Your grin grin
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by jinkees: 10:57am On Dec 16, 2013
why your conscience dey judge you ?sorry ohh try being a man enough man so your woman can pay more attention to you. For now the person she loves is the person she spends the whole day on the phone with. Guy open your eyes.
symbian03:


Where's the dislike button? BTW you sound so pained!
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by jinkees: 11:10am On Dec 16, 2013
@ OP what about the Good girls that keep dem selves till marriage and den get married to men who turn out to be ass holes that abandon dem and run after the so called hot girls that dress half naked, Some men even abandon their families and spend Good money on the girls. Where does this leave the Good wives? Beside many women re single today not because men are scares but because a Good man is hard to find just the Same way a Good woman is hard to find. So my dear its both ways. Many African men are lazy and nonchalant that they cant even change a dead bulb in their homes, they go around looking for rich women to date, or girls from rich home so that they don't have to work hard, and they come here to talk about Wife material. Ask your self first if you are a Husband Material? If YOU REALLY ARE, then getting a wife is as easy as ABC.
youngprofdguru: 1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?

3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?

7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?

8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn't like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.

Paul Agwu & Youngprofdguru.........
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 11:18am On Dec 16, 2013
jinkees: @ OP what about the Good girls that keep dem selves till marriage and den get married to men who turn out to be ass holes that abandon dem and run after the so called hot girls that dress half naked, Some men even abandon their families and spend Good money on the girls. Where does this leave the Good wives? Beside many women re single today not because men are scares but because a Good man is hard to find just the Same way a Good woman is hard to find. So my dear its both ways. Many African men are lazy and nonchalant that they cant even change a dead bulb in their homes, they go around looking for rich women to date, or girls from rich home so that they don't have to work hard, and they come here to talk about Wife material. Ask your self first if you are a Husband Material? If YOU REALLY ARE, then getting a wife is as easy as ABC.
You are right my brother. Somd men are hypocrites! After Marrying mary madgeline, they would still admire bum shorts babes and be chasing them. That's so sick!

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by jinkees: 11:18am On Dec 16, 2013
Next time you post an article please don't generalize. Some men love their wives with heavy make up and sexy hot cloths on its not every man that loves a deeper life looking wife if you do, well then that's your headache. wake up dis is the 21st century we are no more in the Ancient days where all a woman do is cook and bring forth children. In this Generation, women have jobs that are demanding, so many women are breadwinners in their homes dis days so if you want to marry a working class woman then get ready to cope with the consequences or else you travel to that village of yours and get that local babe that you would sweep under the bed in the name of House wife
youngprofdguru: 1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?

3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?

7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?

8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn't like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.

Paul Agwu & Youngprofdguru.........
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by treasuregr8(f): 8:23pm On Dec 16, 2013
undecided@ dailynews, u dnt have 2 b angry @least he is helping 2 broadcast d post or are u not happy u have gtn a newscaster. :. Btw op or whatever u have a nice writeup

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