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Fountainofyouth:
We have derailed this thread enough, goodbye.


Apologies Op.

Noted and accepted

Fountainofyouth:
What is wrong with his profile picture?

Pls help me ask?

It's interesting how some guys assume full responsibility and take their girlfriends through school and foot all her bills.

I would love to know if the guys in here can do that for a lady they love?

ubunja:
well what did those people tell you?

As a good salesman you don't need to know what was said,all you need to do is sell me ur idea and opinion,but you have just told me that u are not good instead u r looking for others opinion to construct yours

ubunja:
Since I have your attention. here goes: Dude, your profile pic if attatched to anything to do with your work or job, it will put you in a very negative light.



Unlike you who couldn't advise your friend, I will advise you even though you're trying to act special.

Act special u say,trust me some pple have had different views on that picture so why shld I take ur opinion and not theirs.
I need more reasons to be convinced

ubunja:
I'm seeking for your attention.



Give it to me.

Trust me u are already getting it,d fact that we are in this conversation is enof to make u happy.i normally dnt engage in arguements.i guess it's your lucky day

[quote author=ubunja post=81919328]Exactly.
You shouldn't care what people think.
It doesn't add any value to you.









I really don't understand why my picture is generating so much comments from u or are u actually seeking for my attention?

[quote author=ubunja post=81918964]lol if you don't see anything wrong with your picture then it's a pity.

Go learn about posture, angle etc and how it can make a face look menacing, friendly or dangerous.

That angle of your face makes you look evil, menacing and untrustworthy. It's an angle you'll see on the cover of a horror movie DVD. [/quote


Why should I care what anybody thinks.
How does your opinion add value to me.
Kip ur opinion to urself I never asked for it.]

tpiander:
Whose dad is cheating and why are you bringing this here?

Can you get a less malicious looking profile picture btw.

** cheating topics get you people thrilled**

This happened to a friend of mine and I didn't know what to tell him
As regards my profile picture,there is nothing wrong

Honestly I don't know what I would do?speaking can end the perfect family or silence can eat up my conscience.

It's open for debate

This questions comes to mind every time.
But I realized people get married for numerous and different reasons.

Common reasons while people get married are for procreation(children),money,sex,comfort,love etc.some others see marriage as an achievement,for status,for convinience and so on.

Personally I think the reason for marriage should be for companionship as God wanted it.he saw that Adam was alone so he brought a companion,every other things that follows are benefits associated with marriage and should not be the primary reason for marriage

The whole thing is sounding like a setup.they are all in it together but I can't say what they want but if I were u I go run.
Anything that seems too good to be true then I begin to doubt.

As for me forget all of them if u can't take then move out of there cos there is an agenda or motive behind all the happenings

I still don't understand why most parents won't ever engage in a sex talk or education with their kids.

What could be the reason?is it out of embarrassment or they feel their still too young?
But I noticed if a child particularly a female gets pregnant or contacts anyform of sexual disease,parents are always at the fore front castigating and condemning.

I urge every parent out there to step up to the responsibility of educating your child(male and female alike)in sex

Hhenryy:
@op, stop fooling around. You think naija women enjoy sex like that?

Majority of them have been circumcised and see no reason to have sex because they don't enjoy it. Most of them have sex for material/monetary reasons & not because of sexual urges.

If that's the case then try telling ur wife or gf that u lost ur manhood and see how she takes it.u r wrong cos if that's the case then wouldn't cheat on their rich husbands with younger broke guys.
What do they gain if not sexual satisfaction

1StopRudeness:
Everything is always about sex...

Yes wen it comes to the matter of marriage it is.about 50 percent of marriage issues is based on sex

I really want to know

Hmm really it's true when they say one man's meat is another man's poison. Cos as for me cowgirl is one of my best sex position if not the best.
I normally save it for last cos I can't hold that position for long without cumming cos it's just so so so sweet.

The lady in question should contact me cos I would let her ride me to dreamland till she can't handle the stirring wheel

Ladies if you just got married and your husband had an accident or illness and lost his manhood or ability to perform.
Honestly what would you do?

Fountainofyouth:
And I ask this question, does sexual attraction have to do with the lady's appearance? Cos I've had instances where the man was sexually attracted to someone who isn't fine at all.

No it doesn't at all cos I met a girl that wasn't pretty nor shapey but I was so attracted to her sexually

Guys get sexually attracted for different reasons.some are attracted to a lady cos of how she dresses,others are attracted cos of how she talks,some also just by looking at her eyes n they get a spark,some guys like girls that talk dirty,some like girls that are flirty others are attracted to innocent looking ladies.the list is long.as a lady u must find the one that's is attracted to u

The pressure of family and society is the major cause of depression in this part ofour world today.much demand and expectation is placed on an individual as to what is expected from him/her especially family.this sometimes people react to this in different ways as some are not mentally and emotionally strong as to face these problems.

To every action there is an equal and opposite reaction,so sometimes the way u handle someone determines the outcome.

I use this medium to urge everyone reading this post to learn to treat people better and also not place so much demand and pressure on individuals.

If you must react to a situation please never react immediately cos most people their first reaction is usually toxic as it comes from their emotions.lets help reduce this illness called depression which mostly leads to suicide

If there is anyway or drug to reduce libido,i guess she nids it but for a permanent and lasting solution she needs deliverance

It seems they are in a secret affair but as I always say u have to confront her about it n also secretly investigate the whole situation to be fully sure n not assuming.TRUST ME IF THEY ARE PRACTISING INCEST THEN M BRODA LEAVE THAT GIRL cos incest relationship is always difficult to break and they usually value it above everyother relationship

I came across this and I wonder,pls is it loyalty or foolishness to inherit your family or friend's enemy as your own?

honestly he was into u at the beginning then later got discouraged,bored and not interested but decided to kip chasing u just to get back at u and redeem his ego.but honestly what changed all of a sudden that u didn't see before,it had to take u 4 years to make a decision,MOST WOMEN THINK THAT THE LONGER A MAN CHASES U THE MORE SERIOUS HE IS but trust me a guy can chase a lady for 10 years just bleep her.we guys can be very persistent wen we really want something.

First of all op I wdnt tell u wat everyother person is saying cos honestly sometimes some pple cheat n actually right their wrongs.some pple here v cheaed in their relationships n were taken Back by their partners n lived hapily so y do pple always judge cheats.but coming back to u I think u shld figure out ur feelings cos they can be trickery.sometimes the ex end up better than the present,its not nollywood were it goes one way all the time

it's obvious she hasn't gotten over the sexual prowess of her ex and her subconscious still wants the ex so bad,if given the O pportuinity she would definitely cheat on her hubby with the ex,But I actually feel the hubbys pain,his ego is been squashed daily and he must feel less of a man.TO GUYS OUT THERE NEVER MARRY A WOMAN WHO HAS MORE SEXUAL EXPERIENCE THAN YOU,TRUST ME IT WILL DESTROY UR MARRIAGE

personally it is wrong nowadays makes it much more worse,back then parents did it and nothing came out but the age we are in is the age of the unimaginable and despicable acts.the level of sexual awareness in kids these days is on another level entirely,even if they do not indulge it with their dad continuous expose to such gives them an unwanted sexual desire especially kids that are already sexually aware and are very inquisitive BOTTOMLINE IT IS A NO NO

Truth be told op u have lost ur chance of ever finding out the truth,honestly u shouldn't have confronted him like that,this is the problem with most women they let emotions block their judgement,trust me if he was actually cheating then u might have lost ur only opportunity of ever finding out,u just made him more discreet n careful.it will take God's grace to find out but I wish u the best in ur marriage

Truth be told those guys exist but trust me they might be getting it somewhere,sometimes we guys can be like that if u really love a girl n don't wana lose her u might not pressure her into it but u ease ur pressure by getting it out there.
To me it's a win win if u nt caught.

No not really because I am smart I just feel I have been lucky enof to meet girls that love me more than I love them so they find it difficult to let go of me.

Trust me it will back fire.wen the guy starts misbehaving she will blame her mum.i dnt subscribe to matchmaking,let pple find their partner on their own so that no mata wat happens u wdnt blame anyone for the outcome