revson:
I am somewhat a newbie to the world of intimate relationship; and that is not because of my inability to hold down a lady but due to the fact that I am too scared to start one with the slew of bitter experiences both sexes are recounting daily. I have gone on a couple of dates but would hit off once it starts getting too serious

I once had a lady I had interest in but because of this sort of "calculated loving and romance" that is sadly gaining ascendancy, I was too scared to continue with the " love talk" as the last thing I would want at this point is a "love and affection go bad"!

Hopefully, I will join in the party someday as the boy is fast becoming a man and would need a queen to support him on the throne.

My candid suggestion is that we should slow down on this "love with your brain propaganda" as it has done to the world of romance more harm than good, often times, making its victims insensitive and at worse, a monster!

My humble submission!

If you are scared of "bitter experiences", please remember that we have bitter leaf soup.

It is prepared with a vegetable that is technically bitter, but las las - the soup is legit. And yummy. With lots of medicinal properties!

rex444:
Surprisingly, many of us fall victim for this.... but simple thing in relationship these days, guys withold your money, girls hold whatever it is you bring to the table( y'all know what I mean) and if you both can still have a healthy friendship then feel free to give her what you think she needs , she will be a keeper but if not, move on .... remember giving is a free will thing

Akanuche

Romance scammers don't put a gun to their clients head but they're regarded as criminals. You see how dumb you're sounding

Silentscreamer:
so long as she didn't put a gun to ur head to do all that, u only have urself to blame.

No not really because I am smart I just feel I have been lucky enof to meet girls that love me more than I love them so they find it difficult to let go of me.

Before that stage I will find out even if I don't t consciously intend to and their will be mutual dumping.

deltateam:


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braveboy64:
It isn't an easy task to be a man that was why Bobrisky left

Jesuspikin8:
Look at this one expecting men to tell stories like women. You'll sleep there.

You ma go wait tire for bustop.

omoharry:
haba! if we are that bad then how come there are wedding celebration every Saturday.Think am.

don't be silly.Hauen't u heard of tbe phrase "NECESSARY EVIL"?

mazipaskal:
Most times, common sense is deactivated when emotion is involved, experience makes you mature and tough

best wishes on your birthday

ubunja:
sounding rather gay there...

but you're the one that sounds gay. calling someone else gay when you have f on your profile as a man rubbish.

And this OP got me crying like this..

Lemme just brief it here, hope the wise ones will catch up.

We met, she needed money, I gave HER fuuuuuu.. A week later, nah break bell she rung.
OP I am crying.