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Happy birthday baba Gowon and happy bday to me |
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DIRECTORATE OF PRESS & PUBLIC AFFAIRS OFFICE OF THE EXECUTIVE GOVERNOR, PLATEAU STATE PRESS RELEASE Following the unfortunate reaction and spread of rumours within the Jos Metropolis in response to the agitation by Independent People of Biafra in South Eastern Nigeria, the Executive Governor of Plateau State, Rt. Hon. Simon Bako Lalong has directed an immediate imposition of curfew from dusk to dawn (6pm – 6am) within the Greater Jos - Bukuru Metropolis, until further notice; This is to forestall any break down of law and order. The Executive Governor has directed the immediate deployment of security personnel to all flash points within the Jos Metropolis to ensure compliance with the curfew and to avert any further breach of the peace. Samuel, Emmanuel Nanle Director, Press & Publi!c Affairs 16th September, 2017 |
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I see when Jos is already under tension following a reprisal attack over a reported killing of a man in the east.His kith upon learning of his death mobilised and within minutes there was commotion.Thank God for the security men who responded promptly and are now patrolling. |
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Camp will commence 24th.Next week Monday |
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Based on logistics.. Uj all d way |
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A youth corps member identified as Solomon Edward Daloba, serving in Jos, Plateau State, has been killed. According to sources, he was murdered by some unknown persons and his body dumped at a refuse site. The deceased was a Computer Science graduate of Bingham University in Abuja. Source:http://www.mathewtegha.com.ng/2017/03/a-youth-corper-murdered-in-jos-plateau.html?m=1
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Bari22:you dare refer to a man of God as a fool?I don't only pity u but your entire generation because you've placed a curse on yourself. 1 Like |
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No be lie..his life will be wasted for little change.Imagine this scammer convinced me despite the fact that I doubted him,that he's genuine. After transferring 1500 mtn card to him.The fool stopped picking my calls and even uptil now.He went as far as blocking me WhatsApp.I pity him wherever he is,because he will surely pay darely .What he will loose will be notin compare to a mere 1500.Pls shine your eyes..I am sharing this,so people will not fall victims to these miscreants. ( |
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No be lie..his life will be wasted for little change.Imagine this scammer convinced me despite the fact that I doubted him,that he's genuine. After transferring 1500 mtn card to him.The fool stopped picking my calls and even uptil now.He went as far as blocking me WhatsApp.I pity him wherever he is,because he will surely pay darely .What he will loose will be notin compare to a mere 1500.Pls shine your eyes..I am sharing this,so people will not fall victims to this miscreants. ( |
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Igboid:. No be lie..his life will be wasted for little change.Imagine this scammer convinced me despite the fact that I doubted him,that he's genuine. After transferring 1500 mtn card to him.The fool stopped picking my calls and even uptil now.He went as far as blocking me WhatsApp.I pity him wherever he is,because he will surely pay darely .What he will loose will be notin compare to a mere 1500.Pls shine your eyes..I am sharing this,so people will not fall victims to this miscreants. 1 Like |
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mizthorlu:It's at kabba |
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ibroh22:Thanks a lot. I did and it has bin corrected |
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My name was wrongly spelt but I still registered.How do I correct it? |
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My name was wrongly spelt but I still registered.How do I correct it? |
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[quote author=justifiedcoyy post=50278742] congrats.. please.choose yobe and taraba ..please ![]() |
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shepado:Yes..What's happening to ujay na.I haven't seen my name oh |
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watered:I haven't seen my name yet oh..sm of my classmates did but very few and i heard the names have bin removed |
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@Op,i doubt if u even know the meaning of Investigative journalism,and if u do i wonder why u didn't give a brief definition.Atleast for d sake of your readers,because am sure sm don't even know wat you're trying to say+wat you're saying has notin do with investigative journalism,otherwise known as yellow journalism.So wen next you're writing,try to know aliitle about wat your subject matter right b4 posting anything. 1 Like |
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More pic from yesterday's rain in Jos
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still in jos yesterday
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Lilimax:
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A car theft was reported at the Jos University Teaching Hospital(JUTH). A 60 year old man name withheld was caught with some group of people whom were identified as his gang tried to move a way with a car packed inside the hospital environment but got caught in the process. According to an eye witness, this was what he narrated. "I can't just believe an old man in his 60's could come with his gang and use a master key to drive out of JUTH through the popular Gate IV. If not for God, what he planned was to use the James Bond. But unfortunately was blocked as they tried to drive out just by Habitat Guest House, this car would have been a lost vehicle by now. Thank God" More photos after the cut
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To make your job-hunt, internships or
Industrial Attachment search a success,
it is very important that you learn to
write a good CV (Curriculum Vitae) in a
way it will truly appeal to local
employers.
It has been observed that writing a CV
in Nigeria is something people put off
for as long as possible
and when they eventually get to it, they
have the impression that so long as
important elements such as work
experience, educational qualifications
and bio-data are in place, a CV is
complete.
Your CV is an account or narration of
yourself. It is YOU talking about YOU in
YOUR very own words and in the best
way possible. It starts from who you
are, to all the places you have been and
how you have contributed to those
places; your achievements, how you
spent your time, and even personal
details like your marital status and so
on. Bearing this in mind, every detail and
information provided must be
meticulously considered and articulately
presented. Put your most flattering
qualities or accomplishments up front
and then move gradually to less
flattering qualities.
In writing your CV, presentation is
everything! Your content, layout,
template, font type, font size, line
spacing, bullets and borders are all
crucial in achieving a great looking CV. If
someone has 3 years of experience and
another has 6 years of experience, and
they are both applying for the same job,
the ONLY thing that differentiates them
is the way they both present their work
experiences.
Steps To Write A Good CV
1. Profile
An objective is simply a goal while a
profile is a brief description that
summarizes your qualities, vis-a-vis
where you are coming from and where
you hope to be. It shouldn't be more
than two sentences or three short
sentences at most.
2. Experience
Your experience(s) should indicate the
name of the company, your designation/
title, your job description and the
duration of service. The address of the
company is not compulsory except you
are applying for a job outside of your
state or country of residence. Your
experience(s) should follow a
chronological sequence (most recent to
least recent). Also stick to the present
tense when describing your current job
description.
3. Achievements
This is a run-down of exceptional
accomplishments you have bagged over
a period of time. It can include a record
breaking GP, an award, a surpassed
target, an impeccable record and the
likes. Your achievements are supposed
to score you extra points with a
potential employee but if it does
otherwise, remove it!
4. Bio-data
Your bio-data which consists of your
date of birth, gender and state of origin
are not necessarily your most important
details. In-fact, it could serve as a
disadvantage. Should you apply for a
particular vacancy and you are past the
age requirement, if your age is the first
thing a potential employer sees, you are
likely to be disqualified even before your
CV is given a proper appraisal. So it’s
best to keep those details at the tail end
of your CV.
Points to bear in mind:
1. Chose bold and legible fonts
2. Use simple and unambiguous words.
Leave no room for vagueness.
3. Have a focus and find a way to infuse
your interest and specialization into your
CV
4. Be accountable. Always account for
time spent. Ensure your CV reflects that
you are constantly adding value, honing
your skills or getting more education.
5. Never include in your CV what you are
not a 100% certain will be a plus.
6. Keep your CV to a maximum of three
pages except you have had several
years of experience.
7. Ensure that you can defend everything
that you have written in your CV
8. Lastly, don’t forget to KISS! (Keep It
Short and Simple!)
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As December 25th approaches, we've
found ourselves saying "Merry
Christmas " to everyone from our grocery
store cashier to our family members. But
have you ever stopped to wonder where
the phrase "Merry Christmas" comes
from? In a world where it's normal to
say "Happy Easter" and "Happy
Birthday," the "merry" in "Merry
Christmas" is unique.
The folks at Mental Floss recently
pondered the same question and found
that the answer goes back to the
connotation of the two words. "Happy" is
an emotional condition, while "merry" is
a behavior.
Furthermore, happy, which came from
the word "hap," meaning luck or
chance implies good-fortune. Meanwhile,
"merry" implies a more active showing
of happiness—which you might think of
as merry-making.
While both words have evolved and
changed meaning over time (yes—people
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In all of God’s creation, there is nothing as uncertain as a relationship. That is why a woman can be married to her husband for twenty years and still be shocked by his actions one day. The character of your partner can determine whether marriage will be a prison or a paradise for you, so choose wisely. Below is a list of 5 types of men that every woman should avoid. To make this advice fun and easy to remember, let’s represent the different types of men with common food items that you can find in any Ghanaian kitchen. Mr. Onion: If your man always makes you cry, my sister, you are married to an onion! These are the men who are emotionally abusive. They insult you, humiliate you and make you feel worthless. They may never hit you but the words they use can hurt you more than a thousand blows. They can convince you that no one wants you because you are not good enough. With time, you will even become grateful that he is with you because he will make you feel that you do not even deserve him. Mr. Pepper: Has raw, ground pepper accidentally ever touched a part of your body? How did it feel afterwards? I bet it hurt a lot- agyeeiii! The ‘Pepper’ kind of guys are the ones who are physically abusive. It starts with a shove, then a slap and before you know it, he is battering you even when you are pregnant. You now become a creative story- teller- inventing all kinds of fantastic stories to explain to your work colleagues why your face is swollen every now and then. This is the type of man who will surely kill you one day. Mr. Sugar: We all know that sugar is sweet but what we forget is how it can literally make you sick as you consume a lot of it overtime. In the same way, there are many guys that are frauds. These men can lie about anything. He will tell you he is an international businessman with houses all over the world when he cannot even afford three square meals a day. This guy can lie that he is single although he is married to a wife with four kids and a baby on the way! Unbelievable. Mr. Bean: Don’t get it twisted- this is not the funny comedic Mr. Bean we all know. Have you prepared beans for waakye or red red before? You have to pick out stones and insects, soak the beans for hours and then boil it for more hours with lots of water. Haba! In the same way, there are some men that will take everything from you, your time, money, body and heart without giving you any commitment whatsoever. These men can date you for years and use up all your resources but refuse to even give you an engagement ring. Mr. Koobi: Koobi, that tasty, salted tilapia is so notorious for producing a strong aromatic odour when it is used to prepare food. You can be living in your own small apartment but I dare you to cook with koobi and see whether the aroma won’t escape into your neighbour’s room and beyond! This is the type of guy who doesn’t understand that marriage is primarily between himself and his wife. He does not have any qualms chasing women outside the marriage. He takes advice from his friends about how to treat you or he may put his family members above you. Totally unacceptable. It is better to take your time and select a suitable mate than to rush and select a partner who has some of these negative traits listed. A toxic relationship is a relationship not worth having and you deserve better. Next time you meet a man who reminds you of any of the characters above, avoid him at all costs and tell him “Sorry oh, Mr. Onion, I’m not ready to cry every day!” |
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In this article, Poet and writer Tola Bolaji analyses Olamide’s mega hit song Shakiti Bobo and gives a whole new meaning to the song. It is often believed that Nigerians are musical illiterates. We care less about the lyrics of those songs we love so much; we rather prefer rhythm and melody. No wonder Project Fame, Nigerian Idol and Naija Got Talent winners rarely make it big in the musical world unless they go the way of the auto-tuned world of Sarz on the beat, its Young John the wicked producer or Don Jazzy again. Don’t forget that rap is rhythm and poetry. Permit me to refer to Olamide as a Poet. The Poet opens up with the call to the ‘Wobes’, his cronies. He explains that he has been a victim of some wrong accusations on social media that he is a drug addict with specialty in marijuana and cocaine. He passionately exclaims that success in life is nothing but an insane venture requiring a commitment that demands daily and nightly exertions. He further explained that now that he has found out that the path to success is hard work, he has chosen never to be a fool sitting at the backstage of life. ‘Oya Shakiti Bobo’ is a revolutionary call: ‘O awake my brother, fasten your trouser belts and get ready to work hard.’ To own a Ferrari, to drive around in a Bentley and to fly to Paris in your air-bus requires a mad commitment to do what no other will be sane enough to do. In the next stanza, he passionately challenges his accusers who attribute his successes to internet fraud (Yahoo Yahoo), he attacks their envious claims as they persistently refuse his apparent right to musical leadership, a product of sweat, tears and blood. The Poet beautifully describes his lowly upbringing, highly motivated by his hard experiences on the street of Lagos and its attendant temptations to do evil. He explains that his decision to ignore the path of evil is borne out of his mother’s positive influence in his life and his determination never to disappoint her. She must have influenced his resolve to make it against all odds, sacrificing normal meals for the garri-soaking non-delicacy. Then he faces his so-called successful pals, verbally pushing them away; guys and ladies who have forgotten their upbringing and the people that contributed to their successes in life. ‘You dey live a flashy lifestyle but your mother dey soak Akamu’ was his ferocious accusation of his musical buddies with no contribution to their families, who are still cramped in the slums living in abject poverty. He begs them to turn a new leaf and bring home some cash to soften the blow of poverty on their parent’s faces. Then he throws a cheap one, he concludes that even the so called graduates cannot measure up to him. Many will still say his reference was Omo Gravity but to some it is more of a pun as it achieves the dual effect. This song obviously goes beyond the leg jumping to meet the hand rhythmic dance steps. It has a message. Next time take more time to listen to the message of Nigerian songs. You might just be lucky to meet – just like a song writer in Naija said – one in a million. Awake my Brother… Oya Shakiti Bobo… 1 Like 1 Share |
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A side chick is commonly known as a mistress or
a woman that’s romantically involved with a man
who is in a committed relationship. However
after doing some reflecting, I realize that’s not
the only type of side chick.
I want to discuss “the new side chick”–a woman
who decides to stay by a man’s side after he has
expressed his lack of relationship intentions with
her through his words or actions. So many
women have made this mistake at least once in
their lifetime, and unfortunately I’ve done the
same thing.
I like to think of the new side chick as an
appetizer. You’re there just to satisfy the
immediate appetite of the man, but as soon as
that mouth-watering entrée comes out to the
table, you will get pushed to the side, literally.
Why? Because that entrée is what he
really wanted; he went to the restaurant to order
steak, not hot wings. You were just a
placeholder, fling, temporary commitment, or
maybe even just a “good ol time” until what he
really wanted was presented to him. I know I
sound a bit harsh, but even I had to realize my
then-reality for what it was. Simply put: you are
not and will never be his Queen.
The truth hurts, but it can only make you
stronger.
I would like to open up about my experience with
this one particular guy where I found myself
playing the new side chick role. I will refer to him
as “Jake”.
From the moment Jake and I met, we
immediately clicked. I could talk to him about
anything. We would laugh and joke on the phone
for hours and help each other out. He was so
supportive, encouraging, and respectful. We had
such a beautiful and strong friendship. I was
attracted to his mind, personality, and character.
However, it was the magnetic chemistry and
connection we had that made me fall for him. He
became my best friend.
I thought this was it . He could possibly be the
‘one’.
We began talking every day, multiple times
throughout the day. As time went on and our
feelings for each other grew stronger, our actions
began to reflect a “more-than-friend-on-the-
verge-to-a-relationship” type thing.
At this point, I fell for him. I had given my heart
to a man who was not mine.
I need to pause my story and say this: Queens,
we need to learn to stop giving too much too
soon. Proverbs 4:23 says “Above all else, guard
your heart, for everything flows from it.” It’s
impossible to guard your heart when you’re
always giving it away. I think it’s beautiful that
God created us to be nurturers and emotional.
However, we are too quick to give away our time,
body, money, and emotions to men who have not
EARNED it.
A Queen will not have to audition her love to
her King. Her King will already recognize her
worth, virtues, and beauty. Stop giving away so
much of you that you end up with nothing for
yourself. Better yet, stop giving away so much
that a man has nothing else to work for. At this
point you’re an emotional wreck. You go out and
try to fill that void of emptiness through other
men, food, material things, etc, but always come
up short. Queen, only GOD can fill you up after
you have depleted yourself. Go to Him, not the
world.
I am speaking from experience. Though I never
gave Jake my body or money, I gave him way too
much of my time and emotions even after he
expressed to me that he did not want a
relationship.
Before a woman gets too involved with a man,
she should find out what his intentions are and
listen carefully to his answer.
When I asked Jake what his intentions were with
me, he said: “I like you and I see you as
someone for the long-term. However, I am young
and I know I still have a lot of playing left to do,
so I’m not ready for a relationship.” That reason
eventually evolved to him saying he doesn’t want
a relationship because he’s focused on school
and his internship. He wanted to secure his
future first.
I thought those reasons were valid, and that’s
why I still stuck by his side. Plus his actions
toward me did not change, so I figured he really
wanted to be with me; it was just bad timing. I
thought that one day, once he got the “play” out
his system and completed his internship, he
would be ready. So, I continued to allow myself
to get more attached emotionally and mentally.
I wish I knew then what I know now: A man who
really wants to be with you will find every
reason to be with you. A man who does not
want to be with you will find every excuse why he
can’t be with you.
Queen, don’t make the same mistake as me. You
can’t change a man nor his intentions with you.
Months went by and we continued our usual
routine. He ended up completing his internship
and securing a job post graduation. I noticed a
slight behavioral change toward me and
confronted him about it. He ended up telling me
that he met somebody new and wanted to explore
his options with her now that he had his future
secured.
And just like that, I was pushed to the side .
I was so hurt, frustrated, and disappointed. I
remember thinking: “I’ve been building and talking
to this guy for 9 months. How dare he pushes
me to the side to pursue someone else. I was the
one who always held him down, supported, and
helped him. Now that he’s “played” and secured
his future, he decides to talk to someone else. He
wasted my time! How dare him! This is not fair!”
Eventually I had to turn the mirror to myself and
take responsibility for my actions. I was the one
who decided to get attached to a man who
verbally expressed to me that he wasn’t ready for
a relationship. I was the one who allowed a man
to stick around in my life for 9 months with no
type of commitment attached. I settled for this
type of treatment because I did not see myself
worthy of something better. I thought I would
never find anyone comparable or better than Jake
if I walked away. At that point in my life, he was
the best I ever had, and I was afraid to let that
go.
I am sure many of you are or know someone who
is holding on to relationships and ‘situationships’
that God never brought together. As the year is
coming to the end, I want to challenge all Queens
to step out on faith, trust God, and release that
dead weight. For 2015, I challenge you to
redefine your worth and standards according to
who GOD says you are and to never accept any
treatment that demeans you.
Get that peasant off your throne and make room
for the King that God wants you to build an
empire with. Stop giving your body away to
someone who’s not even giving you a real
commitment. Stop cooking all of these gourmet
meals for that man who can’t even take you out
on a real date. Cut off the guy that keeps coming
in and out of your life because he doesn’t know
what he wants. Indecisiveness is a decision .
Make the decision for him and let him go . Stop
acting like an uber to some of these men who
won’t even catch a taxi for you. Just because he
sends for you, doesn’t mean you need to come.
Pick up your crown and wear it with dignity and
class.
Some of you right now may be trying to justify in
your mind on why you can’t let go and move on.
You’ve fell in love with the “what if”, his potential,
and what it could be if you stayed. Queen, stop
embracing the fantasy and accept your reality .
I know it’s easier said than done to cut off
someone you have invested in and have feelings
for, but that’s where your FAITH comes in. Is
your trust in God or the “option” of men you “see”
around you? When me and Jake abruptly ended, I
went on a “man fast”. I decided to focus on my
relationship with Jesus and allow Him to mold me
into the woman He called me to be. I decided to
not focus on my “still single” status and the lack
of man options around me. All of that time and
emotion I would’ve given to Jake, I gave to
Christ . I learned that the more I put into Christ,
the more He puts into me. I took back my crown
and regained peace, joy, confidence, purpose, and
love.
Man’s rejection is God’s protection! Jake was
never fit to be My King . I can’t thank God
enough for protecting me from a what would’ve
been unfulfilling and purposeless relationship.
Since then, God has showed me that there are
better men than the “Jakes” of this world. He’s
introduced me to much better when I least
expected it. If He did it for me, have faith that
one day He will do it for you. :-)
Be blessed. 2 Likes |
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