Politics › Re: Dubai Update: Ibori's Bail Revoked! by jodeci(m): 1:44pm On Jun 10, 2010 |
sayso: what is this man's crime? where are u creeping out from? |
Politics › Re: Fashola sef, na wa o. by jodeci(m): 12:09pm On Jun 10, 2010 |
U call that wicked? for me it is developmental thinking
Such decision need to be taken now for tomorrow.
u dont have a point. |
Travel › Re: Port Harcourt The Most Expensive City In Nigeria? by jodeci(m): 11:36am On Jun 09, 2010 |
gregg2: You have obviously not traveled wide. Move out of Lagos and try Abuja and Port Harcourt In Abuja, a 3 bedroom cost you about 2.2m naira or more and in PH about 1.5m naira annually. Lagos is not as expensive as these cities, oga. I doubt if you hv been to PHC before,there is no where in PHC that 3 bedroom will cost u as much as 1.5m annually,even in the GRAS. |
Celebrities › Re: Star Singer, Terry G Arrested, Released by jodeci(m): 1:04pm On Apr 21, 2010 |
always testing the micro-phone in all his song.The guy sucks! |
Autos › Re: 20 Most Problematic Vehicles! by jodeci(m): 7:56am On Apr 07, 2010 |
No BMW involved? thought people say BMW cars are the most performing as well as the most troublesome. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Why The Age Discrimination On Jobs? by jodeci(m): 2:43pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
The bottom line is that the country is flooded with unemployed graduates.The situation gave employers a choice. Normally employers should be the ones begging for people to come join them,but alas, they are taking advantage of the high rate of unemployment in the country to discriminate,either in age ,years of experience or class of qualification. |
Technology Market › Re: 42 Inch Samsung Plasma Tv by jodeci(m): 3:15pm On Feb 03, 2010 |
Even at 50K,nothing will be amazing bout these heavy loads. |
Politics › Re: Pdp Fund Raiser Rakes In N2bn For Soludo by jodeci(m): 4:11pm On Jan 14, 2010 |
Igbo Mafia: Our comments here shows how shallow knowledged we are in politicall affairs. Tell me which electioneering campaign that does nor require money Fashola had his fund raising dinner and money was donated to him. Today, who is stopping Fash from doing his work. Money was also raised for Sullivan Chime, Akpabio and so many others. Why wold Soludo sell his decorum for paltry N2bn Pls lets be objective in our reasonings and comments. Money was raised for Obama, Gordon Brown, and the rest. Lets reason like people who are alive!!! This is the only sane comment here. |
Politics › Re: Kalu: I Spoke With Yaradua Days After They Said He Died: Rumour Worse Than Lie by jodeci(m): 5:03pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
bk_baybe99: From wut I. Understand this Ibori is ibo. The Attorney General of Nigeria is ibo (I think) yet they are the biggest praise singers of your invinsible president! All I'm saying is in the future do not twist the truth and blame the yorubas for one of you's (jonathan) inability to pick up the presidency as your lot are the ones presently working feverishly against him!!! This guy has a serious brain damage,he should be put on life support fast before he goes raving mad |
Literature › Re: A Letter To Imam Farouk (laugh N Forget your Sorrow) by jodeci(m): 12:39pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
Since he was capable of suicide mission,he would have waited for PDP convention,probably on the grand finale day,He would have reduced drastically the number of those who have held us hostage with bad governance.
That would have been a lot more rewarding to HIM and to Nigeria.
But he choosed otherwise |
Technology Market › Re: Laptop For Sale: @ N19,000 by jodeci(m): 1:33pm On Jan 08, 2010 |
Believe me at this price,it will take the Processor 1/3 day to process an input |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Soludo Caused The Massive Bank Layoffs by jodeci(m): 9:33am On Dec 23, 2009 |
stealth01: The current mishap of job losses and the associated trauma being faced by the individuals and respective families of those laid off can only be attributed to one fact- that the former CBN Governor, Prof Charles Soludo did not do his job while he was in office
We were busy building a pack of cards that we called the "Mega Banks" of Nigerian banking industry now these once highly ranked institutions in the International financial markets have recently had their credit ratings seriously downgraded
This was a clear case of failure in Corporate governance While these bank executives were busy globe trotting the world and receiving accolades for fictitious performances they recorded on their income statements and the size of their so called "balance sheets" that never balanced, the stock market enjoyed an unusual boom most fueled by insider trading and share price manipulations, Stock brokers had a free day with margin loans, proper credit checks/KYC were not done on these Corporate Clients by the lenders, no bank could really tell the exposure of these FI accounts and we had cases of multiple borrowings with the same collaterals which were also even share backed facilities probably encouraged by an absence of Credit Registry
After the recapitalisation, the then CBN management did not see a need to firm up supervision in these banks but the former CBN governor chose to receive awards and dinners hosted for him by these highly paid bank "execu-thieves". I can recall clearly that the media warned it was a strategy to silence the then governor of the Apex bank but some of us turned a deaf ear
Now the truth has come out and like they say it is bitter and just as the CBN and the executives have reiterated, the current position of these banks cannot sustain the workforce they previously carried.
However, the CBN would have involved the TUC and NLC alongside the current management of the 24 banks in a process of collective bargaining and worked out "reasonable" modalities for the rationalization (salary cuts as much as 60% would have been more preferable rather than massive layoffs) and not leave it to the banks to decide how to do what to do
I sympathize with those that have lost their jobs and the families concerned, i lost mine in October and i know what it feels like being unemployed again.
Though no one is perfect but I feel there's no moral justification for Prof. Charles Soludo to come out at this time that he wants to rule anyone or people group in this nation considering the pains he's causing many families in this country today as a result of his "oversight" while at the CBN
We only hope the current recession will be over soon and you never can tell it may be a blessing in disguise. God takes away the first that he may establish the second. You are only showing off your ignorance,does Sanusi seem to you like one that would have forgiven Soludo if Soludo was culpable in anyway? I bet you, Sanusi would have sent EFCC on his trail long ago. It is better to shut-up if you are not well informed. |
Politics › Re: Breaking News: Soludo Is Pdp Candidate - Supreme Court by jodeci(m): 4:05pm On Dec 17, 2009 |
mikeansy: Even Justice Mary Odili does not believe in her own ruling, that is why herself and her two other colleagues handling the case were not on hand to deliver the Judgement.
They passed it to someone else to deliver.
The question is why did she make that decision to grant such an order in the first place. Now that the coast is clear for Soludo,lets all join hands to ensure he ascends government house in Awka next year. I just like the guy. |
Politics › Re: Breaking News: Soludo Is Pdp Candidate - Supreme Court by jodeci(m): 3:57pm On Dec 17, 2009 |
Quite embarrassing for Justice Mary Odili. She is only good at issuing orders restraining EFCC from arresting and prosecuting her husband,Peter Odili.Thats the climax of her law knowledge. |
Autos › Re: Car Loan - 0% Down Payment Possible? by jodeci(m): 3:50pm On Dec 17, 2009 |
dont forget that your salary account has to be transfered to their bank |
Politics › Re: Breaking News: Soludo Is Pdp Candidate - Supreme Court by jodeci(m): 3:26pm On Dec 17, 2009 |
Supreme Court Saves Soludo December 17, 2009 15:07 (11 minutes ago), 9 views The country’s apex court, Supreme Court, this afternoon saved the governorship ambition of Professor Charles Soludo, former Central Bank governor, by voiding the ruling of the Appeal Court baring him from contesting the 6 February, 2010 governorship election in Anambra State.
Delivering ruling this afternoon, the Supreme Court ruled that the Justices of the Court of Appeal erred in law by voiding the nomination of Soludo as the governorship candidate of the PDP.
The five-man Supreme Court panel, led by Justice George Oguntade, therefore, set aside the order of the Court of Appeal which restricted INEC from recognizing Soludo as the PDP governorship candidate in the 2010 election.
The apex court noted that the order granted by the Court of Appeal yesterday was misplaced and most unwarranted and ordered INEC to accord Soludo every privilege and recognition due to him as the candidate of PDP.
The court ruled that the appelate was not right in making the preservative order it made. It described the order as furious in that the subject matter of the case “is time sensitive.”
The apex court also stated that the order did not avail Soludo a level playing ground.
The Court of Appeal yesterday ruled that Professor Soludo was not validly nominated by the party and therefore INEC should not recognized him as the PDP governorship candidate for the Anambra election.
The order followed an application filed by three PDP governorship aspirants, Mr. Valentine Ozoigbo, NKoli Imo and Ferdinand Okoye.
With the Supreme Court ruling today, the coast is now clear for Professor Soludo to contest the February 6 governorship election in Anambra State.
Source:The PM news |
Celebrities › Re: The House Psquare Is Building by jodeci(m): 11:03am On Dec 07, 2009 |
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Technology Market › Re: n by jodeci(m): 10:55am On Nov 25, 2009 |
please confirm that u are serious and where are u located |
Music/Radio › Re: P Square Feat Jadakiss by jodeci(m): 12:09pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
mouna: Is Jadakiss so desperate for a comeback that he has to be in a duet with the worst counterfeit product naija has ever produced aka p-square?. When them go tire to copy other people beats and choreography sef?. This is a NEVER-Do-WELL talking from the heat of frustrated life. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Got An Incomplete Text For An Interview.help! by jodeci(m): 1:22pm On Nov 05, 2009 |
sounds like a wedding invitation to me. |
Business › Sanusi Also Involved In Bad Loans When At First Bank by jodeci(op): 4:00pm On Nov 03, 2009 |
To me,SLS has no moral right to sacked the MDs of the troubled banks if he was also involved in bad loans when he was at the helm of affairs at first bank.
sourcehttp://thepmnews.com/2009/11/03/first-bank-reports-n74-billion-bad-loan |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Indians Are 2nd Largest Employers In Nigeria by jodeci(m): 10:10am On Nov 03, 2009 |
you forgot to add that they are the worst in terms of renumeration.I hate them with a passion. |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerian Music - "danger" Disappoints P-square by jodeci(m): 9:51am On Nov 02, 2009 |
mbulela: don't expose your ignorance in public like this. which royalty? the marketer paid them (as is the practice) upfront. Whether he sold 10 copies or 1 billion copies does not change anything. this story is trash because if you listen to the album you will know that it is not a near possibility. popularity of an album must not be equated with sales. people do not buy albums as much as it is imagined. coupled with the fact that pirates copies is almost 50% of the total sales. i rarely believe any word that comes out of the mouth of the Okoyes. They are fond of exaggerating their outputs and often talk first before thinking. sometimes i wonder if they think they are talking to idiots. It is obvious you dont read with understanding,so i wont join issues with you. |
Family › Re: F by jodeci(op): 9:11am On Nov 02, 2009 |
Outstrip: If this guy does not really know that his disrespectful brother needs to go by now then his problem is bigger than what he is writing here. He knew what he was supposed to do before he came on here. He was hoping to hear people say his wife is a trouble maker. He will wait and let his wife lose trust in him and then his brother moves on and marries his own wife. I don't think a lot of Nigerian men understand that most women need to feel safe when it comes to their husband. Once that trust and faith in you is gone, IT IS GONE. You will never get it back. Paying the bills and coming home at a decent hour does not make you a husband. It just makes you a human being. Don't wait around for your wife to have a reason to think you are not a man. It is too important to a marriage. I think your wife is an angel. I would have moved your brothers things into the master's bedroom since he owns the house and lock you outside. Thank God you have a wife like the one you have A contribution from the anus.You dont have to make it obvious you lack the skill to read and understand.,i made it clear from the first lines that this is for the mature and not for those whose contributions are borne from the whims and caprices of their anus instead of brain.I am out of here,infiltrators have arrived. |
Family › Re: F by jodeci(op): 11:30am On Oct 30, 2009 |
sayso: @poster I have not experienced such but almost but with my first cousin,though very had but I sent her away,but what I always do is make sure that every body concern gets what he or she needs for upkeep,that includes wife/kids/brothers/sisters/mother/mother inlaw and father.This I have to go through to keep everybody happy but you have to deny yourself to achieve this.I encourage my brothers to stay on thier own for easy survival and it is working but you have to monitor their progress. For first cousin? i wont even think twice before eviction from the house. |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerian Music - "danger" Disappoints P-square by jodeci(m): 11:12am On Oct 30, 2009 |
muffins: I haven't listened to the album yet. I guess u noted that it was the marketers that indicated the number sold and not p-square. Peter added by reminding that for a marketer to admit having sold a huge figure, he (the marketer) realizes the consequence because it influences the royalties he will be paying them (owners of the work). |
Family › Re: F by jodeci(op): 10:31am On Oct 30, 2009 |
Thanks Guys,it been a wonderful contribution fro each and everyone of you. |
Family › Re: F by jodeci(op): 3:34pm On Oct 29, 2009 |
@ beetle
yeah,we have a set of twins,our first issue after 18 months of marriage.
i will never scold or insult my wife outside the bedroom,so the question of quarreling with her before my bros doesnt arise.
as per my bros and domestic chores,he doesn't help in anyway at all,absolutely lazy when it comes to domestic chores.But my wife and i overlooked that since i can practically play the role of a woman when it comes to domestic chores,i had rather help.
I am really learning alot from this fore-going. |
Family › Re: F by jodeci(op): 2:16pm On Oct 29, 2009 |
@ Pharoh,
I deliberately posted this on the family section,as i earlier stated,It is only for the mature and experienced and not for BOYS.
All the same,i appreciate all contributions,as i go through your contributions.I feel heavily relieved and inching closer to the solution.You wont how difficult it has been except u have been through same.
Once more,Thanks to you all. |
Family › Re: F by jodeci(op): 11:58am On Oct 29, 2009 |
Pharoh: Good to hear back from you now, Your reply makes my earlier solution more complicated or easy. Since he is looking to make mega bucks before leaving then i don't think it will be easy for him to accede to my earlier solution. Anyway in that regard what you can do is to help him fast track the process of making the mega bucks. He is going to finish serving soon so if you have good contacts you can start the processing of making sure that he is placed in a very comfortable Job after the service year. It could be in the oil and gas sector, banking, telecoms or high paying fields.
You can as well try to find out what youths are doing these days that brings good money quickly to them and introduce or encourage him to try those stuffs as well. It could be Forex trading or anything just try to do some little research. I will not be subscribing to crime (yahoo yahoo) or anything illegal but at least it could be something fast but not what will land someone in trouble. Nigeria is a ground for fast business so he can try something because from your reply it seems he is not going out everyday apart from receiving all those money.
It will be good if you try to find out from your wife what is the problem she is having with your brother? It could be about the food or helping in the domestic duties, it could also be about privacy issues (Intruding on her privacy or receiving friends especially female ones or loud friends). It could also be how your brother behaves around the house. She might also be angry why you are taking care of an adult if she contributes greatly in running the household. I don't know but try to find out. Then try to ask your brother as well what is the problem, i would want to suggest that maybe it is because your wife is younger than him or maybe he thinks he deserves your unconditional sympathy if like me your parents struggled to raise you all up. He might be thinking your wife is just enjoying what she did not work for. Please this are just suggestions and tell me if i am going overboard. I would like to plead that you should not be offended .
Good that your wife is close to your parents and maybe your other brothers and sisters since it will make them see reason for your actions. If you do find out or you already know what is the issue between them please let us know. I will like to say more if i know that because i would not be advising you for now to solve the problem from one angle ( Brother or Wife) since it might be misinterpreted by the other party and we all know the after effects (Hatred from your family or a wife that is not happy).
Sorry for the long post. From all sincerity of purpose,i appreciate your contribution,i have asked my wife severally why the constant quarrels between my bros and her,all she could answer was she doesnt like how my brother talks. On the other hand,my brother thinks,i am not doing enough for him in terms of giving him money and these he thinks my wife is stopping me from doing.I have explained to him severally that i might be as rich as he thinks, after all i am only a salary earner. I have also tried telling my wife to tolerate him,even when he talks thrash to his friends to her hearing,but she cant bottle that. Like just yesterday,my wife over heard him telling his girlfriend that,he is not gaining anything from me apart from food and accommodation and that even the food my wife gives him most times wasn't what he wants to eat,my wife over head him and flare up.It took my land lord to quell the skirmish,since i was not at home. |
Family › Re: F by jodeci(op): 10:33am On Oct 29, 2009 |
Pharoh: Do you have the means to rent a home for your brother and make him productive if he is not working at the moment?
Before doing this it will good if you sit him down and tell him you are doing it so he can become a man. Do not bring the issue of your wife as your reason for doing that. Don't be too serious when talking to him and don't do it in a serious atmosphere. Do it in a free and friendly manner. Don't talk to him like a Junior brother but as a mate.
It could be after one or two drinks or watching a football match and then you start this brotherly friendly talk. Give him reasons that will boost his ego and don't even go near the issue with your wife. Start being friendly to him weeks before doing this. Tell him he is going to have more freedom to be what he wants to be. Like having the fun of his life and also remind him that this will not break the bond between both of you.
I believe if you wish well for your brother, your family is going to understand the actions you have taken. Talk to them in a humble and friendly manner, Don't show it that you won't take their advice or you are trying to cut away from them. How old is your brother? Is he studying right now or working? Try to draw your wife closer to your family, even if she is not visiting at least calling them on the phone will be okay. Always try to attend family gatherings with her or events.
This is the little i can put down for now but will surely do more if there are new details in your reply. I wish you well brother. Thanks very much for your reply,i wasnt thinking in that direction.He is a corper,but only travels to sign his allowee and returns,i have talked to him severally on the need for him to go independent,but he is always looking at making mega bucks at once befor leaving my house.Even with the NYSC allowee,i still give him money to supplement. My wife is closer to my family,at least to my parents. |
Family › F by jodeci(op): 9:22am On Oct 29, 2009*. Modified: 3:14pm On Oct 25, 2013 |
please. |