₦airaland Forum

Martinez39:
Just like little children who obstinately won't read a novel without pictures, women will never never grow up and take responsibilities. They are self centred and want to be entertained by their spouses like audience in a circus. They will forever remain children in adult bodies.

How can they approach marriage and be successful in it without a sense of duty and the attitude of taking responsibility and making sacrifices? They foolishly think everything is supposed to be like a funfair.

Fun Fact : women are more responsible than men in marriages...they carter tirelessly for the needs of their children... They work endlessly..

Oh God bless Women......
. women are mostly faithful in marriages...hence look for fun ...

Men are often cheaters...thus have enough fun going on..

bigpriik:
who break op heart she never says anything g good about men who break op heart she never says anything g good about men

I'm a very straight forward person...I try to be logical in my decisions..

I speak the truth

ubunja:
Nice.

But do remember time is your worst enemy and the more educated and independent you get the more unsuitable you become for the role of trophy wife to a rich man who'll fund the life of adventure you crave.

I'm not looking for a rich man to fund a life of adventure...

A relationship is like a partnership between two people...we can do it together...

I don't just want to spend the rest of my life subjected to a series of events...

Tufiakwa...life is supposed to be spontaneous..

karlboss:
The guys on nairaland sometimes are amazing. The lady that posted this topic just want to justify the action of the women with the excuse that Nigerian men are boring.

Ok let's us agree we are boring.

So does that give a married woman the guts to want to travel with another man for fun?

A woman will leave the kids at home and travel with another man, with the excuse that Nigerian men are boring.

It's just a not to intelligent move by j.odha to give a stupid excuse to the shameful act of present day mother's and wives

I'm not giving a stupid excuse....and only using this scenario as a yardstick to portray how boring many Nigerian marriages are....

Thus men should try to spice up their marriages...do something fun once in a while...

Not repeating the same schedule again and again and again....till yhu kingdom comes...

That's all

CoolVoice:
If the guy have spent well for you and this is all you could get for him.. that's insensible from the girl.

She bought the one she could afford...it was insensitive of him to be an ingrate...

Skmoda360:
She should have gone for this below.....

She bought the one available to her..

CAPSLOCKED:
THIS ONE IS DRUNK O. WHAT YOU'RE SAYING DOESN'T CORRESPOND AT ALL BUT AS USUAL NA, I CAN'T EXPECT ANYTHING BETTER. BUT PLEASE O, CATERING FOR FAMILY AND DOING CHORES AND HARD LABOUR, DOES IT BRIGHTEN UP A RELATIONSHIP OR REPLACE COMMUNICATION AND AFFECTION?

IF YOU SAY NIGERIAN MEN ARE BORING DO YOU IMPLY THAT NIGERIAN MEN ARE LAZY AND DON'T FEND FOR THEIR FAMILIES?

Go back and read my posts again slowly and carefully....maybe yhull understand then...

CAPSLOCKED:
YOU PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS IN THE MOOD TO FIGHT AND KILL MEN.

I HAVE A VERY STRONG FEELING THAT IF THE GOVERNMENT ENLISTS WOMEN AND DO AWAY WITH ALL THOSE LAZY, BORING, SCUM MALE SOLDIERS...... BOKO HARAM + HERDSMEN WILL BE BYGONE IN LESS THAN 3 DAYS.

A very dry attempt at a joke...

Okpa042:
Ikr.. .. Men are scum

Close yhur 32 please....ain't nobody smiling with yhu...

MJBOLT:

is marriage a one man thing?what is stopping women from suprising their husbands?

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Woman wrapper...they there dey wait for yhur wife to surprise yhu ..

Nonsense

CAPSLOCKED:
CAN'T BE SEPARATED THESE DAYS.



MOST WOMEN ARE VERY IDLE IN MARRIAGES AND RELATIONSHIPS. THEY ACTUALLY DO NOTHING OTHER THAN NAG WHENEVER THEY'RE UNCOMFORTABLE.

I'VE TOLD MOST MEN TO PRETEND TO BE THEIR WOMEN FOR AN HOUR. CUT THE CALLS, DON'T CHAT UP, DON'T SPICE UP, DON'T INITIATE CONVERSATION OR ROMANCE... AND DISCOVER YOU'VE BEEN DATING A STONE.

Women are always hardworking in marriages...60% of women carter for their families...


Must yhu corroborate yhur point with lies?

ubunja:
then don't marry. Rather than running off with any man that promises you adventure while calling yourself a wife.

That's why I'm patiently waiting for the man of my choice...not the one that'll will kill me with stress...


Hence marriage is no rush...

CAPSLOCKED:
THESE WOMEN'S STUPĮDITY IS MEN'S FAULT, AS USUAL.
OH, MICHELLEKABOD2

Women are always "stupid"

Men are always "wise"

Okpa042:
Real men work till their backs hurt and do it against all odds just to make sure their families get that daily bread. This is why I like feminists, they say No. They say they are equal to men and so take the task of getting that bread. I admire such women.

True amazons.

But O you feminist that is "tired of that shit", I pity the man you land with. If you like, frustrate all his effort ..but hey what do I know? ..Men are scum right?

Yhu succeeded in making NO point as usual..

MJBOLT:

"prostitution is the practise of engaging in relatively indiscriminate sexual activity,in general with a person who is not a spouse or a friend,in exchange for immediate payment in money or other valuable items"


you can thank me later for schooling you

Now how does that correlate with the issue on ground?

Niggur I'm yhur gaffer .....yhull remain under my tutelage..

madone:
help me reason it. I get things for my lady and I ask questions from people around I had to know her bra size and other so I don't make silly mistakes. Had to kw colors And stuff she likes.. .i don't see why people should not get this details about their spouse. ..its only selfishness that cause most of this error

Yhu do not expect everybody to think like yhu....

Gosh why are Nigerian men like this?

MJBOLT:

so they should stay in their boring marriages and prostitute around if the opportunity present itself abi


you type like you have no brain

Who is talking about prostitution?..

Do yhu know the meaning of prostitution?

It's obvious yhur head no dey house...

Walkingkilo:
Are you Married?

I'm not

ubunja:
I get you. You need excitement and Unpredictability. But you have to understand "being predictable" is the very definition of being a man since men are logical.

Men thrive on predictability. And what you call boring is not the dictionary meaning of boring but being predictable. Men are predictable that's what makes them dependable. If men were Unpredictable then they would build nothing and they would achieve nothing. You guys need to stop searching for fun as if you're little kids.

God created women as lively beings...we bring life to everything .....we complete everything...

Too bad we cannot be stuck up in yhur "predictable" lifestyle ....all in the name of marriage...

I will personally not do that...

Ovawise2020:
how fa with your boyfriend mouth odur?.. No be u complain for one thread last yr?

It's nuh me biko....

MJBOLT:

if women are tired of their boring marriages,they should get a divorce instead of this lowkey prostitution

They should leave their children and divorce?

Yhu sometimes type like a toddler...

Davash222:
Really?
That means Nigerian girls are hoes!!

Are yhu a Nigerian?

victorian:
Correct babe!

Your head is screwed right!
Don't op, she's trying to please bf wey no send am!

Smhhhhh. Very annoying!

She had better send that watch to her father ,make he pray prayer that will bring correct rich guy her way! Not all this I feel alright bfs

Op Don suffer! Untop bf!

God forbid!

Y'all pls get it straight I'm not the lady in question...I only posted a story...

Chikenah

MJBOLT:

i have said it multiple times,the only thing nigerian women love is money,look at them tellings lies like "my marriage is boring","my husband is in support".

I'm wondering why the guy wants married women and not single women.

..

The niggur is obviously dubious

ubunja:
can you explain

Nigerian men are mostly boring in marriages....they know nothing else apart from going to work, coming back, eating , having sex , sleeping and the cycle repeats itself again and again and again....till infinity. ...

Women are bored and tired of that shit...a woman will work...still cook...still wash clothes..plates ..take care of the house...clean...still muster the strength to engage in sex...for as many rounds as a husband pleases...

Women are tired of that shit.... that's the result yhure seeing up there and nothing else..

ubunja:
Women whoring.

This is not a "women whoring" situation .... but a "men weakling" one

Davash222:
I believe they're joking.

But seriously, Nigerian women are something else.. Let's be frank to ourselves.

It wasn't a joke...

April4th:
Your kind are the reason why men act like scum these days. What should I be grateful for? That trash of a wristwatch? Thank God my wife knows not to buy that kind of trash for me as gift, after collecting 100% human hair, expensive bags, designer shoes and latest iPhone then she’ll now buy this cheap ass fake watch for me and I should be grateful? Instead of that watch, I would appreciate a carton of Heineken or a bottle of Jameson Irish whiskey. Mind you I’m not ungrateful as you so put it, I can give you my wife’s number so you can confirm. I don’t give out trash, if I don’t have I stay on my lane and when I do it’s always very valuable. I expect a woman to know what her man is worth and likes.

So she should steal....? Because that's clearly what she could afford...

But it was clear she had good intentions...was there no other way for him to table his displeasure?

A man promised to take a married woman to a trip in Venice, Italy ..look how Nigerian married women flooded his comment section with their qualifications and pictures...

Naina men should step up their game in marriage....spice up yhur marriage....most of the women out there are bored and tired of working effortlessly..

Ornament2003:
This is why we warn you girls not to date animals.

The guy is an ingrate: eating free puna and still wouldn't appreciate promos / bonuses!

Idi.ot.

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Nah goat him be...

Nova1988:
If I was him I would have not collected it

Oga no vex... nobody dey reason yhur matter.... it's a pity nobody will ever buy yhu anything..

Soak it in

DownChelsea:
I apologize for saying things as they actually are.

Yhu should learn to understand that all fingers are not equal....she might have gone out of her way to struggle to get that watch ...

It's a pity she was cheated but it doesn't give him the right to act the way he did ..