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Romance › Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Jodha(f): 8:22am On Jan 03, 2020
[quote author=blingxx post=85456286][/quote]If yhu really think she's cheating....it means yhu don't trust her...

And honestly without trust there's no relationship...

Just give her some time....if yhuve called her enough ...do not call her again..
Let her be ...and carry on with yhur life..

I'm sure she's basking on the attention yhure giving her....once yhu take it back...
If she really loves yhu.... she'll be the one to call yhu...


If she doesn't...just work hard and forget about her... I'm sure yhull find someone better
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 8:18am On Jan 03, 2020
Mcslize:
Never ever take advice from a girl on how to handle a girl. Do what Jo.dha told you to do and watch how the girl will despise you the more. You can never attract a girl by being needy around her. Don't choke her with too much attention. She should be the one doing all of that not you bro.

When I was still a wussy guy, I used to be a nice guy but I realised that doesn't count when it comes to dealing with girls. I reformatted my mindset and asked myself if girls are always concerned about how they feel about you more than how you feel about them, then what's the need expressing my feelings to a girl? I will rather escalate things sexually with her when with her cuz that yields good results faster than acting nice around a girl.

Be guided.
Yhu could have easily done this without.... giving me an unnecessary mention...
Celebrities › Re: MI Abaga- It's Becoming Clearer By The Day That Celebs Don't Like Me by Jodha(f): 7:44am On Jan 03, 2020
Froshloaded:
Tell me one Mi single that rocked the airwaves
Undisputed
Romance › Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Jodha(f): 7:42am On Jan 03, 2020
blingxx:
She does that alot I once accused her of cheating but it didn't end well ...we started dating in school she never allow me to know her place tho
Pls i need to understand what's going on .....
Is she angry because yhu accused of cheating?

What really happened this time?..
Celebrities › Re: MI Abaga- It's Becoming Clearer By The Day That Celebs Don't Like Me by Jodha(f): 12:22am On Jan 03, 2020
lovat:
Change how you write or I will ban you here
Get lost
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 12:02am On Jan 03, 2020
lefulefu:
he will do it and start spening unnecessary money then im spend im school fees on her then when she chop all im money and dump him he will come here to cry and blame her cheesy cheesy
He said one of the reasons he loves her is because she's not materialistic like other ladies...
Celebrities › Re: MI Abaga- It's Becoming Clearer By The Day That Celebs Don't Like Me by Jodha(f): 12:01am On Jan 03, 2020
It's true they all hate him for no good reason....all he has done is try to help...

He doesn't deserve this....

I love yhu M.i ...yhull remain my favourite rapper..
Romance › Re: Relationship Is Nigeria Is Pure Business by Jodha(f): 11:56pm On Jan 02, 2020
So yhu think a relationship is all about sex...


Smh
Romance › Re: Most Women Have A Price...most Women Are Cheap. by Jodha(f): 11:54pm On Jan 02, 2020
Every body get phone ....make him/her carry type whatever hogwash him/her brain come up with..
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 11:52pm On Jan 02, 2020
lefulefu:
if op carry out ur advice las las na high blood pressure go be im portion cheesy
I no just want am to regret him actions later on....trust me I've been there....

If him no do anything now....him go do dey ask himself "what if" for the rest of him life...
Romance › Re: Why Are Some People This Heartless. by Jodha(f): 11:50pm On Jan 02, 2020
I will soon chill from this site....the wailing is too much. ....


Everywhere i go wailing ....wetin happen...
Romance › Re: What's D Best Way To Let A Girl That's In Love With You Know You Don't Love Her? by Jodha(f): 11:45pm On Jan 02, 2020
favoryte33:
From my own personal experience,i tend to play along not because i love her 2 but out of pity.But experience have thought me a lesson as such relationships don't last in d long run.So who can share subtle ways u can let a girl know u don't feel d same way
Stop leading her on....if yhu don't feel the same way....

That shit hurts
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 11:43pm On Jan 02, 2020
luminouz:
Jesus!!!
So you believe that naija made Mills and Boon story?
How I go do nah?
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 11:42pm On Jan 02, 2020
JESUSBOIY:
Lols ,you such a kid with this advice,. grin
Who adult epp?
Romance › Re: Why Are Nigerian Men So Unromantic? by Jodha(f): 11:41pm On Jan 02, 2020
Lightangel65:
Who u epp , is the man your driver I don't know what men see in ladies. If men just stop giving bitches attention all these useless threads and discussions won't exist.

Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 11:37pm On Jan 02, 2020
lefulefu:
abeg dis one no be good advice cheesy..op should stress himself over one girl cheesy cheesy...what of the other ladies in his neughborhood trying to get his attention cheesy.ok next time op claims to be an alpha man i will pour him icey water to bring him back to reality cheesy
Lefu...even yhu

Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 11:36pm On Jan 02, 2020
AkandeJoseph99:
I mean I kept on disturbing her that I love her, I can do anything for her, etc
Stop pestering her yhull make matters worse....based on what yhu just said the best advice I'd give yhu would have been to let her be.....

But since yhu say yhu really love .... I'd like yhu to fight ...so that yhull know yhu have no regrets...

Since yhu have been disturbing her....just give her time ... enough time. ...
Then call her later and tell her that'll be the very last time yhull be disturbing...tell her everything face to face....

Then yhu can forget about her ...
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 10:56pm On Jan 02, 2020
AstroG:
THERE'S NOTHING LIKE LOVE AGAIN, IT DIED IN THE 90'S
This is not true. .....but awk
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 10:53pm On Jan 02, 2020
Michellekabod2:
Most times we attract what we are,I think for you to keep meeting wrong girls then there should be some introspection
There's some truth in this
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 10:52pm On Jan 02, 2020
AstroG:
There's nothing like the "Right One",they are all the same.

The more u search for the ryt one,the more u get disappointed. Ts better not to search at all,than to search and get heartbroken
Lool don't say that...just keep yhur fingers crossed....

I'm sure love will hit yhu when yhu least expected...
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 10:43pm On Jan 02, 2020
AstroG:
Your quite ryt abt that,but ah don't think Nigerian girls fit into the statement u made above



Ah don't Distractions (Nigerian Girls) at the moment,cus they cause more harm than Good
My dear yhure wrong...

Nigerian girls are more than capable of such.....

Just say yhu haven't been with the right one...
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 10:42pm On Jan 02, 2020
MJBOLT:
i dont need anyone special
Yhure lying to yhurself...but it's awk ....
Romance › Re: Why Are Nigerian Men So Unromantic? by Jodha(f): 10:41pm On Jan 02, 2020
My sister ask them biko......

Yhu want to take me out on a date ....yhu cannot be romantic and open the door for me like a proper gentle man...
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 10:37pm On Jan 02, 2020
AstroG:
Lol
Nigerian Girls and Emotional Manipulation grin grin
Oga come down from yhur high horses...


Deep down yhure praying fervently for God to send yhu a lady that'll love and cherish yhu...
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 10:35pm On Jan 02, 2020
AkandeJoseph99:
Hmmmm, thanks, I will do that tomorrow, but I think I've acted too needy already.
Too needy ...pls explain....

Yhuve done all these already? Is that what yhu mean
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 10:33pm On Jan 02, 2020
MJBOLT:
it's better to be single than to be in a relationship that gives you headache.it's obvious the op is not mentally and emotionally fit for a relationship.
Everyone needs someone ... awk?

Being single is fun....but at some point yhull always wish yhu had someone...to talk to about yhur day.... about yhur feelings..about one thing or another...

Everyone needs someone special....

Just say yhu haven't found that person

He's just inexperienced and naive ....that's all...
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 10:29pm On Jan 02, 2020
AstroG:
This your theory is for the jobless,weak and pu**y niggurs huh
Awk jobful ... strong ..preek niggur..
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 10:28pm On Jan 02, 2020
sacramento1212:
Lol...and what happens to the current guy she accepted?
Him go dey alright..
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 10:26pm On Jan 02, 2020
MJBOLT:
why are you giving the op bad advice?
Oga not everybody wants to be single like yhu...pls
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 10:25pm On Jan 02, 2020
AkandeJoseph99:
What should I tell her?
Tell her absolutely how yhu feel about her... tell her yhure sorry for assuming things and taking advantage of her love and care for yhu...

Tell her what she means to yhu...how special she is...that no one will take her place in yhur heart...

Also tell her that...yhu know it's too late...but yhu just felt it right to tell her how yhu feel ....
Do not insinuate to her to leave her current bf o....e go spoil everything...

After doing all that the rest will be left to her...

If she still insist that she has moved on ....then forget about her completely focus on yhurself ....and hussle harder....
I'm sure yhull find someone better...

Every disappointment is a blessing in disguise..
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 10:18pm On Jan 02, 2020
sacramento1212:
If she does that, then it means she's inconsistent and doesn't know what she wants.
No it means she loves him....he messed up and she moved on .....

But love forgives ...so she forgave him and went back. ....
Romance › Re: I'm Having Sleepless Night; She Said She We Are Just Friends by Jodha(f): 10:17pm On Jan 02, 2020
MJBOLT:
op,do not follow the advice of any lady on this thread that asks you to talk to the lady,forget her and move on.
Op follow his advice at yhur own perile ...

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