₦airaland Forum

Kaczynski:
Marriage is nothing but a legally binding contract that turns emotional dependency into a financial liability. let me break it down for you in terms even your BIOS could understand; why would i voluntarily install bloatware on my life? relationships are just inefficient resource allocation; time, money, sanity, all wasted on debugging someone else’s emotional stack traces. my kernel runs fine solo mfw you’re out here compiling dependencies for a shared life that’ll inevitably segfault.

Emotional stack trace. Hmmn. Reminds me of php debugging

I can tell a computer scientist or programmer

Jayboiii:
Hmm time will tell..u won't always be this strong..you think ur money will give you caregivers who are compassionate in ur lonely old age...u will understand its allabout the money and you will be treated as shit..ur valuables stolen and God help you you don't meet a murderer in form of a helper when u are frail.

And with all d stress and sufferings of married men, how many last till they age? Pray u last first

thomas2024:
This thing you talk reminds me of one my female friends wey I see when I go house during festive period. That babe don marry now and e don born three pikin. Back then for our area, she dey fvck around. The funniest part be say I know most of the guys wey dey pass her around and none of them fit marry her. Na another innocent guy come finally put am for house.

I still remember one particular time when I pass behind a guy window wey dey knack this babe, I peep and see them and come dey hear her voice of “Lagbaja stop”😂😂😂 That memory still dey crack me up till today 😂😂 I pity men wifing these people these days

Na because of these kind things i no go marry again. Iv always known that if my first rlnshp broke up, i wouldn't marry again.

A pussie, whose history I dont know, cannot just end up in my house. How can I make a woman so lucky like that? Meanwhile I've been chaste enough

MeaslesMumpsRub:
No be small thing. My own be say I no like mk woman dey gaslight me. My papa tell me say if you wan stay peacefully with woman, you gat Sabi do like mumu and look away many times.

Me, nitemi, I don't like to be taken for a fool and if you try to manipulate me, I go switch off very fast.

However, I support marriage as family is the basis of every society.

It takes at least one fool to make marriage work. Most men always choose to be the fool

Seeplusplus:
Where are the virtuous women? Girls weh de wayward now pass guys aje.

Go to the club, 85% of the people there are girls. What are they doing? Smoking their lives away.

Parents are falling everyday in their responsibilities.

So many prostitutes out there parading themselves as future wives and mothers.

An average 23years on the street has about 5 body counts, same cannot be said of an average 25years old boy

Yet when they marry, the girl wey don open punna for older guys and even married men go want their unfortunate husband to remain loyal.

Say who die!

GHustler:
Because the holy book supported so.


Do you believe in the Bible?

No we dont. Now what wil u do?

SpaceX:
The love of money is the root of all evil....

Haterz go hate tire

This alone shld ensure his relection if possible.

Thats how bad and valueless Nigerian lives have become

RISQUE:
FOCUS ON MARRYING A GOOD WOMAN WITH BRAIN. ONCE YOU DISVIRGIN HER AFTER MARRIAGE AND SHE HAS NO OTHER QUALITIES NKOR?

U are right. U go marry an intelligent asshawo.

She go use brain run u rings

addexx:
So women have standards while men are not allowed to. And it's even coming from a man . interesting.
If you like marry railway tunnel with 2 million body counts and a lifetime worth of emotional baggage . it's your call.

He ( KobolanderSegun ) wants us to be as miserable as he is.

He wants to form wokism to hoodwink us into his own nailed and unfortunate fate.

For where!!

Nickisindigo:
All my years of preserving myself as a virgin should now to waste by marrying somebody that have been fliped, drilled and cummed inside by people she herself can't count

I ask one banny wey be wan date me who last she have sex with.

Babe tell me say she no know. Like, it sounds unbelievable!

AlabiKILLER2023:
As a rich dude


My money is enough for me


I prioritize tight natural virgin hole above everything


Ask NED NWOKO

Ure smart. All d qualities he mentioned are mainly of benefit to d woman, not u d man

Omo, na our hustle and success be our own glory. A woman doesnt come into our lives to "complete" us. Na only men wey no know left from right believe that crapp. Women see us as complete, then try to come into our lives

Saao:
those that married leftover, know what they're going through.

Them no dey proud when dem post their wife online 😃😃

MrJames007:
Only men who are virgins should be looking for virgins... Nonsense!

Girls who no get money shld be looking for boys weh no get money. Rubbish!!

cremedelacreme:
Who virgin epp? Marrying a virgin will not guarantee a happy marriage. A good woman is a good woman, whether a virgin or not.

But women can set standards for u that u shld be well to do before considering u?

Honestly u men are cheap enablers

Tenrack:
Omo you get experience o wetin man come dey gain for this life sef? 🤣🤣

Hajajajajaja!!!

We are losers. The truth hurts and its painful to say but we are losers. Or let me say most. Its those really at the top, like politicians, elites, stars etc., like 5% of the men that bang so many women.

For instance as davido marry chioma, he still dey in a current and new child dispute yet again. See 2face too na. Man don bang bang bang all diz ekukes dem. See wizkid, see timayah, baby mamas and chica everywhere.

Even small shallipopi sef. In fact, even Dangote. A whole Dangote, and his yaansh leak for internet.

After that 5%, then there is maybe another 10% like ordinary guys but are well to do, handsome, have a nice body or just peculiar for e.g that can make ladies laugh. Or yahoo boys. This next bracket of men is where you and I must hustle for.

Here we can be easy red pillers and nack the farm tools wetin no good. Then leave them for the remaining 85% of men down the ladder.

It must be said that some men in that 85% have the right OT too. Only that they never get d funds, d wherewithal or things are not just right at d moment. But na here okokos full pass. Som are lucky to get a good woman, others settle for those d real men don chop and clean mouth.

Female comportment, female intelligence, female yada yada yada crapshiht!!.... yet as a man ure covering d costs of d house, from house rent to child fees and travel costs plus hair money, shoe and bag money, feeding money...

Whats d purpose of all those female iq, female intelligence, female this and that... u got it right. E end for her pocket

KobolanderSegun:
Me I am Laughing..... In 2026 men are still prioritizing Female Virginity as a yardstick for marriage ? In 2026 !!!

What about Female Intelligence, Female Wisdom, Female Comportment, Female Financial Literacy ? They are not even looking to see whether she can cook. But No she must be a Virgin.

I cannot speak for everyone but no wonder Africa is so backward when you place so much energy on a state God created but you will not look for attributes that come with self development.

Since virgin no worth am, may you end up with a confirmed prostituute!

When you and your wife are walking on d road, may men you dont know wear a broad smile on their faces as they look as u both pass

Tenrack:
naso. Dem don do pass kiss. She just dey use dawan bobo you. I no dey reason anything serious with any lass again. Planning your life with a woman is akin to building your own mausoleum. You're bound to regret it.

Na mumu dey love.
Men are waking up slowly but gradually to the fact that today's women no send your papa.

Its better to risk it alone and make it. Even if not loud making, but just comfortable enough. Thrn treat them like d farm tools they are. Spread ur "love" to many women, never concentrate on one to avoid had i known.

In fact, enh...I be proud follower of GehGeh and Odinaka the Jajant king!

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Tenrack:
the last line funny me die. People still dey marry for western world? Na the fools wey dey carry their wives and gfs go there own dey funny me pass.

You're right. They always want to eat their cake and have it. Frolick with their old flames in while enjoying the wealth of their spouse. Women are wicked sha. Indeed na mumu dey go settle for one.

My brother, u don nail am. Men still marry o. What a risk. Most times a man spends more, and also has more. And also far more likely to lose assets to his wife after a divorce, combined with the custody of the children.

Also he cant easily date multiple, otherwise his wife must never find out. And women are much more discreet in cheating in marriages than men. And its wayyyyyyy easier and much much cheaper for a woman to cheat over there. And its so expensive for a man to cheat. When u combine this with the thought of many men having previously drilled ur so called wife's punna, combined with the cost of marriage...ouch, ouch. It hurts!

Although some men these days decide to tint their windows so they can cheat right in their car for a much cheaper option but that has to be a banny uve known for long, probably b4 u met ur wife. 😃 Otherwise ana hotel, motel or airbnb. Rent: $50 - $150. Also food. Also transportation.

Besides most babes u meet over there, especially on dating sites, are simply african babes that have been passed around. Some have tasted white diiks but wont tell u. And the bannies coming from countries like Italo, Egypt, Oman, Libya, UAE... its over!!!

Axis313:
That's make-up in action bro.

Not only that. Plus editing too

Tenrack:
abeg keep preaching to these brothers of ours. Make dem learn.

We will reduce d amount of okokos we have. My Annang chic that year been cheat on me. I wan craze.

Can u imagine in my 2nd relationship, after explaining all d trauma to my new gf, she still allow another guy kiss am. And she confessed after I queried her. And no be say this my 2nd girl loose like that o. And she say na only kiss but i suspect say d guy go don smooch too. If possible, sex sef possible but I highly highly doubt it.

But as an okoko I must never be, I must never erase any possibilities!

Tenrack:
dawan is probably bitter cause men are catching up to their shenanigans. Imagine comparing the Uselezzz females of today to our mothers. Symptom of low IQ. Na wetin all of them carry. Girls wey no fit think individually. Naija females, most of them are really Dum'asses.

Agreed. Im surprised as to how many men are still blindsided to the curent reality. Women simply want to have their cake and eat it.

They want all the advantages of men: inheritance, earn same, work same, date multiples...which admittedly isnt bad.

But where they are cunny is they want to continue receiving baby girl life treatment: hiding under the banner of relationship and marriage as a lifelong form of soft employment. And truth be told, they are winning...for now sha.

Thats why as a man, never ever be faithful. Never keep one. And if possible forgo marriage. If u cant, then marry multiple. And if ure in d western world, God punish u as a nigerian man if u go and marry

Kwinesther:
So you mean your mother and sisters are also cheats? Wow

Yes. Now f off

Sonnobax15:
Na my target this year be that bro

Women na scallywags bro

Bro wetin happen? Its like u were an okoko before who is now transformed.

If so, no worry. We plenty for here wey don chop sand before

Tenrack:
lmao. I be won type this thing. But you beat me to it. For him mind e dey follow classy women ,🤣🤣🤣😂 body go tell am las las

What is the definition of classy women sef? If we check well and ask d guy, it probably means a woman wey no really dey too demanding and probably has an occupation that keeps her busy.

Thats all o. What a joke!

Bendeco02:
Oga there are still decent girls/women.

Not all women will allow you smooch her boobs

because the conditions were not met.

There are always conditions that will make her oblige.

It could be they dont trust d guy...hes a kiss and tell. Or the place is not private enough. Or hes not just attractive to her, or famous enough etc.

That girl that u want to vouch for, if they leave her in d same room with a star like lets say Adekunle Gold, u think she will not oblige? Talkless of a superstar like wizkid or even aged 2face.

If they dont fall for them, u know who might get their way into their panties? Yes it could be ur pastor, a deacon, an evangelist or a dedicated church goer or speaking in tongues guy.

If no, it could be the dedication of that gym guy u see across the street.

Only a fool trusts women! Women that dont trust themselves. Women that can do things and have no explanation for doing them.

U too funny

kingthreat:
Nairaland anti-feminist crew should calm down small na.
Yes the guy was a simp but right now he's doing the right thing. His eyes are opened.
A real simp will accept "sorry"

Ure right o. We shldnt be so hard on him.

At least he realised hes a mugu. Some of d most hardcore red pillers u see today got one such ugly experience in their past

okwusdidi:
Imagine renting and furnishing a house for a woman who is not your wife.Simps would never learn.Spending that way on a woman who is not your wife is a waste of resources.

Ur submission isn't intelligent enough.

Also spending on a woman who is your wife is also a waste of resources.

The fact that society simply accepts it as the norm doesn't disqualify it from being a waste of resources.

A wife is just 1 level above a girlfriend. But the similarities remain. She gives u sex. She cooks. She can birth

Bendeco02:
Some guys problem is trying to date a street girl.

Some girls/women are not meant for serious relationship, but some ignorant men will try to personalise them.

Oh! Some of you don't know that all these hook up girls still have one maga as serious boyfriend.

The one u think is not street, another guy go still kiss am or smooch her buubs.

runningriot:
As a man always have it in mind your kindness, love and affection are never recipe to make woman love you. You might buy house for her she will bring in another landlord. You might buy a car for her and she will take one dirty pilot to be cruising the car so invest in yourself first and doing so to any girl there should be limit even if her loyalty must be secured.

U spoilt everything with loyalty