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Ucheamani:
She said "We were Casual Sex Buddies" What a world 😮

Then one mu:ugu go come come online telling us how wife past doesn't matter and we shld marry.

Now imagine u marry this girl and this guy see una picture online or for street. Imagine what rating he will have for u, meanwhile u fit dey rave about ur wife like say na trophy 😂

Na why I say only marry woman wey don dey with u from d start, otherwise just accept say na iron condemn u wan marry if u meet am at a later age.

GOFRONT:
Who get mind rape a lady with pimples in the chest like this

Symptoms of hiv or symptoms of cheap skin bleaching creams.

omooba969:
Lalude is their father, no doubt! 👍

BTW, Peter Fatomilola shouldn't be there because he only plays the role of an Ifá priest/babalawo, not a warrior like the rest.

And in real life, he denunciates Ifa religion. So yeah..

Kanu Kanu. Very knowledgeable man with some hot temper.

If u call him a prophet, I dont think ull miss by much. Even if there's nothing you want to release him for, his accurate or near-accurate predictions should make you to cut him some slack.

Govt release this guy nauuu, even if u go give am conditions. Such talent wasting in jail. Damn

sonnie10:
The ROI from that Passat is even bigger than the Lekki land. I will update with the full gist when I have time. But the story long

Now ure talking. We go dey wait. Sha cc me when u choose to.

Magnetic010:
2104 was 12 years ago
What did I do with my life?

2104 is 78 more years to go.

Relax guy, ure still young

jaxxy:
Not taking the right girls serious enough. I missed some real ones. Lol

Right ones also become wrong in future. U better relax

bayfed:
Taking a girl I met online out yesterday, on reaching, noticing she wasn’t fancying me, i foolishly proceed to place orders, forcing communications, trying to pleased her, until she couldn’t ave it anymore, she left me there in my car. Don’t be like me, leave immediately as soon as you notice the feeling isn’t mutual.

How was ur chat history with her like? Do u guys joke alot in ur chats? Do u share jokes and little secrets? Hv u guys seriously flirted with d idea of what to do when u both see?

My bro, u win d game from d chats. That is where d proper groundwork is laid. If d vibes never really dey, still wait. Wait more. Instead chat others.

As I dey like these, I fit dey chat with like 20. Ive never met any but I know about 6 or 7 are down to meeting me. We've don video calls, we've spoken, na them dey even say when I go turn up? Them wan lodge me etc.

Then about another 7 are receptive but never just "ko mi je". They are not obsessed about me. Not yet at least. Their responses are usually shorter than mine. We do send voice notes yet d spark no dey. U see these ones? I no go ever make d mistake of suggesting a meetup. If they see u get financial capability, they may ask u both see, but as an O.G, no go. Them just wan use u elevate thsir status for hood.

Now as for d remaining, they are cold when chatting. Obviously i can never bother a meetup with diz ones. Also dont rely too much on ur ride or money etc. Its no guarantee u go get sex. Even if she agree, she go make am be like chore.

Tenrack:
this guy para pass me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Even me dey note d guy ginger.

One common denominator wey I don observe be say we guys wey dey para like this been always don chop serious lesson before we wise up.

Its not good enough. Does it mean if we dont learn lessons we cant figure out d reality of the dating world by ourselves? What if d lesson comes but we learn d lesson late in life? What then is there to rescue in life?

We ought to do better and learn from others mistakes instead of ours. I saw some Ghana men defending their women and insulting d russian guy instead. They say its poverty that caused it or juju. That d guy took advantage, must be sued.

Honestly some men no fit ever get sense.

UrVillageChief:
You are right bro but you should cut our women some slacks as far as this white-worshipping juju is concerned because if you see East African women ehn?
Ethiopia, Kenya, Tanzania, and Uganda are obsessed with marrying whites. In Asia, Thailand is another country that has this unreasonable obsession for whitemen.
Our women love money but them no really send your skin color and I don't think this Russian guy could make the stats he made in Kenya and Ghana here in Nigeria because many of them would have frustrated him with billings before agreeing to knack.
What made this saga even more painful and shameful is the fact that he 'knacked' them all the very same day he spoke to each one of them. This is disturbing tbfh!

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Haha. I agree

Skj13777:
Tor na so ooo. Girl wey I for don give her my passport photo to keep forever as her guy. There was even another one ooo . This lady was 19yrs when I met her so I was waiting for her to be 21yrs . Could you believe one guy don do the do before she turned 21yrs. Imagine. Now am effectively out of the market .after scoring zero . In my next life I will do better o

Hahaha. At least me don chop virgin once. So tight.

What u should do is work very hard, delay marriage very well if u cant do without it, then when u gather money, go on a dating spree.

Only date temporarily and move on. Never be attached deeply to any girl, even ur wife, that's if u choose to marry. Women no worth am. Just forget it.

mablie:
Before nko?!
Just take a look at what a NIGERIAN female on nairaland posted about this issue yesterday.
Abeg,leave these our naive brothers to continue fooling themselves about "their" women.

Na foolish man dey rate black woman. They are just for knacks.

package7:
My first ever girlfriend we had an abo*tion 31 years ago, she di€d during the process . I was just 23 years old, Till date am yet to get over it, I regreted my action. I pray for mercy every single day.

How did her parents handle d case?

Skj13777:
I had this girlfriend that wanted me to de flower her , she begged while we were both naked. She even told me at the rate am going another man will do it. I insisted we keep it till wedding night. That's my only regret in this life. I should have just done the needful .

Eeya. And d one wey u settle down with go don get like 15 body counts. So painful 😂

Drsnives:
Maybe you married the wrong half..
You can't marry your God ordained wife and regret..it's not possible

God ordained wife ma foot!

Will she be a virgin like Mary or don get body count and don collect betta doggiie in uni?

Will my money be our money and her money our money or mostly hers?

Go siddon one side abeg

sonnie10:
Not buying land at lekki phase 2 when it was #350k in 2001, instead I bought a passat wagon. Las las, na iron condenm buy the skeleton. My advice to younger me, buy land, even if it is inside swamp.

But with that Passat, u lash babes na. Na still ROI 😜

Olachase:
I was warned to let her go but I refused because I met her in church

Not knowing that she has retired 😭😭

Hohoho. Ti e ba e niyen 🤣

Samantha125:
For me it was during this one campus protest in varsity, normally during our usual protests, I'd make sure to either position myself at the back, or in the middle of the crowd just so I can easily run for cover the moment the police start throwing their tear gas or firing rubber bullets at us.

That day I don't know what got to me that I positioned myself at the front, I don't know if I was high in the Economic Freedom Fighters Students Command's revolutionary songs or what, because those comrades could sing and their protests carried weight... ... One of the things that had me invested in campus politics was their revolutionary music...

The police positioned themselves and as they started firing rubber bullets and tear gas at us, we dispersed for cover and while I was still in the process of taking cover, I was shot twice, one on my thigh and the other on my butt, I felt the second one that hit my butt knocking out all my dreams and hopes of becoming a comrade, and as if that wasn't enough, a third one hit my back and it was a final nail in the coffin... Those things hurt, I spent the entire week sitting with only one butt cheek... That was my biggest mistake.

Hahahah.

Soli soli soli, solidarity forever! 🤣🤣

Tenrack:
I'm telling you bro. Once I have the funds, na to pack girls like sardines. I am not short-changing myself by committing to any of them. Dem no worth am.

Burst my brain. I love seeing men saying out my hidden plans 🙈

fyneboi79:
Getting married was my biggest mistake...

Lol. Una don start 🤣🤣

First comment. Una no even wait make dust settle, una don start una wahala 😂

Orlandoo:
Bro, it's the people in higher authority that tells them what to do. Reno Omokri included. I noticed it when I commented on one of Omokri's thread which he created himself. Because he is an active member on this forum. I told nairaland members that they shouldn't take Reno serious, a comment made in the afternoon o, many people qouted me. Can you believe that the following morning my post was no where to be found. You ever wonder why every topic about Reno insulting the opposition always make front page.

Hmmn. Makes sense. Whats his handle? That Omokri sef just dey one kind.

Someone who was championing d case of the freeourgirls movement all of a sudden saying christian genocide no exist?

Just neither here nor there.

But the fulani terrorists that surround his palace in Sokoto, and other parts of Northwest like Kebbi and Niger, this guy cant set his torchlight on them to find them?

Mtcheew. Nobody fit deceive me for this life. We all know what he is.

I never for my life see sultan wey just balance, dey very comfortable while fulani islamic terrorists are running roughshod in his domain. Hin just farabale coolehhhhh.

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Note to Mods: You guys must refrain from taking down comments that appear at the top or very close to it, that dont bend to your bias.

I dont know if its people from higher authority that tells u guys to take down certain comments but as far as rules are not broken, u cant just keep taking down comments at the top and making it seem random. I dont have energy to be typing and u just yank my comment off cos una no lkke am, not like any rule was broken. That rubbish must stop in 2026.

Thank you!

Fekumzi123:
You can still be polite while passing your message.

Sorry. Okoko means something like simp in this case. Not exactly an insult.

Regardless, no vex bro.

mablie:
Where do they also think the "Coloureds" in Southern Africa came from? Abeg,leave these fellows to continue residing in la la land

U are the bomb guy. Even Ghanaians in d coast. All those their mixed race actors like Van vicker, Nadia Buari, in Naija, Carol Ekanem etc... do africans know that our foremothers threw their daughters at these whites despite their atrocities?

Some black men are arguing here. They underestimate the strong fetish attraction their women have for whites. Naija men just dey zuzu. Thats why I say no trust ur woman and never vouch for her say she no fit cheat. She just havent seen d conditions to make her do that.

I have to give it to d white guys I swear. Despite their awareness of their status, they dont go about abusing their privilege so much. Cos even in jand, that ur wife wey u dey worship, another man go dey bang am for work, and if the average white man sets eyes on her, its game over.

Nigeria women's inferiority complex is deeper than d ocean. Na why na them worship white Jesus pass anything. Go tiktok or instagram and observe interracial marriages with other races. But when its a black woman,u can see her pride on her face. U can feel how she worships him. D smiles, d mannerism. O jeez!

mablie:
I have been exposed to that world for years (white guys who travel to Africa specifically to furk African women...children nko? Let me not even go into that) .From Nigeria to Togo to Sierra Leone to Liberia to Benin etc.The Russki's results would have been exactly thesame

U are on point jare ma guy

Fekumzi123:
Please stay away from getting married.

See okoko 🤣🤣

We don see ur type plenty before! Na "I was a fool" usually be their last statement

QuinQQ:
You are the one playing. British officials impregnated Igbo girls. What has that to do with the ambition of East African girls to marry a white man who'd take them to their country?

That is because nigerian women are drawn to white skin, especially eastern people. Do women just allow easy penetration for people they dont like?

U better relax on this one cos I know what Im saying. I just no wan talk too much. I got a visitor's visa and once traveled to one of these western countries and some of these my female friends suggested we do marriage contract. When I reminded them its a visitor's visa, the next thing was that I should find a white man for them. Like that is d very next thing. And not 1, not 2, not 3...

I got chatting with one and d very next thing she told me was I will like to bear white kids. When I was out I know d number of mixed marriages I saw and d region who does it d most. In fact they are deliberate on this. Wait are u joking? U dey social media at all? During xmas, don't u see d pride when they are displaying their white spouses and kids? Have u entered social media interracial dating groups before? Go and see ur women do there. They even make the first moves. I know say u go say 90% of them are male scammers. Dey play. I get one Esan girl like that. She been dey even list to me mobile apps naija women have to catch abroad fish, especially white men. Even ur gf fit dey inside one of those apps and be hiding it from u with an app lock. Dey play 🤣🤣

Its not just because of d smoking. Its because d guys believes d girl na former O.S

I keep telling guys not to waste their time. This guy shld just count his luck. How many wil be so lucky

Fekumzi123:
I understand you perfectly.
But if you don't take care of her/ feed her, you won't have peace.

U are not a slave and circumstances may change. Women have 2 hands, 2 legs, a head and went to school like you. Let that count.