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wonderr:
I have being living fine with my wife and two kids. She loves me an I love her too. Sincerely speaking she has being a very good wife. But now we have a problem, we got a tenant into our house last year, a single guy ever since this guy came into our house he has being showing so much love towards my kids buying them gifts from time to time almost everyday and this makes my wife like this guy and they have seem to be good friends, at first I feel cool with it thinking the guy is just nice and there is no strings attached, but lately I feel the intimacy is getting too much that even when am at home my wife would leave me inside and start talking to the guy outside at night, sometimes I would be inside and my wife would be cooking inside the kitchen this guy will leave whatever he is doing and go and keep my wife company in the kitchen, I started feeling disrespected I talked to her about it and she promised to ameliorate the third day same thing happened The guy came back from work and my wife was cooking at the kitchen before the guy even enter his room he went straight to the kitchen and start to keep her company again both of them alone at night all other tenants are in their rooms. I became very exasperated I had to walk up to the kitchen and tell her right in the guys presence that she is not okay and that is her last warning my intention of doing this is to let the guy know that am not cool with the intimacy between them that he should caution himself. now I feel am not being respected because after I warned her I believe she should have excused the guy and not give him so much attention again, now I think he is being kind to my kids just to gain my wife's attention, even if they both have a pure heart and nothing in mind if the intimacy continues It might later lead to relationship and sex, so I called her parents yesterday to inform them of what is happening they promise to talk to her, meanwhile she has invited the guy to our family church weeks ago. my only aunty that I can say she is the only family I gat because am the only child of my parents and am an orphan now, so I do not have many relatives this my aunt's husband is the pastor of the church. Now my wife has narrated the story to my aunt and she is now telling me I must not quarell with my wife or the guy because the guy is now a member of the church they do not want to loose a member I do not know what to do because my aunt seems to be at her side saying she can't do such thing but I know what I am seeing and experiencing at home if they can be doing such in my presence what would they do in my absence, and I do a shifting job I only sleep at hope for two weeks in a month am scared and confused, Don't want to loose her and I can't even give the guy a quit notice now because my only aunt wold be furious I don't want her to be mad at me she's the only family I gat am confused please advise me

gonkin:
I remember seeing such but not a saucer during my ND at Ibadan. Though people i told mocked me like crazy but i know what i saw. But who would believe u.?

SergeantTitus:
It was so unfortunate I didn't go to my farm with my android phone, I took my small phone along which I regret. Now I've always wondered why there are barely sightings in africa but yesterday my doubt was cleared .

I have several acres of farm in Ogun state and last evening around past 6 I went to Inpect the farm. Its located in a village.. After several walks, I saw a very large object with an oval top just laying still. I moved a little closer and I was shocked, scared and amazed at what I saw. It was a flying saucer. Just like the ones we see in youtube and movies. I couldn't move closer due to stories I've read about alien abduction and the likes.. I was dead scared and wanted to pick race when it suddenly lighted up with a low pitch faint sound then hung in the air a little , hovered before disappearing into the sky. Call me crazy, claim I smoked kwale weed or whatever but man, I was dead sure of what I saw. You won't believe these things until you have an encounter.

Lifestone:
This OP logic lacks depths. 1800sis is a recent history in the world. Columbus first landed on the shore of America in 1492, European and people across the world began to troupe into this new world and exported technologies from Netherlands, Italy and even China into the New world and you are here speaking conjectures. Most the architectural designs you are showing were already existing in Europe and elsewhere and were only copied. Only those who are unread and haven't well traveled are given to this contraptions of the OP.
His positions are too basic, lacks research discipline and its best as a gossip.
I have been following his posts, they are all reek with revisionism

siofra:
Sensible AI

Ilamina:
Didn't know that . .this is new to me

But in the movie, they made it look like. .gays get aids easily. .I used too hear how aids is rampant in the gay community but didn't know it was that serious

I heard in those days, when you have aids. .please will suspect you have aids

But in.our generation, when you have aids. .people think you slept around not entirely because you might be gay

I also.heard . .they are also violent and abusive in their relationships . .

It's not an easy life

doggedfighter:
Redpillers and self-deceit are one.


That's how mosdii their God turned cook and went into oblivion.

Most were rejected by Nairaland females and they became bitter. Well it still doesn't stop you guys from being useless.

Zonefree:
You left his message unattended from Sunday till late Tuesday, only for you to write him yesterday and expect him to adore you? You must be mistaken yourself for Angelina Jolie

Aareona:
I don't believe. For you to doubt the severity of what someone's going through, it's pretty much obvious I'll meet you the same way I left you in Nigeria. No much difference. I belittle you

LivelyMandem:
Guys in the house, what is your experience like dating single mothers.

I recently met a beautiful young lady who has never been married but has a daughter with a guy who isn't taking up much of the responsibility.

I have a good job and can obviously take care of the basics. The issue started from when I started giving her some money randomly not for any particular purpose. She called me recently and said her daughter's school fee is due and how much am I bringing.

In my head, she is not my child so why do you want to push the responsibility on me so fast. If I ask about the dad, she'll say I shouldn't worry because he's irresponsible.

We're not intimate yet because she said no sex before marriage, na that one we still dey fight about.

My question is, is it ok for her to ask me for her child fees just because we're dating or am I supposed to automatically take up the girls upkeep because I'm dating her mother?

SultanOfPuna:
See them Mummys boy

You will wait for your parents to marry for you and also wait for your parents to decide your life. Thats very Shameful

SandraIkuboR:
Let no one deceive you...Aliens are the angels and demons

Some are scary,while some are not.....
Once you've encountered an alien abduction you become possessed....They are here on earth in plain sight.

That's what most world leaders,Religious leaders and Spiritual leaders won't tell you....That's why in most occult whatever you take an oath....Like the Free masons....Those things are Aliens.....


I was once abducted and i'm currently writing a book on it.
Whether you believe or not.....it's true and they are here with us.

They've contributed to what ya'll see and use today....Also there is a reason why I said Angels are also aliens.

These angels I was talking about come from a very different Universe where everything is different...They only come or appear to a human when necessary......and they've got their own language that the bible calls "IN TONGUES"...ie they speak to someone like someone that speaks in tongues.

Angels have being existing in their universe long before our universe came into existence.Yes,long before our universe came into existence.

It's even in the bible where it states that angels only appear when necessary.....if its not necessary it won't appear to you....

Now the aliens from our universe are what humans call demons....when the aliens from our universe appear to you or show themselves to you it's either to capture you or reveal something to you.....

When I was captured the alien that captured me revealed a lot of things to me which I saw with my own eyes.....

I know people will say that I'm crazy but trust me I'm not.....I'm a living witness

Gamblingaddict:
If you see me you will think I have Jesus.

The fact his I had jesus.
But I think jesus has left me.

I don't understand why I am like.

Mamarosa:
Hello. I am in this same situation. And to worsen the matter...my 2 sisters are involved with my mother and her sister also. I will like to know what solution you've been able to profer so far. Please help me and my and my innocent daughter.