₦airaland Forum

SimeonOTC:
Bro listen to me. take this from me as a person who has experienced what you are currently passing through and as a person that understand how you feel.

First, Believe your instinct because you know you babe more than the people here. If she is doing something unusual, trust your instinct.

An old nairalander once told me that a girl will likely cheat on you with the guy she always talk to you about. forget those talks of 'I don't like him. He is just a friend. He is not my type bla bla bla'. I went through all this only to find out she still slept with the said guy.

If that said nigga is like you or at least knows how to run things, bro, forget it, chances are there that they will both knack. An average number of girls will fall for an available guy who is always around her. There is barely anything you can do about it. But you can control how you feel and what happens next between you both.

Here is the mistake I made and what I learnt from my experience. Try your possible best to unplug any emotional connection you have with or for her temporary. NEVER, I repeat, NEVER EVER act needing and desperate to get her attention or know what she's upto or even try to get to know how she's coping with the nigga. If at all you have to know, NEVER act insecure. Don't explain much about your observation on her, or your fears, keep them to your self. Don't disturb her with too much calls and message.

This will put you in a safe position cause there are also chances that you can be wrong.

But start pulling your emotion off from that relationship E GET WHY

Thanks for explaining everything to me. I can never be desperate on any woman, so long as you aren’t paying my bills. She’s the one doing the calling. She knew that I have nothing to lose. There are lots of women out there. I am already paying attention to another girl.

imagrg:
She's a cheat!

Don't dump her, fvck her toto for free till you make up your mind to marry a more decent olosho.

Marry a more decent call girl? You are not wishing me well.

I will pick the other lady who indicated interest in me. A pretty lady whose mother doesn’t joke with me. She always calls me her son. I think her daughter would make a good wife because I can see that in her eyes.

I can’t marry a cheat!

Sucre6:
Your instinct is your spiritual guardian, follow it concurrently, if your instinct says they bleeped then you probably right

They did because first, I called her in the night yesterday about 9pm but she didn’t pick up my call and did not call back. About 9:30pm, I called her again but she switched off her phone.

Today, in the morning, she called me more than 10 times , the twelve time, I picked her call and she was crying on the phone, saying nothing happened between both of them. I am not stupid. I am not a wussy. What I wanna do now is to withdraw myself. Withdraw myself gradually from her. She’s already lost the game. It’ll take her a lot of time to get someone like me. Surely, it would.

Lee99:
Lol how did you know they fvcked yesterday? You seff your hand no clean be that for that PH because only someone who cheats will suspect their partner of cheating

I know they did, okay? If not, why would she be so desperate now to keep me? She already lost the game.

Queendera:
I think that lies solely on you.

You know her better. If you can trust her tor. If you cannot tor.

Okay. It’s just that I plan to meet her people next month but the way things are going right now, I doubt if I could. I already told her to stay with the guy.

Candidlady:
mumu


so she cant help an individual again... look at the insecured being saying they banged yesterday like he was there...


too many yaros roaming this good earth

Do you derive pleasure insulting someone who you don’t know? Do you derive pleasure insulting someone who could feed you and your entire family? Refrain from doing so.

Queendera:
It might be that she's just helping and nothing will happen.

And it might be they've had some chemistry in the past and something will or had already happened.

You can't know for sure

Okay but what do you think I should do? Because I can’t stand another man banging my girlfriend.

I work in Portharcourt while my girlfriend works in Lagos. A few days ago, she told me that a guy who was posted in Lagos for NYSC would stay with her for a while. Since then, I haven’t picked her calls and she is worried that I am about to dump her. Yes, I am about to do so. They banged yesterday I think but she’s still telling me nothing happened between both of them.

What do you think guys? She’s crying on the phone.

BigDawsNet:
Have a met a Nigerian lady that travels from Nigeria to Canada and finally land in Carlifonia ...

She's an awesome lady
We will be meeting up soon again

Good for you!

I haven’t met anyone. I would like to meet a lady who is cool and responsible. I’m currently in Portharcourt.

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Sorry to tell you that girl has forgotten about you. She can only return to you if she does not get the visa.

Adaisback:
I have said it before and am saying it again. I am all for those people they call simps. I want to marry a simp man. Am beautiful and won't allow one yeye man to lay his filthy fingers on me. Team simps
If you are a simp, am all for you biko. Even if you no sabi do, no yawa, I go dey do the do and we will communicate effectively and that will make our relationship an everlasting one

LOL! You cracked me up!

victooman:
if a woman initiiate any form of body contact with you then u have a chance,, if u dont play ur game well u will end up in the friendzone,, the attention u gives her is ur currency , maximize it,, dont rush her but as time goes on be asseetive on what u want ,let her no if she wont open legs u will move on to another serious girl,, but women dont initiate body contact with a man they are not attracted to

Okay, okay, good.

victooman:
Forget those boys yarning dust O.p ,if a woman allow u to touch her private part,kiss and romance her then she definitely is into u,, they wont give out that hole easily because they dont want to look cheap or they want an assurance from you,, if a girl is not into u, ur touch alone will irritates her,, she will gist and play with u but her body language will be repulsive,when ever u try to touch her ,so if a woman allows u to romance and touch her it all depends on how u play ur game from there.

Being a man in a women’s world. What if she does not let in but asks you to massage her?

Money is not be-it-all. Women look at other qualities.

codedrunstv:
you're absolutely correct 💯 but men of high network go for Class.i have someone that flew a girl from Lagos to Dubai just to satisfy his pleasure for 3days... Over 4Million was spent by him.

That doesn’t make sense at all. The same classy girls who beg us to sleep with them. A classy lady who saw me with the Europeans fell so deeply in love that she had to ask for my room number at the hotel. She’s travelled to many countries as well.

codedrunstv:
70/100k for short rest sex ,the least could go for 40k


Daybreak Hookup can go as 80-200k depending on how classy the girl is

Classy? Women are all the same. Paying such money for a call girl which some guys sleep with for free doesn’t really worth it.

siofra:
Sorry, I don't do hookup.

Seems you don't really understand English. Hookup in that context implies let's meet and get to know each other.

NerdyThings:
I'm looking for friends, females and males welcome. I work in a rare and fast-growing field. Two degrees and working on my third. I'm single and not looking for love per se but but I'm open to it with the right person, starting with friendship. I prefer if you already live abroad like me, but I'm willing to support the right person. I'm not in a rush for anything. "Slow and steady wins the race" is my motto.


Don't message me if
-you're in a relationship
-you're married
-you're a single father with kids
-you lack communication skills
-you have anger problems
-you have no knowledge of current events and can't hold an intellectual conversation.

Sounds quite interesting.

Divoc19:
On Nairaland

That percentage is totally wrong unless you've been attracting losers.

Divoc19:
When you say Nigerian men, be specific because the older Nigerian men are still the most caring of them all. 99.9% of Nigerian men on Nairaland are boys who are struggling to eat good food daily.
And that's why they hate on women alot because women ain't cheap here

99.9 percent? What are you talking about?

JackDaAlienz:
Thanks bro, it's not easy finding the right one. May God help us

May God help you, not us.

OP, do not let that bring you down. There are so many single women out there.

Johnholt is here to read.

VinnyBaba:
According to Rapper Erigga, 'Friendzoning na for Bastards'.

As a Guy, If you get Entangled in a Nigerian Girl's Friendzone, Ur own don Finish KpataKpata!

She go use Manipulations, Mind Games and Bills take Finish ur Life!

Only if you allow her do all that. Great guys don’t bother about women.

MMempire:
America is doomed. No to Jesus, but Yes to LGBTQ and LGBTQIA+.
A country whose dollar bill has "In God we trust" clearly written on it.

LOL! You’re damn funny.

You look so old. So old like a masquerade. Not an insult though.