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Guest911:
The USA making moves, Nigeria we don’t even know what’s waiting or us.

una slot go soon comot, why the rush.

Where are our jobless medical doctors? Life time opportunity
Candidly speaking of I were one I wouldn't think twice in grabbing the offer.
Since all die na die better make I die for obodo oyibo.

Really heart touching. Will continue to pray for your and all others' quickest Recoveries.
Who'll save us from this?

This shouldn't be a surprise to anyone, it wouldn't have gotten to this, were the legislature legitimately instituted and constituted.

How is this beneficial to Nigerians, haven't read through.

PastorZoned! And who says it must to pay? BTW what's my own, I like borrow and pay your tithes in advance.

Leezah:
Long Post Alert
I don’t think they start out looking for a guy to treat them wrongly.

They start out looking for a guy who is assertive, stands his ground, demands his dues, is confident, does not back down, is not a doormat. This would imply that he has what it takes to later on protect her and the kids. Quite justifiable from a primordial point of view.

The problem is that there are limits to acceptable behavior. If you take it to an extreme, all of the above qualities could be associated with wife and child abusers, sociopaths and psychopaths. If the woman doesn’t have a gauge for “when is this too much of a good thing”, she may end up with quite the jerk.

It doesn’t help if the woman’s Father was a guy who abused or mistreated his wife, her mother. Because whatever our rational intentions, we do tend to become and marry our parents. Find me a woman who is a doormat and I have a pretty good idea of what her Father was like.

Guys have an obligation to get our s**t together when it comes to raising our daughters. Too many women with Father issues out there. Love and attraction are based on both psychology and spark of chemistry. It has been scientifically proven that both pleasure and pain are needed to create a long lasting attraction. Therefore, hot and cold formula to spicy up love life always seems to win.

However, if one consciously chooses their romantic partner who treats them badly only its a strong indicator of one's low self esteem. The person doesnt believe s/he can be loved by their partner, thus will keep choosing people who treat them badly to get a confirmation of their own beliefs.

In many cases such as person may also refuse the other person who doesnt communicate their intentions in the way they are familiar with.

Unfortunately, this is the first step towards creating a toxic relationships. I would highly suggest working on one's self esteem before deciding to get involved with the other person. Hope this answer helps.

This is an age-old conundrum wrapped up in a riddle. I’ve heard arguments bandied back and forth between girls and there male “friend zone” counterparts. Often, I’ve heard women say that they pray for and would kill for a “nice guy” as long as he is physically attractive, funny, smart, etc. I’ve had female friends who dated these nice guys and they would complain that these men are “too nice” and they could walk all over them, hence they are no longer attracted to them.

-It goes back to the hunter-gatherer days, where the alpha male was the most sought after. 10,000 years of societal evolution has yet to ween humanity of this attraction. The beta males (or alpha aspirants) wait for the scraps of the hunt, and contend for the women who would settle for them.

-Alpha males can either be benevolent or bullies. They are seen as dominant, so even a “nice alpha male” can be resented for being seen as a tyrant. Most women see the alpha as their ideal - though alphas may not be compatible with them.

-There are also sigma males - they don’t subscribe to alpha or beta tendencies, but are in a class by themselves and don’t care for anyone’s opinion of them. They don’t necessarily treat women poorly. They do their own thing and there is that breed of woman who finds this trait attractive.

-Bad boys and rebels - women find them attractive as well. They think these men have more courage than the other men, and chutzpah is an attractive trait.

Do nice guys finish last? Not necessarily.

Many successful men exist in the workplace today that are very kind and compassionate. The smart women prize these men who bring home the proverbial bacon, or the “largest kill”, yet are generous, loving and in their eyes attractive.

Nicely written epistle, well constructed, highly informative and educative.

Well said. Let the gong keep Sounding "prevention is better than cure" May God see us through.

Kyari what have you done to deserve this?

How true could this be?

Latashia:
Lets know more about ourselves this year.

Interested

Could it be true that blacks are immune to the virus?

No one and where is exempted. What signs are there to be seen that no one is, what lesson are there to be learnt that no one is, where is save and how to go about getting there? Open the eyes and hearts of men oh you their Maker!

Just recently he was booed in Borno and now attacked in Kebbi state. Looking forward to how events unfolds.

Certainly Miraculously! By the Lord alone has this been done. Allahu Akbar!

Hmmm was he in detention?

May Allah help us on are solely dependant on Him.

Make I say Amen in their stead. ;DMake I say Amen in their stead.

Hmm! Arsenal to receive huge blow. Gambling on low key meanwhile gamblers will have to resort to local leagues in case of anything.

Be strong brother. Las Las the devil is and has always been a liar soon to follow suit is Mikel Arteta and all those suffering from the pandemic.
#Together one

Right in time it was yesterday that I watched a recent moving picture she featured in. Happy birthday--------------------my wishes for her

Alhamdullilah kind of news soothing to the ears. Light at the of the tunnel

Question of the week

RIP

FTC in advance. Which was forward Oh! Lord

Lord help us, else we be annihilated from the face of the Earth. Even the powerful and mighty are on the verge of being crumbled and crippled.

Have been trying to top up my MTN line yesterday but I keep on getting the reply: "Top Up service not available". What's the way out please

ManirBK:
That means America no get
somebody like Femi Fanikayode,
Mathew kuka, WOLE Soyinka,
Falana SAN and finally Christian
Association of United State

Hilariously Hilarious.

ManirBK:
That means America no get
somebody like Femi Fanikayode,
Mathew kuka, WOLE Soyinka,
Falana SAN and finally Christian
Association of United State

Hilariously Hilarious.

NaijaMutant:
Sa'ad Abubakar and all his fellow Islamic preachers should all be arrested immediately.


What else turns the almajiris up north violent every Friday after jumat if not their hate preachings

Must you tell everyone how stupid you can be?

To now rely on who? We needn't be told it's been obvious, but why constantly remind them of their misfortune and misery.