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A female colleague of mine asked for my advice and solution to her problem today, it goes thus:

She is married to a guy she doesnt really love, reason being that she got pregnant for him and bore him a son like 4 years ago.
The guy loves her and the child very much, she confesses but she does not like him as much. Even during se.x, she is not enjoying the intimacy and as such always gives excuse of being tired from work to not have se.x with him.

The guy is not happy with the development and has been accusing her of extra marital affairs because of her attitude towards him. To which she said is untrue.

That is the story she told me, and said she seeks solution to her problem. (Note she did not come to me, I asked her what is the problem, when I saw her always moody and quarelling with everybody for flimsy issues in the office).

Please, what advice can I give her?

Pleas how much does the inverter with the one battery cost?

Mine was "Pa Jimoh". Those who read the publication called ikebe super & Baba Ajasco will know why I am called Pa Jimoh.

Hear her out first, who knows? she may have brought the kid to your place to introduce him/her as your child.

"Em Em you remember that thing we did over a year ago, this is the product o"

Lionel Messi posted a picture of his record fourth Ballon d'Or award in its new home on his Facebook page along with the message, "Thanks to everyone for being by my side in this beautiful moment of my career!" Though his words are quite sweet, the photo of him posing with his massive trophy cabinet clearly says, "I am too legit to quit."

Granted, the quality of the photo is poor, but that was by design. A high resolution image of all that concentrated awesomeness would've busted your computer screen. So feel free to Congratulate Leo at your leisure. He'll be standing next to his shark tank sized trophy cabinet and waiting.

Can we have the prices of these properties?

Iaz93: BAYERN is a first class club...Bayern Munich is wow! Even if I ask him to leave, he wouldn't because he knows he would flop! He should leave and show CR7 fans that he's the BEST anywhere anytime... Let him clear my doubts...

Messi should move to clear your own doubts? You must be joking.

[quote author=190-the-clown]Is she Nigerian ? [/quote]Yes o, Nigerian.

@ all

Thanks for your comments & advice.

I was at work few days ago, My phone rang and I picked it. The lady on the other line introduced herself as Beatrice(Not real name). I asked which Beatrice am I talking with and she said, she thought I am so and so person (mentioned my name), I said I am the one speaking, and she was like, Oh My God, you are now a big man o, see your voice. I told her I still dont know who I am speaking to and she said, Beatrice, your very first girlfriend. Then I remembered her, she was my first gal some 12 years back.

I was like 'WTF'. I was speechless for like a min or two. She said she got my number from a very long time friend of mine that she met and thought she should call me up, she's now married with children bla bla bla. She even wanted to know if I am also married with children and all but I couldnt answer her well because I was just remembering all we've done together and was stammering on the phone. She ended by asking me to give her a call at the weekend so we can catch up on old times.

What do you think I should do? Call her or not?

This loud praying in the night habit made me remember an experience where I was living before moving to my present place.

There were these neighbours of mine (a lady & a guy) lives in the next building to mine, The lady is fond of praying very loudly in the middle of the night while you would hardly hear the voice of the husband in the background. Most neighbours had on occassions shouted from their rooms calling for some quietness to have some sleep after having a hectic working day, this lady did not change.

I even went a step further to write her a letter quoting the bible especially Mathew, so as to educate her more about praying. she prayed queitly for like three days and went back to her loud shouting. (I wrote her a letter because, I dont want her to be embarrassed if I go and knock her door to speak to her face to face).

My people, I was suprised one day when I felt something is unussual, then I remember that for like a week prior to that day, our nights have been quiet with only sounds of generator, so I asked my wife if the lady travelled or was sick or something. She then told me that the lady had a fight with another neighbour in the 3rd house and that one was calling her an Ogbanje and Witch. I didnt get how that had anything to do with her yelling during prayer, then I remembered that she is always shouting, "spirit of Ogbanje leave her alone in Jesus Name" "spirit of witches and Wizard will not come over her in Jesus Name". she has given out all the secrets of her life that is supposed to be between her and God to everybody in the community.

For like a year later, when I left, I used to hear sounds of praying from their room, but no more disturbances, yelling, shouting and tantrums. Where I am living now is even worst, next to a chuch. You can imagine what I am going thru daily with unending night vigils.

oluface: Na long tory jare.. See one day, the mama of the boss wey I dey work for talk say pesin enter her room go pack 50k for her room ooo.. Come see gbege.. Na so the woman they suspect everybody wey dey come up stair wey dey enter our oga room ooo... Hin own room dey diffrient oooo.. Na so she call me one day talk say she go carry all of us wey dey come upstair go for babalawo house make them helep am catch who pack hin money... Na so we reach there ooo my people.. Come see gun ... Come see correct cutlass wey be say the man talk say if them catch the pesin we steal the money among us... Dem go shoot hin left leg abi make them cut him hand... Na so the babalawo do all hin wonderment finish ooo.. He come talk say the pesin wey carry the money no dey among the people wey dey here.. Na so all of us come go out side go dey rejoice oooo... Na so one of the babalawo pikin just come out come dey parah sey make we comot for that arena.. We moved go front small ... Continue dey rejoice.. Na so e come come the second time say make we fashi.. Na so me con yarn am say .... Chairman... Je kin sofun e... Emi o ni kuro nibiyi ti mi o ba ri eniti o mumi wa sibi... Na so them start to dey beat me... Wetin come happen be say I con go police station go report.. Na so I put myself for wahala ooo.. To be continue.

@Oluface, continue dis your story o, no matter how long, its getting very interesting. Let us learn from it.

Whats wrong with you man? I can see someone offering N500K for this ride, that is above your asking price naaaaaaaaa?

or What are you waiting for?

^^^^I actulaly had a difficult time deciding between Michu and Gareth Bale, I think you are right Michu was sensational this year.

Year 2012 is at an end, who and who makes your best eleven players around Europe in football.

Mine are as follows

1. Messi - Barcelona
2. Falcao - Atletico Madrid
3. Ibrahimovic - PSG
4. C. Ronaldo - Real Madrid
5. Manuel Nueuer - Bayern Munich
6. David Luiz - Chelsea
7. Robin Van Persie - Man. United
8. Iniesta - Barcelona
9. Gareth Bale - Totenham
10. El-sharawy - AC Milan
11. Buffon - Juventus

Name yours!!!

Where d pix naaaaaaaa?

Pics Please

She's only good for one thing! and One thing only - Slam & Dunk (Kolobi)

I have and still experience it. Though its only when I use sponge. Nowadays, I just use a soft towel, soap and water now.

I will start the warm water therapy tomorrow and see what happens in about a week.

I need help please, the hair on my head and face is turning grey rapidly.

It started some time last year, I did not give much hoot about it then, but now, even my beard and mustache is gradually being covered with grey hairs.

What do I do? I am already looking like a old man. I am still in my late 30s!

I am interested. Please send me a mail at johnonline2005@yahoo.com.

Gone with the Wind!