₦airaland Forum

So many State Governors are lazy!!! There are so many ways of making money for your state without Federal allocation.

National embarrassment!!!

This life

If this actually came from APC, they're totally stvpid to have said this in public.

They will always find ways to justify their incompetence...

ADURA123:
Good evening fellow NL members,
My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.

I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating.
Her qualities are
She can cook
She can keep the house clean
She can manage resources
And she is accommodating to my people
In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.

My qualities are
I work and earn like about 700k net a month.
I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of.
I don't drink or smoke
I don't keep late night
and I am the best friend to her and my kids.
Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her.
I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her.
I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.

My decision between now and December is
1 Avoid asking her for lobe making
2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything
3 when she comes close I avoid her.
4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back

Is there anything more I can do for her?
Advice me pls...

Pls don't do this. I have many things to advise you but i don't have the time. You're a nice person, so also your wife. I want to ask you a question...
In a day, how long (hours, minutes or seconds) do you engage her with deep and affectionate discussions?
Your answer to this question will say a lot about your intimacy.

I feel you pain @Seun. Take heart Bro.

It is now so obvious that we are not serious about strengthening our electoral process.

Una neva see anything. Now your suffering must continue....

Birds of the same feather...

No going back!!!

alsudan:
Thank God for giving us Peter Obi.

Nigeria would have been finished with either Atiku or Thiefnubuu as President.

Now a New Nigeria is POssible with President Peter Obi.

So true

OsunOriginal:
What do you expect? Ibo-made vehicles

Lets jettison this line of reasoning. Innoson can, and will improve. Let encourage our own.

Bad upbringing

Congrats Amanda

Make the job attractive, and people will apply.

What a waste of Beautiful Life!!!
NPF should flush out "BAD EGGS" Police Officers from their fold.
NBA should not let this one go down the drains.
Rest in Peace Bolanle

Obakoolex:
Please which location are you talking about??
I sell too so am just trying to gather information. Thanks

Port Harcourt, South South. I also think that South East holds such myth as well.
I love Pork Meat...

mariahAngel:
Why is pig rearing not common in Nigeria?
Is it that there are little to no demands for pork meat?
Picture source: Google.

The reason is more of the myth that Pig (Pork) is a curse animal.
For me, Pork is the best meat. There is high demand for it around here.

Also tell us that Atiku sent Peter Obi to university and all that. Odeh!!!!

Viscuz:
A third world countries supports Rubbish

This man is supposed to be in Jail

Exactly!!!

This is a National Disgrace

The matter don serious...

This is totally unacceptable!!!

Wetin "Hunger for Nigeria President" cannot do does not exist...
Our politicians can do anything to get to office

APC is the definition of Lawlessness...

Cabs....

God1000:
There's still a culture of shame in UK and many countries across the globe, but not my country Nigeria

In Nigeria, rather than resigning, the shameless politician will flex all the muscle, shutdown print media, ban social media so as to to remain in power.
I remember one Nigerian senator caught on camera beating someone in a intimacy gadget Shop. Today he is still a Senator in the 9th Assembly.

It is not about building these things...it is about having a good maintenance culture. By this time next year, none of these things will be in good working condition