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Babamide:
So it is actually Blessing you are talking about.
Why do you want to adopt a street dog? Don't you have children or siblings?

I am not sure I mentioned anyone's name in my post, it may look like someone you know but definitely not. Thank you

ceeceeuwa:
She already told you she doesn't want you. Let her be! You said you don't want to castigate her,but you are stalking her and have created a thread in a public forum calling her a slut. You want others who doesn't even know her as much as you do to abuse her that is why you have created this thread. You are that type of friend know one will like to have!

it is obvious you are the same type of person with her.

Teeneyo:
I sabi dis girl
No b blessing be dis

Hey bro can u reach me on my email on my bio. Thanks

Hello nairalanders, I need candid opinion on how to deal with this relationship. There is this lady I am dating she is 26 while I am 46. We started in December 2022 with good vibes, love, care and romance. She was very helpful in helping me settle down again after the demise of my wife and I have her all the attention, care and love I can. I honestly wanted to marry her but she said the age limit is too much, even if she agrees, her siblings and parents will not. Ok fast forward to May 2023 she just started with attitude and eventually said she is not interested again.
I tried to persuade her but it all fell on her deaf ears. We still remain friends and still vibe well but no more relationship.

Before the relationship started I noticed there is this guy that calls her almost everyday but she keep saying they are just friends from nysc.

Immediately she broke up with me she paid the guy a visit somewhere in Osun State, I got to know all these when my phone had issues and I had to collect the phone I bought for her when her own had issues too.

When I reinstall the WhatsApp on the phone hmmm all I saw was that she had been keeping this same guy all these years and when she eventually visited him they had sex that she even contacted urinary tract disease from the guys toilet. Till now she dies not know I had seen all their chat history.

What is really baffling me with this lady is that before we started the relationship there's another guy in her office she confessed to me that they had a quickie and I said I will not judge her with this let her take it as a mistake and move on.

Right now as we speak, she is still claiming she is not dating anyone considering the fact that she had gone to visit the other guy, even did masturbation and nude video with him.

There is another guy again I saw on her chat history she confessed to him she had a crush on him and they are working in the same office with the one she had quickie with.

Summary of the whole story is that this lady is on the verge of sleeping with three guys working in the same office within the space of one year she started working there (this including me but I have since resigned from the establishment). And she already slept with the other guy in Osun State and still claiming they are not dating.

Meanwhile she still has numerous guys approaching her for either relationship or sex including her ex (s).

Now to the issue, how exactly do I deal with this kind of lady because I know she really need help not castigating.

Though I know she has been fooling me all along but this time I refused to be fooled. I want to end it all with her but not without making her realise all she had done in the past while I was dating her and how this would surely affect her marital future.

She is also a type of person that doesn't mind talking to her ex. Though very useful domestically.

Pls forgive my long write up I need candid opinion. Thanks

Hi are you a male or female

With all these stories of introduction where is the link to register?

Still available for tomorrow

My brother u are very right to be scared. Exactly what you experienced happened to me too and right now I have decided not to be good and in love with any lady again. That gender is so insensitive to some of these things.

This guy is just trending for nothing, he will soon go down the drain, to me he is just a fortunate and elevated agbero.

Without any favouritism or bias it should be Mendy followed by Mane and then Sallah

Come to think of it, if this guy was a Muslim they will see nothing bad in what he has done o. In my own honest opinion, I will not join people castigating this guy because we all have our own weaknesses maybe this is his own.

If this story is actually true I am personally very very disappointed in this man because I thought he is supposed to be a role model to the younger generation. At the same time, I will not totally blame him to castigate him because it could happen to anyone and moreover only God knows what each and every one of us is doing at our closet, that we are not caught or seen does not make us better than this man. No one is a saint and anyone can fall into temptation. I submit

chatinent:
I would not want to arrive at a wrong conclusion or hearsay. Why do ladies wear leg-chains abi anklets? It's very common this day and beyond what's normal.
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Any constructive reason(s)?

I thought i was the only person that noticed this trend these days with ladies an i have been eager to ask someone why is this happening. To my own little knowledge, it is not only for fashion these ladies wear anklets, some are for other reasons, but take a look at it critically one of the meaning of putting on anklet is telling a man u are ready for any sexual relationship even if u are married. I am sure not all African/Nigerian ladies don't know this.

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I am still wondering what the aims and objectives of this programme, and also wonder why programes like The Intern, Debaters, Ultimate Search and even Star Quest are not showing again only to be replaced with is immorality which cannot take our youths to anywhere is the order of the day now. God will help this country.

i am not in anyway affected

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Hello guys, please can someone give me a candid opinion on what to do about the situation i find myself I am 9 years married to my wife and the major issue we have been facing is the issue of finance. But there is this brother of my wife and some of her sibling in the UK that want me and my family to live big and they always try their best to make me and my family live above the poverty line. They have offered me many deals to make me live my present work, though not too satisfying but better than none, but i keep trying to convince them that i i don't get something better i cant leave the one i do currently. But the last one that break the camel's back is that this my in-law which is my sister brother have offered us a big apartment in a very good area in Lagos and other juicy offers to go with it including setting up of a big biz for my wife. Here i where i got confused and i need some good advice from Nairalanders on what to do. Do i take the offer and leave my present job and support my wife in the biz or reject the offer?