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what pains me most is that she is still lying about it. claiming she is not responsible for my ordeal. she even agree dat i take her to lab for confirmation. i can't just imagine she is just a callious human being. this world is full of lies and deceit.

i thank You all for your various contributions. @frank3:16. to b precise, i fell ill 18 days after d sex. it started with fever and extreme FATIGUE. now, sore throat, thrush and painful nymph node on my head. it is now exactly six weeks and the symptons still on. it's getting worst day by day. may be you should read well about the onset of the infection.

@ omega5red i dont think i'm hypochondriac. i've consulted about 4 doctors over my health. d first diagonisis was typhoid i was giving antibiotic up till now i'm still not well. i did like 3 tests they r all normal. so wat could be wrong with me. though d symptons also look like MONONUCLEOSIS. but i don't think is common. besides, she has told me twice to go for hepatitis test. i doubt dis cos my ESR result is normal

@ sexklls i did an hiv test 2 weks after we had sex. d result was non reactive. dis test result serve as my baseline status. it can also show dat i did not av it bf d intercourse. it now a matter of who first become positive. i'm sure dis is wat she want to avoid by giving me a false test result cos she knows she is positive. up till now she still insist on showing me d test result.

for
more than a month now i've been aving on
and off fever and FATIGUE. i've received treatment for typhoid but d fatigue refuse to go. just 2 days ago i began to notice dat i'm aving sore throat. all dis  symptons seem to point to MONONUCLEOSIS. is it advicable for to go for HEterophile antibody test.

Hi nairaland users, kindly help to interprete the following test report: RBS(RANDOM BLOOD SUGAR): 101mg/dL N/RANGE: 100-180mg/dL ESR:14mm/hour N/RANGE: (0-15mm/1hr)

Hi doctor, i was diagonised with typhoid fever about 4 weeks ago. d doctor gave me some antibiotic drugs. and multivitamin. after taking up d antibiotic my fever went off except FATIGUE. so i did PCV test. d result was normal. later, a nurse gave me De-DEONS blood tonic and IMMUNACE tablet. after taken them d rate of my tiredness reduces greatly. kindly advice me on wat to do so dat such fatigue will not re occur in d future. besides,can ANXIETY, FEAR OF DEATH lead to great FATIGUE feeling?

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hi doctor, i've been battling with typhoid fever for month now. i've seen my doctor and has given me some antibiotics and multivitamin. i've used up d drugs xcept d multivitamin. everything has gone except d tirdness. i'm really feeling tire from inside. and i yawn a lot pls advice me

Dear doctor in d house, i would like u to advice me on my health prob. i've been battling with typhoid fever for almost a month. i got to know dis after a widal test. was carried out. i av visited GEneral hospital more dat two times and i was given an antibiotic drugs. along with multivitamin. i've used up d antibiotic drug except the multivitamin.and drug really worked cos some of d symptons such as feverish feeling i used to av av gone except FATIGUE. i usually feel tired from inside. and sometimes i lose my appetite despite d fact dat i take multivitamin. moreover, my tommy becomes flattened after defecating. pleasei reallyneedyour advice on wat to do

@ vvguy thank u so much for urn timely advice. i'll definitely take to it. GOd bless u

hi medical experts in the house, i'm an undergraduate student of a university studying physics. i'm in my final year and 25 yrs old. i was diaginised with a typhoid fever 3 weeks ago after a widal test was carried out. the doctor prescribed LEXAMIN tablet, CO-ARINATE FDC and envite multivitamin. i've almost finished using all d drugs. though, i no longer feeling feverish i still feel seriousely TIRE from inside. please i need ur advice. i need to be strong to go back to sch. to face my academic challenge. tjanks

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@ evryone, ive eventually got d girl to open up. dis is wat she says in quote: '' so u want to hear it then i'll tell u. i was gang raped by some guys last wednesday, though ive been raped bfore. and i dont expect any reply from u''. according to her, dis is wat she wanted to tell me dat night but my phone was switched off. so, she got upset, and even complain of not calling her. i replied her in a text as well. in d text, i feel srry for wat happpened to her and then requested dat we meet at an eatery to av a heat to heart conversation. she turned it down, saying she was still feeling upset and not ready to see me. the following day i.e 2 days ago she sent me a breakup message. to cut it short, through text message and calling we made up last night. As for the test, i ve gone for it yesterday and the result is negative though i'll still go for confirmation test after 3 months. the prob now is im still feeling feverish. i consulted a doctor in a general hospital day bfore yesterday over dis issue, he prescribed some drugs for me and told me dat even bfore i start feeling d sympton, if its an hiv infection, it will take up to a month to 2. ive taken d prescribed drugs but im still feeling feverish. i'm seriously afraid now then requested dat we meet at an eatery to av a heat to heart conversation. she turned it down, saying she was still feeling upset and not ready to see me. the following day i.e 2 days ago she sent me a breakup message. to cut it short, through text message and calling we made up last night. As for the test, i ve gone for it yesterday and the result is negative though i'll still go for confirmation test after 3 months. the prob now is im still feeling feverish. i consulted a doctor in a general hospital day bfore yesterday over dis issue, he prescribed some drugs for me and told me dat even bfore i start feeling d sympton, if its an hiv infection, it will take up to a month to 2. ive taken d prescribed drugs but im still feeling feverish. i'm seriously afraid now

@sauer your reply gives me a big relief. ive been feeling feverish since yesterday and i guess its ordinary malaria.

@ iyked i say thanks for giving me hope. @ omega25red thank u so much for this wonderful advice. i will start calling her and show her luv to see if she can open up. this is the most terrible mistake ive ever made in my entire life. ive learn my lesson in a hard way. i pray d result is negative i will never near woman again unless im marrhanks to everyone who replied my post. but my special thank goes to shy-one whose reply gives m

thanks to everyone who replied my post. but my special thank goes to shy-one whose reply gives me relief. i will summon the courage to get my self tested tommorrow. i pray im negative.

hi nairalander, there is this girl im in a relationship with for close to 2 months. she told me she has had sex with several guys, but as for me ive not had such experience b4 until last week wen she came to my house. we promise. each not av SEX until mariage. by mistake, we had it just last week, even without protection. since then her bhaviour has changed to me. now my intuition tells me she has infected me with the dreaded diseases of hiv/aids. i hated myself for not using protection. with her. just 2 DAYS ago she called to tell me that something bad happened to her and dat i should'nt bother to know cos she would not tell me, even if i BEGher. this arouse my suspicion more. now im scared of hiv test. i cant even sleep anymore. dat was my first time. i dont even know wat to do now. i feel like committing suscide. pls nairalander help a dieing soul.hat something bad happened to her and dat i should'nt bother to know cos she would not tell me, even if i BEGher. this arouse my suspicion more. now im scared of hiv test. i cant even sleep anymore. dat was my first time. i dont even know wat to do now. i feel like committing suscide. pls nairalander help a dieing soul.

dear nairaland user, im a final year student of physics education in a university. my project supervisor has asked me to bring my project topics for aproval. honstly, i dont know wat topics to work on and the material to use. please help me with it

it was a mutual thing. i dont know why she got mad at me. i begged her cos i broke my promise. ive stopped begging her now

hi naira land users, there is a girl ive been dating for more than a month now. she is 18 while im 25. b/4 she actually agree to date me we set some boundries. i.e. no sex relationship until marriage. though she told me she have had sex with several guys in the past, i agree to keep the promise. furthermore, i told her about my virginity which would help me to keep the promise. she would come to my house, spend time together and not av sex. to cut the long story short, she called me just last week to tell me she wantd to spend 2 nights with me and i agreed. in one of the 2 nights, she told me why must she be begging me for sex and came up with some acts that made av sex with her that night. we had sex 2 times dat night. 2 days later, she text me dat i violatd her, made her feel like a LovePeddler and did not keep to my promise; so she cant go out with me anylonger. ive been begging her since then. the prob is i dont know if she is pretending or she means it. im confused and i want your advice.hts with me and i agreed. in one of the 2 nights, she told me why must she be begging me for sex and came up with some acts that made av sex with her that night. we had sex 2 times dat night. 2 days later, she text me dat i violatd her, made her feel like a LovePeddler and did not keep to my promise; so she cant go out with me anylonger. ive been begging her since then. the prob is i dont know if she is pretending or she means it. im confused and i want your advice.

hi nairalander,
this i an assignment given to me . i`ve tried seaching google but could not find one. pls i neend your help

specifically, i wanted to study Elect/ elect eng.

i`m an undergraduate student of physics education in one of the best university in Nigeria. currently, i`m in 300L with CGPA:4.20. The problem is i don`t want to be in learning environment. Initially, i put in for engineering course but i was giving physics ed but my love 4 eng course is still very great. how can i drop this career?

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My advice is don ask her out anymore and stop following her about as you used to. Appear friendly to her and withdraw 70% attention you are giving her. With time, if she is truly your, she will come to love you 4 who u are.

My advice is don ask her out anymore and stop following her about as you used to. Appear friendly to her and withdraw 70% attention you are giving her. With time, if she is truly your, she will come to love you 4 who u are.

My dear, there is nothing new under the sun. No be today such dey happen. If i am in the position of the girl . I will give birth to the baby and move on.

My dear, there is nothing new under the sun. No be today such dey happen. If i am in the position of the girl . I will give birth to the baby and move on.

This perhaps is a topic close to the hearts of many nigerian guys who have female friend who they know platonically. So what does it really needed tn take a relationship from platonic to sexual? Read on! The key here is to SHIFT THE FRAME. But first, there is some caveat to this strategy. You must be REAL friends with them. In other words, not some chick you knew last week who you befriended just b/cos you score with them. See, you must be in a position yourself in a way that it's a NO LOSE DEAL for them. When they consider if they want to sleep with you, they think of one important thing- if they are going to lose you as a friend once thing get complicated- for example you demand to be their boyfriend and they have got their doubts. Listen, be the one to OFFER her what she wants, and not in the position of DEMANDING her to fulfil your needs. This defference is important. You'll be come across as a loyal friend who also provides both sex and comfort. Be careful not to present yourself as "Mr Right" at first, and be sure to make it clear that you are also looking for "Mrs Right" elsewhere. Don't make her feel that you are CHASING her. So, by adopting this frame you'll come across as a NON-THREATHING friend who offer the comfort of a partner who would neither needy or are going to disappear after the fling. So, the belief that if you are in the dreaded friend's zone, it would be hard to get out is unfounded if ONLY you play your card well. Good luck!