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How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend. ( For Guys Only) by jonath0012(m): 1:18pm On Oct 16, 2009
This perhaps is a topic close to the hearts of many nigerian guys who have female friend who they know platonically. So what does it really needed tn take a relationship from platonic to sexual? Read on! The key here is to SHIFT THE FRAME. But first, there is some caveat to this strategy. You must be REAL friends with them. In other words, not some chick you knew last week who you befriended just b/cos you score with them. See, you must be in a position yourself in a way that it's a NO LOSE DEAL for them. When they consider if they want to sleep with you, they think of one important thing- if they are going to lose you as a friend once thing get complicated- for example you demand to be their boyfriend and they have got their doubts. Listen, be the one to OFFER her what she wants, and not in the position of DEMANDING her to fulfil your needs. This defference is important. You'll be come across as a loyal friend who also provides both sex and comfort. Be careful not to present yourself as "Mr Right" at first, and be sure to make it clear that you are also looking for "Mrs Right" elsewhere. Don't make her feel that you are CHASING her. So, by adopting this frame you'll come across as a NON-THREATHING friend who offer the comfort of a partner who would neither needy or are going to disappear after the fling. So, the belief that if you are in the dreaded friend's zone, it would be hard to get out is unfounded if ONLY you play your card well. Good luck!

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