₦airaland Forum

illicit:
They are not all lazy, some really want to do something but nothing tangible to do

pls note I am not speaking for them but I can see why some men are like that unfortunately, some just do it for the mean time

Uptheante:
At the last paragraph.....
And you don't deem it necessary to inform the poor husband about his wife's promiscuity?
Albeit anonymously?
It is unconscionable for you to just condemn the atrocious act in your mind without making any concrete effort to stop the evil especially since you have the power to stop it by alerting the husband.

Unless you are also scheming & bidding your time to have a share of the woman's kpekus.
In that case, you are an accomplice to the adulterous act.

Stop evil when you can, it's not just enough to condemn it secretly within your mind.

Gerrard59:
Low self esteem
Most of these men are/were closer to their mothers than their fathers
They have been deprived of sex from their teenage years due to religion and traditional influences.

fitinwell:
With masturbation you cannot eat your cake and have it.., you cannot make wealth and keep health...

you think by masturbating you are saving cost.., what you do not know is that your health is depreciating ..,.
...

UniQue84:
That's what they do..you know naturally an average ibo man is very proud. They sometimes use it to brag among themselves who takes good care more or lavish more extravagantly on thier wives.

You will see the man driving keke from 5am till 11pm daily looking worn out, stressed,haggard but thier wives will be shining changing attire daily, like they just came to life to live it for thier wives. ...what a culture is annoying .

Most of these so called wives are not even faithful they go around fvcccking for money from one odogwu to another esp the xmas season ....using thier deadbeat husband's money to clean up for bigger clients.

I know them very well.

SpencerForbes:
I definitely don't agree with that 😂! I naturally try to make sure everyone around me is happy. However, the moment I sense even a hint of entitlement or exploitation of my kindness, I will absolutely withdraw. I've completely mastered the art of pulling back, and that applies even to entitled children.

Guestmale:
She is on point,I mean if it's on wife and children but not girlfriend.

flexyrule:
Look at her sad-gold-recognising face!


In Igbo land , you’ll see a man wearing a short nicker and looking anyhow but if you want to know he’s rich, look at his wife”


Please, let this madness remain in Igboland. Don't export it to saner climes.

Wickedtruths:
Must be an Igbo lady.
There is a reason why they sell them like loaves of bread.

Utanisco:
His woman abi
Not wife

If every man is like me
The world will actually see the useless creation of women on earth

My money is for me, myself n my life
If u want to be part of my life
Go n work

Unam ikot

SlavaUkraini:
What about the woman's money ?

It should also reflect on the man since the two of them are now one.

The man's money will reflect on her...

while her own money will reflect in her bank account.

Let's face it: its not like the women point a gun to the head of men... most nigerian men are naturally stupid and have no self-worth. We tend to feel so miserable that we almost consider it a taboo to evn spend on ourselves and look like true human beings.

Man go make small rabba, next thing hin go dey look for na how to shower it on a woman who never loved him when he was without it. Who do us like this, o God!

SpencerForbes:
My take is simple: Mother and Wife are the only two women entitled to your finances. Your girlfriend is entitled to her father's money, period. She should redirect her financial requests to her dad.

If you are financially comfortable, feel free to spoil your wife (not your girlfriend), but always draw the line. Don’t be so kind that she mistakes you for a fool and begins to exploit your willingness to provide.

So, technically, her assessment is correct.

BlackPantherxXx:
Omo. Guys have balls literally and figuratively to carry a Professional overnight.

Diseases dey... and then if you sleep off, most will ransack your belongings... steal from you, try to jazz you in some cases.

Just take time to cultivate a relationship, you indirectly still pay for milk sha.

But "money for hand, back for ground" is just unappealing.

DNAconverter:
After all is said and done, Shiloh, Holyghost festival and other special religious gathering mostly slated for December is part of the larger detty December cash out by (con) Artists

Mosco100:
Pray that you marry a good woman not a woman that will destroy you😢. Amen.

AfDapone:
You forgot to include okometer or dickometer.

highness25:
Am I knocking them for free? It's very easy and also the safest. Most of them even ask for it.

highness25:
Leave that thing... I won't go raw and before I engage in sex I like testing my partners whether arranged girl or saint looking girls. We must run Text before I knack raw. Have you ever seen porn stars complain about stds? They run texts always

dollypi:
We need an app that builds up a prospective partner's past, including sexual history...

I propose we call it "Alarina"

QuinQ:
hmmn



Simple: 1) people can't lie too much, they can only twist the truth. The man obviously admitted his wife didn't agree he cum inside her. 2) Motive. WHY would she lie about something like that?

dequir:
I pity your wife. You have succeeded in making her a child of hell by wrongly convincing her on the non existence of heaven and hell for good and bad people.

And worse, you are gloating about the d£vilish outcome. Well, you will soon come to the full realisation of your errors. I hope it will not be too late.

hoseao:
Wife accusing huaband of rape! Yes i know ans i understand it happens but i wonder which processes they used to conduct the investigation and arrived at the conclusion it happened? I just tire, how do these people do this investigation, because 99% of the time especially from nigerian women it always a false accusation.

alezzy13:
Well the story may or may not be true, however spousal rape is very real and punishable.

Even it is was consented but you didn't stop when she told you to, yes, that's rape.

SmartPolician:
Out of every 1 marriage that failed, 9 worked. Unfortunately, people prefer to talk the one that failed and its negative outcomes than the 9 that worked and their positive outcomes.