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Pidggin:
You are hilarious

Pidggin:
I know

Hannysmilez:
Buhahahahahari. Why? Innocent lady like me.

godwil114:
na now u dey no

Hannysmilez:
How do you know she treats him like poo? I can bet my left hand that if the lady in question opens a thread,she is also going to tell us her man is selfish and blah blah and we would tell her he does'nt deserve her and rain insults on him.
One man's meat is another's poison. Maybe she is just opinionated and bossy or independent,we never can tell but I can assure you that there's a man out there who is looking for a woman just like her(it could be you). As someone said 'the problem is not the problem. The problem is your reaction to the problem.' She is not 'flawed', she just is different. The OP cannot handle her 'selfishness' does'nt mean he has to condemn her now. He should just find the one he can manage. Afterall,there are plenty other girls out there,he should stop bringing himself down.

Pidggin:
You mean Chronic Traumatic Encephalopathy? Yes i have

Jayne07:
I can relate

godwil114:
go Bleep ur self....

Sagamite:
One of the stuff I would teach my son's in my masterclass is briffault's law. The guy has some interesting points I have observed.

BRIFFAULT’S LAW:

"The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place".

Then a guy called Stickman even fine-tuned it more:

There are a few corollaries I would add:

1) Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association.

2) Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a promise of future association is null and void as soon as the male has provided the benefit (see corollary 1)

3) A promise of future benefit has limited influence on current/future association, with the influence inversely proportionate to the length of time until the benefit will be given and directly proportionate to the degree to which the female trusts the male (which is not bloody likely).

Brilliant guys! Awon philosophers bi emi (The philosophers like me).

To summarise Stickman, all those guys that think "I did A, B and C for this babe, so she would be considerate". Sorry, mate, very unlikely. Most women have no contrition like that, it is what you can realistically offer her in future that matters, otherwise she would find levels that looks more promising if yours is not looking promising.

omonnakoda:
Let me start by asking a very simple and maybe foolish question.What do you mean when you say you love her ?
Would you give her one of your kidneys?
Second question,do you have any other women?
Do you have a plan B.
That for me is the way to test how much you love someone
Otherwise what you call love is just fear

shut:
Why do good guys end up with not so good ladies and good ladies end up with not so good guys
Lol it's a funny world out here.


Dude, i take it you're mature that's why you ignore and just keep loving.She on the other hand is just being childish you need to sit her down and tell her how much she gets you pissed,tell her what attitude of her's you don't like and try iron things out.
It's good to be understanding but bad when you always let her have her way.wonder why our parents don't always buy us chocolate when we cry for it?
Goodluck

laserjet:
Dude...the bitter truth is that she's not just into you! Shikena...

Forget the phone. Break up with her and wish her well in her future relationship(s).

With due respect, It's high time u stopped thinking with ur heart but your head.

pocohantas:
Pls move aside. Every other person saying she is short on this thread are girls?
Dumbo

tellwisdom:
Push her into the gutter

shurlermoz:
Are you sure you are not Kwame?!

Love is a beautiful thing but I feel bad when I see a bro in bondage instead of being in love.

OP you are in bondage o, honestly speaking. One party bossing the other is not love, it's slavery.

chocofizzy:
Be the HEAD not the tail. You should have been talking about your future not about an ungrateful creature that called herself your gf. Tell her she's the best that have ever happened to you and quiet the relationship.

johnson232:
Lol... It is a challenge u need to overcome if u really wanna enjoy any relationship with a girl, most especially nigerian girls. Since this is your first love, it's natural for u to act this way. But I employ u to call the relationship a quit, it will seem painful for a while, but will make u a better person in the long run. Sooner or later she will still dump u for a more hardened nigga, why not save yourself some respect and let b!tch go....
U don't need any hoe to live happily as a nigga....

wasak:
Talk to her? If i haven't done that I won't come here. I beg, there was a day it got to a point, I cried. When I looked back at how much effort I put into the relationship from the very first day. She has the ability to keep things to herself, she doesn't open up.

yvelch:
Put ur foot on the ground man. Simple.

Visit konga.com and search for "yvelch" .....brace yourself cos our store has really hot foreign cloths for u

Airforce1:
mad love tiwa


But why is she dark skinned
. Can't she bleach?

babythug:
This is not good at all....

I'd probably run out of the house onto the main street just to avoid reacting!!!!!!!!!!!!

honeyway:
Killing what we suppose to preserve.....this our instinct killings has to be changed....i trust white people will never do that

Rich4god:
Even students are not left out.... Why are we just trying to destroy our natural habitat...