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Bants:
Igbo na bastard

What is it about ethinic group , can't you say something without mentioning ethinic group ?

The joy of been a winner

chillykelly86:
Krisuba, Franklinrich,myjoy08, josh121& passwelle, this thread you are viewing while we're following JEGA bumper to fender, DIARIS ....

Winners know themselves but coming here tomorrow to read 10 pages will not be easy lolz

Dragonking:
Let's NSEMPA do her own online polls here. Click like for GEJ and share for buhari, let's see who wins.

Lolz bros I never see like oooo

labodinho:
Sent.

Thanks

please someone should send me pass question for law aspirant . Unyime_j@yahoo.com

thanks for your response @Universal101, please if she buy change of course form which course will she have better change for with 215.
Her orignal course was Law but change to maybe international relationship or somethings else.
Please material can she study for post jamb.
Thanks

Hello house pls , jounior sis , just inform me she scored 215 in her jamb , pls what is her chances , Sheila going for law .

Michael11stock:
SELL YOUR TRANSCORP TOO THEN I WILL TELL YOU

No didn't sell but bought some

Michael11stock:
I hate myself for selling my transcorp for oando

Abeg my Oga what is going on in transcorp

MilikiAgent:
Picture of your portfolio or ....

We don't play childish game here

Dumexoga:
Thank u bro. Wanna sell some units I bought. Last week.

why not sell on monday?

Dumexoga:
Bro, pls how much oando don reach nw. Pls I will appreciate ur swift response. Thanks

right now 15.63

Dumexoga:
My bro me I dey even fear dis market oooo. Pls how much is oando trading at d moment? A friend just told me its trading 15:98 is it true? Cos I wanna jump out immediately

16:35

kotlass:
Pre- market is looking goooood.

Am scared bro , hope it for real lolz

jp130:
Plz o hw do i make morgan upload my payment? I paid tru zenith wit my full name

Call

jp130:
Plz wic number u de use call dem 4 prompt creditation?

Same number on the website

Contributing Editor Inc. Magazine and LinkedIn Influencer, Jeff Haden highlighted eight things you should promise yourself you avoid every day in order to remain successful.

Wait until you’re sure you will succeed

Commitment to putting in your best surpasses the conviction that you will definitely succeed at something new. The truth is you can never be too sure but “[…] you can always feel sure you will try again if you fail,” Jeff explained.

Waiting is a complete waste of time; give it your best shot. “You have a lot less to lose than you think, and everything to gain.”

Multitask during a meeting

Everyone is always too busy trying to stand out by multitasking instead of paying close attention. The secret behind these meetings is that when you focus, it helps you spot good opportunities, hidden agendas and give you clues on how to remain indispensable at your place of work.

“It’s easy, because you’ll be the only one trying. And you’ll be the only one succeeding—on multiple levels.”

Check your phone while you’re talking to someone

We all do this! “Is that your phone? Oh, it must be mine,” or while someone is taking to you, your eyes roll down wards at each passing glance, even replying a text can be very disorienting.

The one way you can stand out though, is if you desist from that habit as much as possible. Instead when their talking to you, make it feel like nothing else is more important at that time. “Stop checking your phone, it doesn’t notice when you aren’t paying attention. Other people? They notice and they care”

Consider people who don’t make any difference in your life

“Trust me; the inhabitants of planet Kardashian are okay without you.” But when it comes to your family, friends and even employees need you. Allocate the right amount of attention to those that really matter in your life.

“They are the ones who deserve it.”

Let yourself be distracted by notifications

That urge to know the minute you get an email or text message or tweet, is the number one killer of focus. Anything worth doing is worth doing well; assign a portion of your schedule to check out what you may have missed. This should be at your discretion, instead of a schedule you let everyone else set.

That way you can get back to work without distractions. Paying attention to what your work is way more important. “They can wait. You, and what is truly important to you, cannot.”

Let your past determine your future

Mistakes are as inevitable as they are valuable. A necessary evil; learn from them and let it go. It all depends on what angle you decide to take it from, rather than dwell on it take it as a golden opportunity to pick up something you didn’t know—especially about yourself.

“The past is just training. The past should definitely inform but in no way define you, unless you let it.”

Talk behind someone’s back

Why waste your time talking to about someone with others? If for instance you do not like what Gabriel is doing, reach out to him. In a situation whereby it is not your place, “then it is probably not your place to talk about Joe.”

It is not only being the topic of discussion that is wrong, but also taking part in gossip. “Spend your time on productive conversations. You’ll get a lot more done and you’ll gain a lot more respect.”

Say “yes” when you really mean “no”

It is very difficult to refuse requests from people. This could be from colleagues, clients and especially friends. But in reality you cannot do everything. ‘In fact, success is often based more on what you decide not to do than on what you do.”

There is no need to assume that saying no will always end badly. Sometimes people understand your reasons, if they don’t, should you really be that bothered? “When you say no to something you don’t want to do, at least you only feel bad for a few moments. When you say yes to something you really don’t want to do, you can feel bad for a long time.” And then you end up saying that which you didn’t want to in the first place.

jp130:
Plz hw lng e de tak morgan capital to credits one's acct online once payment is mad?

Always get mind under 30mins

Chibuking81:
Fundamental human right is enshrine in the Nigeria constitution section 33 through to section 45, which include ; right to freedom of expression, also press freedom. It is not an offence for someone to exercise his right, when you did not like someone write up, better jump and pass.

Hmmmm my Oga wetin happen nau ? dont take people words so serious and personal , not everything make sense to everyone be it right or wrong over look and move on

Sammie U. Aysan, Executive Assistant, Duke Energy Corporation and a LinkedIn Influencer, believes that dropping these 10 things will help you live a much happier, and more enjoyable life.



Drop the negative people around you

Who are these negative people? Also known as the ‘Energy Suckers’, they have a way of pushing you to breaking point. We all have people who expect us to switch to their mannerism or way of thinking. This is easier said than done to avoid their influence, but you have to work on it.

It is even harder when that person is a family member or a very close friend. A way out of this could be to drop them gradually while staying out of their way as much as you can. “Another thing you can do is counteract all their negatives with positives, oh! They don’t like that, and the more you do it the more they will avoid you”.

Drop caring about the mistakes you have made

Making mistakes in life is inevitable, there is no one who has succeeded in life without making one or two bad decisions. Remember you learn a lesson from mistakes and move on. Below are the two mistake camps you can fall under.

“Camp one: woe is me, I made a mistake I am such a loser, I totally embarrassed myself, I’ll never be able to show my face in public again,” she explained. “Camp two: I made a mistake, sure as hell won’t be doing that again, but at least I learned what not to do.”

Forget the past

The truth is that you cannot change what has already happened. It is very possible to make amends but that will not alter the occurrence. “[…] you can say you’re sorry about something you’ve done in the past but the fact remains the past has happened and it can’t be changed.”

Dwelling on the past hinders you from focusing on the future and whatever opportunities it may hold. Don’t let it hold you back!

Drop your self portrait

Are you really going to put on a different act depending on the company you have? “You act differently depending on the people you are with at the time, you don’t speak or act the same way with your mates as you do with your parents, but really you should.” Confidence is paramount to your decisions and path in life, without this, you will never feel good enough.

The right people will accept you for exactly who you are, without any reservations. “When you meet someone who is truly authentic they totally shine above everyone else, there’s no airs and graces, you either take them the way they are or you don’t, simple as that.”

Stop feeling bad for yourself

Everyone needs a wakeup call every once in a while. Do not wallow in self-pity, when all you may need is a little bravery to overcome the challenges. “Sometimes it’s great just to sit on the ‘poor me’ train and just let it roll into ‘Woe is me’ station, but the longer you are on that train the more difficult it is to get off it.”

It is really easy, just focus on getting out of it because it doesn’t allow you to advance or remain happy in life. This is a matter of choice, it would be wise to make the best one.

Drop saying yes all the time

There are times to say yes, just as there are times to say no. You should be able to object especially when it addresses something that makes you uncomfortable. In this situation however hard it may be, you need to find a way of saying no.

“The first time you say no to someone, when you usually say yes, will empower you so much that it can turn your life around.”

Drop trying to please everyone

No matter how nice you are, it is impossible to please everyone. “[…] even if you’re the nicest, most splendid, most loveliest, most loving person in the world there’s always someone who will not like you for some reason.”

It is perfectly okay for some people not to like you, it doesn’t make you any less of a human being. It is also acceptable for you to stop going the extra,extra mile in a bid to please them.

Drop saying the right thing

You will definitely want to be cautious when talking to your parents, the media, school, co-workers and friends. But most people take this too far because of the fear of what people will say. We should be able to air opinions about anything we are entitled to.

“I’m not saying you should try and offend everyone who gets in your way, but if you have a strong opinion about something, speak up and let your voice be heard.”

Stop limiting beliefs

If there is anything that has evolved over the years, it is the ability of human beings to change their beliefs, particularly our limiting beliefs. When you think about what you truly want to do with your life, what do you come up with? The answers are usually what reveal your limiting beliefs.

“When you know your limiting beliefs you can then work on dropping them or replacing them with alternative more positive focused beliefs that will drive you forward in life.”

Drop worrying about the future

“If you do your best today, your future has already been taken care of.”

bigass:
A friend just told me she lost 5.5 million. She invested 10 million last year in NSE now her portfolio is worth 4.5 million. Trade with care oooo

10m only, does she need her money any time soon , well if she does that is when i will pity her but if not am sure there is no big deal , she will recover her money , people portfolio are on red zone but that does not mean you have to be worried, am sure she is not a trader but an investor

so many people have change investment strategy , there is no doubt the market will still go down , and the fearful will keep selling and losing their money and the core investors will buy till thy kingdom come , if someone would hold firstbank from 80s till now then why do i have to sell when i just bought it yesterday lolz , History never fail but it change topic .
I NO DE SELL 10 YEARS AM STILL DERE LOL

hAHAHAHAHAHAH

No body will tell you he is buying first bank now oooo, 23m offer disappear

Dragonking:
About 22million units of FBNH is on offer at N7..

some people must have either -ive or +ive info that we currently do not have.

First Bank Completes Acquisition of DRC Congo Based Bank, Banque Internationale de Credit (BIC).[b][/b]
http://nairametrics.com/first-bank-completes-acquisition-of-drc-congo-based-bank-banque-internationale-de-credit-bic/

Thanks meristem for the new year gift , my other brokers better send me email for my gift now ooooo

The key word as been dont invest what you cant afford to loose , if you are trap in any stock only fear can make you loose and if you are gaining in any stock only greed can make you get trap , mark out your investment strategy and stop sell when you are scared

9free:
Bros, wetin happen?

When this happen u just don't bother yourself or you give yourself high b p am too young I still have many years to live and I still have money to feed and still invest , will be waiting for all the dividend paying stocks to take what I can

Not checking my portfolio for the next 2years

what is your final price ?

mrnilobrawn:
Online/paper?

Paper